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Charlie Kirks wife forgives the killer

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strangerandstranger · 21/09/2025 23:22

To people who said her husband was hateful and what they preached was hateful, she just forgave the killer, as God would. Powerful speech.

The messed up young man who thought shooting man he didn't like was the answer, will go to prison and no longer be with his boyfriend. Erika Kirk no longer has her husband and her children have list their father.

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lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 10:09

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 10:05

You may not be wrong, but you haven't provided the evidence you think you have. The preaching hate statement in that sentence is stand alone. The following statements are not related to the preaching hate one. The comma is crucial, and not a semi colon. She doesn't appear to have given examples of where he preached hate.

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Blimey. So despite the fact that they have listed examples of how he preached hate, including ones definitely about guns you are interpreting it differently because s/he used a comma not a semi colon?

This is a thread on the internet not a fucking secondary school english lesson.

This is a stupid argument anyway. A poster has subsequently confirmed they believe it is hate.

As have many other people all over the internet, there was quite a lot of glee over the irony as I recall at the time he was shot.

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 10:10

Plastictreees · 23/09/2025 10:06

@lifeturnsonadime Why are you being so combative? I was just saying that I didn’t realise you were dyslexic, as I wouldn’t have made a comment about your reading comprehension.

As an aside, that poster has clarified what they meant (which was always clear IMO).

When did the poster I quoted clarify they did not class his views on gun ownership as hate?

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 10:13

HaveItOffTilICough · 23/09/2025 09:29

That was my post you quoted. Do you understand how commas and the word “and” work when separating items in a list?

Here.

HaveItOffTilICough · 23/09/2025 10:13

Why are you obsessing over the word “hateful”? Why do you think it’s such a game-changer?

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 10:15

HaveItOffTilICough · 23/09/2025 10:13

Why are you obsessing over the word “hateful”? Why do you think it’s such a game-changer?

Because where opinions are hate and words are literal violence this is used to justify physical violence.

It is impossible to have a sensible debate on those terms.

DdraigGoch · 23/09/2025 10:16

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This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines.

Meanwhile, the left were planning to turn up at his memorial and threaten people

"The left"? Who exactly are "the left"?

HaveItOffTilICough · 23/09/2025 10:18

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 10:15

Because where opinions are hate and words are literal violence this is used to justify physical violence.

It is impossible to have a sensible debate on those terms.

Are you saying it’s impossible to have a hateful opinion?

Plastictreees · 23/09/2025 10:18

HaveItOffTilICough · 23/09/2025 10:13

Why are you obsessing over the word “hateful”? Why do you think it’s such a game-changer?

Yes, it’s bizarre.

Kirk was a racist, misogynist bigot. That is pretty hateful!

Poetnojo · 23/09/2025 10:19

DdraigGoch · 23/09/2025 10:16

Meanwhile, the left were planning to turn up at his memorial and threaten people

"The left"? Who exactly are "the left"?

You really need that clarified for you?
The left are any people who claim they are left, anyone can be left 😉

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 10:23

DdraigGoch · 23/09/2025 10:16

Meanwhile, the left were planning to turn up at his memorial and threaten people

"The left"? Who exactly are "the left"?

An amorphous mass who all think the same, who speak for - and represent - each other AT ALL TIMES.

Everyone on 'the left' is to blame for Charlie Kirk's murder.

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 10:24

HaveItOffTilICough · 23/09/2025 10:18

Are you saying it’s impossible to have a hateful opinion?

No.

I do think there is a tendency for people to say that anything they don't agree with is hate even when it is an widely held opinion of others.

I didn't agree with a lot of things Charlie Kirk said but I wouldn't call it hate speech, he was entitled to his opinion and his 'gig' was to defend his opinion, he put himself forward to be challenged.

Do you think it's helpful to label widely held views as hate or violent speech?

Can you see no connection with labelling views and people feeling justified in violence against views that they consider hateful?

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 10:25

It's not wrong to call out hateful speech, regardless of how many people hold that view. I gave examples earlier.

lifeturnsonadime · 23/09/2025 10:27

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 10:13

Here.

Apologies I missed that.

So @HaveItOffTilICough doesn't find Charlie Kirks views on gun ownership hateful.

But another poster on here has clarified that they do.

HaveItOffTilICough · 23/09/2025 10:30

Do you think it's helpful to label widely held views as hate or violent speech?

A hateful view is still a hateful view even if it’s widely held.

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 10:34

MeTooOverHere · 23/09/2025 09:57

I don't think it's hyperbolic. I think it is true that USA has a major gun problem.

USA 120 guns / 100 people
Falkland Islands 60 guns/ 100 people (most dumped on the ground after the war)
Yemen 52 guns/ 100 people (2nd decade of a civil war)
Everywhere else trails a long way behind.

USA has constitutional right to bear arms - meaning if you have the money and can find one for sale, you are entitled to own a fighter jet. 100's of people own their own tanks.

91% of American citizens want better gun control. Monied interests continue their opposition by buying favour. If you haven't already seen it, this doco is enlightening.
www.buckeyefirearms.org/movie-review-91-documentary-about-guns-america

And we have such a problem with tank violence!

🙄

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 10:36

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 10:34

And we have such a problem with tank violence!

🙄

You know why you don't have a problem with tank violence in your country?

Because there isn't 400m tanks in your country.

True story.

DdraigGoch · 23/09/2025 10:40

Poetnojo · 23/09/2025 08:32

You do know that the top 10 most violent cities in the US are All Democratic led so it would stand to reason that there should be state sponsored armed guards on the streets.
Thats not an agenda it's a fact.
Where is the agenda?
Just to reiterate every last one of the top ten most violent cities are led by Democrats.
Every.
Last.
One

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Almost all cities are Democrat-controlled so this proves nothing. Cities tend to have more crime than cornfields, given that you need two humans (an offender and a victim) to commit most crimes. The states with the highest homicide rates are (with the sole exception of New Mexico) all in the Bible Belt.

Wishing14 · 23/09/2025 10:41

@MeTooOverHereI see what you’re saying, I’ve seen a few of those and with the added context you can argue either way - I’d probably see them different to you based on many factors. To take the first example - The pilot one was referring to positive discrimination and hiring for quotas. He said just after - “that’s not who I am. That’s not what I believe”. I think it’s difficult to take snippets like that out of context, but it’s more fruitful to actual explore the full idea and context.

I also understand your point about Jesus and what he would do, who he would stand with? I always used to say exactly the same as you. But then I thought, if Jesus came to the West and saw what opportunities and freedoms we have, would he be angry? Would he tell us to do better? There are many instances of rage and anger in the New Testament, and plenty more in the old. I don’t think our context today is the same as it was 2000 years ago - I think it might warrant a different response. Sodom and Gomorrah come to mind.

Im agnostic btw if it makes any difference.

5128gap · 23/09/2025 10:41

Wishing14 · 23/09/2025 09:03

@5128gapMy perspective is that he answered her but thought it was a bit of a waste if a question (I agree) - I mean compare it to the first question asked by the young lady in the Oxford debate which was thoughtful and well put together. It’s a very strong feeling to have about a person based on their tone and stance. If you can’t provide a credible justification for your arguments such as quotes and detailed discussion it does unfortunately make it difficult to have a meaningful debate with you.

I would question the viability of having a 'meaningful debate' about something that is a matter of opinion rather than a matter of fact anyway. You are asking me to provide you with evidence of something that cannot be proven, because whether a person is judged as courteous by another person is subjective, based on their own standards of manners. In that debate, CK failed to meet my standards. He may well have met yours. We have different standards, and that's OK.
(Though I assume we could agree that calling a country in which you have been a guest a 'totalitarian third world hell hole' not worthy of making fun of, depressing, chilling, and stating you wanted to kiss the ground on returning home from there, isn't behaviour one would typically associate with a courteous man?)
I don't believe saying a person is not courteous is 'a very strong feeling' at all. It was a casual observation that I considered the man arrogant and rude.

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 10:43

This is only until 2020 so is going to leave out a lot of BLM violence and some of the trans school shootings.

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 10:47

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 10:43

This is only until 2020 so is going to leave out a lot of BLM violence and some of the trans school shootings.

Didn't Kirk talk about trans shootings? What is the relevance of them?

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 10:52

DdraigGoch · 23/09/2025 10:40

Almost all cities are Democrat-controlled so this proves nothing. Cities tend to have more crime than cornfields, given that you need two humans (an offender and a victim) to commit most crimes. The states with the highest homicide rates are (with the sole exception of New Mexico) all in the Bible Belt.

That’s because they have the highest concentration of black people in the US.

It’s a very ugly truth, but don’t hide from it. You actually have to confront if you’ve any hope to stop it.

Wishing14 · 23/09/2025 10:55

@5128gapi think I agree he was arrogant, I thought your original post was about him being hateful which I might have confused with someone else- Personally, I think he was honest and blunt and expressed (and backed up) his opinions. I hear people (particularly on the left) talk about the UK in a disparaging way all the time.

BerylSnow · 23/09/2025 10:55

RingoJuice · 23/09/2025 10:52

That’s because they have the highest concentration of black people in the US.

It’s a very ugly truth, but don’t hide from it. You actually have to confront if you’ve any hope to stop it.

You need to address socio economic divide first. That's the biggest factor.

(Just look it up, if you don't believe me).