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Anyone trying not to have heating on

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TheOpalFox · 21/09/2025 20:21

Anyone else tried to not have heating on? Even tho your cold? It’s 8 degrees and I’m cold but can’t afford to have heating on all the time :( what a way to live!!!

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DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:19

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 21/09/2025 22:17

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Whats the fucking point?!

Just turn it on below freezing. 😂😂😂I’d tell him to shove it where the sun don’t shine.

He seriously told an elderly sick person not to
out their heating on u til it gets below freezing.?!

He needs to be struck off. That is terrible advice. The blood thickens when people are cold which makes elderly people much more prone to strokes. And what about hypothermia? Honestly you couldn’t make this up.

This thread is hilarious🤣🤣🤣

He’s not sick.

you think you’ll get hypothermia at 13 degrees?!

the only funny one is you. If you’re that cold you need to go and see a doctor - it’s a symptom of many serious illnesses.

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:20

Tastaturen · 21/09/2025 22:16

Look at the NHS guidelines. Did you actually hear his consultant say '13'?

Yes.

but, do feel free to make ableist comments again!

EmpressOfTheThread · 21/09/2025 22:20

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 21/09/2025 22:13

But it must have been invented for a reason right?🙄

I think so. Can't work out what, though 🤔

Tastaturen · 21/09/2025 22:20

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:20

Yes.

but, do feel free to make ableist comments again!

How is it ableist to point out NHS guidelines?

Crikeyalmighty · 21/09/2025 22:20

Well mine has been on and off today with thermostat set at 21 degrees and it’s just right - it’s an old house built of stone and whilst I can’t bear hugely overheated houses I don’t like a chill in air when inside and don’t like sitting round in jumpers much either.

FancyQuoter · 21/09/2025 22:20

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:13

That’s far too hot.

our house averages 13 across the year, and that’s more than enough.

WHERE do you live? knowing the high reached by the temperatures in the summer, I'd love to know the temperatures in your house in January to make a 13 average 😂

AngelinaFibres · 21/09/2025 22:21

theriseandfallofFranklinSaint · 21/09/2025 22:18

I went out in a sleeveless dress Friday night but it's been chilly today 🥶

I'll put the heating on when I need it whether that's September/December/July. I cannot be arsed with the competitive heating wars on MN 🙄

This. I put the heating on or light the fire if I'm cold. My friends husband insists they sit in coats , hats and blankets rather than put the heating on. I'd divorce him.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 21/09/2025 22:22

FrangipaniBlue · 21/09/2025 21:44

I’m guessing you are well above sea level?

I’m in Cumbria too (coast) and it was 12 degrees outside my house today……. we’ve had doors/windows open and I’m currently sat on the sofa in a t-shirt 🤣

Metcheck says lowest it’ll get through night where I am is 10.

I’m further south than you in the snowiest city in England. We are currently at 6

FancyQuoter · 21/09/2025 22:22

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:19

He’s not sick.

you think you’ll get hypothermia at 13 degrees?!

the only funny one is you. If you’re that cold you need to go and see a doctor - it’s a symptom of many serious illnesses.

Stop it, you are being ridiculous. As I said, I enjoy 30 degrees in the summer, and I don't have the heating on much in the winter, I don't feel the cold that much.

But pretending that you re being sick if you feel cold at 13 is stupid and you know it.

Tastaturen · 21/09/2025 22:23

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:08

What a lovely, ableist comment.

I never said people were vile. I said houses that have the heating on constantly were vile. I made a comment to explain how hot it feels.

How is it ableist? Do you have a learning difficulty? If so, then folk will be more tolerant of the immature expression and lack of understanding.

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:24

FancyQuoter · 21/09/2025 22:20

WHERE do you live? knowing the high reached by the temperatures in the summer, I'd love to know the temperatures in your house in January to make a 13 average 😂

We used ringer frost inside before the insulation was done in the loft about ten years ago (had a poorly done loft conversion, with awful windows). Now I think it’s usually 11-12 outside of the living room, where the log burner can heat to about 20-22. It gets stifling in there after about half an hour though, so the doors get thrown open! During the summer it still tends to stay cool - all the windows get opened at 6am, all curtains stay shut and it’s usually about 18-19. But we very rarely get direct sunlight into the house, it’s only for a couple of hours in the morning, and like I said we keep the curtains and blinds closed to keep it cool.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 21/09/2025 22:24

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:19

He’s not sick.

you think you’ll get hypothermia at 13 degrees?!

the only funny one is you. If you’re that cold you need to go and see a doctor - it’s a symptom of many serious illnesses.

You said, the consultant told him not to turn the heating on until it got below freezing.,..

Ive been to the doctors. There’s nothing wrong. Everywhere I’ve worked my nickname is Morticia because I’m really a corpse.

PersistentRain · 21/09/2025 22:24

Torrential rain all day yesterday but much warmer than the sunny day we had to today.
It’s currently 7 degrees here and I’ve just seen a friend complain it’s too hot and blaming global warming. I don’t know what she’s expecting for mid September, snow?

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:25

FancyQuoter · 21/09/2025 22:22

Stop it, you are being ridiculous. As I said, I enjoy 30 degrees in the summer, and I don't have the heating on much in the winter, I don't feel the cold that much.

But pretending that you re being sick if you feel cold at 13 is stupid and you know it.

Being so cold to the point you feel numb, as another poster has said they do, is not normal. Far from it.

Tastaturen · 21/09/2025 22:26

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:25

Being so cold to the point you feel numb, as another poster has said they do, is not normal. Far from it.

'Not normal' - you've not heard of Raynauds then?

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:28

Tastaturen · 21/09/2025 22:26

'Not normal' - you've not heard of Raynauds then?

A medical condition and thus outside the norm? Thank you for proving my point.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 21/09/2025 22:28

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:19

He’s not sick.

you think you’ll get hypothermia at 13 degrees?!

the only funny one is you. If you’re that cold you need to go and see a doctor - it’s a symptom of many serious illnesses.

You said he had COPD? That’s an illness.

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:28

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 21/09/2025 22:24

You said, the consultant told him not to turn the heating on until it got below freezing.,..

Ive been to the doctors. There’s nothing wrong. Everywhere I’ve worked my nickname is Morticia because I’m really a corpse.

Yes and you’re not going to get hypothermia when your house is 13 degrees!!!

sure thing.

Tastaturen · 21/09/2025 22:29

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:28

A medical condition and thus outside the norm? Thank you for proving my point.

I've not proved your point at all. HTH

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 21/09/2025 22:29

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:25

Being so cold to the point you feel numb, as another poster has said they do, is not normal. Far from it.

l’m that poster. All the women l worked with were as cold as me except one

PeopleWatching17 · 21/09/2025 22:29

TheOpalFox · 21/09/2025 20:21

Anyone else tried to not have heating on? Even tho your cold? It’s 8 degrees and I’m cold but can’t afford to have heating on all the time :( what a way to live!!!

I haven’t got any bloody heating! 🙃

DontReinMeIn · 21/09/2025 22:30

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 21/09/2025 22:28

You said he had COPD? That’s an illness.

It doesn’t make him sick though! You talk about competitive underheaters, but what about competitive heaters? Seems like you all seek a house that’s as hot as possible

Ihateslugs · 21/09/2025 22:30

Bluevelvetsofa · 21/09/2025 20:44

I dislike this competitive ‘not having the heating on until is 20 below zero.’ There’s no virtue in feeling cold and miserable if you can afford to have heat.

Totally agree! My heating came on this morning because it dipped below 16° which it what I set it over the summer. I did override the controls a couple of evenings last week as I was cold and the house was smelling damp and musty. The houses near me were built in 1950s on old marshland so the water table is very high and I’ve had issues with mould on walls and around windows. Hence I heat the house a bit more than some people even though I am happy to wear a jumper.

Also, now I’m retired at at home more in the day, I do feel the cold by mid afternoon on gloomy days so am happy to pop the heating on for a while. My sister and my children complains when they visit me that my house is cold so I’m obviously not overheating the house!

I prefer to have my house at an ambient 19° from 7am to 10pm when it is colder then knock it up to 21° if I am in and feel chilly. I love coming back after being out for a while to a nice warm, cozy house rather than sit and shiver while I wait for the house to warm up.

Muffsies · 21/09/2025 22:30

Tastaturen · 21/09/2025 21:34

Lots of houses would end up damp at that temperature.

It's important to keep air circulating. Older houses had air bricks with chimneys to pull old air up and out of the house, whilst sucking clean air in from outside. Now we seal our houses and air becomes stagnant.

Whenthetimeisright · 21/09/2025 22:31

padso · 21/09/2025 21:49

@Whenthetimeisright you are ineligible if your household incomes exceeds 70k for 2 or 35k for 1

Thanks for this. I had no idea .

I just googled and I see here in Scotland it's now the Scottish Pension Age Winter Heating Payment (PAWHP) . I've actually never heard of this. My income is well under £ 35k!