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Do you know where Will's mother lives?

237 replies

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 20/09/2025 16:54

For 20+ years I lived in an area where everyone knew about Will's mother. People would arrive late to meetings explaining that they were really sorry, but roadworks on X Road meant that they had to go round Will's mother's.

I'm aware that in the Midlands they know about Bill's mother's, not Will's. And that sometimes it's black over Bills mother's house. But I've now moved to a different part of the country where no one knows about Will's mother's, or Bill's.

So,
YABU - who on earth is Will/Bill's mother?
YANBU - everyone knows about Will/Bills mother.

OP posts:
NeverDropYourMooncup · 20/09/2025 17:53

Bohemond23 · 20/09/2025 17:05

This sounds like my dad going to see a man about a dog.

Does he come back when it's a bit dimpsy looking like the wreck of the Hesperus?

PyongyangKipperbang · 20/09/2025 17:56

I am near South Derbyshire and I have heard it a lot over the border.

Never heard Will though, its always been Bill.

"its black over our Bills mothers" means that very dark clouds are on their way.

Uncertaintyisreal · 20/09/2025 17:57

Proper Essex girl here, but know all about Will's mother as my own mum is a Mancunian.

mindutopia · 20/09/2025 17:57

This has given me a headache. 😂

EnjoythemoneyJane · 20/09/2025 17:58

Needapadlockonmyfridge · 20/09/2025 17:03

No idea!
Is that the same as going round the Wrekin?

I know both of these phrases from PIL (Birmingham & Staffordshire).

Round the Wrekin = go out of your way / take too long / bit of a faff
Black over Bill’s mother’s = stormy-looking / bad weather on the way

But no one in my family (London & South East) would have a clue.

Panda69 · 20/09/2025 17:58

I'm from Suffolk,and it looks black over wills mothers when rain is coming,though that's a phrase from childhood, can't say as I've heard anyone else apart from family say it!

RockyRogue1001 · 20/09/2025 17:59

DH (from south Yorkshire) says black over Jim's mother's

I reckon they all live near Sylvia's mother

Seahorsesplendour · 20/09/2025 17:59

Midlands here and looking black over Bill’s mother’s is commonly used in our house! My mom from north staffs and she grew up with it too

Mumof2bears · 20/09/2025 18:00

Am from Cambridge too (over 40 years) and also know about Will's mother's. Just checked with husband (who comes from the north-west) and he's never heard of it!

Looks like there was a thread about this last year: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5087473-has-anyone-else-heard-this-saying?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share

Bertielong3 · 20/09/2025 18:01

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csigeek · 20/09/2025 18:02

Midlands/Brummie here and it would be a bit black over Bill’s Mother’s if the weather looks like rain, but roadworks would cause me to have to go “round the wrekin”

Uricon2 · 20/09/2025 18:02

Panda69 · 20/09/2025 17:58

I'm from Suffolk,and it looks black over wills mothers when rain is coming,though that's a phrase from childhood, can't say as I've heard anyone else apart from family say it!

Seek the random Midlander on the family tree!

SpiralSister · 20/09/2025 18:02

‘It’s looking black over Will’s mother’s’

Brighton.

DH from Leicester insists it’s Bill’s mother’s.

He is wrong.

FOJN · 20/09/2025 18:03

Never heard of Bill's or Will's mother's house but, like other Salopian's, I'm familiar with going round the Wrekin.

Londonismyjam · 20/09/2025 18:04

csigeek · 20/09/2025 18:02

Midlands/Brummie here and it would be a bit black over Bill’s Mother’s if the weather looks like rain, but roadworks would cause me to have to go “round the wrekin”

Nailed it.

HarryGrotter · 20/09/2025 18:05

I’m in the East Midlands, my grandad was a proud Geordie and we all knew about Bill’s mothers. Although mother was pronounced like moth with ers on the end!

maudelovesharold · 20/09/2025 18:07

Dh is from the Black Country and knows all about Bill’s mother’s! The first time he mentioned it, I didn’t have a clue either. Despite my Mum also coming from there, I’d never heard the saying. She did used to say ‘all round the Wrekin’ to denote a convoluted journey, though!

ArtfulPinkBird · 20/09/2025 18:07

Up north here, no idea what you're talking about but intrigued...

ChampagneLassie · 20/09/2025 18:09

Never heard this before, I’m Scottish and lived down south for a while

Isthereanotherplanettoinhabit · 20/09/2025 18:09

One for Suzie Dent maybe?

Moonflower12 · 20/09/2025 18:12

@Uricon2
Thats what I understood too. If that’s true, I live near the village where his mum had her farm.

So I’d be very specific if I was describing a storm!

BeMintFatball · 20/09/2025 18:12

I’m in Essex. 40 years ago I worked in The City with a lady from Goodmayes (East London borders). She introduced me to the phrased “Black over Will’s Mother’s way” meaning a storm/ heavy rain was brewing.

Loved the phrase and now use it. Doing my bit to spread its use.

Emanwenym · 20/09/2025 18:15

Black over Bill's mother (looks like there's going to be heavy rain) and
'all around the Wrekin (took a long detour)

TotHappy · 20/09/2025 18:16

I'm feeling a bit left out as a southwestern (with in laws from Lancashire and Liverpool) who's never heard this... so would anyone like to extend the discussion by telling me if they know what a grammasow is?

diddl · 20/09/2025 18:18

TutTutTutSigh · 20/09/2025 17:04

I've known it to be black over Bill's mothers but I've never had to drive by her house.

Same here!