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Do you know where Will's mother lives?

237 replies

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 20/09/2025 16:54

For 20+ years I lived in an area where everyone knew about Will's mother. People would arrive late to meetings explaining that they were really sorry, but roadworks on X Road meant that they had to go round Will's mother's.

I'm aware that in the Midlands they know about Bill's mother's, not Will's. And that sometimes it's black over Bills mother's house. But I've now moved to a different part of the country where no one knows about Will's mother's, or Bill's.

So,
YABU - who on earth is Will/Bill's mother?
YANBU - everyone knows about Will/Bills mother.

OP posts:
snemrose · 20/09/2025 17:31

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 20/09/2025 17:29

It was the East Mids where I was introduced to Bill's mother. I'm familiar with going around the Wrekin as well - to mean taking a long route when a shorter one was possible (conversation and journey).

Never of heard of going round the Wrekin either!
Lived here all my life too.

LilyJosephine · 20/09/2025 17:32

Yep, originally from the Midlands too and ruddy roadworks often mean you end up “going around the Wrekin”. I’m the mother of a William though, I had no idea everyone went around me 😜

Anewuser · 20/09/2025 17:35

Fancyteacup · 20/09/2025 17:30

From Wiltshire and had no idea, but may start using this 🤣

Me too, haven’t heard these. But my dad used to say, “it’s a monkey’s birthday,” when it was raining but sunny.

Isthereanotherplanettoinhabit · 20/09/2025 17:35

My mother always used to say it’s black over Bill’s mother’s (meaning her house) when it looked like rain. We live in Worcestershire. I always thought it was a quaint expression of my mother’s but then someone told me it was something to do with William Shakespeare. So I would expect Will’s mother is a regional version of the same thing

Uricon2 · 20/09/2025 17:35

There is an old Shropshire (possibly east Shropshire) toast where you raise your glass and move it in a circle saying "to all around the Wrekin".

Only person I ever knew use it was my Victorian Shropshire grandfather. I may revive it!

Sevenh · 20/09/2025 17:37

NeverCouldGetTheHangOfThursdays · 20/09/2025 17:00

It's Will's mother where I'm from. Pretty sure she lives in the back of beyond.

We talk about ‘Will’s mother’ all the time and we live down South.

If it looks gloomy in the sky far away we always say ‘it’s looking black over Will’s mother’s’.

Or we’ll tell someone ‘we’ve been all round Will’s mother’s trying to find this place ….’

I thought everyone said it but come
to think about, only my partner I tend to use the expression and looking at the voting it’s clear many people have not heard of it.

TheEllisGreyMethod · 20/09/2025 17:38

You bloody English and your sayings

NeverCouldGetTheHangOfThursdays · 20/09/2025 17:38

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 20/09/2025 17:10

If there are roadworks or a traffic accident and there's a really long diversion, then you end up going "round Will's mother's".

ETA at least, in Cambridgeshire you do

Edited

I was born and raised in Suffolk and it's a phrase my DM often used.

Blarn · 20/09/2025 17:39

In Birmingham I've only known it to be dark over Bill's mother's.

lickycat · 20/09/2025 17:39

Needapadlockonmyfridge · 20/09/2025 17:03

No idea!
Is that the same as going round the Wrekin?

This I know about. Eg I’m not getting that bus, it goes all round the Wrekin.

samarrange · 20/09/2025 17:40

I grew up in Birmingham in the 1970s and "It's a bit black over Bill's mother's" was a completely standard expression whenever threatening black clouds appeared. Since the prevailing wind is from the west-south-west, my assumption was that Bill's mother lived somewhere between Droitwich and Stourbridge.

SpidersAreShitheads · 20/09/2025 17:41

I have never heard of this so thanks to PP explaining it’s about rain expected!

I was brought up in west London near the big Nestle factory. Due to the way the wind blew, it always smelt like coffee when it was about to rain, even from a couple of miles away from the factory.

I never knew this was because of the factory - I thought that’s just what an incoming rainstorm smelt like everywhere 😂

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 20/09/2025 17:41

Hmm. Yes, when it looks like rain, then it’s black over Bill’s mother’s. But if you have to reroute out of your way then you’re going round the Wrekin!

EnglishGirlApproximately · 20/09/2025 17:42

It's been black over Bills mothers all day today! I'm in Nottinghamshire 😊

PuppyMonkey · 20/09/2025 17:42

You lot are very posh, it was always a bit black uvvah Bill’s Mam’s in my part of Nottingham. ☔️

Izzy24 · 20/09/2025 17:43

TutTutTutSigh · 20/09/2025 17:04

I've known it to be black over Bill's mothers but I've never had to drive by her house.

Just going to add this very thing 😎

June2008 · 20/09/2025 17:43

Definitely a Midlands expression - black over bills mothers. I live down south now and my girls have no idea about Bill or the Wrekin! (Well, they do now because I educated them!)

Dancelikeyoumeanit · 20/09/2025 17:44

I was brought up in Surrey but my Dad used the phrase " going all found Will's mothers " often meaning either going a long way round on a journey or taking an age to get to the point in a conversation. He was from Cambridge

Dancelikeyoumeanit · 20/09/2025 17:44

Round not found

carmak · 20/09/2025 17:46

I'm from london, Bill's mother happened to be my mother too.

Billy was always a bit wet though, so it might be about him.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 20/09/2025 17:48

samarrange · 20/09/2025 17:40

I grew up in Birmingham in the 1970s and "It's a bit black over Bill's mother's" was a completely standard expression whenever threatening black clouds appeared. Since the prevailing wind is from the west-south-west, my assumption was that Bill's mother lived somewhere between Droitwich and Stourbridge.

Edited

I live in a similar area and you’re right that that is the direction that the weather normally comes from, but I believe it’s meant to cite Shakespeare and Stratford, so, South East instead.

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 20/09/2025 17:48

"As black as Newgate's knocker" meant a storm brewing (London).

IliveInCambridge · 20/09/2025 17:49

I was brought up in the West Riding and Lancashire. I would recognise the phrase which mentions black and Bill but not think of using it myself.

I’ve been in Cambridge for decades now. The only person I hear using it is my friend from Bradford, who talks about Will’s mother’s. This can be confusing as her former partner is called Will.

samarrange · 20/09/2025 17:50

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 20/09/2025 17:48

I live in a similar area and you’re right that that is the direction that the weather normally comes from, but I believe it’s meant to cite Shakespeare and Stratford, so, South East instead.

Well, maybe it started in Coventry/Leicester (north-east of Stratford) and spread to Brum. Although I'm a bit skeptical about the whole Shakespeare thing.

RunningNananananananananana · 20/09/2025 17:52

I thought it might be an Inbetweeners reference.

Apparently not, so I have no idea (Lincs) 🤣