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Is this racist

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Whoiam · 17/09/2025 18:57

I am seeing many posts about Charlie Kirk being racist. I also note that there are references to his stance on DEI.

I am interested, is this racist nowadays?

https://youtube.com/shorts/8HDYrISA1TY?si=m7vBABFnGn-6uqBy

YABU- yes
YANBU-no

Before you continue to YouTube

https://youtube.com/shorts/8HDYrISA1TY?si=m7vBABFnGn-6uqBy

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RidingTheTube · 17/09/2025 21:53

I cannot believe that absolute thicko had the audacity to talk like that about MICHELLE OBAMA.

Yes, he was racist. And really not very bright.

BundleBoogie · 17/09/2025 21:56

Bambamhoohoo · 17/09/2025 20:48

No it’s not. If you think that you’ve misunderstood it, and never had a good exposure to it.

Well tell that to the RAF because that’s exactly what they did.

From the BBC report:

Initiatives to increase the numbers of women and people from ethnic minorities in the RAF led to unlawful positive discrimination, an inquiry has found.
The head of the RAF has admitted some men were discriminated against.
The internal inquiry was sparked by the resignation of a female RAF Group Captain who told her superiors the policy penalised white men.
The inquiry found she had faced significant and unreasonable pressure to meet diversity targets.

These targets were set by the last Chief of the Air Staff, Sir Mike Wigston, to increase the proportion of women and people from ethnic minorities in the RAF.
But the unnamed senior female RAF recruitment officer told her superiors that fast tracking women and ethnic minorities was contrary to the equality act and discriminated against white men.
The inquiry, conducted by the Ministry of Defence, found the pressure to meet those targets led to unlawful, positive discrimination.
However the RAF had argued its policies amounted to positive action, not discrimination, and were not unlawful.
The new head of the RAF, Sir Richard Knighton, has now admitted that some men were discriminated against, and apologised.
They include a group of 31 who were held back in training, who have now been compensated.
The RAF has also admitted its target for 40% of the force to be female and 20% from an ethnic minority background by 2030 is unrealistic.

Bambamhoohoo · 17/09/2025 21:57

BundleBoogie · 17/09/2025 21:56

Well tell that to the RAF because that’s exactly what they did.

From the BBC report:

Initiatives to increase the numbers of women and people from ethnic minorities in the RAF led to unlawful positive discrimination, an inquiry has found.
The head of the RAF has admitted some men were discriminated against.
The internal inquiry was sparked by the resignation of a female RAF Group Captain who told her superiors the policy penalised white men.
The inquiry found she had faced significant and unreasonable pressure to meet diversity targets.

These targets were set by the last Chief of the Air Staff, Sir Mike Wigston, to increase the proportion of women and people from ethnic minorities in the RAF.
But the unnamed senior female RAF recruitment officer told her superiors that fast tracking women and ethnic minorities was contrary to the equality act and discriminated against white men.
The inquiry, conducted by the Ministry of Defence, found the pressure to meet those targets led to unlawful, positive discrimination.
However the RAF had argued its policies amounted to positive action, not discrimination, and were not unlawful.
The new head of the RAF, Sir Richard Knighton, has now admitted that some men were discriminated against, and apologised.
They include a group of 31 who were held back in training, who have now been compensated.
The RAF has also admitted its target for 40% of the force to be female and 20% from an ethnic minority background by 2030 is unrealistic.

I don’t need to tell them do I? They’ve been found “guilty” of discrimination by an inquiry already. I think they know.

Lucyccfc68 · 17/09/2025 21:58

CapriceDeDieux · 17/09/2025 19:53

@MumoftwoNC I am pondering this and would agree the illustration is perhaps a bit crude (hence posting discussion of it in the link above), but I don't have the brain power tonight to properly explain. The colour of the people is perhaps a distraction.
Tall = advantage/no barriers
Small = disadvantage/barriers

I wouldn't usually do this and am really not keen on the AI summary sythesis paragraphs, but I have checked it and it seems pretty accurate:

"The image most often used to explain equity versus equality shows three people of different heights trying to see over a fence. In the equality illustration, each person receives a box of the same size, but only the tallest person can see over the fence. In the equity illustration, people receive boxes of different heights tailored to their needs, allowing everyone to see over the fence and enjoy the view.

Equality
Concept: Treats everyone identically, providing the same resources or opportunities.
Visual: Three people, each receiving a single, identical box to stand on.
Outcome: Only the tallest person can see over the fence, while the others still cannot.

Equity
Concept: Acknowledges individual differences and provides resources based on need to ensure everyone has a fair chance to succeed.

Visual: The same three people, but they each receive a differently sized box. The shortest person gets the tallest box, the middle person gets a medium-sized box, and the tallest person may not need one at all.

Outcome: All three people are able to see over the fence.

Why the difference matters
Fairness:
While equality treats everyone the same, equity focuses on fairness by ensuring everyone gets what they need to reach the same outcome.

Addressing barriers:
Equity addresses the specific barriers different individuals face, creating a truly inclusive and supportive environment.

Driving change:
Equity is about driving deeper, more meaningful change by tackling the root causes of disparity, rather than just providing the same surface-level treatment."

I think this stand in UK and US, though as PP have expressed the execution/application of EDI/DEI in practice does have differences in each country.

Edited

I find this all a bit outdated now.

Drive change and address barriers? Just remove the fence.

AlasPoor · 17/09/2025 21:59

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’It’s not restricting opportunities. It’s opening them up. And frankly, if you think otherwise then you’re either ignorant, a bigot, of both.’

It’s obviously restricting opportunities to groups not favoured by DEI. The reason you lash out with personal insults and the old bigot, ‘ist’ stuff is because your world view doesn’t stand up to any scrutiny. It really doesn’t wash anymore.

EmeraldRoulette · 17/09/2025 21:59

CatBooksWineInThatOrder · 17/09/2025 21:45

No. It’s making sure people from different backgrounds with the same abilities as the straight white men get the same opportunities as they do.

How are you defining different background please?

CatBooksWineInThatOrder · 17/09/2025 22:01

AlasPoor · 17/09/2025 21:59

’It’s not restricting opportunities. It’s opening them up. And frankly, if you think otherwise then you’re either ignorant, a bigot, of both.’

It’s obviously restricting opportunities to groups not favoured by DEI. The reason you lash out with personal insults and the old bigot, ‘ist’ stuff is because your world view doesn’t stand up to any scrutiny. It really doesn’t wash anymore.

It’s not a personal insult. It’s what you are because you’re not willing to see past the end of your nose. I have zero interest in arguing with idiots though so I won’t respond further.

AlasPoor · 17/09/2025 22:03

Bambamhoohoo · 17/09/2025 21:52

the people you say get preferential treatment. What are they getting? It’s not preferential unless they get something, is it? Any of the examples you’ve poo poo’d here, what are those people getting?

Access to preferential training and employment. Are you claiming they don’t get anything now?

Your argument gets stranger with every post.

CatBooksWineInThatOrder · 17/09/2025 22:05

EmeraldRoulette · 17/09/2025 21:59

How are you defining different background please?

I am not going to define that for you. There are a multitude of different backgrounds that can influence someone’s trajectory in life, positively or negatively. I suggest you look into it if it’s something you’re interested in. If you just want to argue with someone, I’m not your person as I’m so tired of people wilfully misunderstanding DE&I.

AlasPoor · 17/09/2025 22:06

CatBooksWineInThatOrder · 17/09/2025 22:01

It’s not a personal insult. It’s what you are because you’re not willing to see past the end of your nose. I have zero interest in arguing with idiots though so I won’t respond further.

You perhaps need to look at the definitions of personal insult and bigot.

Coulddowithanap · 17/09/2025 22:07

Whoiam · 17/09/2025 18:57

I am seeing many posts about Charlie Kirk being racist. I also note that there are references to his stance on DEI.

I am interested, is this racist nowadays?

https://youtube.com/shorts/8HDYrISA1TY?si=m7vBABFnGn-6uqBy

YABU- yes
YANBU-no

That video isn't racist

Dweetfidilove · 17/09/2025 22:07

Livelovebehappy · 17/09/2025 20:13

It should always be the best person for the job, otherwise we end up with poor service because we’re focussing more on the colour of someone’s skin, or their gender, rather than their skills.

Except that that doesn't follow through in employment.

I live in a borough of which 45% of residents are of an ethnic minority group.

Of the workforce of 3,000, 44% identify as White.
The workforce is also 69% female.

The Directorate is made up of 81% white male.

How likely is it that this 81% is actually more qualified to be in those positions than the rest of the workforce? Especially when research undertaken by the council has shown that there are more educated and qualified (work experience wise) employees sitting under this leadership structure.
And said leadership team has driven the council into bankruptcy through sloppy (largely dubious) practices.

It's now advised that if you wish to get ahead in your career as a woman or person of ethnic minority, the most sensible thing to do is to apply for 'promotion' in more women / ethnic minority friendly councils.

CrazyAboutFurBabies · 17/09/2025 22:08

RidingTheTube · 17/09/2025 21:53

I cannot believe that absolute thicko had the audacity to talk like that about MICHELLE OBAMA.

Yes, he was racist. And really not very bright.

She literally referred to herself as an affirmative hire into college.

  • In a "Diary of a CEO" interview, she described herself as being "an affirmative-action student at Princeton," referring to her admission under affirmative action policies.
AlasPoor · 17/09/2025 22:08

CatBooksWineInThatOrder · 17/09/2025 22:05

I am not going to define that for you. There are a multitude of different backgrounds that can influence someone’s trajectory in life, positively or negatively. I suggest you look into it if it’s something you’re interested in. If you just want to argue with someone, I’m not your person as I’m so tired of people wilfully misunderstanding DE&I.

I think what you’re really tired of is people perfectly understanding DEI.

itsgettingweird · 17/09/2025 22:08

AlasPoor · 17/09/2025 21:45

LOL. If you’re giving preference to one group of people over another group of people, they are receiving preferential treatment.
You can say ‘giving preferential treatment to one group over another group is okay if it’s in pursuit of well intentioned social engineering’ maybe? I don’t think you help your cause by denying the meaning of words, you’ve got a hard enough sell on your hands for this nonsense as it is.

Edited

I guess it depends on your definition of preferential treatment?

Is it equity that my ds has a wheelchair provided by the nhs, a BB and mobility car adapted, a space reserved in a convenient spot at his office and a lift key to get to different floors when everyone else has to park if and where they can and walk to wherever they need to be? Also flex to WFH when his muscles spasms are bad.

or is he being given preferential treatment?

Whatwver you call it he wouldn’t have been able to access the same work experience at the place he now works permanent during his training to be a software developer.

he wasn’t the one given the job because he’s disabled - he was given the job because he was the best coder on the course and that was discovered because he was given the opportunity to turn up with everyone else.

equality initiatives are (and should be) about removing barriers to give everyone in an equal playing field to achieve an outcome.

QuickMember · 17/09/2025 22:11

EmeraldRoulette · 17/09/2025 21:25

as a woman of colour, I cannot tell you how much I miss the days when things were normal.

I don't think Charlie Kirk was being racist, but i'm of an age where I've suffered every one of the crazy societal stages that we went through to get to this one. As he was clearly an intelligent man, I think those stages have fed into his response.

I never took up any DEI opportunities and was annoyed with them as soon as they were available about 20 years ago

There was an excellent play on at the National Theatre maybe 12 years ago? Great Britain with Billie Piper. The playwright attracted some ire because of one character who had been the token hire.

I knew exactly what he meant and I knew why he included that character because it is so fucking frustrating to work with that person.

normally on MN when I see the thread title "is this racist?" I guess my answer my answer would be yes before I've even read the question.

Interestingly, we've come all the way round to a time where I'm automatically expecting my answer to be no.

I really wonder if we'll ever see any kind of restoration to normal. The race Grifters have done their absolute best to ruin race relations and it seems to fucking worked it's so sad. I just didn't think so many people would go for it. But it's such a huge business now. I actually have reached the point where I'm not even sure how I'm supposed to refer to myself. I think when the term BME originally came out, I said "can't I just go with non-white?" Due to having a mixed appearance. Let's face it -that's what all of these things mean.

I didn't think about the colour of my skin much 20 years ago. Now it seems that people who are employed by the DEI obsessive behemoth want us to think about it all the time. It pisses me off so much. It has fed into every aspect of culture and it makes me so angry.

I miss normal <cries> I genuinely find myself focusing on my skin colour every day now. It's utterly mad. It's been forced on me by other people, by popular culture. I had a solicitor faffing around around with sensitive comments today. Like she thought I might have some particular requirements because of the colour of my skin.

Sorry OP - I realise you asked a genuine question and were not prepared for an emotional outburst! But I am just so sick of all this.

And so are a lot of people - as I think we can probably see from Saturday's numbers.

sigh.

100 percent agree with this! I’m also a woman of colour and I just want less hyper fixation on race. The late Charlie Kirk supported this also. If you look at who is in his organisation turning point USA, it is very diverse. He’s not a bigot and has been misquoted.

5128gap · 17/09/2025 22:13

MumoftwoNC · 17/09/2025 19:46

Oh I have a lot of experience, we have twice yearly training on it. I'm mixed race myself. I'm raising my eyebrows hard at the concept that you can represent different races as a tall strong guy vs a tiny boy both trying to watch a game. It's a no from me.

The people aren't meant to represent races. They're meant to show that different people need different things to achieve the same outcome depending on circumstances. So treating everyone the same doesn't work, you need to taylor approach to circumstances. The different heights represent different circumstances.

Bambamhoohoo · 17/09/2025 22:14

AlasPoor · 17/09/2025 22:03

Access to preferential training and employment. Are you claiming they don’t get anything now?

Your argument gets stranger with every post.

its Been explained a few times that positive discrimination is illegal. So they don’t get preferential employment.

so what’s training, if it doesn’t lead directly to employment? Preferential treatment… how?

also strange that it’s only you, who doesn’t seem to be able to understand a lot, who finds my posts strange.

QuickMember · 17/09/2025 22:16

CrazyAboutFurBabies · 17/09/2025 21:29

This thread is giving: show me you’ve never watched through Charlie’s WHOLE debates with context, without showing me.

Maybe get off MSM, Yahoo news, CNN, BBC News etc etc and the rest of the diabolical left wing media sources.

There are thousands of black women and men coming out providing videos of how he wasn’t racist so maybe understand and believe them instead of being offended on another races behalf.

Same for the homophobic labels, plenty of gay men and women have come out in support to say he in fact was not in the slightest homophobic.

‘He didn’t spout hate speech, it was just speech they hated’

I’m so glad to read this on here!

AlasPoor · 17/09/2025 22:17

Bambamhoohoo · 17/09/2025 22:14

its Been explained a few times that positive discrimination is illegal. So they don’t get preferential employment.

so what’s training, if it doesn’t lead directly to employment? Preferential treatment… how?

also strange that it’s only you, who doesn’t seem to be able to understand a lot, who finds my posts strange.

Edited

Preferential access to training and employment opportunities . It’s a simple straight forward answer.

Bambamhoohoo · 17/09/2025 22:18

AlasPoor · 17/09/2025 22:17

Preferential access to training and employment opportunities . It’s a simple straight forward answer.

There is no preferential access to employment opportunities. That would be illegal

BundleBoogie · 17/09/2025 22:27

Bambamhoohoo · 17/09/2025 20:37

Why can’t you find an equally experienced highly qualified person of colour to do the job? Is it because they’re all uneducated oiks? That must be what you mean.

I did a third stage interview today. 4 people. Any of them can do the (6 figure, highly qualified and experienced finance) job.

the final stage will now determine which of them is the best fit for the company. They can all do the job. That’s the basic requirement

if your recruitment is any good you should always be left interviewing a pool of people who are capable of doing the job to a high standard. That’s what shortlisting is.

Edited

Why can’t you find an equally experienced highly qualified person of colour to do the job? Is it because they’re all uneducated oiks? That must be what you mean.

The issue comes with things like quotas, often used in DEI schemes. If the, often arbitrary, quota set doesn’t exactly match the availability of suitability qualified candidates that both match the quota requirements AND actually want to apply for the job, then something has to give. That could well be experience or qualifications.

There can limited availability of candidates that match particular race requirements as they are a minority after all.

If every major organisation has set themselves a quota like the RAF did, they are going to run out of minorities and struggle to fill the jobs.

SummerFeverVenice · 17/09/2025 22:56

EmeraldRoulette · 17/09/2025 21:40

In what way?

Multiple areas

  • Women’s reproductive rights and access to contraception and termination have been restricted in over half of States.
  • Diversity offices and programs defunded and closed at the federal level
  • Civil rights lawsuits being slow rolled/obstructed
  • Voter suppression tactics being used by various States that disproportionately prevent minority, disadvantaged demographics from casting their votes in public elections
  • ICE being misused as nationalist private police force that is resulting in US citizens and legal US residents being detained and illegally deported simply because they look or sound “foreign”- left unchecked this could verge on fascist ethnic cleansing of the States.
  • Resurgence of far right groups that actively espouse stripping rights from disadvantaged demographics with some key activists now holding high public offices. Example, the Secretary of DoD, Hegseth, believes women should not be allowed to vote, they should submit to their husbands, they should never serve in the military or hold any elected or appointed public office or senior civil service position.
thats off the top of my head.
BundleBoogie · 17/09/2025 23:00

Bambamhoohoo · 17/09/2025 21:57

I don’t need to tell them do I? They’ve been found “guilty” of discrimination by an inquiry already. I think they know.

Do you imagine that quotas are unique to the RAF or are there other organisations that have similar schemes? In my observations, once a group of people in charge are convinced of their ‘righteousness’ in taking certain actions, a court case is going to be no deterrent.

Just look at the ongoing refusal of the Scottish government and various U.K. political parties to adopt lawful policies in response to the recent Supreme Court judgement on who can count as a woman.

5128gap · 17/09/2025 23:30

BundleBoogie · 17/09/2025 22:27

Why can’t you find an equally experienced highly qualified person of colour to do the job? Is it because they’re all uneducated oiks? That must be what you mean.

The issue comes with things like quotas, often used in DEI schemes. If the, often arbitrary, quota set doesn’t exactly match the availability of suitability qualified candidates that both match the quota requirements AND actually want to apply for the job, then something has to give. That could well be experience or qualifications.

There can limited availability of candidates that match particular race requirements as they are a minority after all.

If every major organisation has set themselves a quota like the RAF did, they are going to run out of minorities and struggle to fill the jobs.

Then they would simply recruit people from outside the target group in that recruitment round, explain the reasons to their superiors who had set the policy, and review practise in the next recruitment round to make the opportunity more attractive to the target group, through better promotion, community engagement and so on.
No fuss or drama, recruitment of unsuitable people, or breech of the EA required, if those running the schemes operated them properly, rather than as appears to be the case with the RAF, took short cuts.
The RAF situation was a clear case of an excellent concept poorly executed, as instead of levelling the playing field before the (fair) game began, they took the lazy (and illegal in the UK) option of simply cherry picking candidates from the target groups. No one who understands equalities and the law should do this, and if they did they act unlawfully.
We don't dispense with an entire program simply because some people don't understand it or dont execute it correctly. We educate and continue.