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What would be the one thing that put you off hiring someone?

449 replies

greyrabbits · 17/09/2025 14:26

Of all the things that would put you off giving someone a job, what’s the one thing that’s a definite no thanks.

OP posts:
K0OLA1D · 17/09/2025 15:20

Bladderpool · 17/09/2025 15:17

Some of the most amazing people I work with are covered in tattoos, I’m talking about highly respected professionals.

Same here. And hoping my colleagues also agree that I am amazing 🤣

Spookygoose · 17/09/2025 15:21

Outsideitsraining · 17/09/2025 14:51

Tattoos, coloured hair, stating their pronouns. Any of these three would be a straight no from me.

You’d discriminate against someone for having tattoos?! You know that’s about half the population right? And has zero impact on their ability to do the job. Coloured hair and stating pronouns might give a little more away about what kind of person someone is than having tattoos but neither of these things have any impact on their ability to do the job, or even whether or not they’re a nice person either. Stating pronouns might say something about their political beliefs but that doesn’t have any impact on their ability to do the job either. Don’t be so narrow-minded

AmberFrost · 17/09/2025 15:24

Tattoos on faces and necks and hands . Other tattoos can be hidden with trousers or long sleeved shirts or blouses if need be . Too many facial piercings. No effort made to look presentable for the interview .

AmberFrost · 17/09/2025 15:25

Mossssy · 17/09/2025 15:09

Overpowering smell. Either BO/breath or wearing perfume.

It's a horribly unfair thing to inflict on other colleagues. Worse than hiring someone who won't do the job, or hasn't got the experience, or is lazy, or inappropriate, etc. You would literally be hiring someone who is going to make your existing staff's working lives intolerable.

But you can’t tell if people are lazy or won’t do the job . That tends to show after a few weeks.

BadgernTheGarden · 17/09/2025 15:26

Not having the right qualifications.

GonnaeNoDaeThatJustGonnaeNo · 17/09/2025 15:26

gamerchick · 17/09/2025 15:08

There have been plenty posts on here where the AL entitlement was important and absolutely would not settle for x Surely it's better to know of the starting block rather than wait until an offer is made? Being evasive means it's the minimum legal limit usually.

Companies should be transparent from the off anyway about AL, compensation (depending on whether it's fixed or not) and if overtime was available.

I agree companies should be transparent but it’s still a shit question to ask at interview.

ask questions about terms and conditions before the interview or ask after.

stayathomer · 17/09/2025 15:33

Outsideitsraining
Tattoos, coloured hair, stating their pronouns. Any of these three would be a straight no from me.
Most of the people I’ve met with the first two (have never had anyone state pronouns at me) show characteristics of strength and are hard workers (I’d guess to prove themselves to people who make assumptions)

Simbaonedaythiswillallbeyours · 17/09/2025 15:35

Lateness

Slagging off previous employer

Stating pronouns

Not asking questions

BO/poor hygiene

DramaLlamacchiato · 17/09/2025 15:37

being non binary, trans or any form of pronoun declaration. You just know they’ll be an absolute pain in the arse.

Shellyash · 17/09/2025 15:39

You've asked for one thing... I've honestly got a few but at your request here's the worst:
"I'm taking my previous boss to a tribunal"

Thank you for the heads up, we'll be in touch.

CoffeeCantata · 17/09/2025 15:43

On first impression?

Lack of manners, or discourtesy to receptionist or other (quote) menial (unquote) workers.

Thepeopleversuswork · 17/09/2025 15:45

Outside of the screaming obvious ones (poor hygiene, inappropriate dress etc)...

An overly box-ticky, process driven person. I want someone who can think for themselves and come up with ideas rather than following a template.

Anyone who answers a question with a one sentence answer is immediately struck off.

Someone who lacks confidence. I don't necessarily want a raging extrovert but I work in a business where your ability to project yourself is important and someone who is a real "glass of water" wouldn't last long in my line of work.

Someone who doesn't ask questions in the interview. If you're not interested enough in the job to care about it you don't deserve to do it.

DiscoBob · 17/09/2025 15:47

Jackiepumpkinhead · 17/09/2025 15:00

I’ve Interviewed over 100 people and no one has ever propositioned me or made racists remarks. Where on earth do you work where you think that would happen?

I didn't say I thought it would happen. I said it would stop me from employing someone. I was kind of making a joke...badly it seems.

CoffeeCantata · 17/09/2025 15:49

@Spookygoose

I love your username!❤️ (Geese are my favourite animals)

Namechange822 · 17/09/2025 15:50

My biggest red flag is anyone who treats me, colleagues (including eg receptionist) or the interview process patronisingly or with a lack of respect. I’m generally pretty good at recruiting and saying no thanks to people like this has always turned out well for me.

Also, two real examples, I said no to both the guy who turned up for interview and put his feet up on the desk (this was hilarious!) and the guy who rang me after his application and before his interview to rant about our application process!

Arlanymor · 17/09/2025 15:51

I thought we’d left ‘tattoos’ as an unemployable reason back in the 20th century.

turkeyboots · 17/09/2025 15:54

Talking over me, or it close relative, checking with the male co-interviewer if they should answer my question.

I've also had the BO, ripped clothes, looking bored, not answering questions and putting feet on the table from candidates over the years.

Outsideitsraining · 17/09/2025 15:57

RoverReturn · 17/09/2025 15:11

😲
I've known some excellent ppl with pink hair and/ or tattoos.

Depends on the role I suppose. I work in professional services. I wouldn’t take advice from someone who’s judgement was so poor they thought pink hat to be a wise choice.

Bladderpool · 17/09/2025 16:00

I’m always stunned at how badly dressed some people turn up for an interview. In less prestigious posts I can only think they’re on jobseekers and have to attend interviews even though they don’t want the job but I’ve seen people show up in horrible clothes for executive positions.

Catpiece · 17/09/2025 16:01

Arriving late. Wearing joggers.

Bladderpool · 17/09/2025 16:02

Outsideitsraining · 17/09/2025 15:57

Depends on the role I suppose. I work in professional services. I wouldn’t take advice from someone who’s judgement was so poor they thought pink hat to be a wise choice.

That’s so blinkered, the best CEO I ever worked with had pink hair and piercings. I really don’t understand why people think this indicates the person is incompetent or incapable of doing a good job.

NotMyRealAccount · 17/09/2025 16:08

Being argumentative or arrogant in the interview. If you can't keep that sort of behaviour under wraps for half an hour during which you're supposed to be presenting yourself at your best, you're going to be a nightmare in a workplace. Refusing to shake hands with the female members of the interview panel is also likely to result in the role being readvertised if there are no other candidates.

K0OLA1D · 17/09/2025 16:25

Outsideitsraining · 17/09/2025 15:57

Depends on the role I suppose. I work in professional services. I wouldn’t take advice from someone who’s judgement was so poor they thought pink hat to be a wise choice.

I think people who judge people by their hair colour have poor judgement

autumnsessions · 17/09/2025 16:27

Lying &(Rudeness)

CarmellaSopranosKitchen · 17/09/2025 16:32

Interesting re the lack of confidence. Sometimes very able woman feel a lack of confidence and do not want to be pushy but they are actually very competent. Sometimes the most confident people are all bluster and less skill. One of my friends is amazing at her role - but kept getting knocked back for promotions because of this. Some interview coaching and she stormed it. Sometimes the very competent know that they are 98% rather than 100% because they are so skilled -whereas someone barely competent feels that they are 100% when they are in reality only 70% - but big themselves up. A good interviewer sees underneath this.

I hate lateness, those complaining about a previous employer too much, not being prepared. Lying about qualifications or work experience. Inflexibilty.