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Video of a kind man supporting his Muslim neighbour. AIBU to be horrified that this is where we’re at right now?

178 replies

flyingsquirrelsagogo · 16/09/2025 14:49

I guess it may be fake, but there’s no reason to think it would be.
So many threads on here about the flags and the March etc. Lots of posters saying it’s ridiculous that these things are seen as far right, racist or racist.
The exchange in this clip could have been straight out of Germany in the 1930s.

How the hell did it come to this?

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1B7p3ojntk/?mibextid=wwXIfr

37K views · 868 reactions | This is beautiful and horrifying in equal measure. I'm just lost for words that our neighbours, friends and colleagues are too frightened to leave their homes. However, this video shows that some of us still have our humanit...

This is beautiful and horrifying in equal measure. I'm just lost for words that our neighbours, friends and colleagues are too frightened to leave their homes. However, this video shows that some of...

https://www.facebook.com/61577992757971/videos/768373715952586/?fs=e&mibextid=wwXIfr&rdid=kuRNwNqxx7KnfjdA&share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2Fv%2F1B7p3ojntk%2F%3Fmibextid%3DwwXIfr

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ItsAMoooPoint · 16/09/2025 17:43

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Yes, but British Jews would mean as a collective group. Also, you're using the word oppressing wrong. It sounds like you mean that anyone who disagrees with you is oppressing you. For oppression there has to be some kind of power imbalance, which there isn't in any of your examples.

You're not some kind of victim here.

Manxexile · 16/09/2025 17:43

GreenGreenGreenRed · 16/09/2025 15:22

It's a great video, but it's fake.

I'm inclined to agree.

I wonder if he's equally supportive of his Jewish neighbours?

ItsAMoooPoint · 16/09/2025 17:46

SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 17:42

I haven’t read the full thread and I don’t like the term “off their rocker” but I know British Jews, and Israeli Jews, who oppose the genocide in Gaza.

You really don't have to have read the full thread to agree that saying that British Jews are oppressors is extremely antisemitic

nomas · 16/09/2025 17:48

Poetnojo · 16/09/2025 17:33

Don't they always though nomas?

Don’t who always what?

HaimishaPickle · 16/09/2025 17:51

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Oh no! Not the poor oppressed people who are pro-Palestinian being oppressed by British Jews!! I mean, who could possibly have foreseen that behaving like a raging antisemite might have consequences? What's the view on this terrible injustice being visited upon the people who are pro-Palestinian by British Jews when you bring this up at your very safe anti-Zionist synagogue?

TeaAndMuffins · 16/09/2025 17:51

nomas · 16/09/2025 15:34

Why is it that the first time someone starts a thread in support of Muslims in ages that it gets immediately hijacked by posts about anti-Semitism?

Would you be happy it if people started talking about Islamophobia in an anti-Semitism thread?

Because, bluntly, anti-Semitism is far more rife than Islamophobia in the UK at present and very few people care. It's just not as widely reported - and the lack of reporting itself is an instance of anti-Semitism.

SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 17:52

ItsAMoooPoint · 16/09/2025 17:46

You really don't have to have read the full thread to agree that saying that British Jews are oppressors is extremely antisemitic

I’ve already said that suggesting all British Jews support the genocide in Gaza (source: United Nations, today) is as nonsensical as suggesting all British people supported the genocide in Iraq.

Manxexile · 16/09/2025 17:55

Chiseltip · 16/09/2025 15:21

Actually, every generation SHOULD be better off than the last. Otherwise we have failed as a society.

And accepting like grown ups, doesn't pay the bills.

Why should every generation be better off than the last?

The truth is that for many of the post-WW2 years the West has been running what amounts to a giant Ponzi scheme where money that couldn't be afforded was spent on "good" things on the basis that future generations would be able to, and be happy to pay the deferred price - but they aren't and they can't so everything is now imploding socially and economically.

This is reflected in an unstable job market, unaffordable and insufficient housing stock, an aging population, the parlous state of NHS funding, the (un)sustainablilty of pensions and even a Labour government having to promise to kick out illegal migrants.

And that's before considering a reset to year zero to fight climate change.

Everything has been pissed away

MumWifeOther · 16/09/2025 17:55

weighinin · 16/09/2025 15:16

People are literally smearing shit on synagogues in the UK, hounding and isolating Jewish students in British universities, abusing Jewish school children and Jewish people are increasingly hiding any sign of being Jewish in public, people in the UK have openly supported the racist murders against Jew of October 7th, and tore down posters of the hostages. Jewish people have been struck by, at best, the remarkable absence of support from their fellow British citizens in the face of all this hostility and hatred. As one Jewish man put it, ' I used to think I was a British Jew. Now I realise I am just a Jew who happens to live in Britain.'

I think all this is more reminiscent of 1930s Germany.

This isn’t any more of an issue than what is happening to people of other faiths too..

SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 17:56

TeaAndMuffins · 16/09/2025 17:51

Because, bluntly, anti-Semitism is far more rife than Islamophobia in the UK at present and very few people care. It's just not as widely reported - and the lack of reporting itself is an instance of anti-Semitism.

I don’t think that’s statistically true, because the British Jewish population is much smaller than the British Muslim population, and Islamophobia is rife in my personal experience. As someone who has never been anti-Semitic or Islamophobic, I don’t understand why one group is saying that racism towards one group is worse than racism towards another group.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 16/09/2025 17:56

Snizzywu · 16/09/2025 17:02

Exactly. Absolutely disgusting.

As if Muslim woman haven’t been spat at and abused for wearing the hijab for decades.

You don't need to dismiss one group to acknowledge another.

nomas · 16/09/2025 17:58

TeaAndMuffins · 16/09/2025 17:51

Because, bluntly, anti-Semitism is far more rife than Islamophobia in the UK at present and very few people care. It's just not as widely reported - and the lack of reporting itself is an instance of anti-Semitism.

I think anti-Semitism and Islamophobia are as rife and as bad as each other.

I think Islamophobic attacks are less reported to the police by dint of the fact that more recent immigrants tend to be Muslim rather than Jewish, and immigrants are notoriously reticent to go to the police.

Shinysunday · 16/09/2025 17:59

Chiseltip · 16/09/2025 15:21

Actually, every generation SHOULD be better off than the last. Otherwise we have failed as a society.

And accepting like grown ups, doesn't pay the bills.

But who says it should work like that? Any human society is affected by what other human beings do as well as themselves. Now we have climate change that will wreak havoc with the basic structure of our global society, and we have wars in other parts of the world which also affect us. People won't keep getting richer and richer.

ACatNamedRobin · 16/09/2025 17:59

weighinin · 16/09/2025 15:16

People are literally smearing shit on synagogues in the UK, hounding and isolating Jewish students in British universities, abusing Jewish school children and Jewish people are increasingly hiding any sign of being Jewish in public, people in the UK have openly supported the racist murders against Jew of October 7th, and tore down posters of the hostages. Jewish people have been struck by, at best, the remarkable absence of support from their fellow British citizens in the face of all this hostility and hatred. As one Jewish man put it, ' I used to think I was a British Jew. Now I realise I am just a Jew who happens to live in Britain.'

I think all this is more reminiscent of 1930s Germany.

This.
But no-one gives a fuck when it's the Jews being subjected to this.

nomas · 16/09/2025 18:00

ACatNamedRobin · 16/09/2025 17:59

This.
But no-one gives a fuck when it's the Jews being subjected to this.

I think if Muslims think no one gives a fuck and Jews think no one gives a fuck then that should tell everyone something.

nomas · 16/09/2025 18:02

SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 17:56

I don’t think that’s statistically true, because the British Jewish population is much smaller than the British Muslim population, and Islamophobia is rife in my personal experience. As someone who has never been anti-Semitic or Islamophobic, I don’t understand why one group is saying that racism towards one group is worse than racism towards another group.

I don’t think racism to Muslims is worse than racism to Jews, I was shocked at the speed with which the thread was hijacked.

Poetnojo · 16/09/2025 18:03

nomas · 16/09/2025 17:48

Don’t who always what?

It was in response to this part of your post
"Would you be happy it if people started talking about Islamophobia in an anti-Semitism thread?"

brunettemic · 16/09/2025 18:04

Chiseltip · 16/09/2025 15:21

Actually, every generation SHOULD be better off than the last. Otherwise we have failed as a society.

And accepting like grown ups, doesn't pay the bills.

Ok but what is better off?

SirHumphreyRocks · 16/09/2025 18:04

TeaAndMuffins · 16/09/2025 17:51

Because, bluntly, anti-Semitism is far more rife than Islamophobia in the UK at present and very few people care. It's just not as widely reported - and the lack of reporting itself is an instance of anti-Semitism.

Put bluntly, could you please provide evidence for that statement? I am not going to defend or deny anti-semitism, and nor do I think that claiming one is somehow less relevant or important than the other is helpful. But in my day to day life I rarely ever come across anti-semitism, whilst I can count instances of islamophobia on an almost daily basis. And some 110,000 or so people at the weekend brought that home pretty forcefully. Doesn't Tommy Robinson, in fact, support Israel, because he's made a number of statements supporting Israel, and more than enough attacking Muslims?

Isn't racism in all forms appalling? It's not a race to the bottom.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 16/09/2025 18:06

nomas · 16/09/2025 15:34

Why is it that the first time someone starts a thread in support of Muslims in ages that it gets immediately hijacked by posts about anti-Semitism?

Would you be happy it if people started talking about Islamophobia in an anti-Semitism thread?

Why do you want to ignore this?

nomas · 16/09/2025 18:06

Poetnojo · 16/09/2025 18:03

It was in response to this part of your post
"Would you be happy it if people started talking about Islamophobia in an anti-Semitism thread?"

So which group are you making a general statement about when you say they all always do that?

nomas · 16/09/2025 18:08

Mumtobabyhavoc · 16/09/2025 18:06

Why do you want to ignore this?

Do you mean me, mumtobabyhavoc?

Poetnojo · 16/09/2025 18:08

nomas · 16/09/2025 18:06

So which group are you making a general statement about when you say they all always do that?

The people responding on the tread

Gerbilboy · 16/09/2025 18:09

I am able to acknowledge that both Jews and Muslims (and other minorities) are facing abuse and discrimination.

If anyone watched the speeches at the rally they would know that it was all about hating Islam. There have been many reports of mosques graffitied on (and worse, abroad), a Muslim cemetery desecrated, hijabs ripped off, recently a man beaten up for confronting men who called his mother a racial slur near Heathrow, the rape of the woman in Oldbury. Muslims and brown people in general are often more visibly different and easy to attack.

It's really not a competition.

I wouldn't dream of going on about my own victim status on a thread about a different minority to try and claim my victimhood was more deserving of sympathy than someone else's without even mentioning the original minority.

Longingdreamer · 16/09/2025 18:10

HaimishaPickle · 16/09/2025 17:51

Oh no! Not the poor oppressed people who are pro-Palestinian being oppressed by British Jews!! I mean, who could possibly have foreseen that behaving like a raging antisemite might have consequences? What's the view on this terrible injustice being visited upon the people who are pro-Palestinian by British Jews when you bring this up at your very safe anti-Zionist synagogue?

I have reported the post that you quoted, as it feeds into the age old Anti-Semitic trope of Jews as oppressors who control the media/banks/government.

The poster above neglected to mention the very serious reasons some doctors have been referred to the GMC.

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