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Video of a kind man supporting his Muslim neighbour. AIBU to be horrified that this is where we’re at right now?

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flyingsquirrelsagogo · 16/09/2025 14:49

I guess it may be fake, but there’s no reason to think it would be.
So many threads on here about the flags and the March etc. Lots of posters saying it’s ridiculous that these things are seen as far right, racist or racist.
The exchange in this clip could have been straight out of Germany in the 1930s.

How the hell did it come to this?

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1B7p3ojntk/?mibextid=wwXIfr

37K views · 868 reactions | This is beautiful and horrifying in equal measure. I'm just lost for words that our neighbours, friends and colleagues are too frightened to leave their homes. However, this video shows that some of us still have our humanit...

This is beautiful and horrifying in equal measure. I'm just lost for words that our neighbours, friends and colleagues are too frightened to leave their homes. However, this video shows that some of...

https://www.facebook.com/61577992757971/videos/768373715952586/?fs=e&mibextid=wwXIfr&rdid=kuRNwNqxx7KnfjdA&share_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fshare%2Fv%2F1B7p3ojntk%2F%3Fmibextid%3DwwXIfr

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Anyahyacinth · 16/09/2025 16:54

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SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 16:54

EmeraldRoulette · 16/09/2025 16:50

@SweetButScatty thank you but as I said in my post, I've seen the video

It's the context I'm wanting to know

without more information, it could be just another performative video

I don’t know the context, but I shudder to think of the comments on the Facebook post.

Constantlycoughing · 16/09/2025 16:54

EmeraldRoulette · 16/09/2025 16:50

@SweetButScatty thank you but as I said in my post, I've seen the video

It's the context I'm wanting to know

without more information, it could be just another performative video

The context is the person living in the house films content farming videos, ring doorbell ones, this man appears a lot in them going back a couple of years they range from feel good like this one of a neighbour trying to do a good thing, to rage bait that you’d expect to see on AIBU, to sympathy ones type thing.

Anyahyacinth · 16/09/2025 16:56

Constantlycoughing · 16/09/2025 16:44

Who are British Jews oppressing?

you seem to disbelieve the shit part re asking how it’s possible
www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c3e751wnq2lo

Did you see what the Romanian homeless man said in court?

“Before indicating each of his pleas, Mr Bold told the court: "Mark Zuckerberg is David of Israel. Prince Harry is Henry VIII."

nomas · 16/09/2025 16:58

Longingdreamer · 16/09/2025 16:51

At least three of your posts have been deleted for racism. It is time for you to reflect.

The other two were deleted after I posted, because you have maliciously reported every post.

I’ve taken screenshots of all my posts, and what a surprise, there’s nothing racist in them.

SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 17:00

Anyahyacinth · 16/09/2025 16:56

Did you see what the Romanian homeless man said in court?

“Before indicating each of his pleas, Mr Bold told the court: "Mark Zuckerberg is David of Israel. Prince Harry is Henry VIII."

I hope he has his mental health assessed. He’s been remanded, which is a good thing for everyone. What I want to know is how an apparently mentally ill homeless Romanian man has been radicalised.

Trallala · 16/09/2025 17:01

And this is exactly what the people who sow dissent on social media want, to spread dissent and division and chaos using seemingly innocuous media.The OP posted this video here in good faith and now some posters are engaged on wars of words. I am not a conspiracy theorist - very much a moderate pragmatist - but i suspect that reason will not prevail while we let ourselves be so easily pitted against eachother. Nuance and rationality are vital right now

Snizzywu · 16/09/2025 17:02

nomas · 16/09/2025 15:34

Why is it that the first time someone starts a thread in support of Muslims in ages that it gets immediately hijacked by posts about anti-Semitism?

Would you be happy it if people started talking about Islamophobia in an anti-Semitism thread?

Exactly. Absolutely disgusting.

As if Muslim woman haven’t been spat at and abused for wearing the hijab for decades.

nomas · 16/09/2025 17:02

Trallala · 16/09/2025 17:01

And this is exactly what the people who sow dissent on social media want, to spread dissent and division and chaos using seemingly innocuous media.The OP posted this video here in good faith and now some posters are engaged on wars of words. I am not a conspiracy theorist - very much a moderate pragmatist - but i suspect that reason will not prevail while we let ourselves be so easily pitted against eachother. Nuance and rationality are vital right now

I agree that this wouldn’t happen in real life.

In real life, one person shares their experience, the other person acknowledges it and then shares their own.

SirHumphreyRocks · 16/09/2025 17:04

SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 16:46

It’s a video of an older white man, apparently filmed at a ring doorbell, offering his house as a place of sanctuary to a Muslim couple. The unseen man says his wife is afraid to leave the house.

It may well be fake. The photo of a sea of Union flags showing the Arc de Triomphe in Paris is widely being used to show the Unite the Nation show of intimidation last Saturday, and it’s certainly fake because the Arc de Triomphe isn’t in London and the flags were mainly St George ones.

The red crosses painted on houses where people of ethnic minorities aren’t fake. They look like Eyam during the Plague. It’s horrific.

They look like Eyam during the Plague.

Not to disagree with the sentiment, but Eyam was the antithesis of what this thread and the red crosses are demonstrating. The villagers of Eyam showed that selflessness and love of others, even in the face of death, were principles to aspire to and live by. There is no comparison between the courage of Eyam villagers and the hatred and vitriol on this thread and in society at large.

NorfolkandBad · 16/09/2025 17:06

nomas · 16/09/2025 15:50

It's obviously real. X is a cesspit of hatred, they will never admit it's real.

It's obviously not.

Translation - X does not reinforce my own personal opinion and therefore it's full of hatred.

nomas · 16/09/2025 17:07

NorfolkandBad · 16/09/2025 17:06

It's obviously not.

Translation - X does not reinforce my own personal opinion and therefore it's full of hatred.

If you enjoy X, you do you. I deleted my account when the racist Musk took over.

SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 17:10

SirHumphreyRocks · 16/09/2025 17:04

They look like Eyam during the Plague.

Not to disagree with the sentiment, but Eyam was the antithesis of what this thread and the red crosses are demonstrating. The villagers of Eyam showed that selflessness and love of others, even in the face of death, were principles to aspire to and live by. There is no comparison between the courage of Eyam villagers and the hatred and vitriol on this thread and in society at large.

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I agree. I have a very old History degree, my dissertation was about the Plague. The red crosses look the same, though. It’s done for an entirely different reason in 2025 - intimidation, marking territory, creating targets. The crosses remind me of the National Front swastikas in the 70s and 80s and yes, shopfronts in 1930s Germany. It’s not OK.

SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 17:11

nomas · 16/09/2025 17:07

If you enjoy X, you do you. I deleted my account when the racist Musk took over.

So did I, and my mental health improved as a result.

ItsAMoooPoint · 16/09/2025 17:13

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Didn't you imply earlier that you're Jewish? So you're acknowledging that you're an oppressor? Or are you one of those "good Jews" and therefore shouldn't be tarred with the same brush that you're tarring everyone else with?

nomas · 16/09/2025 17:15

SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 17:11

So did I, and my mental health improved as a result.

Just when you thought X can’t get worse, it proves you wrong.

ginasevern · 16/09/2025 17:17

SirHumphreyRocks · 16/09/2025 17:04

They look like Eyam during the Plague.

Not to disagree with the sentiment, but Eyam was the antithesis of what this thread and the red crosses are demonstrating. The villagers of Eyam showed that selflessness and love of others, even in the face of death, were principles to aspire to and live by. There is no comparison between the courage of Eyam villagers and the hatred and vitriol on this thread and in society at large.

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Yes indeed. The story of Eyam, whilst unbearably tragic, recounts of the best of humanity.

SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 17:21

ginasevern · 16/09/2025 17:17

Yes indeed. The story of Eyam, whilst unbearably tragic, recounts of the best of humanity.

Back to 2025, and daubing red crosses on houses is appalling behaviour.

SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 17:28

ItsAMoooPoint · 16/09/2025 17:13

Didn't you imply earlier that you're Jewish? So you're acknowledging that you're an oppressor? Or are you one of those "good Jews" and therefore shouldn't be tarred with the same brush that you're tarring everyone else with?

Not all Jews are going to think the same, but blaming British Jews for the genocide in Gaza (Source: United Nations, today) makes as much sense as blaming all British people for the genocide in Iraq.

ItsAMoooPoint · 16/09/2025 17:32

SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 17:28

Not all Jews are going to think the same, but blaming British Jews for the genocide in Gaza (Source: United Nations, today) makes as much sense as blaming all British people for the genocide in Iraq.

So you're agreeing with me that the other poster is completely off their rocker and being antisemitic by blaming all British Jews for death and destruction in Gaza?

AzurePanda · 16/09/2025 17:32

Why would anyone take some random video on social media as a guide to “where we’re at” as a country? My children had learnt better critical thinking skills than this by the age of 12.

Poetnojo · 16/09/2025 17:33

nomas · 16/09/2025 15:34

Why is it that the first time someone starts a thread in support of Muslims in ages that it gets immediately hijacked by posts about anti-Semitism?

Would you be happy it if people started talking about Islamophobia in an anti-Semitism thread?

Don't they always though nomas?

Anyahyacinth · 16/09/2025 17:33

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Anyahyacinth · 16/09/2025 17:38

ItsAMoooPoint · 16/09/2025 17:13

Didn't you imply earlier that you're Jewish? So you're acknowledging that you're an oppressor? Or are you one of those "good Jews" and therefore shouldn't be tarred with the same brush that you're tarring everyone else with?

Many Many British Jews fear/ed that making zionism synonymous with Jews and that a rejection of zionism default antisemitic would lead to this. So no if you speak up against oppression you can't be an oppressor in that area...though of course that person might have other prejudices...around gender or race or something else...it's not impossible to be good and bad..anti oppression and oppressive

SweetButScatty · 16/09/2025 17:42

ItsAMoooPoint · 16/09/2025 17:32

So you're agreeing with me that the other poster is completely off their rocker and being antisemitic by blaming all British Jews for death and destruction in Gaza?

I haven’t read the full thread and I don’t like the term “off their rocker” but I know British Jews, and Israeli Jews, who oppose the genocide in Gaza.