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Why does no one in the West care?

112 replies

LifeisCruelinAfrica · 15/09/2025 09:19

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/czewgl1171lo

150,000 deaths

Women and girls mass raped

Many crimes against humanity. Mass genocide.

A woman hold two children. She is wearing an orange gown and headscarf

Sudan conflict: RSF accused of crimes against humanity over el-Fasher siege

The group has allegedly carried out murder, rape and other crimes, a UN report says.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/czewgl1171lo

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NotABiscuitInSight · 15/09/2025 10:17

What's the end game of any intervention?

To "save" them from one problem and return them to lives plagued with multiple other gender-based issues that we won't intervene on?

What are we really "saving" them from?

CoffeeCantata · 15/09/2025 10:18

I'm sure it goes without saying that of course everyone on this thread 'cares'. I care hugely about human suffering (esp civilians). I'm haunted by things I've read over the years which I won't type out hear so as not to pass on that trauma to others, but basically atrocities happening to poor tribal people across the globe.

But what to do about it? What honestly could Britain or The West have done to stop the vile things I heard logging companies were doing to terrorise Amazonian tribes (beyond cruel)? The UN is supposed to be the mechanism for intervening in humanitarian tragedies - but it moves at the pace of a snail because it has to be democratic and also China and Russia have a place on the Security Council and they MOST DEFINITELY DO NOT have the same attitude to human suffering as most of us do in Western Europe. And they are sometimes behind the people committing these atrocities - in a proxy way.

Humans can be horrible. Throughout history and prehistory we've slaughtered each other in terrible ways. I don't know what you do about it. As has been said, the political climate has changed over the last 20 years and any intervention in, say, Africa, is now viewed as imperialist white-saviourism (look at the view taken now of Live Aid! - they've really turned on that inititative).

The West is in decline and the 21st Century will belong to China, mainly. We're seeing the first effects of this right now and we don't like it. I'm not sure China feels any particular moral duty to check suffering across the globe!

JHound · 15/09/2025 10:19

LifeisCruelinAfrica · 15/09/2025 10:15

There is definitely apathy towards Sudan and its 150,000 plus deaths.

Yes and I stated why I think that is.

NotABiscuitInSight · 15/09/2025 10:20

And I dont want to be crass because I fully acknowledge that their circumstances are horrendous, but where would be the support from the British public?

People won't support mass refugees to GB or spending millions more in aid at a time when the Budget is about to hit Brits in the pocket again against ever declining public services and an unsettled public.

MaloryJones · 15/09/2025 10:21

CoffeeCantata · 15/09/2025 09:44

This.

We are criticised for getting involved in conflicts overseas - some say it’s an imperialist attitude. You can’t have it both ways!

I sometimes read that ‘we shouldn’t see Africa as a basket case - it doesn’t need or appreciate Western intervention “. Africa (which is a large number of very different nations anyway) can manage its own affairs, thank you.”

Honestly - “The West”, whatever that may be - and if it ever was an entity, it’s de-stabilising rapidly- can’t do right for doing wrong.

I think particularly Britain’s days of barging in and trying to help everyone around the world are over. We haven’t got the defence budget, for one thing.

The UN needs to take the lead, not The West.

Well Said 👏👏

CoffeeCantata · 15/09/2025 10:22

Plus - the phenomenally wealthy Arab countries of the Middle East (Saudi, The Emirates) - they're not short of a bob or two, and they love weaponry.

Why don't they step in - they're nearer to the conflict than us. I often roll my eyes when wars cause population displacement in the Middle East. Somehow, it's seen as the West's job to help and to absorb refugees from Syria etc.

Hey Saudi, Dubai and other rich countries - why don't you step up and do your bit for these refugees?

Not interested? Hmmm.

popcornandpotatoes · 15/09/2025 10:24

I care. I don't know what the heck I'm supposed to do about any of it though so I tend to avoid the noise for the sake of my own mental health.

Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:28

What do you want 'the West' to do, other than sanction the belligerents and send aid - which we already do? Military intervention?

LifeisCruelinAfrica · 15/09/2025 10:28

CoffeeCantata · 15/09/2025 10:22

Plus - the phenomenally wealthy Arab countries of the Middle East (Saudi, The Emirates) - they're not short of a bob or two, and they love weaponry.

Why don't they step in - they're nearer to the conflict than us. I often roll my eyes when wars cause population displacement in the Middle East. Somehow, it's seen as the West's job to help and to absorb refugees from Syria etc.

Hey Saudi, Dubai and other rich countries - why don't you step up and do your bit for these refugees?

Not interested? Hmmm.

They have huge amounts of money and don't appear to distribute it much.

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Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:31

LifeisCruelinAfrica · 15/09/2025 10:28

They have huge amounts of money and don't appear to distribute it much.

Saudi Arabia has contributed over £3Bn of aid to relief efforts in Sudan ffs.

LifeisCruelinAfrica · 15/09/2025 10:31

Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:28

What do you want 'the West' to do, other than sanction the belligerents and send aid - which we already do? Military intervention?

Maybe encourage the rich middle eastern countries to step up. Many of the problems are in their back yards.

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Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:32

CoffeeCantata · 15/09/2025 10:22

Plus - the phenomenally wealthy Arab countries of the Middle East (Saudi, The Emirates) - they're not short of a bob or two, and they love weaponry.

Why don't they step in - they're nearer to the conflict than us. I often roll my eyes when wars cause population displacement in the Middle East. Somehow, it's seen as the West's job to help and to absorb refugees from Syria etc.

Hey Saudi, Dubai and other rich countries - why don't you step up and do your bit for these refugees?

Not interested? Hmmm.

Did you bother to research what KSA and UAE are doing in terms of aid efforts to Sudan before typing this?

Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:33

LifeisCruelinAfrica · 15/09/2025 10:31

Maybe encourage the rich middle eastern countries to step up. Many of the problems are in their back yards.

But they do! Far more than the West does. A simple google search would show you this.

LifeisCruelinAfrica · 15/09/2025 10:33

Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:31

Saudi Arabia has contributed over £3Bn of aid to relief efforts in Sudan ffs.

Maybe thats not enough. They are super rich with their oil sales.

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LifeisCruelinAfrica · 15/09/2025 10:33

Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:31

Saudi Arabia has contributed over £3Bn of aid to relief efforts in Sudan ffs.

Maybe thats not enough. They are super rich with their oil sales.

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Tiredofwhataboutery · 15/09/2025 10:33

LifeisCruelinAfrica · 15/09/2025 09:45

I think that when the West intervene its criticised so doesn't bother anymore. Its a no win situation.

Sadly the people there just die and no one seems to care. These regimes destroy everything.

They do destroy everything it’s only going to increase. The number of democracies in Africa is decreasing, might makes right takeovers, rape being routinely as a tool of war. I think poverty and hunger makes people desperate. So you blame someone else who can be raped, tortured, maimed and killed in righteous anger. Then your group have the lions share of resources. It’s not anything new but technology makes the scale greater plus it’s played out publicly.

I do wonder if China perhaps has more clout given their investments within the region but I don’t think they go in with the follow my moral code more of a how we can ensure we get paid?

PurpleChrayn · 15/09/2025 10:34

Too busy posturing about Gaza.

CoffeeCantata · 15/09/2025 10:34

Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:31

Saudi Arabia has contributed over £3Bn of aid to relief efforts in Sudan ffs.

Good. I hope it will take responsibility for any refugees from that conflict, too.

Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:34

LifeisCruelinAfrica · 15/09/2025 10:33

Maybe thats not enough. They are super rich with their oil sales.

So you go from claiming that they aren't contributing everything, to claiming that $3Bn is not enough. ok then.

Comedycook · 15/09/2025 10:34

Yanbu...it's just horrific.

LifeisCruelinAfrica · 15/09/2025 10:35

Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:34

So you go from claiming that they aren't contributing everything, to claiming that $3Bn is not enough. ok then.

Why not, they can afford it. Should help more.

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Comedycook · 15/09/2025 10:37

Free free Sudan....

Oh dear, not trendy enough...

CoffeeCantata · 15/09/2025 10:38

Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:33

But they do! Far more than the West does. A simple google search would show you this.

Well that's cheered me up! So they don't spend all their dosh on bombers and missiles.

I hope we can leave it to them to the right thing in a wider sphere from now on.

Pharazon · 15/09/2025 10:38

CoffeeCantata · 15/09/2025 10:34

Good. I hope it will take responsibility for any refugees from that conflict, too.

Again. Google is your friend. Around 5% of the population of KSA is made up of refugees, with de facto refugees from Syria making the largest proportion (nearly half a million).

LifeisCruelinAfrica · 15/09/2025 10:39

PurpleChrayn · 15/09/2025 10:34

Too busy posturing about Gaza.

It gets more of the headlines definitely.

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