Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask what’s made you think “I’m getting old” recently?

617 replies

overstimulatedhermit · 14/09/2025 15:56

I’ve noticed I’ve got a favourite seat in the living room and it’s accumulated a few of my things on and around it like my handbag, sweets, book, medication (because it’s the only thing that helps me remember to take it) a couple of letters that I opened and haven’t put away yet and a pack of baby wipes.
Dh is watching the game just now and I’ve sat down in my spot and accidentally knocked my medication off the armrest. I turned to dh and said “ do you know what would be handy, a little table next to me so I can put all my bits and bobs on” 🤦🏻‍♀️ my life flashed before my eyes before the words finished leaving my mouth. I’m 41 by the way how has nobody told me about this monumental moment.

OP posts:
YouG0GlenCoco · 14/09/2025 22:35

Getting in the car and vibing to every song, then suddenly being hit with the 'back to back throwbacks' jingle in between!! The horror. Throwbacks are Abba and the BeeGees surely?!

TranceNation · 14/09/2025 22:37

42 years old; needing an early night/lie in Friday night/Saturday morning to recover from the week of work/running errands.

Maria1982 · 14/09/2025 22:38

Hibernatingtilspring · 14/09/2025 16:18

Mine was realising I have to now take my glasses off to be able to read things close up. I didn't realise that not being able to focus close up happens to pretty much every one with age, I'm scared I might have to get varifocals! I'm 43!

I had to get varifocals last year, aged 40! 😱 always had crap eyesight , but that made me feel old…

It’s nice to be able to read labels again though!

Zoopet · 14/09/2025 22:40

I've finally succumbed to a weekly pill box with7 days of morning, noon and night tablet holders as I kept getting muddled with my meds.
I also have a mobile phone that mysteriously disappears on a daily basis and ditto a kindle.
I spend my life looking for things that I've put in a safe place that I can't remember!
Bohe.ian Rhapsody is 50 years old! 50!
Faints.

SeptemberIRemember · 14/09/2025 22:40

ohtowinthelottery · 14/09/2025 19:33

When I went for a routine eye test and the optician told me I'd got a cataract that met the threshold for surgery. Most of the people I know having cataract surgery are in their 80's. I'm 61.

I’m in my late 60s, my friends are a similar age, and most of us have had at least one eye done.

The devastating age thing for me is that an unmarried relative, who I think of as being only slightly older than I am, is going into a care home from choice. She’s been having carers in several times a day, but has decided she’ll be more comfortable in a home.

Zoopet · 14/09/2025 22:41

FFS . FAINTS! not paints.

Wiltedgeranium · 14/09/2025 22:42

Getting varifocals
Having to think about when to bend my knees
Thinking about my plants
Dealing with emotional stress by needing to be outdoors

Zoopet · 14/09/2025 22:44

Apologies for typos I have neuropathy in my fingers.

Dontsayyouloveme · 14/09/2025 22:49

The most recent one… one of my toes has started doing its own thing.. it’s like it’s slowly turning over into its side… I just want it back to how my others are! 😟

WearyAuldWumman · 14/09/2025 22:54

PashaMinaMio · 14/09/2025 15:59

My joints are stiff in the morning.
I cant walk fast any more.
Im the oldest female at the gym.

I’ve yet to have a table covered in stuff like you but theres time yet.

All of this, plus I have a table covered in stuff. (Actually, there are older women than me in the Senior Flex class.)

I'm 65.

ClaudiaNaughton · 14/09/2025 22:55

At A&E recently and the doctor wasn’t a day over 12.

QueenOfCastille · 14/09/2025 22:56

Three words: The Merlin App.

I love it.

FurForksSake · 14/09/2025 22:58

Everywhere is too dark and too loud
I love buying plants at the supermarket
I have a favourite cardigan
if I go out without my reading glasses (Amazon purchase) DH has to read things for me
I’m considering purchasing a soup kettle
I’ve resisted myself to never going to an event where I can’t guarantee a seat
one of my favourite parts of Christmas is watching carols from kings (with baileys)

ScribblingPixie · 14/09/2025 23:08

Having the over 50s offer pointed out to me at the garden centre without any hesitation or fear of causing offence.

5128gap · 14/09/2025 23:14

Googling a symptom and having the initial rush of relief at "not usually serious..." replaced by a feeling of impending doom at "...although if you are over 50...."

DublinLaLaLa · 14/09/2025 23:14

GiveTheGoblinsSnacks · 14/09/2025 16:20

Having to ask ChatGPT what 6 7 means.

What does it mean? I said something about having 6 or 7 minutes to do a task to my Y10 class on Friday and they all started sniggering. I guessed it was something rude but I forgot about it until just now! They’re a nice class too.

JudgeJ · 14/09/2025 23:20

Beamur · 14/09/2025 17:13

When your baby turns 18

When you have a second 18 year old grandchild and later this year the first grandchild will be out of her teens.
Realising that we are a quarter the way through the 21st century yet we only celebrated the Millennium a couple of years ago, surely.

MatriarchCaz · 14/09/2025 23:23

Got offered help when I was putting my shop trolley back today, I looked at the girl and was like oh wow I am now old hahahha

Howmanycatsistoomany · 14/09/2025 23:28

LauraHopkins · 14/09/2025 16:43

Same here. I wear contact lenses to be able to see distances so I now have a pair of reading glasses to correct my already-corrected vision. Optician said it usually happens from age 35 (!) so i guess I should feel quite lucky I haven’t been touting a pair of glasses round my neck on a chain for the past 10 years.

Same here too. I'm 53 and over the last couple of years my close up vision has deteriorated; I only realised how bad it was getting when I had to get the woman in the post office to fill in a form for me because I couldn't see the bloody thing. I now have 3 different prescriptions and 2 different pairs of varifocals. Ridiculous! 😂

Fgfgfg · 14/09/2025 23:30

TheUsualChaos · 14/09/2025 19:07

I'm only 3 or 4 retirements away from being the oldest in my department. I'm not even THAT old..it's terrifying.

Oh god! You've just made me realise I am the oldest person in my department.

Edit - just remembered there is someone two years older than me.

justasking111 · 14/09/2025 23:31

I'll raise all your little tables and confess I bought a three tier trolley on wheels which is narrow and sits between an armchair and the sofa. I use all three tiers.

In my defence I'm waiting for two hip replacements on two sticks now so find it useful to have everything around me . I've a charging station for my phone, tablet, kindle. Hand cream, nail files, clear polish on the bottom shelf, plus my heat pad. Then charging station and cables for gadgets on middle shelf. Then drinks and biscuits, meds on top shelf.

I can push it out of the way when we have visitors.

To ask what’s made you think “I’m getting old” recently?
justasking111 · 14/09/2025 23:36

Dontsayyouloveme · 14/09/2025 22:49

The most recent one… one of my toes has started doing its own thing.. it’s like it’s slowly turning over into its side… I just want it back to how my others are! 😟

Edited

That's your spine or hips, nerves doing a funny little jig. It's weird

JudgeJ · 14/09/2025 23:39

At the weekly pub quiz, or indeed on lots of TV quiz shows, I not only don't now the answers to the 'music' questions, I'm no nearer when I hear the answers! My go-to answer for the '80s is Duran Duran, anything current is Taylor Swift who I was surprised to learn a year ago is a woman, having only ever heard the name.

justasking111 · 14/09/2025 23:39

ghostyslovesheets · 14/09/2025 22:06

SKIN TAGS

I'll raise you seborrheic keratosis 😂

Dontsayyouloveme · 14/09/2025 23:43

justasking111 · 14/09/2025 23:36

That's your spine or hips, nerves doing a funny little jig. It's weird

Is it? I knew it was a ‘thing’ from seeing ‘old’ people’s toes so when I noticed this, I was like ‘oh no’ not this, please no! It’s just one thing after another… 😬😬