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Do people really think PIP claimants are fraudsters?!

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Greedybilly · 09/09/2025 18:03

As someone with a chronic illness in the middle of claiming PIP I think it's important to point out it's very stressful to go through the process and actually get the benefit.
To those who were inferring it's an easy blag - I would say yes there will always be a few scammers who claim fraudulently ( though god knows how tbh?) the majority have to struggle for years/go through appeals/give up.
Just saying this for balance as I feel MN is turning slghtly into the Daily Fail.

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youalright · 12/09/2025 15:21

Marshmallow4545 · 12/09/2025 14:51

@youalright Ah so we are back to personal insults and creating your own weird narrative when you literally know absolutely nothing about me. I have never confirmed if I work, what tax I pay and the only thing I have confirmed is I have experience with the PIP process.

I don't agree with you. It's as simple as that. Not because I don't understand or don't pay tax or whatever other completely unfounded accusation you want to throw around. Even your analogy about teachers is inappropriate. I find it amusing how you have singled me out as someone that is on this thread a lot but neglect to mention your allies @Plastictreees etc. You can attempt to bully people off this thread all you like but the world isn't an echo chamber. The rudest and most offensive posts have consistently been made by posters that claim to be advocates of disability rights and yet merrily imply the worst things about them (like your most recent post about non tax payers (including many disabled people) not having a say in how public money is spent).

Also just to let you know, it is perfectly possible to respond to a few posts on MN and live a productive and full life. I have in no way been on this thread for three solid days. Just in case you were worried about my mental health as I know you're definitely absolutely the caring, compassionate sort.

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Marshmallow4545 · 12/09/2025 15:21

Plastictreees · 12/09/2025 15:12

I’m not reading your posts. Anyone who spends their time writing walls of texts detailing how disabled people should be given vouchers instead of money, should detail their expenses, shouldn’t get their nails done and other such ignorance is not worthy of my time. Or any of the other posters who’ve shared their personal experiences. You’ve shown no compassion or flexibility in thinking. So stop trying to argue with me and move on with your life.

Literally wrong on every point. If someone explains how something works or why there could be support for something it doesn't mean that they necessarily support it themselves. Also I am not morally opposed to disabled people getting their nails done for the millionth time. Is however a nail appointment to have your nails painted a good use of public money? That's a different question. By all means don't read what I write (it seems you haven't done this throughout the whole thread anyway) but don't then have the cheek to misrepresent me.

Plastictreees · 12/09/2025 15:24

@Marshmallow4545 You have represented yourself very clearly and your true colours are well and truly showing throughout the thread. You’ve received numerous feedback from many different posters about why you are wrong, and rather than reflect and show any learning or even basic compassion, you continue to write walls of texts saying the exact same thing. Best of luck to you.

Marshmallow4545 · 12/09/2025 15:36

Plastictreees · 12/09/2025 15:24

@Marshmallow4545 You have represented yourself very clearly and your true colours are well and truly showing throughout the thread. You’ve received numerous feedback from many different posters about why you are wrong, and rather than reflect and show any learning or even basic compassion, you continue to write walls of texts saying the exact same thing. Best of luck to you.

Some posters have agreed with me, some have disagreed. That's how debate works. I know you love to believe that you are superior and therefore in a position to dole out feedback to ignorant people that don't agree with you but that's simply not how MN works. We disagree. You can belittle, insult and stamp your feet as much as you like but the poll proves that lots of people share my viewpoint.

I am happy to leave it there. As I've said a million times. Let the passage of time prove who is right and wrong. If PIP remains in it's current form or a similar form then I will freely admit I'm wrong. The system would then be proven to be more financially sustainable and have more public support than I think. If however major changes happen within this parliamentary term or after the next election then this will prove that reform is needed and is coming imminently.

DipsyDee · 12/09/2025 15:40

youalright · 12/09/2025 14:34

You don't understand pip, you don't understand the pip process you don't understand the reality of severe disability, you don't work and you don't pay tax. Yet you have spent the last few days solidly on this thread arguing with people who do understand all these things. I think you need to either start listening and trying to learn or step away and focus on things that do effect you. That would be like me spending 3 days on a thread about teachers telling them how their views and life experience of teaching is wrong obviously i wouldn't do that as im not a teacher so I have no idea of the reality of that life. Its just bizzare and a bit pathetic don't you have friends or hobbies or something you could spend your time doing.

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They didn’t say they didn’t work.

DipsyDee · 12/09/2025 15:42

youalright · 12/09/2025 14:16

I dont think a person should have such a strong opinion on something that doesn't effect them

If you are a taxpayer you can and should have an opinion on where your taxes go

Plastictreees · 12/09/2025 15:42

Marshmallow4545 · 12/09/2025 15:36

Some posters have agreed with me, some have disagreed. That's how debate works. I know you love to believe that you are superior and therefore in a position to dole out feedback to ignorant people that don't agree with you but that's simply not how MN works. We disagree. You can belittle, insult and stamp your feet as much as you like but the poll proves that lots of people share my viewpoint.

I am happy to leave it there. As I've said a million times. Let the passage of time prove who is right and wrong. If PIP remains in it's current form or a similar form then I will freely admit I'm wrong. The system would then be proven to be more financially sustainable and have more public support than I think. If however major changes happen within this parliamentary term or after the next election then this will prove that reform is needed and is coming imminently.

The only person crying and stamping their feet on the thread has been you and your cronies.

Again - best of luck to you, why you keep bringing me up and wanting my attention is getting weird.

Kirbert2 · 12/09/2025 15:45

Marshmallow4545 · 12/09/2025 15:36

Some posters have agreed with me, some have disagreed. That's how debate works. I know you love to believe that you are superior and therefore in a position to dole out feedback to ignorant people that don't agree with you but that's simply not how MN works. We disagree. You can belittle, insult and stamp your feet as much as you like but the poll proves that lots of people share my viewpoint.

I am happy to leave it there. As I've said a million times. Let the passage of time prove who is right and wrong. If PIP remains in it's current form or a similar form then I will freely admit I'm wrong. The system would then be proven to be more financially sustainable and have more public support than I think. If however major changes happen within this parliamentary term or after the next election then this will prove that reform is needed and is coming imminently.

Do you think DLA needs reforming too or just PIP?

youalright · 12/09/2025 15:52

DipsyDee · 12/09/2025 15:42

If you are a taxpayer you can and should have an opinion on where your taxes go

I am a tax payer that marshmallow person isn't and im more then happy for my tax to go on supporting the most vulnerable in society and any future children or grandchildren that may be born or become disabled throughout their life where all paying into something that anyone of us may need in the future

youalright · 12/09/2025 15:53

DipsyDee · 12/09/2025 15:40

They didn’t say they didn’t work.

Their implying it so they either don't or are just a shit stirrer but they have a lot of spare time for somebody who has a full time job

TheSpiritofDarkandLonelyWater · 12/09/2025 15:59

DipsyDee · 12/09/2025 15:42

If you are a taxpayer you can and should have an opinion on where your taxes go

Where it goes. Not how individuals spend it.

DipsyDee · 12/09/2025 16:06

TheSpiritofDarkandLonelyWater · 12/09/2025 15:59

Where it goes. Not how individuals spend it.

i can talk about anything to do with where my taxes goes and I certainly won’t be told what I can and can’t talk about.

DipsyDee · 12/09/2025 16:08

youalright · 12/09/2025 15:53

Their implying it so they either don't or are just a shit stirrer but they have a lot of spare time for somebody who has a full time job

Implying is not saying they do or do not work. You simply have no idea so I really wouldn’t take a guess at it

DipsyDee · 12/09/2025 16:09

youalright · 12/09/2025 15:53

Their implying it so they either don't or are just a shit stirrer but they have a lot of spare time for somebody who has a full time job

So what if they have time to reply. So do others on this thread.

TheSpiritofDarkandLonelyWater · 12/09/2025 16:14

DipsyDee · 12/09/2025 16:06

i can talk about anything to do with where my taxes goes and I certainly won’t be told what I can and can’t talk about.

You have been insisting that vouchers for PIP, and all benefits, should be paid in vouchers.
Why this wont work has been explained several times.

DipsyDee · 12/09/2025 16:31

TheSpiritofDarkandLonelyWater · 12/09/2025 16:14

You have been insisting that vouchers for PIP, and all benefits, should be paid in vouchers.
Why this wont work has been explained several times.

oh please . I did not insist at all .i asked what was wrong with having them and it was explained why they wouldn’t work. And as a tax payer I can ask that question. Don’t believe there is a law against asking the question.

youalright · 12/09/2025 16:49

DipsyDee · 12/09/2025 16:08

Implying is not saying they do or do not work. You simply have no idea so I really wouldn’t take a guess at it

I specifically asked if they worked and paid tax.

Everlore · 12/09/2025 17:01

OonaStubbs · 12/09/2025 14:02

I'd imagine they just got on with things as best they could.

I was born completely blind, not generally something one can just get on with if denied benefits, the eyeballs I was born without would not have suddenly sprouted had I not been in receipt of DLA then PIP! I know exactly what would have happened to me had I been born in the days before the welfare state. Unless I was lucky enough to have had family willing and able to support me throughout my life I would have probably ended up in an institution for the blind. In the days before even basic adaptations for blind children, like Braille and white guide canes, had been developped, education for blind children was so difficult that most people would not have access to it at all. Therefore, had I been born in those times, I would have probably received no education, had no chance of employment and have ended up living in austere state-run workhouse-like accommodation in very basic bleak conditions, entirely reliant on the state but miserable, which I imagine sounds pretty appealing to some posters on here who seem to begrudge disabled people enjoying any quality of life.
I am fortunate not to live in those times because I am able to use my PIP to pay for adaptive technology, equipment and support which allows me to work and to live a rich and full life. I'm still disabled though, I'd say that I am 'getting on with it' as I am happy, fulfilled and productive, but if by 'getting on with it' you mean conquering my disability then I'm definitely failing since I remain disappointingly blind despite the benefits!

MyLimeGuide · 12/09/2025 17:01

Petrolitis · 12/09/2025 08:29

You'd have to be very very naive indeed to not believe there are many benefits fraudsters out there.

Go onto the office for national statistics and look at what benefits fraud costs the UK every year. It's horrific.

There are online resources dedicated to helping people scam their way onto PIP.

About 1000 new adults claim PIP every single day, and according to Radio 4's more or less programme, that doesn't even include about 400 people under the age of 18 who are pre existing claimants being moved onto PIP from other benefits.

The majority of those are claiming for mental health issues which are very hard to disprove, they're the new version of the bad back.

Go on, look up the fraud figures OP. Once you've seen them yourself it might give you a truer perspective.

I doubt it.

MyLimeGuide · 12/09/2025 17:02

MyLimeGuide · 12/09/2025 17:01

I doubt it.

I doubt OP (Amd others) would change perspective i mean!

MyLimeGuide · 12/09/2025 17:06

Plastictreees · 12/09/2025 09:16

Blah blah blah. I’d rather focus on tax evasion, but sure continue your efforts on reducing benefits for disabled people. Have fun!

What are your plans for this focus on tax evasion out of interest?

DipsyDee · 12/09/2025 17:12

youalright · 12/09/2025 16:49

I specifically asked if they worked and paid tax.

And what exactly does this have to do with you? They can also choose not to answer it. You do not have enough information to state as a fact that they don’t work or pay tax. You simply don’t know

Plastictreees · 12/09/2025 17:16

MyLimeGuide · 12/09/2025 17:06

What are your plans for this focus on tax evasion out of interest?

I don’t have plans. I just think it would be interesting to have some threads on that for a change, rather than benefit bashing.

youalright · 12/09/2025 17:17

DipsyDee · 12/09/2025 17:12

And what exactly does this have to do with you? They can also choose not to answer it. You do not have enough information to state as a fact that they don’t work or pay tax. You simply don’t know

But its ok for people to ask what people spend their pip on.

Kreepture · 12/09/2025 17:18

Marshmallow4545 · 12/09/2025 15:08

Honestly this has descended so far into the depths of ridiculousness that you're completely right. It is a bad use of my time but just for the record:

  1. You don't seem to know what projection means.
  2. I don't have any 'cronies'.
  3. I am not now nor have I ever played the victim. I pointed out that posts were offensive and rude. I haven't said they have upset me (they haven't). I was merely pointing out the hypocrisy from the 'be kind' brigade
  4. I am not looking to get joy from this thread. I simply don't like to see debate shut down on such an important topic. The narrative that anyone wanting reform to PIP is unkind and mean spirited is damaging and wrong. There are other ways to help vulnerable people and we should be able to discuss and explore this without hyperbole, emotive language and insults.

You aren't debating though.. Debate requires some give and take, you are simply listening to reply, not to understand.

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