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Do people really think PIP claimants are fraudsters?!

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Greedybilly · 09/09/2025 18:03

As someone with a chronic illness in the middle of claiming PIP I think it's important to point out it's very stressful to go through the process and actually get the benefit.
To those who were inferring it's an easy blag - I would say yes there will always be a few scammers who claim fraudulently ( though god knows how tbh?) the majority have to struggle for years/go through appeals/give up.
Just saying this for balance as I feel MN is turning slghtly into the Daily Fail.

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LakieLady · 10/09/2025 13:57

I've worked in welfare rights for 18 years and have been doing PIP applications since it was introduced. All my clients are working age and all have health problems, so I do loads of PIP applications.

Even with all that experience, knowledge and training, easy access to supporting evidence, regular updates on new case law from organisations like CPAG and others that welfare rights organisations generally belong to, I still have around a third of applications declined initially, but 100% success rate at appeals. This is the case for all my colleagues, too.

All I can say is that if there are really more than a handful of successful fraudulent applications, the frauds must be bloody clever.

Avantiagain · 10/09/2025 14:00

"What’s wrong with receiving vouchers?"

It won't be in the disabled persons best interests for a large number of reasons.

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:01

BlueandWhitePorcelain · 10/09/2025 03:38

No, I don’t agree with you. Its estimated there is £100 million lost to fraud in the PIP system, compared to £46.8 billion lost through tax fraud:

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/measuring-tax-gaps/1-tax-gaps-summary

So, imo it’s ludicrous to say the country can’t afford to lose £100 million in PIP, when nobody has the will to crack down on tax evasion of £46.8 billion! I know which one, I think the country can’t afford!

It’s just the ultra rich getting the poor to scapegoat each other, rather than the ultra rich, who are really impoverishing them!

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Neither is acceptable

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:13

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 10/09/2025 10:09

Well now:

She waited 18 months to see CAMHS
She would struggle to talk to a counsellor. She certainly couldn’t make an appointment herself.
She’s tried 2 antidepressants which didn’t work. Currently trying 3rd
She can ride a bike, but finds traffic and noise from traffic overwhelming.
She won’t go in a shop alone.
She couldn’t apply for PIP herself. Dh is her named person,
When we had the telephone assessment the assessor raised her number of points.
She can’t really interact with other people

Shes 19 years old. She doesn’t want this life. We don’t want her to have this life. It is what it is.

Then people like you come on bleating about it. What is she supposed to live on? Her parents? Is someone going to employ someone realistically who is too anxious to speak.

You act as if we’ve done nothing to help her. We’ve been trying everything since she was 14. She self harmed. No follow up appointment or support.

She wouldn’t be able to attend an interview. One of us had to speak at Gp or official stuff with her.

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You are not going to be around for ever to do these things for her. I’m sorry but she has to start doing somethings for herself so can gain confidence and live a fulfilled life.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 10/09/2025 14:18

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:13

You are not going to be around for ever to do these things for her. I’m sorry but she has to start doing somethings for herself so can gain confidence and live a fulfilled life.

Thank you for your advice.

I wonder why l never thought of this? I really must try harder mustn’t l?

vivainsomnia · 10/09/2025 14:18

Not all autistic children will get DLA though because it is based on care needs, you don't even need a diagnosis
The majority do. A diagnosis is the biggest piece of evidence.

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:20

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 10/09/2025 10:40

I said what is she supposed to live ON? Not with.

And there are expenses. Lots of them. She sometimes will see a counsellor. Oc we pay. She sees a psychiatrist. There’s nothing on the nhs. We have to pay. She isn’t earning. Who’s supposed to support her? If she goes anywhere one of us has to go with her. This can entail cost.

It’s your job to support her she’s your child

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 10/09/2025 14:24

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:20

It’s your job to support her she’s your child

😂😂😂

We do fucking support her. We just don’t have wads of money.

We can’t afford to support her entirely and neither is there an expectation to do so.

But you keep supporting yours until they’re 50 if you want. You must be minted.

Kirbert2 · 10/09/2025 14:24

vivainsomnia · 10/09/2025 14:18

Not all autistic children will get DLA though because it is based on care needs, you don't even need a diagnosis
The majority do. A diagnosis is the biggest piece of evidence.

No it isn't.

The biggest pieces of evidence will be from healthcare professionals and school staff stating how the child's needs are greater than their peers because that is what DLA is based on. Care needs greater than their peers.

A child could be awarded DLA without a diagnosis, especially as it often takes a long time for a child to be diagnosed when we're talking about the likes of autism. If it was considered the biggest piece of evidence, children would be required to have a diagnosis but that isn't the case.

TigerRag · 10/09/2025 14:24

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:20

It’s your job to support her she’s your child

How does a parent support their disabled child when they've had to give up work to care for said child?

Skybluepinky · 10/09/2025 14:24

There will always be some that are.

K0OLA1D · 10/09/2025 14:25

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:20

It’s your job to support her she’s your child

🙈🤣

This again. I'm 35, shall I ask my mum to support me too? Maybe she should go back to work

vivainsomnia · 10/09/2025 14:30

The biggest pieces of evidence will be from healthcare professionals and school staff stating how the child's needs are greater than their peers because that is what DLA is based on. Care needs greater than their peers
And the diagnosis provides a reason why this has lasted for more than 3 months and lastly to continue to do for years.

Care needs greater than peers is the blurriest mean for assessment. A child might need care to dress because they've never shown how to do it, they might have meltdowns in supermarkets because they've never been taken out to noisy, bright surrounding, say due to neglect. They might have needs than a child with autism. They won't get DLA because it's expected they can grow out of it in the right environment. So yes, diagnosis is essential.

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:30

TigerRag · 10/09/2025 13:39

Seriously?

It won't save money, disabled people already have plenty of admin, I'm sure plenty of companies won't accept vouchers, why is it ok for people on UC to spend their money on whatever but as someone on pip, I'm told what to spend it on?

Yes seriously. Of course companies would accept vouchers! It’s money at the end of the day. Why would it be unacceptable to give you supermarket vouchers for food etc or vouchers to help pay for utilities? And I would include UC in this too

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:30

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 10/09/2025 14:18

Thank you for your advice.

I wonder why l never thought of this? I really must try harder mustn’t l?

But it’s true

TigerRag · 10/09/2025 14:31

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:30

Yes seriously. Of course companies would accept vouchers! It’s money at the end of the day. Why would it be unacceptable to give you supermarket vouchers for food etc or vouchers to help pay for utilities? And I would include UC in this too

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Because you're telling people where to shop? Not everyone lives near big supermarkets

vivainsomnia · 10/09/2025 14:33

The idea of vouchers is ludicrous. How to better divide disabled people from non disabled. Totally undignified.

What is needed is a change to the assessment. The way it is written and the way it is assessed. It needs to be much more linked to evidence of extra costs rather than evidence of needs.

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:34

TigerRag · 10/09/2025 14:31

Because you're telling people where to shop? Not everyone lives near big supermarkets

Then you have to make it work. Nothing in life is perfect. You can also get deliveries from supermarkets which is a damn sight easier than going into store

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:35

vivainsomnia · 10/09/2025 14:33

The idea of vouchers is ludicrous. How to better divide disabled people from non disabled. Totally undignified.

What is needed is a change to the assessment. The way it is written and the way it is assessed. It needs to be much more linked to evidence of extra costs rather than evidence of needs.

What if it were vouchers toward utility bills?

TigerRag · 10/09/2025 14:36

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:35

What if it were vouchers toward utility bills?

What if we trusted disabled people enough to manage their own money and spend it how they see fit?

K0OLA1D · 10/09/2025 14:37

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:35

What if it were vouchers toward utility bills?

How about leaving it as it is?

vivainsomnia · 10/09/2025 14:37

What if it were vouchers toward utility bills?
Everyone has utility bills, disabled or not. How do you plan to separate which utility should be paid by pip because its additional due to the disability. How do you difference those who gave the heating on all day because of a chronic conditions as opposed to those who work from home.

This concept is abhorrent!

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:39

K0OLA1D · 10/09/2025 14:37

How about leaving it as it is?

😆

DipsyDee · 10/09/2025 14:40

vivainsomnia · 10/09/2025 14:37

What if it were vouchers toward utility bills?
Everyone has utility bills, disabled or not. How do you plan to separate which utility should be paid by pip because its additional due to the disability. How do you difference those who gave the heating on all day because of a chronic conditions as opposed to those who work from home.

This concept is abhorrent!

I hope you’re not having an attack of the vapours

Kirbert2 · 10/09/2025 14:40

vivainsomnia · 10/09/2025 14:30

The biggest pieces of evidence will be from healthcare professionals and school staff stating how the child's needs are greater than their peers because that is what DLA is based on. Care needs greater than their peers
And the diagnosis provides a reason why this has lasted for more than 3 months and lastly to continue to do for years.

Care needs greater than peers is the blurriest mean for assessment. A child might need care to dress because they've never shown how to do it, they might have meltdowns in supermarkets because they've never been taken out to noisy, bright surrounding, say due to neglect. They might have needs than a child with autism. They won't get DLA because it's expected they can grow out of it in the right environment. So yes, diagnosis is essential.

If a diagnosis is so essential then why isn't it required?

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