What this man said about my daughter - huge red flag, right ??

[plahin]

I play a social sport and recently got to know a man in his 60s who also plays.

the conversation of kids came up and I said I had a daughter, who’s 5. And he went ‘ is she a bitch yet ?’…

I mean that’s fucking weird isn’t it ? I said, no she’s 5..and moved on and went home.

but someone who says that can’t be quite right, surely ? He has one grown up daughter himself.

AIBU to keep my distance big time here or am I overreacting to someone just clumsily trying to be funny ?

Just a misogynist

Total misogyny. Certainly not the type of guy I would want to have anything to do with.

Misogynist. I would have been disgusted.

That's disgusting - I would have given him short shrift for that, even if he meant it as a joke.

The thing with jokes is... the main prerequisite is... that they have to be funny.

That would be a horrible thing to say about a grown woman but absolutely awful to say about a five year old innocent girl.
What on earth is wrong with people.

That’s really disgusting. Major red flag.

Honestly I don’t even know what I said. I think I said what I wrote, but I’m not sure. I was just really shocked and got out of there as fast as possible.

Jesus Christ that’s appalling! I’d have been so shocked any semblance of politeness would have left my body!

What a rancid man. His poor daughter.

Definitely odd. Benefit of the doubt would be that he had difficult teenage years with his daughter so it’s just the first thing that came out of his mouth. Never going to come across well though is it.

How vile and totally inappropriate. If he spoke to me again I'd just walk away.

He honestly doesn't sound right in the head.

Most mysoginist are still socially aware enough not to say something so unhinged

Gross. At least you know who he is, now.

Yeah, avoid him

God help me

Awful.

Nasty creep. Yes, avoid.

What a revolting man a total misogynist

Girls from a young age are so often labelled manipulative

What a fucking weirdo....give him a wide berth

Uber creep.

God, why do (some) men say such twatty cunty things, and think they're terribly funny?!

I have had experience of a couple of different men saying similar shit to me this past few weeks, and can't believe that even in my 50s, in the 2020s, I am having to listen to this shit! Really sexist, creepy, pervy stuff that belongs in the dark ages. I don't know why they do it/say it. Do they think they're funny, clever, charming? I don't know, but it makes me feel queasy. Whenever a random man tries to be funny, I have this look >>>

And saying this about a little girl is sick and disturbing.

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Are your absolutely sure that's what he said? It's very odd if correct, appalling actually.

I’m desperate to hear why 5% of people voted you were being unreasonable… how can anyone justify that?

Horrible. He probably has daughters who are all nc with him!

Wonder if he was a dick at 5

Coz he sure is one now.

what a vile man.