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It is the 21st Century. This is bullshit!

185 replies

Dinosaurshoebox · 05/09/2025 20:44

My daughter started a new school.
She has come home with 3 seperate sets of paper.

Each with 2 pages printed front and back.

2 of the are the exact same.

Why the fuck do I have to wrote out her address 3 seperate times?! Why do i have to wrotes my email 4 times?! Her name so many times..
And on and on.

Im not doing the duplicate one. They can look at the other one.

But seriously its 2025! There should be a better system.

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Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:31

Lol at the annoyance over forms when your day job is EHCPs

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:32

WonderfulSmith · 06/09/2025 19:28

You don’t drink? I stopped drinking until I started teaching….

No, it's strange reasons but also something Im not interested at present.
No drinking issue though so I may go again.

Honestly, this aside i love teaching. Every day is hard but so brilliant and I've recommended it to many people especially older individuals looking for a career change

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Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:32

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:31

Lol at the annoyance over forms when your day job is EHCPs

No EHCPs here. That's and England thing.

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Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:39

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:32

No EHCPs here. That's and England thing.

Acronyms different . Bureaucracy, planning and documentation is the same

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:40

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:39

Acronyms different . Bureaucracy, planning and documentation is the same

Its not bad at the moment. The department I'm currently in means it's more updating than creating due to ages.

But it's part of the job and the stuff I have to do makes sense has logic and is important to the young person.

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Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:43

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:40

Its not bad at the moment. The department I'm currently in means it's more updating than creating due to ages.

But it's part of the job and the stuff I have to do makes sense has logic and is important to the young person.

In September? No new intake?

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:44

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:43

In September? No new intake?

Not from externally no.

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NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 23:31

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:26

Im not going to respond to tou now because while the others were competent adults who are choosing to be bullies I have deep concerns regarding your abilities.

OK?

You're the one here who has been actively rude and aggressive, had posts deleted and has even admitted to being aggressive...

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 08:29

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 23:31

OK?

You're the one here who has been actively rude and aggressive, had posts deleted and has even admitted to being aggressive...

Sweetheart there's nothing passive about me.

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CommissarySushi · 07/09/2025 08:52

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 08:29

Sweetheart there's nothing passive about me.

😂

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 09:23

Good lord just follow the teaching standards , I beg you

NoThanksNeeded · 07/09/2025 09:36

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 08:29

Sweetheart there's nothing passive about me.

I didn't say there was?

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 09:39

NoThanksNeeded · 07/09/2025 09:36

I didn't say there was?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

RhaenysRocks · 07/09/2025 09:43

Pavingprincess · 05/09/2025 21:04

And they send it every fucking year. Just ask me if anything has changed. I say no. Neither me nor the school office have to do anything more! Oh but that would make too much sense for them so no

But people don't. They forget and then we don't have the info that someone has developed an allergy or asthma. Making you put it in from scratch means it's more likely we have the info. See the thread the other day about people being morons. You have to break everything into the most simple steps to try and get what you need.

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 10:20

RhaenysRocks · 07/09/2025 09:43

But people don't. They forget and then we don't have the info that someone has developed an allergy or asthma. Making you put it in from scratch means it's more likely we have the info. See the thread the other day about people being morons. You have to break everything into the most simple steps to try and get what you need.

Then thats the patents problem.
If there is a bad outcome.the parents should be held to account for their failings.

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Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:39

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 10:20

Then thats the patents problem.
If there is a bad outcome.the parents should be held to account for their failings.

You work in SEND , this is your bread and butter

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:40

I refer you again to the teacher standards

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 10:43

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:39

You work in SEND , this is your bread and butter

Yes and I have more than enough experience of lax, useless parents who i believe should be held accountable.

But thats the not way the system is and I am very good at doing my exact job and staying in my lane.

That doesn't mean I dont have opinions on matters.

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Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:47

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 10:43

Yes and I have more than enough experience of lax, useless parents who i believe should be held accountable.

But thats the not way the system is and I am very good at doing my exact job and staying in my lane.

That doesn't mean I dont have opinions on matters.

Teacher. Standards.
Particularly thinking about online footprint

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 10:51

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:47

Teacher. Standards.
Particularly thinking about online footprint

Which is why I use and email only associated with Mumsnet after the hacking.

I change username often
I dont give out to much personal I for at 1 time.

Also nothing I have said here goes against my contract.

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Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:56

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 10:51

Which is why I use and email only associated with Mumsnet after the hacking.

I change username often
I dont give out to much personal I for at 1 time.

Also nothing I have said here goes against my contract.

You don't feel embarrassed about how you have conducted yourself or the impression you have given as a trusted member of staff who works with the most vulnerable population?

NoThanksNeeded · 07/09/2025 11:16

A SEND teacher not wanting to make sure they have all the details is worrying

Dinosaurshoebox · 07/09/2025 11:16

Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 10:56

You don't feel embarrassed about how you have conducted yourself or the impression you have given as a trusted member of staff who works with the most vulnerable population?

Not at all. Like I said I believe in meeting adult bullies with maximum aggression at all times

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Havesomecommonsense · 07/09/2025 11:40

OK then. Not like any SEND professional I've met but scary if true

Catsbreakfast · 07/09/2025 11:50

Dinosaurshoebox · 05/09/2025 20:56

And they would be better people than you. Maybe you should aspire to be more like them?

Are you always this rude and obnoxious? Learn to spell for starters before you lay into people. I feel bad for your daughter. What an example you are setting.