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It is the 21st Century. This is bullshit!

185 replies

Dinosaurshoebox · 05/09/2025 20:44

My daughter started a new school.
She has come home with 3 seperate sets of paper.

Each with 2 pages printed front and back.

2 of the are the exact same.

Why the fuck do I have to wrote out her address 3 seperate times?! Why do i have to wrotes my email 4 times?! Her name so many times..
And on and on.

Im not doing the duplicate one. They can look at the other one.

But seriously its 2025! There should be a better system.

OP posts:
NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 18:43

The only bully is the one with the deleted posts for bullying and offensive language

nomas · 06/09/2025 18:44

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 18:43

The only bully is the one with the deleted posts for bullying and offensive language

What did OP say that was bullying or offensive?

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:45

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 18:43

The only bully is the one with the deleted posts for bullying and offensive language

No. Critiquing someone's spelling and Grammer when it's unneeded especially when the meaning is easily understood is bullying and that's what posters have done.
That is not deniable.

OP posts:
CommissarySushi · 06/09/2025 18:48

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:45

No. Critiquing someone's spelling and Grammer when it's unneeded especially when the meaning is easily understood is bullying and that's what posters have done.
That is not deniable.

For what it's worth, my first comment was intended to be light-hearted. I did not expect you to respond so aggressively, I just thought it was a funny typo.

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:48

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 18:43

You do sometimes get emails warning you

Nope. Not a thing.

OP posts:
Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:49

CommissarySushi · 06/09/2025 18:48

For what it's worth, my first comment was intended to be light-hearted. I did not expect you to respond so aggressively, I just thought it was a funny typo.

I hope you take the time to reflect on that to do better in the future.

OP posts:
CommissarySushi · 06/09/2025 18:52

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:49

I hope you take the time to reflect on that to do better in the future.

And maybe you can reflect on some of your behaviour too.

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:57

CommissarySushi · 06/09/2025 18:52

And maybe you can reflect on some of your behaviour too.

Im fully happy with my response.
I want to confront bullies with as much aggression and fight as possible.

Of course what happens here always happen and they play the victim, but I will keep at it.

Let's make bullies unhappy. Theyre bad people and deserve this and worse.

OP posts:
awkwardasfuck · 06/09/2025 19:01
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NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:04

nomas · 06/09/2025 18:44

What did OP say that was bullying or offensive?

Maybe the part where she told someone they weren't getting enough sex?

Or where she called someone a twat?

Or whatever was said in the deleted posts which apparently included something about women om Gaza...

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:05

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:45

No. Critiquing someone's spelling and Grammer when it's unneeded especially when the meaning is easily understood is bullying and that's what posters have done.
That is not deniable.

Well that means all teachers are bullies then...

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:06

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:49

I hope you take the time to reflect on that to do better in the future.

Hahahahahaha spoken like a person whose career is working with vulnerable youngsters

nomas · 06/09/2025 19:06

CommissarySushi · 06/09/2025 18:48

For what it's worth, my first comment was intended to be light-hearted. I did not expect you to respond so aggressively, I just thought it was a funny typo.

I think you knew the first post often sets the tone for the thread and that you knew exactly what you were doing.

What was the own goal anyway? OP never set herself up as a spelling bee champion in her post.

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:06

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:04

Maybe the part where she told someone they weren't getting enough sex?

Or where she called someone a twat?

Or whatever was said in the deleted posts which apparently included something about women om Gaza...

Lol

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:07

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 18:57

Im fully happy with my response.
I want to confront bullies with as much aggression and fight as possible.

Of course what happens here always happen and they play the victim, but I will keep at it.

Let's make bullies unhappy. Theyre bad people and deserve this and worse.

You're openly admitting to being a vile and rude person now

Excellent

Havesomecommonsense · 06/09/2025 19:07

Unneeded
Yep deffo a teacher

nomas · 06/09/2025 19:09

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:04

Maybe the part where she told someone they weren't getting enough sex?

Or where she called someone a twat?

Or whatever was said in the deleted posts which apparently included something about women om Gaza...

She didn’t actually call them a twat.

And those people were mocking her spelling and yet reported OP for her posts. People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:10

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:05

Well that means all teachers are bullies then...

So you have the critical thinking skills of a slug. Thats great.

OP posts:
nomas · 06/09/2025 19:11

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:10

So you have the critical thinking skills of a slug. Thats great.

☺️

CommissarySushi · 06/09/2025 19:15

nomas · 06/09/2025 19:06

I think you knew the first post often sets the tone for the thread and that you knew exactly what you were doing.

What was the own goal anyway? OP never set herself up as a spelling bee champion in her post.

You can think whatever you like. It was the OPs aggressiveness that set the tone.

I have no clue what the own goal was either though. That wasn't my post.

awkwardasfuck · 06/09/2025 19:16

This went well!

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:20

nomas · 06/09/2025 19:09

She didn’t actually call them a twat.

And those people were mocking her spelling and yet reported OP for her posts. People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.

Edited

She did call them a twat. It got deleted for being offensive to another poster

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:21

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:10

So you have the critical thinking skills of a slug. Thats great.

You said its bullying to correct spelling and grammar if meaning is obvious. Ergo teachers are bullies

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 19:26

NoThanksNeeded · 06/09/2025 19:21

You said its bullying to correct spelling and grammar if meaning is obvious. Ergo teachers are bullies

Im not going to respond to tou now because while the others were competent adults who are choosing to be bullies I have deep concerns regarding your abilities.

OP posts:
WonderfulSmith · 06/09/2025 19:28

Dinosaurshoebox · 06/09/2025 17:57

I've had a very productive day.
The forms are as completed as they're going to be.
And I don't drink.

You don’t drink? I stopped drinking until I started teaching….