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Anyone moved to London in their 50s and loved it?

63 replies

malificent7 · 04/09/2025 04:38

I sm bored of the country but I am not on a high wage ( nhs bandv6). Dh a similar wage. . Would it be mad to move to London?
Visiting recently mafe me long for the big smoke.

OP posts:
theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 04/09/2025 10:05

I know someone who moved from the Lake District to London after they retired in their early 60s!

Still loving it 10 years later

Rent out your place and rent for a year to see if it works, but worth giving it a go

As a general point I think moving into an urban centre is a good idea for the last chapters of life - much easier for transport, making friends, getting out

I am in London in my 50s and while I love seeing family in the country and friends in smaller cities I can't see me moving.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 04/09/2025 10:07

Yamamm · 04/09/2025 04:55

No but I’m that age range and lots of London friends having that conversation about whether to stay or move out to retire. Most want to stay and make the most of everything London has to offer (inc the free travel!).

Depends what you can afford really. A house with a garden in Richmond - great! If it’s a studio flat in a sketchy area not so much.

Those are two extremes though, there are plenty of nice flats in leafy areas with shares of gardens from zone 3 outwards - lots of SE London is leafy and reasonably affordable if you're happy with a false

Denim4ever · 04/09/2025 10:13

We are less than an hour out of London on a fast train. I've enjoyed visiting much more since getting my senior railcard.

My bro moved out of London in his 50s after living there since uni. He didn't regret it, but I've always felt that I wouldn't have done that

TofuEater · 04/09/2025 16:18

I'm older than you, live in what I imagine most people would call a sketchy part of London and love it. But you need to be realistic about prices - you won't get a one bedroom flat anywhere for less than £250,000 and anywhere 'nice' you can add a £100k minimum to that. But if your budget allows, go for it!

greengreyblue · 04/09/2025 16:24

Definitely would. Our parents were Londoners who moved out so we have always gone back to see family. One DD now lives there and the other commutes there for work. Ideally we’d be somewhere in a leafy outskirt so we could get in easily but also have the benefits of green spaces and countryside. But that costs £££

Manthide · 04/09/2025 16:37

I can definitely see the appeal of moving to a city, not necessarily London, when you get older. I'm 60 next month and once dd3 leaves home (she's 17) I'm thinking of upping sticks and moving somewhere livelier with better public transport.

Fireflybaby · 04/09/2025 16:47

50 was old when we used to afford to retire at that age... these days people in the 70s are planning their retirement lives in a totally different country, let alone moving to London. If you want to move, move. Why regret it?

Boomer55 · 04/09/2025 16:48

As a Londoner, I moved back, in my 50's, to a London suburb, after some years in a Sussex village (oh, God.,,😳😳😳😳).

I love being back. 👍🍾🥂

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 04/09/2025 16:58

My aunt, 70's just bought a little flat over looking the thames. It's such a safe area, really clean... she loves it. pops over to the Tate, takes the water taxis... talks to people all the time. If she lived in a cottage int he country she would just get old and die lonely

doubleshotcappuccino · 04/09/2025 18:55

HundredMilesAnHour · 04/09/2025 10:02

I’m 55 and live in E1 right on the boundary of zone 1 (so Spitalfields). I don’t think MN would call it a naice area as it’s a real mix of urban grit, Bangladeshis, bankers, creatives, students and hipsters. But I love it! There’s always something going on and it’s walkable to all of central London. I own my flat in a lovely gated development with gardens and fountains and I know most of my neighbours as it’s a real community. Everyone who visits is always surprised how friendly everyone is here and also what an “oasis of calm’ it is (compared to the madness outside lol).

My 60-something cousins came to visit (from the NW) recently and they were blown away by what a great place it is to live. Over the years I’ve had so many (well-meaning) digs from my family (and school friends) about me living in London so it was lovely to see some of them understand why I’m here. Not just understand even, they wished they could move here after experiencing it! They loved that we could walk to the Tower of London (as a local resident it only costs me £1 for a ticket), Sky Garden, Borough Market, St Paul’s etc and the quality of food and coffee just blew their minds. I’m lucky that I live so centrally (I can walk to work in 20 mins) and that I’ve paid my mortgage off but there are plenty of people living near me with low incomes and they seem to manage just fine. London is great for free events and things to do.

I’m in London too but we are mulling a move more centrally and this sounds amazing ! Just the kind of vibrant life we would want at 54

Westfacing · 05/09/2025 07:12

hkathy · 04/09/2025 16:51

I'm in the banana!

Westfacing · 05/09/2025 07:15

But there are plenty of nice places outside the banana - London is Big!

IMissSparkling · 05/09/2025 07:20

Can't think of anything worse, personally. I'm late 40s and every time I am in London I can't wait to leave and get home to Scotland! Whereas in my 20s I loved visiting. But would never have wanted to live there even then.

PermanentTemporary · 05/09/2025 07:24

@HundredMilesAnHour that really is living the dream. I don’t think I would do it as we are happy where we are but what a great life you have built.

HundredMilesAnHour · 05/09/2025 10:39

PermanentTemporary · 05/09/2025 07:24

@HundredMilesAnHour that really is living the dream. I don’t think I would do it as we are happy where we are but what a great life you have built.

Thank you @PermanentTemporary and @doubleshotcappuccino too. I appreciate that I’m very lucky. A lot of people (almost everyone!) thought I was bonkers when I bought my flat because the area was pretty rough (by MN standards very rough!) but I wanted to be as central as I could on my limited budget and this was just about affordable. I was actually renting in a ‘naice’ area in North London at the time but had split up with my partner and was desperate to find a place of my own. I work in banking so being between the City and Canary Wharf was an ideal location and logically I thought the area had to improve because there will be other people and businesses who think the same as me. And boy has it improved!!!

I must admit that sometimes I take it for granted so it’s good to see it through other people’s eyes and get a reminder of how lucky I am.

I’m now about to casually stroll through Spitalfields to my office near Liverpool St and feel slightly guilty that some people spend longer waiting for their train than it takes me to walk to work.😝

SoloSofa24 · 05/09/2025 14:25

Westfacing · 05/09/2025 07:12

I'm in the banana!

I think the residents of very MN-approved 'naice' places like Dulwich, Ealing, Greenwich, Blackheath etc might take issue with the banana concept, but then it is just a stupid idea designed to generate publicity for the rather attention-seeking man who invented it...

I am in my 50s, recently moved back to London (to a non-banana location!) and am extremely happy with my decision, so I would say to the OP, go for it, it's a great place to be when you are an empty-nester!

Fayaway · 05/09/2025 14:41

SoloSofa24 · 05/09/2025 14:25

I think the residents of very MN-approved 'naice' places like Dulwich, Ealing, Greenwich, Blackheath etc might take issue with the banana concept, but then it is just a stupid idea designed to generate publicity for the rather attention-seeking man who invented it...

I am in my 50s, recently moved back to London (to a non-banana location!) and am extremely happy with my decision, so I would say to the OP, go for it, it's a great place to be when you are an empty-nester!

I'm borderline banana! But don't understand how Cockfosters is in and Stoke Newington out? Who cares... I'm similar age and situation to you - my children were encouraging me to downsize to be here.

greengreyblue · 05/09/2025 16:08

That banana is inaccurate.

Treeteas · 05/09/2025 16:34

I’d love to do it but housing costs are too high.

OhamIreally · 05/09/2025 16:59

SoloSofa24 · 05/09/2025 14:25

I think the residents of very MN-approved 'naice' places like Dulwich, Ealing, Greenwich, Blackheath etc might take issue with the banana concept, but then it is just a stupid idea designed to generate publicity for the rather attention-seeking man who invented it...

I am in my 50s, recently moved back to London (to a non-banana location!) and am extremely happy with my decision, so I would say to the OP, go for it, it's a great place to be when you are an empty-nester!

I looked at the banana and thought “Oh that will piss off the residents of Dulwich 😁”

greengreyblue · 05/09/2025 17:06

I have a retired uncle who lives in Bloomsbury and has a great time Being retired on a good pension in central London, what’s not to like? Easy transport around and out of London, top hospitals, great entertainment. I’m in.

LatteLady · 05/09/2025 21:54

I moved back in my mid-50s, and have not regretted a moment. I now live in South London, and if you had told me that when I lived in East London 40 yrs ago I would have laughed in your face.

The positives for me are free transport from 60, excellent public transport. I can be in Covent Garden in 25 mins, good local parks, great coffee, lots to do with new people…

Access to museums and galleries, Farmers’ Markets, spotting Jersey Tiger Moths in the garden and a cheaper hairdresser at the top of the road. For me it works.

Galliano · 06/09/2025 07:47

I’m thinking of making this move. Aside from the banana suggestion really interested to know where anyone would recommed living (already had thoughts of Dulwich, Blackheath). Work would be near St Paul’s if I transferred my existing role

Romeiswheretheheartis · 06/09/2025 08:29

I've lived in London and would love to move back in my retirement. What holds me back is that I'd only be able to afford a flat but I feel like the service charges would be like having a permanent mortgage. I don't know how people afford the service charges in retirement unless really well off.