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Extremely hacked off by GP. Won’t prescribe Mounjaro

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Hakunatomato · 02/09/2025 09:57

I have been self funding Mounjaro for the past year, and have a debt on credit card because of it. As a result, my HBa1c has gone from 19 to 5.5. I have lost almost 5 stones, now down to 16 .stones so effectively I have put my diabetes into remission as a result. I can no longer afford it because of the price rises and have asked my GP to start prescribing it. Their response is that because my blood sugar is now nearly normal they won’t do it, despite me having a bmi of 46. When I finish the course I have I now have to watch my good work go in to reverse and watch my health decline. All for the sake of the £30 a week is would cost my GP at wholesale NHS cost. If I put the weight back on again and wait while my blood sugar levels rise and I will have to apply again. I am so pissed off.. The relatively small cost as opposed to what the bills will be when my Diabetes returns doesn’t make sense.

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Ontheedgeofit · 02/09/2025 13:16

OP please come back and confirm that at a bmi of 46 and weighing 16stone that you are in fact very short… ie 1.48m.

Yuja · 02/09/2025 13:17

So entitled - why should the NHS fund this when they can’t afford to fund all sorts of things that would improve people’s lives? What about the IVF for people who aren’t eligible due to postcode or other issues? What about the physio that people aren’t getting in good time after accidents? What about the people with anorexia and bulimia who can’t get the counselling or therapy needed to recover? Why is your problem more important than those? As others have said you now need to continue the habits you’ve built on MJ or find the money

Comedycook · 02/09/2025 13:17

rocketrabbit · 02/09/2025 13:13

But when you're thin, you're eating less, right?
Proving that it's not the noise, it's the food. You can live with the noise and not act on it.

Living with the noise and resisting it is extremely difficult and has a huge effect on my mental health. I describe it as being in a constant argument with myself
..eat, don't eat, eat, don't eat. It turns me into an all or nothing person when it comes to food...so restrict then binge rather than consistent sensible choices. It's extremely unhealthy really. Again, if you haven't experienced it you won't understand it.

DiscoBob · 02/09/2025 13:17

I heard that the NHS are very anti prescribing WLI to people who previously self funded. The fact you now claim it's too expensive isn't a good enough reason. I do understand that as why should they suddenly have to find the funding for thousands of people who now say they can't afford it?

jonthebatiste · 02/09/2025 13:17

You’re complaining that the taxpayer won’t fund something for you, and blaming the point-of-contact for it. Write to your MP and the Health Secretary; fund it privately; do overtime; cut back on other things. Deliberately making yourself sick to get something for free is the heights of both stupidity and entitlement.

MrsJPBP · 02/09/2025 13:17

Oneeyedonkey · 02/09/2025 13:14

I'm certainly not fat phobic.
I'm overweight myself.
Could I walk 3 miles a day if I'm not in work, yes if I could be bothered
Do I really need 3 biscuits with my tea, no but why the hell not?
Do I need 2 glasses if wine at night, no, but what the hell.
There, 600 extra extra calories, on top of 3 square meals.
It's not rocket science

OK, so how overweight are you? Has this been a lifelong issue or a recent development?

Perhaps you could try to suspend your disbelief for a moment that other people may have different experiences to you? And that what applies to you might not actually be relevant to others who have underlying conditions, etc?

NeatKoala · 02/09/2025 13:17

Medication exist and is given to help and survive the worst withdrawals symptoms, it's not there to stop addicts and alcoholics to BE addicts and alcoholics and fight it the rest of their lives, that's why there are so many programs and steps to try to help.

Why is it a fat shamer to point out that when you look at obesity like an actual addiction, and people need to accept to work on it possibly every day for the rest of their life, instead of waiting for a miracle drug to do everything for them?

DiscoBob · 02/09/2025 13:18

jonthebatiste · 02/09/2025 13:17

You’re complaining that the taxpayer won’t fund something for you, and blaming the point-of-contact for it. Write to your MP and the Health Secretary; fund it privately; do overtime; cut back on other things. Deliberately making yourself sick to get something for free is the heights of both stupidity and entitlement.

This.

beAsensible1 · 02/09/2025 13:18

What about trying wegovy or retratruide? Or the pills which are a bit cheaper?

FriendofDorothy · 02/09/2025 13:19

This has always been my worry with WLI - the aftermath of individuals who are reliant solely on mediation to manage their weight without making long-term changes to maintain a weight loss.

Oneeyedonkey · 02/09/2025 13:20

MrsJPBP · 02/09/2025 13:17

OK, so how overweight are you? Has this been a lifelong issue or a recent development?

Perhaps you could try to suspend your disbelief for a moment that other people may have different experiences to you? And that what applies to you might not actually be relevant to others who have underlying conditions, etc?

Im 13 stone.
5ft 2.
A good size 16, bordering on 18.

MrsJPBP · 02/09/2025 13:21

NeatKoala · 02/09/2025 13:17

Medication exist and is given to help and survive the worst withdrawals symptoms, it's not there to stop addicts and alcoholics to BE addicts and alcoholics and fight it the rest of their lives, that's why there are so many programs and steps to try to help.

Why is it a fat shamer to point out that when you look at obesity like an actual addiction, and people need to accept to work on it possibly every day for the rest of their life, instead of waiting for a miracle drug to do everything for them?

So you are also of the opinion then, that heroin addicts don’t need methadone to manage withdrawal (just use willpower!) or that alcoholics shouldn’t be prescribed Antabuse - because they should just use willpower to stop drinking?

MrsJPBP · 02/09/2025 13:22

Oneeyedonkey · 02/09/2025 13:20

Im 13 stone.
5ft 2.
A good size 16, bordering on 18.

And has it always been a battle with your weight lifelong ir is it middle aged spread?

ChelseaDetective · 02/09/2025 13:22

Hakunatomato · 02/09/2025 10:27

That is the wholesale cost to the NHS. They are not charging them the exorbitant rates they now charge the general public.

That doesn’t answer the question. Where did you get this information?

FriendofDorothy · 02/09/2025 13:24

MrsJPBP · 02/09/2025 13:21

So you are also of the opinion then, that heroin addicts don’t need methadone to manage withdrawal (just use willpower!) or that alcoholics shouldn’t be prescribed Antabuse - because they should just use willpower to stop drinking?

So.... I work in drug treatment and we all know that Antabuse doesn't work unless people do the psychological work alongside it. Otherwise people just stop taking it that day so they can have a drink.

It's not much different with WLI - they are only likely to work long term if you also change what goes on between your ears.

Oneeyedonkey · 02/09/2025 13:25

MrsJPBP · 02/09/2025 13:22

And has it always been a battle with your weight lifelong ir is it middle aged spread?

I'd say the last 5 years ive been putting it on slowly.
I've got lazy and complacent, but I'm struggling with fitness now, out of breath on hills, struggling to get on and off my sunbed on holiday.
I'm embarrassed by myself.
But there's only 1 person who can help me.
Me.

MrsJPBP · 02/09/2025 13:25

FriendofDorothy · 02/09/2025 13:24

So.... I work in drug treatment and we all know that Antabuse doesn't work unless people do the psychological work alongside it. Otherwise people just stop taking it that day so they can have a drink.

It's not much different with WLI - they are only likely to work long term if you also change what goes on between your ears.

I agree, but if you’re saying nobody should be prescribed WLI because the fatties should rein themselves in surely you also apply that in other situations?

NeatKoala · 02/09/2025 13:26

MrsJPBP · 02/09/2025 13:21

So you are also of the opinion then, that heroin addicts don’t need methadone to manage withdrawal (just use willpower!) or that alcoholics shouldn’t be prescribed Antabuse - because they should just use willpower to stop drinking?

yes, yes, that's exactly what I said in the post YOU ARE LITTERALY QUOTING....

Give me strength...😂😂

Fluffytoebeanz · 02/09/2025 13:26

As someone who had to pay £30k to sort out a condition that isn't covered by the NHS I totally understand your frustration, and am paying £200 a month for my daughter's ADHD meds because of the bonkers system. But my husband has type 1 diabetes and has been brilliantly looked after by the NHS and I know what my friends in the US have had to pay for diabetes and cancer treatments. One went bankrupt paying for cancer treatment before she died.

So while I understand your frustration, we actually get it pretty good in the country.

MrsJPBP · 02/09/2025 13:27

Oneeyedonkey · 02/09/2025 13:25

I'd say the last 5 years ive been putting it on slowly.
I've got lazy and complacent, but I'm struggling with fitness now, out of breath on hills, struggling to get on and off my sunbed on holiday.
I'm embarrassed by myself.
But there's only 1 person who can help me.
Me.

I would agree with you. And also point out that for you this is a recent thing and the cause is clear. Can you really not understand that there might be different situations in which your logic of “fatties are gross, just stop shovelling biscuits in your gob all the time” might not be helpful or relevant?

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 02/09/2025 13:27

NeatKoala · 02/09/2025 13:14

no one is denying the right of the OP to use medication, just saying she can pay for it herself now.

In an ideal world, the NHS would support EVERYTHING and in timely manner, that needs to be supported, from dental work to cancer treatment. We all agree on this.

Sadly, it's not an ideal world. The OP can pay for the medication, because the choice could be, now that the weight has been loss, to not even take it and do the work to maintain... People like the OP are not, and should not, be the current priority, when other patients need a lot more help!

A kid can't make his teeth not need braces, you can however do the steps to not regain the weight you've lost...

@NeatKoala - I'm sorry if my post wasn't clear. My issue is not with the OP, or with any one other poster - but with the impression I'm getting from some posts that people who have achieved weight loss using WLIs or medication have cheated and don't deserve any credit for losing the weight.

As I said, surely what matters is that the burden on the NHS of obesity is being reduced?

FriendofDorothy · 02/09/2025 13:28

MrsJPBP · 02/09/2025 13:25

I agree, but if you’re saying nobody should be prescribed WLI because the fatties should rein themselves in surely you also apply that in other situations?

Of course.... and we do.

In terms of drug treatment we aren't going to throw medication at people indefinitely if they are not prepared to engage with the process of (at least attempting) to make some changes themselves!

Comedycook · 02/09/2025 13:28

Surely if you think fat people should just eat less...you also think that anorexic people should just eat more? I mean why is it so difficult?

AzurePanda · 02/09/2025 13:29

Just do what a lot of us have to do, exercise regularly and watch your calorie intake. And yes, it’s not easy - I am hungry for much of the time but value my health above pretty much everything else.

beAsensible1 · 02/09/2025 13:29

but if you have to take MJ at maintenance for the rest of your life im sure the calculation for the NHS is that weightloss surgery is cheaper in the long run no? and without the added admin of consistent check ins with the GP etc.

and the whole sale NHS price for MJ is £90

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