To ask for the ultimate vote on separate duvets vs shared on a super-king bed

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Just that really. We're about to buy a super-king zip and link, and we'll need new bedding so I need to know for once and all whether to take the risk on two separate duvets!

Context: I'm really struggling with sleep right now, so minimising any disruption from my partner moving about sounds good. However, I sleep with a top sheet so this would mean changing my preferred bedding set up to duvet only (no top sheet).

If I went for separate duvets I'd go for doubles. I already know single would feel too drafty for me.

YANBU: separate duvets are the way to go
YABU: stick with the shared duvet - you'll have plenty of space on a super king.

We have a superking duvet that we sleep on top of, with separate duvets.

Very comfortable.

I could never share a duvet though, I never have done, I’ve always had my own single one, and even when I lived alone, I slept sandwiched between duvets.