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In 4 years, 2029, UK deaths will exceed births!

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TheMintCritic · 28/08/2025 20:30

Just came across this and thought it was wild… according to the ONS, by 2029 the number of deaths in the UK is expected to outnumber the number of births for the first time in decades.

  • Our fertility rate is only about 1.5 kids per woman, well below replacement.
  • Meanwhile, the population is ageing — all those baby boomers are moving into their 70s and 80s.
  • The result? The natural population growth turns negative, meaning any population increase will rely entirely on immigration.

It’s crazy to think that in just 4 years, births won’t even keep up with deaths. Makes you wonder what that’ll mean for schools, NHS, pensions, and housing.

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ColourThief · 05/01/2026 11:42

LiveLuvLaugh · 03/01/2026 17:46

Talented, ambitious young professional women at my workplace doing ‘one and done’ because of the cost of childcare. Yet the two child limit on benefits removed, including for families who have been claiming since before third and subsequent children and knew the score.

Bore off.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 05/01/2026 12:13

AmyDuPlantier · 28/08/2025 22:01

Post-apocalyptic?! Thank god you’re not given to hyperbole.

In all fairness there are grim spots. There are blocks in Dundee where council workers and posties only enter the building in pairs for safety. There’s a block in Perth I’m involved in for work that’s predominantly short stay accommodation and whenever anyone moves out the council replace letter box with a blank plate to stop the neighbours from posting their used needles through.

Cattenberg · 07/01/2026 01:50

Tiredofwhataboutery · 05/01/2026 12:13

In all fairness there are grim spots. There are blocks in Dundee where council workers and posties only enter the building in pairs for safety. There’s a block in Perth I’m involved in for work that’s predominantly short stay accommodation and whenever anyone moves out the council replace letter box with a blank plate to stop the neighbours from posting their used needles through.

One of my friends lives in a tower block in Dundee (Lochee) and it does sound rather grim. One day, he tried to leave his flat to go to work only to be faced with armed police officers, who ordered him to go back indoors until they had dealt with an incident in the building.

Some months ago, my friend had a problem neighbour who made a lot of noise and annoyed others. One day, he was badly beaten up by other neighbours and ended up in hospital. My friend saw blood and scattered teeth in the stairwell.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 07/01/2026 07:23

Cattenberg · 07/01/2026 01:50

One of my friends lives in a tower block in Dundee (Lochee) and it does sound rather grim. One day, he tried to leave his flat to go to work only to be faced with armed police officers, who ordered him to go back indoors until they had dealt with an incident in the building.

Some months ago, my friend had a problem neighbour who made a lot of noise and annoyed others. One day, he was badly beaten up by other neighbours and ended up in hospital. My friend saw blood and scattered teeth in the stairwell.

A good kicking was a traditional way to resolve neighbourly disputes in tough areas when I was growing up

Jc2001 · 07/01/2026 08:19

bridgetreilly · 28/08/2025 21:29

Good?

You think a rapidly aging population is a good thing?

Lalgarh · 07/01/2026 08:41

It's not ageing as fast as china, if that's any consolation. Or South Korea

bridgetreilly · 07/01/2026 09:03

Jc2001 · 07/01/2026 08:19

You think a rapidly aging population is a good thing?

Well, I definitely don’t think a continuously expanding population is a good thing.

jasflowers · 07/01/2026 09:13

Isn't this what happens in the animal kingdom?

Many species will reduce their litter sizes, according to demand.

Sure it will mean trouble with care issues but to be frank, having been in a few nursing homes, we keep people alive for far too long

Badbadbunny · 07/01/2026 11:46

Papyrophile · 02/01/2026 20:27

I'm 70 next year, and on family medical history, should be good for 90+. My DD is 92, BUT only comfortable and coping because of his devoted second wife. When/If I get to his age, I'm buying a cheap wetsuit and a dodgy firearm, and I will wade into the sea somewhere quiet but beautiful, and blow out my own brains with a single bullet rather than decline gently.

Unfortunately, if you get dementia, you won't be able to do that as you won't be competent to even work out how to do it. You'll probably forget your plan, forget where you hid the gun and wonder why you've got a wetsuit in your wardrobe!

Badbadbunny · 07/01/2026 11:47

frozendaisy · 31/08/2025 13:50

What exactly can a government do about a declining birthrate?
If you feel as a young adult unable to provide comfortably for even just yourself, housing, job security, climate change, security of your country, nursery fees, even just finding a suitable mate during your most fertile years, it is irresponsible to bring a baby, which grows into a child, then a teen and eventually an adult into that situation.

It's a good thing that young adults are taking these things into consideration. The young adults and teens today are the first in a few generations, on average, who are going to have a lower standard of living than previous generations.

Would older people have made the same reproductive decisions if they were in the position that young adults are in now? There is an increase in older adults bemoaning that they might not become grandparents, well that's for them to build a bridge and get over.

Will our teens have children? I have no idea, it's most definitely not the guarantee it was, and whatever the decision it's fuck all to do with us.

Over the past 30 years the desire for house prices to increase, the desire for cheap food and cheaper goods from overseas, online shopping and takeaway food deliveries over eating out, the closing of local entertainment venues, online dating options, the influence of social media to what desirable is with bodies, houses, cars, status, it was bound to eventually collapse. And we are seeing the start of this now, it's going to get a lot worse before it gets better.

And as for who pays our pensions in the future, we are, we will be funding our own retirements if you want anything more that subsistence. We have been told this for at least 2 and a half decades, claiming you didn't realise is on you not anyone else. And our teens can see this. Everything our teens desire they will have to pay ten-fold more than the generation above us, how on earth can you calculate having children with all that?

Nail on the head with every point you make.

Lalgarh · 07/01/2026 11:49

More or Less this morning had a thing on UK birth rates. It's been below the 2.1 replacement level since the 1970s.

But it's only after about 2010 when it was 1.9 that it's fallen to 1.4 or something.

Badbadbunny · 07/01/2026 11:49

Dappy777 · 15/09/2025 12:04

I agree about incentivising births, but we should be incentivising the right people. One of the problems with the welfare system is that it encourages some of the worst people in society to reproduce. Violent, ignorant, anti-social people generally produce violent, ignorant, anti-social children. Personally, I’d like to see educated, skilled, hard-working, law-abiding people incentivised. We should offer money to people to have kids, but only on condition they have a clean criminal record and have never been convicted of child abuse or child neglect.

I’d offer Stephen Fry and Joanna Lumley anything they want to have 20 kids together!

Nail on the head again. We can't afford for the "wrong" kind of people to keep popping out kids but the "right" kind can't afford more than one. We need the next generation to have a work ethic, not a life on benefits ethic.

Playingvideogames · 07/01/2026 11:52

Badbadbunny · 07/01/2026 11:49

Nail on the head again. We can't afford for the "wrong" kind of people to keep popping out kids but the "right" kind can't afford more than one. We need the next generation to have a work ethic, not a life on benefits ethic.

Agree completely. We need to incentivise working people to have more children. Not those living on benefits.

SerendipityJane · 07/01/2026 11:52

Badbadbunny · 07/01/2026 11:49

Nail on the head again. We can't afford for the "wrong" kind of people to keep popping out kids but the "right" kind can't afford more than one. We need the next generation to have a work ethic, not a life on benefits ethic.

Is that the distant chime of eugenics on the breeze ?

Playingvideogames · 07/01/2026 11:55

SerendipityJane · 07/01/2026 11:52

Is that the distant chime of eugenics on the breeze ?

No, the distant chimes of logic and common sense.

Badbadbunny · 07/01/2026 11:56

KimberleyClark · 30/08/2025 07:32

Or affordable new build terraces. But as you say. most people don’t want to live in high density housing so the only solution is more sprawling estates.

There's a place for high density, particularly for singles and couples without kids. At present, we've huge numbers of "family" homes with gardens that have been converted into flats and HMO's, either for unemployed or for young single workers, or for students. Those homes could be re-converted back into family homes if we built new high density flats for the young singles, students, couples without children, etc. Likewise, there are huge numbers of "flats above shops" on our run down High Streets that could be converted into flats for singles/students, etc. We just need governmental push (and grants/incentives, relaxation of planning laws etc) to make it happen.

My son lives in an HMO in London - a large family home & garden converted into 12 bed sits with a communal kitchen and lounge. The garden is derelict because none of the tenants can be bothered and nor can the landlord. He'd far prefer to be in purpose built single occupancy flats, like those he lived in on Uni Campus, which were better suited to communal living. He's a relatively high earning 24 year old graduate, but still can't afford his own flat, hence having to live in a HMO!

Playingvideogames · 07/01/2026 11:56

Playingvideogames · 07/01/2026 11:55

No, the distant chimes of logic and common sense.

Plus advocating for drug addicts, criminals and people living chaotic lives to be funded to have kids is advocating for very abused children to increase. Why would you do this?

SerendipityJane · 07/01/2026 11:57

Playingvideogames · 07/01/2026 11:55

No, the distant chimes of logic and common sense.

Which is what was said last time it was tried.

Badbadbunny · 07/01/2026 11:59

SerendipityJane · 07/01/2026 11:52

Is that the distant chime of eugenics on the breeze ?

So you're happy with the taxpayer funding and incentivising drug addicts, alcoholics and "lifetime benefit" people to keep having more children, probably abusing them in some way, those children having a crap childhood and probably ending up druggies, alcoholics or lifestyle benefit claimants too??

I'd rather taxpayers fund those with a work ethic who are more likely to have children with a work ethic, so they are more likely to contribute to society rather than takers.

Playingvideogames · 07/01/2026 12:03

SerendipityJane · 07/01/2026 11:57

Which is what was said last time it was tried.

Were you born to impoverished drug addicts at all, Serendipity? What was your upbringing like?

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 07/01/2026 12:03

Alexahelp · 02/01/2026 23:38

Yes indeed, Boomers didn’t have loads of kids, Boomers WERE the loads of kids.

Yes, my parents were one of six and one of four - none of them had more than four max, four had none at all (and that was my mum having 2 by 2 husbands, so 8 kids from 10 parents).

This has big implications for generational wealth - the death of the boomer generation will result in a large wealth transfer from typically wealthy individuals to a smaller number of descendents.

I.e. it's likely that my childfree aunt will leave to her niblings as well as our own parents.

This will likely increase inequality.

SerendipityJane · 07/01/2026 12:13

Playingvideogames · 07/01/2026 12:03

Were you born to impoverished drug addicts at all, Serendipity? What was your upbringing like?

Mercifully free of eugenics.

And yours ?

LeonMccogh · 07/01/2026 12:14

LiveLuvLaugh · 03/01/2026 17:46

Talented, ambitious young professional women at my workplace doing ‘one and done’ because of the cost of childcare. Yet the two child limit on benefits removed, including for families who have been claiming since before third and subsequent children and knew the score.

Yep it’s all about WHO is having the kids and WHO is emigrating here.

zipadeedodah · 07/01/2026 12:17

sundayfundayclub · 28/08/2025 22:10

Things need to change otherwise birth rates will continue to drop.

No country has ever reversed birth rates once they drop below replacement level

This. As PP said, it's never been done - once birth rates drop below replacement levels its game over. Bad for humans but good for the environment and will rebalance A BIT in 3 or 4 generations.

Playingvideogames · 07/01/2026 12:39

SerendipityJane · 07/01/2026 12:13

Mercifully free of eugenics.

And yours ?

I think the fact you won’t address my question speaks for itself.

Easy to cheer on drug addicted and impoverished babies to uphold a principle when that will never be you.

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