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What do you think of the flags?

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Latesummersunset · 21/08/2025 18:05

Apologies if this has been done already.

I live in one of the areas where the flags were started. We couldn’t understand what they were for until it popped up in the news. Apparently the councils are going to be taking them down.

I don’t really have much of an opinion either way but my concern is that they’ll soon become tatty, fall down and leave a mess everywhere. But it seems lots of people are loving them. They do look quite cheery at the moment.

What do people think?

Yabu - they are a mess/racist/health and safety hazard

Yanbu - they are cheerful and patriotic. Keep them

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FreezeDriedStrawberries · 23/08/2025 09:43

Dangermoo · 23/08/2025 09:41

You have to determine racism is taking place, as a starting point. Flying a flag is not racism.

I agree, flying a flag "isn't a racism."
You're being deliberately obtuse or just plain ignorant if that's your takeaway from all this.

SlantedSlats · 23/08/2025 09:48

ghostyslovesheets · 23/08/2025 00:38

And why is it an organised campaign? Not some random outburst of patriotic love?

I will not tolerate patriotism when it masks something much darker - something my beloved grandfather fought a war against

I will not tolerate patriotism when it masks something much darker - something my beloved grandfather fought a war against

Love this.

We had flags out for the various jubilees and coronations. Street parties etc. But this use of the flag comes from hate of others not love of our country. Are some people really unable to see the difference?

Dangermoo · 23/08/2025 09:49

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 23/08/2025 09:43

I agree, flying a flag "isn't a racism."
You're being deliberately obtuse or just plain ignorant if that's your takeaway from all this.

The "obtuse" word - again. Same old direction. Flying a flag and being patriotic is only a problem, if you're English. Celebrating St George's day is the only piss taking Saints day. Every culture has bad apples, without exception. However, the history of England is thee most denigrated one, next to the US, of course. When the denigration comes from within, I find it depressingly apologetic. There is a time and a place for apologies and reparation - its expected longevity, with regards to England, is ridiculous.

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 23/08/2025 09:54

Dangermoo · 23/08/2025 09:49

The "obtuse" word - again. Same old direction. Flying a flag and being patriotic is only a problem, if you're English. Celebrating St George's day is the only piss taking Saints day. Every culture has bad apples, without exception. However, the history of England is thee most denigrated one, next to the US, of course. When the denigration comes from within, I find it depressingly apologetic. There is a time and a place for apologies and reparation - its expected longevity, with regards to England, is ridiculous.

What else would you call it if that's what you might be doing? You do seem obtuse. Or ignorant. Who knows.
Flying a flag and being patriotic is only a problem, if you're English
No it isn't. I love seeing the English flag flying when the football's playing, or on St George's Day. Why is intent such a hard concept for some to grasp?

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2025 09:55

Dangermoo · 23/08/2025 08:34

Agree or you are racist and get the pile on. I laugh when I see the numerous notifications I get on these threads, like this. I can always predict what the reply will be to my post, especially when I see certain user names.

I know!! Just like the response you got to this comment! But let's face facts it's rather amusing 😍

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 23/08/2025 09:55

SlantedSlats · 23/08/2025 09:48

I will not tolerate patriotism when it masks something much darker - something my beloved grandfather fought a war against

Love this.

We had flags out for the various jubilees and coronations. Street parties etc. But this use of the flag comes from hate of others not love of our country. Are some people really unable to see the difference?

Just seen this post, completely agree

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 09:56

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2025 09:55

I know!! Just like the response you got to this comment! But let's face facts it's rather amusing 😍

Finally, you're facing facts.

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2025 09:58

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 07:53

Surely it's the other way around. You haven't provided any evidence to back up what you're saying but keep repeating "illegals!"

I dont say that! Anyway this is a discussion about flags, what do you think of the flags? That was the original question why do I need to source evidence for you this isn't a court case, its mumsnet dude.

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2025 09:59

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 09:56

Finally, you're facing facts.

What that mumsnet is amusing?

Dangermoo · 23/08/2025 10:03

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2025 09:55

I know!! Just like the response you got to this comment! But let's face facts it's rather amusing 😍

So bloody predictable. Guaranteed phrases to find

Far right
Farage
Gammon
Flagshagger
Thick
Lacking critical thinking
Blaming immigrants
Tory scum

You see what happens when an immigrant posts a positive experience of living here - zilch acknowledgement.

healthyteeth · 23/08/2025 10:06

Sweetjain · 23/08/2025 09:15

Its not immigration though. Its MASS immigration. Just think about the maths. Its at a level that cannot be sustained...we cannot even house and look after those already here.

If you think that economic stress in our country is caused by the money used to house these people you are delusional. You have been taken in by the simplistic, emotionally charged ‘explanations’ for complex problems spouted by the likes of the Daily Mail, Nige and Tommy.

The fact is that immigration is a positive thing for our economy. It contributes to our economy and to things like the NHS and other services.

Things that DO cause tax rises and stress on the economy:
Tax cuts for the mega wealthy and corporations.
Aging population.
National Debt and deficit
Global crises (COVID, wars, Brexit)
Mismanagement of public finances.

What it costs to house immigrants is TINY in comparison. A drop in the ocean.

Please redirect your anger to the above. Stop scapegoating the immigrant and stop being part of the growing division in our country!

Dangermoo · 23/08/2025 10:08

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 09:56

Finally, you're facing facts.

Facts are objective, your opinion and conjecture are subjective.

Dangermoo · 23/08/2025 10:10

healthyteeth · 23/08/2025 10:06

If you think that economic stress in our country is caused by the money used to house these people you are delusional. You have been taken in by the simplistic, emotionally charged ‘explanations’ for complex problems spouted by the likes of the Daily Mail, Nige and Tommy.

The fact is that immigration is a positive thing for our economy. It contributes to our economy and to things like the NHS and other services.

Things that DO cause tax rises and stress on the economy:
Tax cuts for the mega wealthy and corporations.
Aging population.
National Debt and deficit
Global crises (COVID, wars, Brexit)
Mismanagement of public finances.

What it costs to house immigrants is TINY in comparison. A drop in the ocean.

Please redirect your anger to the above. Stop scapegoating the immigrant and stop being part of the growing division in our country!

Glad you highlighted the mismanagement of public finances, on a thread about Labour run Birmingham City Council.

Sweetjain · 23/08/2025 10:12

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 23/08/2025 09:54

What else would you call it if that's what you might be doing? You do seem obtuse. Or ignorant. Who knows.
Flying a flag and being patriotic is only a problem, if you're English
No it isn't. I love seeing the English flag flying when the football's playing, or on St George's Day. Why is intent such a hard concept for some to grasp?

If you are are English the only acceptable time to fly a St George's cross is when England play football and St George's day. All other times you are a racist.

Even on St George's day it will be viewed with suspicion, and you will be told he wasnt even english. Though they never point out that St andrew wasnt Scottish.

The English white working class are truly despised and it seems entirely acceptable to treat them with contempt.

ForWittyTealOP · 23/08/2025 10:13

Not read the full thread. But as a Jew it reminds me of Nazi flags flying everywhere. Not a massive fan.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 10:14

Dangermoo · 23/08/2025 10:08

Facts are objective, your opinion and conjecture are subjective.

Don't be silly.

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 23/08/2025 10:18

Sweetjain · 23/08/2025 10:12

If you are are English the only acceptable time to fly a St George's cross is when England play football and St George's day. All other times you are a racist.

Even on St George's day it will be viewed with suspicion, and you will be told he wasnt even english. Though they never point out that St andrew wasnt Scottish.

The English white working class are truly despised and it seems entirely acceptable to treat them with contempt.

What a load of crap. Why is intent so hard to grasp?
Go ahead and fly it on St George's Day. Football etc. Literally no one is stopping you. Others will be too. If you're doing it just to be patriotic, and because you're supporting your country at sport or whatever, who cares what anyone else thinks?
As for generalising about the English working class, that's a pretty disgusting thing to do - you don't speak for all of us.

Dangermoo · 23/08/2025 10:19

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 10:14

Don't be silly.

😆 🤣

Sweetjain · 23/08/2025 10:23

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 23/08/2025 10:18

What a load of crap. Why is intent so hard to grasp?
Go ahead and fly it on St George's Day. Football etc. Literally no one is stopping you. Others will be too. If you're doing it just to be patriotic, and because you're supporting your country at sport or whatever, who cares what anyone else thinks?
As for generalising about the English working class, that's a pretty disgusting thing to do - you don't speak for all of us.

Well as a white working class woman thats my "lived experience "

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2025 10:24

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 23/08/2025 09:54

What else would you call it if that's what you might be doing? You do seem obtuse. Or ignorant. Who knows.
Flying a flag and being patriotic is only a problem, if you're English
No it isn't. I love seeing the English flag flying when the football's playing, or on St George's Day. Why is intent such a hard concept for some to grasp?

Why only football? What about Tennis? Or Darts?

ghostyslovesheets · 23/08/2025 10:25

Dangermoo · 23/08/2025 10:10

Glad you highlighted the mismanagement of public finances, on a thread about Labour run Birmingham City Council.

Oh I thought it was a thread about flags?

but the situation in Birmingham is the result of a legal case over equal pay not financial mismanagement - plenty of Tory run councils also going under like Slough - so it’s hardly a single party issue. Let’s see how those Reform councils get on - they seem to have started so well!

Dangermoo · 23/08/2025 10:28

ghostyslovesheets · 23/08/2025 10:25

Oh I thought it was a thread about flags?

but the situation in Birmingham is the result of a legal case over equal pay not financial mismanagement - plenty of Tory run councils also going under like Slough - so it’s hardly a single party issue. Let’s see how those Reform councils get on - they seem to have started so well!

Right on cue.

Dangermoo · 23/08/2025 10:28

MyLimeGuide · 23/08/2025 10:24

Why only football? What about Tennis? Or Darts?

This so reminds me of the GB News thread.

SleeplessInWherever · 23/08/2025 10:29

Sweetjain · 23/08/2025 10:12

If you are are English the only acceptable time to fly a St George's cross is when England play football and St George's day. All other times you are a racist.

Even on St George's day it will be viewed with suspicion, and you will be told he wasnt even english. Though they never point out that St andrew wasnt Scottish.

The English white working class are truly despised and it seems entirely acceptable to treat them with contempt.

Firstly, not all racists are working class. Farage is hardly a man of the people.

It also entirely depends on what the “white working class” are being treated with contempt for.

Being working class doesn’t absolve you of personal responsibility.

Some of us are from deprived backgrounds, and still manage to not: assume black people are paedophiles because they’re in a park, incite racial violence, use flags to intimidate people, set mosques/hotels on fire.

If you’re working class and a dick, you’re still a dick.

healthyteeth · 23/08/2025 10:30

Sweetjain · 23/08/2025 10:12

If you are are English the only acceptable time to fly a St George's cross is when England play football and St George's day. All other times you are a racist.

Even on St George's day it will be viewed with suspicion, and you will be told he wasnt even english. Though they never point out that St andrew wasnt Scottish.

The English white working class are truly despised and it seems entirely acceptable to treat them with contempt.

Ask yourself WHY it’s seen as a bit cringe to fly the English flag.

Spoiler: Because it’s been appropriated by far right extremist groups and politicians who seek to divide.

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