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What do you think of the flags?

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Latesummersunset · 21/08/2025 18:05

Apologies if this has been done already.

I live in one of the areas where the flags were started. We couldn’t understand what they were for until it popped up in the news. Apparently the councils are going to be taking them down.

I don’t really have much of an opinion either way but my concern is that they’ll soon become tatty, fall down and leave a mess everywhere. But it seems lots of people are loving them. They do look quite cheery at the moment.

What do people think?

Yabu - they are a mess/racist/health and safety hazard

Yanbu - they are cheerful and patriotic. Keep them

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ghostyslovesheets · 21/08/2025 23:24

Timeforabitofpeace · 21/08/2025 23:18

No they’re on facebook complaining about what other people are not doing for them.

Exactly - they don’t do anything that actually supports their community in a positive way

SquishedMallow · 21/08/2025 23:25

PrincessOfPreschool · 21/08/2025 23:18

This. I'm truly shocked at the voting on this thread.

If you want an honest answer, I think it's a reflection on how out of touch the more liberal left wing are from how many people feel in the UK today.

I think people know they will be attacked for offering their opinions (as proved by this thread). The callous insults are only coming from one group. So they say nothing. That's how resentment breeds and grows.

We need balance. No extreme left , no extreme right. Just balance. I don't think we've got that at the minute. Calling others names and shutting conversations down with "racist" will not help matters.

Nobody should be openly racist. It's wrong.

It's also wrong to hurl racist accusations and vitriol at people that want to fly the flag of their country.

ninjahamster · 21/08/2025 23:26

chickenlettuceunderbacon · 21/08/2025 23:22

In nearly every other country, their flags are flown with pride. I have lots of friends in Finland, Sweden, Denmark and Norway, pretty much all of them proudly display their flags. Heck, my Danish friend even adored each and every birthday cake with mini-Danish flags.

I genuinely don't understand why the St George's Cross is so maligned to the degree it can't be flown. I get that for many, football thugs and jingoistic racists have sullied it, but surely the answer is to re-embrace it positively. The more common a site it is, the more it becomes part of usual day to day life.

🤷🏻‍♀️

But it CAN be flown, on your own property.

But nobody wanted to until suddenly the news was full of stories about asylum seekers.

SUCH a coincidence.

Covidwoes · 21/08/2025 23:26

No issue with flags. I do have an issue with people putting them up purely for racist reasons. I drove through a village in Surrey last week, and saw someone with a sign saying something about boats, while beside someone else putting up a flag. That is different to patriotism.

ghostyslovesheets · 21/08/2025 23:28

Raise The Flag is a Tommy Robinson campaign (anyone else say his name in Cartman’s voice?) - he’s not a nice peaceful human but a convicted thug with right wing views - so it’s not the flag so much as the campaign - it’s not peaceful or unpolitical or inclusive - it’s just not

Livelovebehappy · 21/08/2025 23:30

chickenlettuceunderbacon · 21/08/2025 23:22

In nearly every other country, their flags are flown with pride. I have lots of friends in Finland, Sweden, Denmark and Norway, pretty much all of them proudly display their flags. Heck, my Danish friend even adored each and every birthday cake with mini-Danish flags.

I genuinely don't understand why the St George's Cross is so maligned to the degree it can't be flown. I get that for many, football thugs and jingoistic racists have sullied it, but surely the answer is to re-embrace it positively. The more common a site it is, the more it becomes part of usual day to day life.

🤷🏻‍♀️

I agree. I think there are some people that do use the Union Jack for racist intentions, but I think they’re very much in the minority. Or the amount of support for Tommy Robinson on his street protests suggest that’s the case - not many supporters there, probably a few hundred. So why should the majority, who want to fly it to show pride in her country, be penalised for the actions of a few? I’ve loved seeing the Union Jack come to life during these last few weeks.

SquishedMallow · 21/08/2025 23:32

I think @chickenlettuceunderbacon post is very balanced.

JanFebAndOnwards · 21/08/2025 23:44

I think their intent is racist, I am still waiting for the police to remove them.

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 21/08/2025 23:45

Tommy Robinson is the pricks prick.
Nothing good ever comes out of that fuckers mouth.
It's all about fanning the flame's of division.

Mind someone is making a killing selling those nylon flags.
It would be funny if the supplier's weren't white 🤣🤣

Dangermoo · 21/08/2025 23:51

Bingo card full. 👌

TooBigForMyBoots · 22/08/2025 00:01

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 21/08/2025 23:45

Tommy Robinson is the pricks prick.
Nothing good ever comes out of that fuckers mouth.
It's all about fanning the flame's of division.

Mind someone is making a killing selling those nylon flags.
It would be funny if the supplier's weren't white 🤣🤣

I had a wee look. Seems most Union flags on sale, originate in China. Even those sold by UK sellers.

I have seen British made Union flags, but they're nothing like those being erected up lampposts.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 22/08/2025 00:04

I just think they’re unnecessary.

I don’t see the point of flying your own flag, in your own country, during peace time. Unless it’s a govt building, in which case fine.

I just feel like the default is that you are English (if in England, or Scottish, Welsh, NI in those countries) and generally in favour of that country/ the Uk.

So I guess then my brain goes to, well what more than that are you trying to convey with your flag - which I guess is where it become controversial.

Livelovebehappy · 22/08/2025 00:18

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 22/08/2025 00:04

I just think they’re unnecessary.

I don’t see the point of flying your own flag, in your own country, during peace time. Unless it’s a govt building, in which case fine.

I just feel like the default is that you are English (if in England, or Scottish, Welsh, NI in those countries) and generally in favour of that country/ the Uk.

So I guess then my brain goes to, well what more than that are you trying to convey with your flag - which I guess is where it become controversial.

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But that’s your personal opinion? Some will agree with you, many won’t. If you don’t see the point in flying them, that’s fine, but obviously we’re all different and some things are important to some people, and not to others, in all aspects of life.

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 22/08/2025 00:20

TooBigForMyBoots · 22/08/2025 00:01

I had a wee look. Seems most Union flags on sale, originate in China. Even those sold by UK sellers.

I have seen British made Union flags, but they're nothing like those being erected up lampposts.

I had a genuine union flag on my bedroom wall over 40 years ago it was cloth and rough in texture.
I had it because I was a Mod scooter, clothes etc.
I liberated the flag from the local scout hut... naughty.

TempestTost · 22/08/2025 00:27

I think the fact that a certain segment of the population has been going around telling people that flags are bad, racist, etc, makes a lot of other people feel like their own cultural identity is being suppressed and vilified, and so they tend to become more interested in putting up flags than they were before.

It's like telling people they can't wear tartan or speak their cradle tongue. It has the opposite of the effect the person trying to prevent the thing wants.

TooBigForMyBoots · 22/08/2025 00:29

Livelovebehappy · 21/08/2025 23:30

I agree. I think there are some people that do use the Union Jack for racist intentions, but I think they’re very much in the minority. Or the amount of support for Tommy Robinson on his street protests suggest that’s the case - not many supporters there, probably a few hundred. So why should the majority, who want to fly it to show pride in her country, be penalised for the actions of a few? I’ve loved seeing the Union Jack come to life during these last few weeks.

Are you flying one from your house?

decenteringmen · 22/08/2025 00:31

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What do you think of the flags?
Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 22/08/2025 00:34

decenteringmen · 22/08/2025 00:31

See attached.

That's absolutely priceless 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤤🤣

Zipzaps · 22/08/2025 00:36

TempestTost · 22/08/2025 00:27

I think the fact that a certain segment of the population has been going around telling people that flags are bad, racist, etc, makes a lot of other people feel like their own cultural identity is being suppressed and vilified, and so they tend to become more interested in putting up flags than they were before.

It's like telling people they can't wear tartan or speak their cradle tongue. It has the opposite of the effect the person trying to prevent the thing wants.

Claiming something is part of your cultural identity when you don't know which way up to fly it is a bit odd. The flag just isn't part of cultural identity in this country. That may be a problem and should change, but as it stands, it isn't.

How many people in the current wave of flag flyers know its history, traditions, how to fly it or even it's correct name ?

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 22/08/2025 00:36

I’m fine with anyone flying flags. I’m very proud of my English (and Italian) heritage and it’s lovely to see people take a joy in where they’re from. I find it odd that people jump to the assumption of racism and can’t bear the self deprivation some people have about being English.

But the pests painting roundabouts can feck off. It’s just so cringe. I just look and think “behave yourself and stop vandalising the road”.

Needspaceforlego · 22/08/2025 00:39

Liliwen · 21/08/2025 18:16

I’m in Wales and having a Welsh flag is not a big deal and quite common if your town is hosting an Eisteddfod. However my little town has suddenly become insanely patriotic, putting flags up all over the shop because there is a rumour about asylum seekers being housed here. The flag by itself means nothing. The intent behind flying it is everything.

What's an Eisteddfod?

awkwardasfuck · 22/08/2025 00:56

Needspaceforlego · 22/08/2025 00:39

What's an Eisteddfod?

Cultural local festival of music and arts

garlictwist · 22/08/2025 01:19

Throwntothewolves · 21/08/2025 18:42

The only time I've not liked flags being displayed everywhere was 2014 ahead of the referendum vote in Scotland on independence. They became decisive and a sign of political views in Scotland. I guess similar is happening in England, though your opening post doesn't explain that clearly.

Fwiw there are asylum seekers staying in various hotels in our town. There doesn't seem to be much if any negativity among local residents about this. Perhaps other places should have a think about what exactly the problem is. It seems from this distance at least, that some English towns have a problem with the attitude of their 'native' residents. Here in Scotland it doesn't seem like the attitude is the same

Sorry but I disagree. Also in Scotland and I’ve been shocked by the attitude of many in my town.

decenteringmen · 22/08/2025 01:32

Gladysknightjustwalkinmyshoes · 22/08/2025 00:34

That's absolutely priceless 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤤🤣

The Brexit import fee, is perfection. ✨

TinyIsMyNewt · 22/08/2025 02:06

chickenlettuceunderbacon · 21/08/2025 23:22

In nearly every other country, their flags are flown with pride. I have lots of friends in Finland, Sweden, Denmark and Norway, pretty much all of them proudly display their flags. Heck, my Danish friend even adored each and every birthday cake with mini-Danish flags.

I genuinely don't understand why the St George's Cross is so maligned to the degree it can't be flown. I get that for many, football thugs and jingoistic racists have sullied it, but surely the answer is to re-embrace it positively. The more common a site it is, the more it becomes part of usual day to day life.

🤷🏻‍♀️

Prevalence of flag-flying varies quite a lot by country, the Scandinavians are very into it, but others (England, France, Belgium, the Netherlands, Germany) much less so.

There's very little stopping its display in England, other than public reluctance of disinterest.

It's not a recent thing either, people act as if its linked with recent re-evaluation of the Empire, but flag-flying has never been a widespread cultural practice, like it is elsewhere.

It is a shame that its become associated with far right groups, and I have no objection at all to people wanting to reclaim it, but I strongly suspect ill-intent behind the recent stunt, and I very much do not get the sense its designed to bring people together in celebrating the flag.

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