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Found this bloody weird note….

406 replies

Radicalpiloti · 20/08/2025 00:04

Bit of a strange one. I finally got around to emptying my son’s schoolbag and amongst the utter rubbish (including a Batman figurine he insists isn’t his!) there was an envelope tucked inside with just “For You” written on it.

Inside was a list of instructions. Things like:

  • “Don’t forget to lock the back door at night.”
  • “Children should never sit on cold floors.”
  • “The blue cup is for milk, not juice.”
  • “Be careful who you trust with secrets.”

I asked DC where it came from and he just shrugged and said, dunno. Asked on my parent friends WhatsApp and they had no idea.

DH says I’m being dramatic and it’s probably nothing, but I feel really weird about it

i don’t even know what I’m asking but, wtf!

OP posts:
expresslylee · 24/08/2025 16:22

theDudesmummy · 24/08/2025 16:02

Well maybe it was in another room and she didn't want to wake people up at that time etc etc? Who knows? The point is there is nothing weird about her not immediately putting up a picture of the note. I imagine if the mystery had continued to be unsolved she probably would have at some point. As it was, what would have been the point?

@theDudesmummy You keep saying the mystery was "solved" but in fact the only thing "solved" was that there is a link to Roblox. Examples of lives issues (not "solved"):

  • had there been contact with an adult on Roblox which had led to real life contact?
  • why was an adult writing a note and addressing it to the child as "for you"
  • did the note get put into the wrong bag and if so what to do about that
  • what action could be taken to ascertain if there had been grooming or other risks (at least one poster has referred to a real life situation where their child had been groomed via Roblox)

the OP might not be coming back, possibly partly to do with the shoddy treatment they got from some posters, but even if so, still worth people posting - not everyone is going to be aware of the risk posted by Roblox for example so worth sharing

Returnofjude · 24/08/2025 16:23

theDudesmummy · 24/08/2025 16:02

Well maybe it was in another room and she didn't want to wake people up at that time etc etc? Who knows? The point is there is nothing weird about her not immediately putting up a picture of the note. I imagine if the mystery had continued to be unsolved she probably would have at some point. As it was, what would have been the point?

😆

Yes… maybe 😆

theDudesmummy · 24/08/2025 16:42

I did say that one needs to be aware that Roblox has a chat element and so that needs monitoring, but the note in itself isn't concerning or sinister, it's more advice from Roblox player to another, I should think. The fear was that the phrases were somewhat "weird", and so they are if taken out of context. Knowing that it is Roblox can and should lead to a conversation about the games and what he is playing or wants to play, and who he communicates with, what friends of his also play etc. Not to interrogating the school management and bothering the police!

JackGrealishsBobbySocks · 24/08/2025 17:00

Returnofjude · 24/08/2025 16:23

😆

Yes… maybe 😆

Maybe the OP was going to take a picture and the camera died.

Or maybe when she developed the photo she noticed something strange in the corner... something that got closer and closer to the lens in every frame... something too terrifying to post on the Internet.

Returnofjude · 24/08/2025 17:00

JackGrealishsBobbySocks · 24/08/2025 17:00

Maybe the OP was going to take a picture and the camera died.

Or maybe when she developed the photo she noticed something strange in the corner... something that got closer and closer to the lens in every frame... something too terrifying to post on the Internet.

Or maybe she saw a UFO and got distracted

JackGrealishsBobbySocks · 24/08/2025 17:02

Could be, mate. Could be.

Puckles · 24/08/2025 17:40

GROW UP. The note was obviously nit for you or your kid.

theDudesmummy · 24/08/2025 17:57

Might well have been, if he is a Roblox player. How do you know he isn't? What do you mean by "grow up"?

theDudesmummy · 24/08/2025 18:03

Or maybe she saw a UFO and got distracted

Well, she HAS disappeared hasn't she? Wooooooooo! I think the LGM probably got her.

lotsofpatience · 24/08/2025 18:05

Bloody illuminati. Always messing about with our children.

Returnofjude · 24/08/2025 18:42

theDudesmummy · 24/08/2025 18:03

Or maybe she saw a UFO and got distracted

Well, she HAS disappeared hasn't she? Wooooooooo! I think the LGM probably got her.

More likely than this “note” ever existing 😆

theDudesmummy · 24/08/2025 19:12

It's unlikely that the OP would have enough knowledge of Roblox or any reason to make up such a specific note surely? But anyway...now we will never know...

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 24/08/2025 19:35

In the reception and year 1 class of my DS’s school one of the kids (who TBH reminds me of Damien from the Omen and is a bully to boot) used to draw people being killed by clowns and put it in his classmates bag so as to blame the other kids in case his mum or teachers spotted it. But apparently it caused a lot of similarly unnerved parents to worry for a while and the kids were telling by the truth when they say they didn’t know what it was

Show the school OP. To me, it sounds like a bit of a creative writing exercise of some sort

Returnofjude · 25/08/2025 07:01

theDudesmummy · 24/08/2025 19:12

It's unlikely that the OP would have enough knowledge of Roblox or any reason to make up such a specific note surely? But anyway...now we will never know...

You’ve really got the OP’s back haven’t you @theDudesmummy ?! 😆

theDudesmummy · 25/08/2025 09:05

Given that she has now been abducted by aliens, someone has to.

Returnofjude · 25/08/2025 09:06

theDudesmummy · 25/08/2025 09:05

Given that she has now been abducted by aliens, someone has to.

Too late surely if she has been abducted by aliens

theDudesmummy · 25/08/2025 09:07

Her reputation remains though.

Returnofjude · 25/08/2025 09:08

theDudesmummy · 25/08/2025 09:07

Her reputation remains though.

Huh?

you’re protecting her reputation

You know this anonymous mumsnetter?

Returnofjude · 25/08/2025 09:09

This is getting weird

theDudesmummy · 25/08/2025 09:30

Oh come on, can't you tell a joke when you see one? The replies to the OP contained all kinds of odd stuff, some jokey and some serious. I'm just referencing that, that's all (still school holidays so a little extra time in bed to mess about before I started working!).

Or...do I really know her...?

Returnofjude · 25/08/2025 09:34

theDudesmummy · 25/08/2025 09:30

Oh come on, can't you tell a joke when you see one? The replies to the OP contained all kinds of odd stuff, some jokey and some serious. I'm just referencing that, that's all (still school holidays so a little extra time in bed to mess about before I started working!).

Or...do I really know her...?

So in that case it really is weird how much you have this OP’s back! You’ve really stuck by her through thick and thin 😆

lotsofpatience · 25/08/2025 10:26

TLDR
Thedudesmummy = OP.
The end.

Grendel7 · 25/08/2025 11:47

IridiumSky · 20/08/2025 00:39

Typical kids’ games.

Mind your own business, and stop worrying about nothing.

Leave the poor boy alone.

And put the Batman figure back.

I would be straight up the school. Its definitely not funny and needs to be stopped before someone gets really upset.

theDudesmummy · 25/08/2025 13:10

Wow! I just said I didn't believe someone would make up that list! I didnt "have her back"! I first followed the thread because it was interesting, and then because it gave such a clear illustration of how people blithely and confidently reply on threads without having read them, which I found annoying and interesting in equal measure.

I wish I was young enough to have a 10 year old child! And it sounds like OP is in the UK, which I am not. Also, you can't namechange in the middle of a thread any more, which I understand the reasons for but which does cut out some amusing shenanigans!

theDudesmummy · 25/08/2025 13:12

PS why am I still engaging? Ans: I don't feel like working so am chatting shit on MN instead. Avoidance of reality...