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To ask those who are not white brittish how they feel about the flags?

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PicaK · 18/08/2025 13:32

Birmingham and Tower Hamlets are having St George England flags put up by privately funded groups.
I'm horrified by the implicit racism. I've seen a lot of white people applauding this and "time we took back the country" comments.
I haven't seen many non white people commenting. My feel is that they are too intimidated to do so. Am I right? Or is it indifference or is it that you're dealing with racism on a daily level and this is just one more thing.
Please don't post if you're white.whatever you feel about the flags. I want to hear on white viewd

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MumWifeOther · 18/08/2025 20:22

Dangermoo · 18/08/2025 20:15

Absolutely right. Just like you don't get to choose how I see my country's flag.

Are you alright? You can see how it you want. I literally already said I don’t care. I just said it’s comical really as St George was Palestian / Turkish 😅

Horsie · 18/08/2025 20:24

It pains me to hear of British people who have been subjected to racism in their own country just because their parents or other ancestors were of non-British heritage. It must be so awful to be treated that way, and my heart goes out to anyone who has experienced that. (And also immigrants/tourists/anyone here for a while to study or work.)

It may be the case that the majority of Brits are not racist, maybe even most Brits are not, but I'm guessing that that doesn't matter, because it seems there's always at least one, wherever you go, who will be racist towards you and make you feel like shite.

I wish there was something I could do about it. I think authorities need to be a lot better about stamping out racism.

And we should ALL call people out on any racism we witness, whether targeted towards a person of colour or something that's said among white people when there are no people of colour present.

Racists need to know that decent people consider them scum and that their attitudes are totally unacceptable in a civilised society.

Sending hugs to anyone who has experienced racism. 😢

If it helps, the minute someone is racist, they just out themselves as being exquisitely thick. How anyone can think the colour of someone's SKIN means anything is beyond me. It's positively medieval, like when people used to practice phrenology in the Middle Ages, saying they could tell someone's character by feeling the bumps on their head! That's how utterly stupid racists are. I literally see them as so stupid I wonder how they can dress themselves, and I hope anyone who has experienced racism can see them that way, too. Small, pathetic, and low-IQ.

Horsie · 18/08/2025 20:26

miraxxx · 18/08/2025 20:10

And the Swastika existed for thousands of years in multiple cultures as a very benign symbol and continues to used by billions of asians - buddhists, hindus and jains- as much as it ever was. It was never the Nazi's to start or end with. So too with the St George.

All true, but of course the swastika is tainted probably forever. And the stigma around the English flag is pretty strong. That's what vile anti-Semites and racists have done to those symbols.

miraxxx · 18/08/2025 20:27

Lonelycrab · 18/08/2025 20:21

Hindu swastika has a horizontal cross at its centre.

The nazi one is at 45 degrees.

It is a common mistake to say that the orientation of the swastika matters or is different from the nazi one. Hindu/Buddhist swastikas can be inclined too, clockwise or counterclockwise.

Dangermoo · 18/08/2025 20:27

MumWifeOther · 18/08/2025 20:22

Are you alright? You can see how it you want. I literally already said I don’t care. I just said it’s comical really as St George was Palestian / Turkish 😅

We hear, every single St George's day, about the Turkish stuff. As though we are meant to stop celebrating because the usual sneering lefties find it comical. It never has any impact then, so not sure why you think you're saying something original and relevant.

Rosscameasdoody · 18/08/2025 20:27

miraxxx · 18/08/2025 20:01

So sum up - I have only had a brief glance at this thread - the English flag is irredeemably racist because it is akin to :
the crusades
colonialism
the nazis/swastika
the BNP, EDL, Reform and other assorted racists
football hooligans
white supremacy - which is of course every single pale skinned person ever

To top it all, the flag is foreign anyway and crypto-muslim because Palestine/Turkey (historical nonsense but let's go with it).

Spot on. Why did MN hide it ?

Chocolatefreak · 18/08/2025 20:28

Duechristmas · 18/08/2025 19:06

Our grandfathers would be horrified at the division in our country now. This is not what they fought for.

I think our grandparents would be bewildered that an objective they fought against, ie the Nazi far right narrative, is being replicated in their own country right now. During WW2 we welcomed refugees fleeing from persecution. Now apparently we want to 'send them back' and 'take back' our country.

Horsie · 18/08/2025 20:28

Rosscameasdoody · 18/08/2025 20:13

The swastika is derived from the Sanskrit Svastika, meaning good fortune or well-being. It’s an ancient symbol with a rich history predating its use by the Nazi Party. It has been used as a sacred symbol in various cultures, including Hinduism, Buddhism, and Jainism, where it represents prosperity and good luck. Thoroughly hijacked by the Nazis and will for ever stand as a symbol of pure evil. Makes the point that we should reclaim our St George flag before it’s permanently trashed by racist scum.

Sure, but most people don't know that.

The swastika is tainted forever, and the stigma around the English flag is pretty strong. I'd never put it on my house or car, I'd be way too embarrassed.

Dangermoo · 18/08/2025 20:29

Chocolatefreak · 18/08/2025 20:28

I think our grandparents would be bewildered that an objective they fought against, ie the Nazi far right narrative, is being replicated in their own country right now. During WW2 we welcomed refugees fleeing from persecution. Now apparently we want to 'send them back' and 'take back' our country.

Or maybe they would be horrified that the hard left is sowing seeds of division.

MaxandMeg · 18/08/2025 20:29

Maddy70 · 18/08/2025 17:14

It's the association that's now with the right wing fascists that's the issue. Not the flag. Don't have this with the Scottish or Welsh flag

You don't. But flags are powerful emblems if you can read them. And circumstances change nuances. I'm in Scotland. The saltire's fairly neutral. But if you go to a city, especially Glasgow, and the Union Jack is draped everywhere, you've blundered into sectarian central.

Littlemisscat · 18/08/2025 20:30

When I see the flag of St George I feel proud … I am English 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿… when I see the Union Jack I feel proud… I am British … proud of both.

Dangermoo · 18/08/2025 20:30

Rosscameasdoody · 18/08/2025 20:27

Spot on. Why did MN hide it ?

Surprised that bingo card was hidden. It appears virtually every day. You always know what direction these goady threads are going to take.

millymollymoomoo · 18/08/2025 20:31

Why is it ok to fly literally any other flag in this country but not our national one?

honestly I’m fed up with it

millymollymoomoo · 18/08/2025 20:32

@Chocolatefreak most are not refugees. And refugees assimilate into the host country not the other way around

Julen7 · 18/08/2025 20:32

millymollymoomoo · 18/08/2025 20:31

Why is it ok to fly literally any other flag in this country but not our national one?

honestly I’m fed up with it

This.

Rosscameasdoody · 18/08/2025 20:33

miraxxx · 18/08/2025 20:22

No, the swastika is still a symbol of goodness to billions of people who draw it on their floors, door steps and temples. To say that it has been permanently corrupted by the nazis is to be euro-centric in the extreme. It is being as fatuous and ahistoric as the people who hate the English flag because some skinheads carry it.

Nope. Don’t agree. The Swastika was a symbol of the aspiration to world domination by the Nazis. That’s not Euro centric - World War Two, was exactly that. A world war. Those who know the true meaning of the symbol will continue to use it in that context. Those who associate it with the evil perpetrated under it by the Nazis, will continue to do so.

Chocolatefreak · 18/08/2025 20:33

Dangermoo · 18/08/2025 20:29

Or maybe they would be horrified that the hard left is sowing seeds of division.

Can you give examples of any hard left groups who are encouraging a violent, racist, divisive attitude towards immigrants?

Clarabell77 · 18/08/2025 20:33

PamIsAVolleyballChamp · 18/08/2025 13:37

What's your thought on the St Andrews flag being used up here in Scotland in the same way? Wee Nic-nock and her 'gies back poor land' diatribe?
My dh and dc speak with English accent, I'm Scottish, so if like the SNP use it as a 'get out of country' its wrong, if it's flown like other places do as a flag. That's OK.

The SNP have never used it as a “get out of (our) country”, you are talking utter nonsense.

Lonelycrab · 18/08/2025 20:34

Dangermoo · 18/08/2025 20:29

Or maybe they would be horrified that the hard left is sowing seeds of division.

@Dangermoo you continue to be beyond ridiculous. Do you think anyone takes you seriously lol

”hard left”

Is that anyone who’s heads not up Nigel garages arse?😂

Only one person who’s spreading seeds of division and anyone with a brain can clearly see it’s him

Horsie · 18/08/2025 20:35

comfyslippets · 18/08/2025 18:03

I will never be ashamed of the English national flag or think of it a racist. How ridiculous. No other country would think like this. Anyone that thinks flying the national flag is racist can piss right off

Flying your country's flag isn't racist, and the flag itself is not racist. However, social and cultural context matters a lot, and the fact is that the English flag has been co-opted by far-right racist groups to the extent that it's their symbol. It was easy for them to use it as the flag of their vile cause because the English don't tend to fly their flag or the Union Jack very much. We don't have them on flagpoles on our houses and shops don't have them flying outside like you see in America, where they fly them everywhere. If the English flag and the Union Jack had been in greater use everywhere, by everyone, like in the States, nefarious groups would not have been able to pretty much grab it for themselves.

Serpentstooth · 18/08/2025 20:35

Dangermoo · 18/08/2025 19:50

So you're being judgemental and prejudiced about people you don't even know. Hmmm...

It's not necessary to know them personally to know who they are. They've got a flag for telling us. That's what flags are for, to signal in place of words. And I choose to avoid them.

Dangermoo · 18/08/2025 20:35

millymollymoomoo · 18/08/2025 20:31

Why is it ok to fly literally any other flag in this country but not our national one?

honestly I’m fed up with it

Don't be fed up with it. See it as a compliment at how many people are obsessed with hating anything to do with the celebration of England. We've got some extremely proud history and culture - much to be envious of. Every country has its bad apples, so this quest to shit on England, is laughable.

Dangermoo · 18/08/2025 20:36

Serpentstooth · 18/08/2025 20:35

It's not necessary to know them personally to know who they are. They've got a flag for telling us. That's what flags are for, to signal in place of words. And I choose to avoid them.

So somebody has a flag in their garden and you jump to conclusions. I doubt they even know of your existence.

HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits · 18/08/2025 20:38

When I visit Switzerland I see Swiss flags in every town and village.
Are they `racist' too, OP?

People like you throwing around pathetic accusations of `racism' every 5 minutes devalue what racism really is.

miraxxx · 18/08/2025 20:39

Horsie · 18/08/2025 20:26

All true, but of course the swastika is tainted probably forever. And the stigma around the English flag is pretty strong. That's what vile anti-Semites and racists have done to those symbols.

Anti-semites and racists haven't done anything to this symbols. You have allowed a minority of bastards to appropriate symbols of great historical, cultural and religious value. I feel like I am hitting my head against the wall here. You do not have to surrender the flag nor the swastika to these people. If everyone flies it instead of tearing it down, you actually take it back from the racists. The only thing stopping you is the social disapproval of your in-group.

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