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To ask those who are not white brittish how they feel about the flags?

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PicaK · 18/08/2025 13:32

Birmingham and Tower Hamlets are having St George England flags put up by privately funded groups.
I'm horrified by the implicit racism. I've seen a lot of white people applauding this and "time we took back the country" comments.
I haven't seen many non white people commenting. My feel is that they are too intimidated to do so. Am I right? Or is it indifference or is it that you're dealing with racism on a daily level and this is just one more thing.
Please don't post if you're white.whatever you feel about the flags. I want to hear on white viewd

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kalevalaa · 18/08/2025 16:56

miraxxx · 18/08/2025 16:38

Your country probably does not have a class system as toxic as the UK. The sneering at the flag comes by way of looking down on the white working class, categorised as the "racist white van and football hooligan" demographic though these people live in more mixed neighbourhoods and more marry out of the race than the upper classes.

In my experience, the white-privileged middle classes, left wing "saviours", are the most racist and intolerant and they absolutely hate the white working class with a passion. Never understood it. It's would be fascinating to study - I'm sure it would be classed as some sort of projection of self-hatred.

HonestOpalHelper · 18/08/2025 16:56

PicaK · 18/08/2025 13:32

Birmingham and Tower Hamlets are having St George England flags put up by privately funded groups.
I'm horrified by the implicit racism. I've seen a lot of white people applauding this and "time we took back the country" comments.
I haven't seen many non white people commenting. My feel is that they are too intimidated to do so. Am I right? Or is it indifference or is it that you're dealing with racism on a daily level and this is just one more thing.
Please don't post if you're white.whatever you feel about the flags. I want to hear on white viewd

The St. Georges flag, the dragon, st. Andrews cross, the union flag and the ulster cross are all the legitimate flags of this nation, it is not racist to fly them any more than it is for the French to fly the tricolour or the US to fly the Stars and Stripes (which they both do, a lot)

There is nothing racist about having national pride, if anything we fly our flags far less than other nations.

There is nothing hateful about any of these flags, they represent the country that you as a resident are part of, you have ownership over them too, they should not intimidate you!

Britain is, and always has been a melting pot of people from all over the world, a good majority of our families rocked up here at some time be it 50 years, 500 or 1000 years ago, its that diversity that has always made it a great nation - going through a difficult patch just now, but I have faith...

Glassmatt · 18/08/2025 16:58

I think the flag is a red herring because it’s not just ‘not ok’ to display the English flag is it? If you say you’re proud to be British that comes with a load of backlash.

People can do what they want and it’s not their concern what other people think
or perceive. It’s a flag of a country, it can’t be changed, deleted or erased and no one group ‘own it’ so live and let live

puglover93 · 18/08/2025 16:59

My husband is Asian but born in the UK. He has absolutely no issue with the flags and they’ve never made him feel like anyone was being racist towards him. I don’t really understand why anyone feels they are racist? If I was in another country and they were flying their own flag I wouldn’t bat an eye lid!

KenAdams · 18/08/2025 16:59

I'm not white British but I am British so its my flag too. Being offended at a country flying its own flag is utter madness.

Calliopespa · 18/08/2025 17:03

PicaK · 18/08/2025 13:45

I was really hoping to hear non-white views.
There's a group who have decided to put up flags on lampposts without permission. They state this is to celebrate being English and for VJ Day. But in interviews they can't but help lapse into the "getting the country back" diatribe and it shows they are abusing the flag. They certainly werent rushing to put them up for VE Day. There's nothing wrong with the flag itself. But the way it's being used is disturbing. It's every lamppost on long lines of streets. It's heavily reminiscent of nazi flags.

How do you know you weren't hearing from the "non-white" posters you "hoped" to hear from?

Was it because they didn't express the views you had pre-decided you expected them to have? Which would make the whole thread a bit of an exercise in question-begging would it not?

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 18/08/2025 17:05

I was a bit annoyed when I was applying for premium bonds and answering the nationality question. You could have Welsh, Irish, Scottish or British. No English option. It really annoyed me.

Cloudymonday · 18/08/2025 17:06

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I read it more that we are not who we say we are...

Tootingbeclido69 · 18/08/2025 17:06

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 18/08/2025 17:05

I was a bit annoyed when I was applying for premium bonds and answering the nationality question. You could have Welsh, Irish, Scottish or British. No English option. It really annoyed me.

No english parliament either

kalevalaa · 18/08/2025 17:06

What does "far right" even mean? - Homophobia, misogyny, hatred of people who don't look like you or share your beliefs? If so, that definition could apply to lots of countries whose flags are regularly flown in the UK and not removed. Are they also "far right"?

CurlewKate · 18/08/2025 17:06

Did you know that if you say you’re English you get arrested? True fact.

Cloudymonday · 18/08/2025 17:07

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 18/08/2025 17:05

I was a bit annoyed when I was applying for premium bonds and answering the nationality question. You could have Welsh, Irish, Scottish or British. No English option. It really annoyed me.

I can actually see why tbh! Would be interest to see reasoning behind that exlusion

Tootingbeclido69 · 18/08/2025 17:07

kalevalaa · 18/08/2025 17:06

What does "far right" even mean? - Homophobia, misogyny, hatred of people who don't look like you or share your beliefs? If so, that definition could apply to lots of countries whose flags are regularly flown in the UK and not removed. Are they also "far right"?

It's just a term to make right leaning voters sound bad

Berlinlover · 18/08/2025 17:08

I’m Irish and think you’re being unreasonable.

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 18/08/2025 17:08

Cloudymonday · 18/08/2025 17:07

I can actually see why tbh! Would be interest to see reasoning behind that exlusion

Well I thought it was unusual to be given the choice of Welsh as I don't think you normally do but I might email them actually to ask why.

Piggywaspushed · 18/08/2025 17:08

Oh come on , there's a world of difference between right leaning and Far Right.

Dannydevitoiloveyourart · 18/08/2025 17:09

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 18/08/2025 16:55

Always confused as to why it seems only the English are portrayed as racist but not the Welsh or Scottish. I don't fancy being an ethnic minority in certain areas there either.

I’ve been an ethnic minority living in all three. And you’re right, there’s racism in all three nations.

But I’d be happy to join a pub on match day in Cardiff or any area in Wales with Welsh flags on display. Would be scared to go in an English pub in similar circumstances or walk alone past a street covered in English flags.

That’s not just because of a stereotype but from learned experience.

Wilfulignoranceabounds · 18/08/2025 17:09

HolidayInCambodia25 · 18/08/2025 14:20

Why would non-white English/British citizens be intimated by seeing the flag of their nation?

Surely as English/British, they feel as deeply proud & patriotic in seeing it, as any white person in the country?

Why should they feel deeply proud and patriotic? Genuine question.

StuntNun · 18/08/2025 17:11

I’m non-white British - English - and I like seeing the Union Jack flying but I feel that the St George flag is sometimes flown more as a protest or statement than as a celebration, apart from at patriotic events such as Remembrance Day. To a lot of English people, England, Great Britain and the United Kingdom are practically synonymous so choosing the England flag over the British flag hits differently to someone in Scotland flying the Saltire or, in Wales, the Y Ddraig Goch when they want to celebrate their individual national identity. Of course, it’s a shame that Northern Ireland has no official flag to fly so it’s the Union Jack or nothing for them.

From a personal point of view, I find the current attitudes to reclaiming the UK for white people worrying. I know there are a subset of white British people who would like to “repatriate” me to a country I’ve never even visited on holiday, even though I was born in England. My children have a white father, are white passing and were born in the UK. Are they to be repatriated to a country they know almost nothing about as well? What would happen to my elderly mother who immigrated here in 1967, renounced her nationality and took British citizenship? She’s lived in England for three times as long as she lived in her country of birth!

LittleMG · 18/08/2025 17:12

I’m shocked at how many people don’t see the connotation of racism in the St George flag. It’s used by far right and racist groups and as a ‘message’ where I live. If you want to display a flag why not the Union Jack why choose the other one unless you want to make a point?

skippy67 · 18/08/2025 17:12

CurlewKate · 18/08/2025 17:06

Did you know that if you say you’re English you get arrested? True fact.

Yep. Just for saying you're English. Fact.

CurlewKate · 18/08/2025 17:13

How can anyone who watches the news not think that the St George’s Flag is being appropriated by violent racist thugs?

justasking111 · 18/08/2025 17:13

In Wales it's always baffled me that the English flag is so contentious. Two sons lived abroad and flew their Welsh flags to support every rugby event wherever they were. As did the Irish they met.

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 18/08/2025 17:13

LittleMG · 18/08/2025 17:12

I’m shocked at how many people don’t see the connotation of racism in the St George flag. It’s used by far right and racist groups and as a ‘message’ where I live. If you want to display a flag why not the Union Jack why choose the other one unless you want to make a point?

What if you prefer to identify as English rather than British? Many in the rest of the UK don't want to either.

Maddy70 · 18/08/2025 17:14

It's the association that's now with the right wing fascists that's the issue. Not the flag. Don't have this with the Scottish or Welsh flag

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