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300 children from Gaza to be brought to the UK for free specialist NHS care

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Fragmentedbrain · 03/08/2025 01:33

According to the Sunday Times. That's nearly as many beds as there are in Great Ormond Street, where the average waiting time for paediatric surgery is 15 weeks (which is fairly typical nationwide).

Why is it mysteriously possible for government to deliver these showy, headline-grabbing measures (I know we already knew it could happen from COVID policy) but not to just make systems work well in an ordinary way?

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Sweetheart1990 · 03/08/2025 17:51

Thegreyhound · 03/08/2025 17:47

If a kid from Gaza where a genocide is taking place shouldn’t get asylum in your opinion then you clearly don’t believe in the concept of asylum at all. It would be hard to think of a more deserving case!

Ok well then every person in an awful situation, in a third world country we should just bring here then? It is horrendous what is happening but it is impossible to help everyone. We can treat them medically and save their life without housing them and their family for eternity

PersephoneSeethes · 03/08/2025 17:53

Izzadoraduncancan · 03/08/2025 17:46

I’m posting as a Mum whose child is waiting on surgery in GOSH but we live abroad. Our child is incredibly complex and her care falls outside the capability of our specialist paediatric teams.
We are so grateful GOSH takes on these complex cases, our own government pays and they will be treated like any NHS child - just a bill sent at the end.
The bigger picture is that GOSH also gains knowledge and understanding from these children that down the line will benefit all.

Thank you for sharing your perspective. I think that cases like your child's aren't comparable, in this situation. This is a large number of children in a short amount of time from a place that is actively in a state of war so they their return is uncertain at best.

Sweetheart1990 · 03/08/2025 17:53

PandoraSocks · 03/08/2025 17:51

And I am very happy about that, if it is happening on the new estate local to me. As you said, we need more social housing for people in need. That includes refugees.

Yes I knew you'd be happy, just wanted to inform you as you said it was for them. Funny, I thought you knew everything 😅

TooBigForMyBoots · 03/08/2025 17:55

Sweetheart1990 · 03/08/2025 17:13

Everybody wants to see an end to this, and no body wants to see innocent people suffer, in all for helping these children but I think we have to control what happens to them and their families afterwards, it's quite obvious that they will claim asylum and get it, which is not what we need, we cannot keep accepting people into this country. It's not working and the country is on its knees as it is.

That's what some said about Kindertransport. I will always be grateful our government ignored those voices and brought those children here.❤️

RingDoor · 03/08/2025 17:57

PandoraSocks · 03/08/2025 17:35

I very much wish he could be.

But the fact that Hamas are abusing him and won't do the right thing by releasing him, doesn't mean we shouldn't do the right thing for these children. They are innocents in this war.

Quite. We should help the Palestinian children and any hostages if needed. I suspect Israeli hostages would be able to receive great medical care in Israel when I hope they are released, but they are as deserving of help as anyone else.

People need to remember that our nationality, who we are etc just comes down to luck and nothing else. I could have been born in any country in the world, but I was born here. That does not make me any better than a suffering child in Palestine or more deserving of help.

nearlylovemyusername · 03/08/2025 17:58

PandoraSocks · 03/08/2025 17:46

Put it this way, Sweetheart.

There is a very large new estate being built a couple of miles away from me. The houses are very expensive. They are not going to refugees.

No need to worry about me.

Would you have the same views if this housing estate was given to refugees? if you lived in a very cheap area and new builds were allocated to them?

And no, we don't need to be in harmony for this.
For avoidance of doubt - I have no issues with children being treated here, I think they should be supported. Even if it costs 30-60mn of taxpayers money it's still drop in the ocean. I do have an issue with them staying here after treatment. Which they most certainly will do.

Hagr1d · 03/08/2025 17:58

PurpleChrayn · 03/08/2025 11:28

Surely they can be treated in one of the Muslim Arab nations that seems to care so much for their plight.

Of course, before October 7, Palestinian children and adults received care in Israeli hospitals, often driven their by volunteers from the kibbutzes, who were massacred on Oct 7.

The Muslim Arab nations have treated many.

What does Oct 7th have to do with this situation? The children didn't cause Oct 7th. The children are not hamas. Hamas was in power before these poor kids were even born.
Or are you insinuating that these children deserve to be maimed, orphaned and killed?

Do you begrudge children getting medical treatment? Did you forget that Israel has flattened most Gazan medical facilities or that the UK has been arming Israel and supplying parts for the fighter jets used to murder?

Helping 300 children is the least Starmer can and should do.

Having said that, NHS wait times ARE appalling and to me this is proof that it was never about money... There's always plenty of money to fund war and destruction but not enough for British kids to get medical help?

It is a PR tactic for Starmer but we see through his BS. Too little too late, 18,500 children already dead. Nothing can justify that.

cardibach · 03/08/2025 18:00

PersephoneSeethes · 03/08/2025 16:39

I think that is deeply unfair, biased and blinkered. How do you reconcile that many of Reform's voters are former long-time Labour voters and members? Bear in mind I have never voted Reform or Labour in my life, so this isn't a discussion about my personal beliefs. I'm discussing it philosophically.

I think Reform are deeply unfair, biased and blinkered. Whatever anyone who votes for them voted before, the same applies. I don’t tolerate people who tolerate racist, sexist grifters.

Sweetheart1990 · 03/08/2025 18:01

cardibach · 03/08/2025 18:00

I think Reform are deeply unfair, biased and blinkered. Whatever anyone who votes for them voted before, the same applies. I don’t tolerate people who tolerate racist, sexist grifters.

But you tolerate people who voted for starmer???

cardibach · 03/08/2025 18:01

nearlylovemyusername · 03/08/2025 16:40

Read this again -

in the NHS. Not just NHS specialist, but in the NHS.

Private treatments happen in parallel.

it’s almost all funded privately.

SunnySideDeepDown · 03/08/2025 18:01

TakeMe2Insanity · 03/08/2025 10:41

Rather than being outraged at the government funding (or maybe not) kids from Gaza coming for treatment be outraged that the government is complicit in their starvation and injuries by funding spy planes, personnel and whatever else to the Israelis.

Make sure you add in outrage at Hamas for slaughtering and kidnapping innocent Israelis, some of whom have yet to return home and are also starving and being kept away from their family and friends.

Israel wants its civilians home - Hamas are choosing to put its own people in the firing line. Why is everyone ignoring what’s blatantly obvious?! (That innocent civilians on both sides are being used as weapons in the war STARTED by Hamas, a terrorist organisation).

RingDoor · 03/08/2025 18:02

As an NHS doctor, we treat people according to clinical priority, not the country they come from. I don’t think 300 is an enormous number of patients, given the size of the NHS.

Random anecdote. I have recently been seeing a patient who has had uncertain immigration status for the last eight years. It has severely affected his mental health. He is sleeping on people’s floors and accepting charity off friends, claiming nothing. I wrote lots of supporting letters, thinking they would be ignored as usual. Last week he got his Right to stay here approved. It actually brought tears to my eyes as I was so happy for him. He is now looking for work and wants to rebuild his life. A wonderful result when we can help people like this.

Good to hear so many supportive voices here on this thread for the Palestinian children. I do think there has been a shift even from a few months ago. There are always some dissenting voices but I’m glad that the overall mood here is to help these kids.

DuncinToffee · 03/08/2025 18:02

Sweetheart1990 · 03/08/2025 17:41

If refugees need housing then surely houses being built are going to house them 🤔 I worry for you ...

Nobody is building houses just for refugees. But yes some of those houses will go to people who have had their asylum claim granted.

nearlylovemyusername · 03/08/2025 18:03

cardibach · 03/08/2025 18:01

it’s almost all funded privately.

link please?

Internaut · 03/08/2025 18:03

SoHereWeAre01 · 03/08/2025 10:39

Why can’t their neighbours help more? Some of the best medical facilities are in the Arab world… but somehow it makes sense to fly them half across the world to use facilities that are breaking point. The NHS is struggling to cope with the backlog of child operations and you need to wait 2-3 years for a simple ear grommet operation… (my son is half deaf and falling behind in his speech and social interaction) but somehow we can prioritise children from other countries….

Should we let children die while we argue about whether their neighbours should be doing more?

Izzadoraduncancan · 03/08/2025 18:04

PersephoneSeethes · 03/08/2025 17:53

Thank you for sharing your perspective. I think that cases like your child's aren't comparable, in this situation. This is a large number of children in a short amount of time from a place that is actively in a state of war so they their return is uncertain at best.

She is still taking up an NHS bed and a space on a theatre list. She is also not the only child

DuncinToffee · 03/08/2025 18:05

nearlylovemyusername · 03/08/2025 18:03

link please?

Does it matter now you have agreed that it is good that the UK is helping these children?

PersephoneSeethes · 03/08/2025 18:05

cardibach · 03/08/2025 18:00

I think Reform are deeply unfair, biased and blinkered. Whatever anyone who votes for them voted before, the same applies. I don’t tolerate people who tolerate racist, sexist grifters.

Not everyone who votes for Reform fits that though. I have been very surprised at the people who have quietly said they would vote Reform, they have come across as Lib Dems and very central normal. Usually one event has tipped them over the edge.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 03/08/2025 18:05

Once the government gets a grip on processing asylum seeker claims, there will be plenty of space left.

I like others am unhappy with the current situation, large numbers of male asylum seekers arriving by boat, this is very different.

Children should be prioritised. Especially children who have been through conflict.

PandoraSocks · 03/08/2025 18:06

Sweetheart1990 · 03/08/2025 17:53

Yes I knew you'd be happy, just wanted to inform you as you said it was for them. Funny, I thought you knew everything 😅

I said what was for whom?

I wish I did know everything. Then I might understand why some people are so filled with hate.

I am leaving it there, now. Have a lovely evening, Sweetheart.

RingDoor · 03/08/2025 18:06

Fragmentedbrain · 03/08/2025 10:18

To think it's outrageous that we can pay for 300 Gazan kids (it is the NHS paying for this - the philanthropic stuff is separate) but not British kids? The paediatric pain management services in NHS England has a waiting time of c17 weeks.

This isn't about not treating kids from Gaza (although I knew some people would choose to read it that way). It's about the political choice to make children in the UK wait months to have essential surgery or pain treatment. Why is nobody protesting about that?

It's about the political choice to make children in the UK wait months to have essential surgery or pain treatment. Why is nobody protesting about that?

OP if you are planning on putting your money where your mouth is, and you start a protest about the underfunding and mismanagement of the NHS. I promise I would join that.

MarieAndTwinette · 03/08/2025 18:08

Lilaclinacre · 03/08/2025 15:17

You say it like this issue is so black and and white. Like hamas have done no wrong at all and wouldn't be happily commiting genocide if the shoe were on the other foot (from the river to the sea?) You talk like the UK is out there on the ground killing gazans (assisting genocide) instead of trying to intervene in a very complex and unwinnable geopolitical situation like most other western countries.I support neither gaza nor Israel in general, but if absolutely pushed I would choose the Israelis as at least they are democratic and support womens and lgbt rights as a society. However I don't agree with Israeli expansionism and both sides are as rabid as each other at their extremes.Both sides have grievances stretching back to biblical times and both sides think they have god on their side.It is not a straightforward victim/aggressor situation. So no the UK has not supported nor assisted in genocide.

i think history may disagree with you. Many experts already do.

Thegreyhound · 03/08/2025 18:08

SunnySideDeepDown · 03/08/2025 18:01

Make sure you add in outrage at Hamas for slaughtering and kidnapping innocent Israelis, some of whom have yet to return home and are also starving and being kept away from their family and friends.

Israel wants its civilians home - Hamas are choosing to put its own people in the firing line. Why is everyone ignoring what’s blatantly obvious?! (That innocent civilians on both sides are being used as weapons in the war STARTED by Hamas, a terrorist organisation).

Everyone knows that this situation did not start on October 7th, it’s just daft to keep going on about it. This time 11 years ago people were marching in London against bombing and murder in Gaza. Look it up if you don’t believe me.

RingDoor · 03/08/2025 18:09

PersephoneSeethes · 03/08/2025 18:05

Not everyone who votes for Reform fits that though. I have been very surprised at the people who have quietly said they would vote Reform, they have come across as Lib Dems and very central normal. Usually one event has tipped them over the edge.

Yes, I have come across ‘middle class liberal’ friends who have said they’re going to vote Reform The two reasons they cite is the crushing of small to medium size business growth by labour, and an increasing benefits bill. They have not mentioned immigration, but I guess everybody has their different reason for wanting to vote Reform. Let’s see what the next few years bring. It’s a long time off still

MarieAndTwinette · 03/08/2025 18:10

RingDoor · 03/08/2025 18:06

It's about the political choice to make children in the UK wait months to have essential surgery or pain treatment. Why is nobody protesting about that?

OP if you are planning on putting your money where your mouth is, and you start a protest about the underfunding and mismanagement of the NHS. I promise I would join that.

So would I. But if you do this please be humane and leave the Gazan children, who have already suffered so much, out of it.

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