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To be shocked about this?

122 replies

Primrosevalley · 02/08/2025 11:43

My friend just said that they went on a coach trip to wales yesterday with her children. One of which has had chicken pox since Tuesday, so only a few days before. She said she’s not all scabbed over either. To me, I’m quite shocked they would do this, especially as these coach trips tend to have older people on them, maybe babies/pregnant people.

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Cabinqueen · 03/08/2025 21:14

Kimmeridge · 03/08/2025 17:43

To me, I’m quite shocked they would do this, especially as these coach trips tend to have older people on them, maybe babies/pregnant people

Pregnant people??? Wtf

If someone is pregnant theyre a woman.

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

tothelefttotheleft · 03/08/2025 21:18

@Hotdays

There used to be chicken pox parties but it was never socially acceptable to mix with the wider public if children or adults knowingly had it.

SparklesGlitter · 03/08/2025 21:18

Annoyeddd · 03/08/2025 17:37

Most older people will have had chickenpox either as children or from their own children so they need not be a worry to you.

Except the risk of side effects are much greater??? Most, not all will have had chickenpox. My one DB was around me and my other DB when we had it ans children. And yet didn’t get it until he was in his 20’s and was really bad. It can cause miscarriage in early pregnancy and infertility men. Quite worrying really

LadySuzanne · 03/08/2025 21:20

Firefly1987 · 03/08/2025 18:53

Those at risk of shingles are the ones that HAVE had chickenpox. It's the same virus it just lays dormant in your system. Do they even do a shingles jab for younger adults? Surely the worry is about getting chickenpox as an adult and whether to have the chickenpox jab or not? Since it's so much more serious in adults.

Unless you meet the NHS criteria, you cannot get an NHS shingles jab.

It's available free via the NHS for all adults turning 65, those aged 70 to 79 and those aged 50 and over with a severely weakened immune system.

(Over the next 10 years, the programme will eventually include all those from 60 years of age.)

https://www.nhs.uk/vaccinations/shingles-vaccine

It is a two part vaccination (called "Shingrix") given two to six months apart.

I have had the NHS vaccination. I had chicken pox when I was 2 years old.

More here: www.gov.uk/government/publications/shingles-vaccination-for-adults-aged-70-or-79-years-of-age-a5-leaflet/vaccination-against-shingles-guide-from-september-2023#eligibility-for-the-vaccine

If you want to obtain a private vaccine it is expensive.

Superdrug charges £459 for the two doses.

healthclinics.superdrug.com/services/shingles-vaccination

"The shingles vaccine is suitable for patients aged 50 years and over who have either had chickenpox or have received the chickenpox vaccine in the past.

If you have neither had chickenpox nor the vaccine, you are not at risk of developing shingles and the vaccine won’t be suitable for you. In this case, you could benefit from the chickenpox vaccine.

You will be unable to have the shingles vaccination if you have had one or more episodes of shingles in the last 12 months.

The vaccine is not suitable for you if you are pregnant or trying for a baby. You need to use contraception for at least 4 weeks after having received the vaccine. The vaccine is not advised for breastfeeding women.

The vaccine also won’t be right for you if you have certain medical conditions or are taking certain medications. This may be the case if you are taking medicines that affect your immune system or if you have recently taken medication for herpes.

The nurse or pharmacist will check your medical history and ensure the vaccine is safe and beneficial for you before administering the injection."

LadySuzanne · 03/08/2025 21:27

Superdrug charges £150 for two doses of the chickenpox vaccine:

https://healthclinics.superdrug.com/services/chickenpox-vaccination

milkandhoney2 · 03/08/2025 21:45

Womblingmerrily · 03/08/2025 18:04

No I'm not missing the point

Most adults will have had chickenpox and be immune.

Are you talking about the vanishingly small number of older adults who have never had chicken pox and have not chosen to get a chicken pox vaccination either?

Immunocompromised people?

novanoir · 03/08/2025 21:49

Selfish bitch. My 8yo is immunosuppressed and this could’ve floored her, or someone like her, or the elderly, pregnant etc.
I hate people.

mumda · 03/08/2025 22:01

Annoyeddd · 03/08/2025 17:37

Most older people will have had chickenpox either as children or from their own children so they need not be a worry to you.

I've had it twice.

Welshmonster · 04/08/2025 00:29

Annoyeddd · 03/08/2025 17:37

Most older people will have had chickenpox either as children or from their own children so they need not be a worry to you.

Not everyone had chicken pox and my FIL got shingles when my kid had chicken pox and was poorly with it.

Welshmonster · 04/08/2025 00:30

What an absolute selfish bitch she is. Dump her as a friend

NavyTurtle · 04/08/2025 08:26

Annoyeddd · 03/08/2025 17:37

Most older people will have had chickenpox either as children or from their own children so they need not be a worry to you.

Utter rubbish. Older people can contract shingles from this.

Childrenare4life · 04/08/2025 09:09

You can get chicken pox twice so she put everyone at risk.

HelenaWaiting · 04/08/2025 09:12

Annoyeddd · 03/08/2025 17:37

Most older people will have had chickenpox either as children or from their own children so they need not be a worry to you.

Having previously had chicken pox does not confer immunity.

Myme · 04/08/2025 09:15

HelenaWaiting · 04/08/2025 09:12

Having previously had chicken pox does not confer immunity.

To the vast majority it does though

PensionedCruiser · 04/08/2025 15:52

endofthelinefinally · 03/08/2025 19:20

I would like to have my shingles vaccine but I don't think I will ever fall into the designated age group. I have been waiting 10 years. The goal pists keep moving.

They certainly do! The latest vaccine is Shingrix and certainly here in Scotland, the criteria has changed. I had mine last year (67), but I am immunocompromised. I had investigated having the old one done privately, but it was horrendously expensive.

I've just looked at our vaccination schedule and it seems that everyone 70 and over and 65, 66 are eligible. 67, 68 and 69 seem to have to wait until they're 70.

PHB65 · 04/08/2025 20:47

I got chicken pox at the grand age of 29, never been so ill in my life.
what can be mild in children can be something all together different in adults.
And don’t even get me started on pregnant women and babies.
That woman needs a serious talking too. 😡

monkeysox · 04/08/2025 21:17

Selfish arsehole

Rosscameasdoody · 04/08/2025 22:02

HelenaWaiting · 04/08/2025 09:12

Having previously had chicken pox does not confer immunity.

It does in most cases. Those who have a compromised immune system - either through illness or the effects of certain treatments - may not produce a strong enough immune response to confer immunity,

Rosscameasdoody · 04/08/2025 22:08

Welshmonster · 04/08/2025 00:29

Not everyone had chicken pox and my FIL got shingles when my kid had chicken pox and was poorly with it.

You can’t get shingles from someone with chickenpox. Shingles is the reactivation of the varicella zoster virus in someone who has already had chickenpox - the virus lies dormant. You can, however, get chickenpox from someone with shingles if you’ve never had chickenpox before.

Rosscameasdoody · 04/08/2025 22:14

NavyTurtle · 04/08/2025 08:26

Utter rubbish. Older people can contract shingles from this.

No they cant. You can’t get shingles unless you’ve already had chickenpox. The virus is reactivated after lying dormant in the body. If you’ve had chickenpox you carry the virus and you can only get shingles in later life from reactivation of the virus, not from anyone else’s’ chickenpox.

Rosscameasdoody · 04/08/2025 22:17

Justthethingsthatyoudointhisgarden · 03/08/2025 17:56

Erm, they can get shingles

Nope. You get shingles from having had chickenpox and the virus being reactivated in your system. If you haven’t had chickenpox you can’t get shingles.

ChiliFiend · 06/08/2025 19:37

Chicken pox is so contagious that everyone on that bus who was unprotected by a vaccination or previous infection would have been infected by the end of the journey. What an extraordinarily selfish thing to do.

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