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To invoice a repairman?

227 replies

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 18:21

Hi.

My DH took our car to a local handyman/mechanic who is a friend for some work needed. Basically tyre changes, oil changes, handbrake tightening etc

He kept the car for three days, and then when we returned it he gave us an invoice of £30 to cover "costs".

What "costs"? We supplied the tyres to him!

My husband paid him, but I'm fuming. He originally said he wouldn't charge for his labour, as we have known him for so long.

I have decided I am going to send him an invoice for keeping our car longer than he said he would, to reimburse us for having to get the bus into town when we should have been able to drive.

I know this is petty, but a point needs proving. You can't keep a car longer than you promise, and then invoice for a favour!!!!

I'm wondering if it's petty to invoice for more than £30, just to make a point?

My DH says no, and this will only cause trouble, but I'm not being a doormat for his dishonest mate.

What do you all think?

OP posts:
Mastercom · 31/07/2025 19:14

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 19:08

Do you not watch "Richard Vobes" on YouTube?

He explains it all!

Nobody is surprised you’re into YouTube.

NewsdeskJC · 31/07/2025 19:15

The words you are looking for are
Thank You.
Hth

RepoTheGeriatricOpera · 31/07/2025 19:15

Oooooh good one op, get attention with a very unreasonable post, and then turn it into what you really wanted attention on, some weirdo on YouTube talking about promissary notes.

The old bait and switch.

LottieMary · 31/07/2025 19:15

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 19:09

Watch Richard Vobes on YouTube!

were you one of the people banging on about the Magna Carta during Covid?

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 31/07/2025 19:17

Have you been drinking, OP?

AffIt · 31/07/2025 19:20

MNpenisadvisor · 31/07/2025 19:09

Good god op is completely delulu

Strong 'freeman of the land' vibes from this one.

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 31/07/2025 19:21

Vobes, the person who describes himself as "I love dreaming up stories and peppering them with oddball characters"?

Yeah, you've definitely outplayed your hand here Dickie.

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 19:22

AffIt · 31/07/2025 19:20

Strong 'freeman of the land' vibes from this one.

I do travel, yes. That's what I need my car for.

OP posts:
HonestOpalHelper · 31/07/2025 19:22

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 18:33

Maybe I didn't express myself clearly.

He promised to do this for free?

I trust you will be filling in a self assessment return for your invoice?

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 19:23

HonestOpalHelper · 31/07/2025 19:22

I trust you will be filling in a self assessment return for your invoice?

Seriously?

I use my car for my business.

OP posts:
UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 31/07/2025 19:23

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 19:22

I do travel, yes. That's what I need my car for.

Didn't go for long did you?

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 19:23

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 31/07/2025 19:23

Didn't go for long did you?

Yes

OP posts:
PropertyD · 31/07/2025 19:24

You sound deluded.

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 19:25

PropertyD · 31/07/2025 19:24

You sound deluded.

If by deluded, you mean awesome, then yes. Thank you very much.

OP posts:
goingtotown · 31/07/2025 19:25

Batshit or troll, I can’t decide.

HonestOpalHelper · 31/07/2025 19:26

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 19:23

Seriously?

I use my car for my business.

Then if you invoice him, assuming he pays that goes on your SA or corporate tax return as income, that's the law.

Tiswa · 31/07/2025 19:26

I have not heard promissory notes since I played game of life and were used if you went into debt to buy something as a promise to pay back once you have money - it is a legal instrument of debt mainly and not legal tender!

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 31/07/2025 19:26

So Dickie Vobes, is this how you spend your Thursday evenings? Coming up with implausible stories to try to drive traffic to your floundering YouTube channel?

Nagginthenag · 31/07/2025 19:27

AffIt · 31/07/2025 19:20

Strong 'freeman of the land' vibes from this one.

Yup, just thinking that.

Smallsalt · 31/07/2025 19:27

You cannot be real😁. What an odious bint. Do you know how much oil costs?

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 19:27

HonestOpalHelper · 31/07/2025 19:26

Then if you invoice him, assuming he pays that goes on your SA or corporate tax return as income, that's the law.

Yes. And I will pay him. With promissory notes

OP posts:
HonestOpalHelper · 31/07/2025 19:29

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 19:27

Yes. And I will pay him. With promissory notes

Why are you paying him if you claim he owes you money?

legsekeven · 31/07/2025 19:29

Can you film yourself taking a promissory note to Tesco for the groceries. Would love to watch it

Nagginthenag · 31/07/2025 19:29

I'm betting the OP doesn't get paid by promissory notes.....

Smallsalt · 31/07/2025 19:29

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 18:37

Ok...looks like I'm in the wrong on this one.
I'll give him a promissory note for the full £30 tomorrow.

A promissory note?
Give him the fucking money .