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Thread 11: To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film?

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DisappointedReader · 29/07/2025 15:01

The Observer The real Salt Path: how a blockbuster book and film were ...
2nd Observer https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-whats-in-the-book-and-what-the-observer-has-found
3rd Observer https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-the-truth-behind-the-blockbuster-book-video
4th Observer ‘I felt I was being gaslit’ – the landlord who helped Ray...
Raynor Winn/Sally Walker's statement Raynor Winn
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New posters welcome. It would be helpful to read at least the four Observer items above before posting. There are currently 10 items on The Observer website The real Salt Path | The Observer

To all - Please be extremely cautious when it comes to naming or implicating people and addresses not in the public eye or with no direct connection to the story, and around the understandable health speculations, especially where details are unclear or still emerging. Please do not engage with visitors who seem to have their own agenda and seek to derail. Avoid @'ing and quoting them as - from experience - this will only encourage them back to the threads. We have done amazingly well together for ten very interesting, very serious and very silly threads so far. I can't be here as much as I'd like so all help with keeping our discussion walking along in a healthy and civil fashion is very welcome.

No saltiness. Keep to the path.

Does stolen fudge taste better?

The real Salt Path | The Observer

The real Salt Path | The Observer

<p>The truth behind the blockbuster book and film</p>

https://observer.co.uk/collections/the-real-salt-path

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Tidalisland · 30/07/2025 18:09

Fandango52 · 30/07/2025 13:31

This is a really interesting theory.

This bit from your post (wouldn’t be surprising if Sally felt the entire family were saying ‘Told you so!’ now she finds herself living in her sister’s outbuilding) makes me wonder whether Polly really is Sally’s sister though.

I just question it because we know Sally cares deeply about what others think of her - or even what she thinks others might be thinking of her - because of the way she reacts to potentially living in a council house when they lose their home.

Also, given Sally and TimMoth went to great lengths to stay away from people they knew after their house was repossessed, I don’t understand why they would accept a family member’s invitation (Polly’s invitation - if Polly is in fact her sister) to stay?

Polly’s treatment of them also seems a bit off if she is, in fact, Sally’s sister. If she’d invited Sally and TimMoth to stay and had known TimMoth was very unwell, why put them up in a freezing rundown cattle shed rather than an actual bedroom in the house? I know it’s possible of course that she may not have had a spare room available for them, but why invite them to stay if you don’t have room for them? A cattle shed definitely doesn’t count as a proper room!

It's all a bit 'no room at the inn'.

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 30/07/2025 18:28

FurryHappyKittens · 30/07/2025 16:01

But we just have to look at how many many others who fawn over the book bought into their desperation.

I'm an old cynic and I bought into it, although fawning would be beyond me!

Interestingly, when I went to see the film, I was horrified at their thievery. The cafe where they asked for hot water really stood out.

I found myself wondering why it needed me to see it before I had that reaction.

I didn't wonder for long, because the story broke!

Edited

Snap.
When I read the book, the stuff about using their own tea bags in the cafe didn't register, but it certainly did when I saw the film.

RainyTuesdaysAndSunnyWednesdays · 30/07/2025 18:29

I don't think that Polly is the sister. Looking on FindMyPast (other family tree sites are available!), I can find her sister, born in 1957. Someone with that name then marries in 1977 in the same area but passed away in 2005 in Leicester. I have not yet had time to research women with that name outside the Staffs / Leicestershire area, but will do so to see if she moved before getting married. This would explain why she was not at her mother's bedside with Raynor/Sal.

MrsKypp · 30/07/2025 18:41

Thanks for thread 11 @DisappointedReader

ThatFluentHedgehog · 30/07/2025 18:56

NoCowardSoul · 30/07/2025 11:15

Also, it’s not all that rare. (I say this as someone with only basic knowledge of plants, but an old friend of ours used to work for a big conservation charity, and there was one orchid so rare and in demand with collectors that it got its own security detail in the four places it was known to grow during blooming period.) Irish Lady’s Tresses are far rarer.

This is a distribution map for autumn Lady’s Tresses:

https://bsbi.org/maps?taxonid=2cd4p9h.w2y

Agreed on the ‘everyone else is dashing along while we come with nature’ snark.

Oooh, Irish Lady's Tresses sound fab, a plant with a security detail! That's what the in-person MNers needed the other night haha.

Re: the go slow in nature snark. Maybe I've met them!! I did the Coast to Coast cycle in 2015* and stopped one night in the Lake District at a gastropub inn.

The [temporary?] landlord, who was exceedingly grumpy to have to do any work, and his wife loudly made it known that they disliked cyclists who "just rush past everything!"**. They weren't keen on the mud on my bike – even outside. Let me add, this was not a posh or gleaming place either. Nice enough, but not that special.

She looked SWish, but he wasn't much of a TW/SA/MK.

*For charity, on a shopping bike – yes, the Pennine encountered was very difficult, I wheeled it up.
**I couldn't walk Wainwright's Walk, as couldn't take so much time off work.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 30/07/2025 19:03

Catwith69lives · 30/07/2025 17:09

Not sure I can stretch to Rick Stein's chips so might have to settle for these guys

Oh come on... whilst I can't speak on behalf of @Fandango52 I will say it's gotta be the superior salt n vinegar otherwise I'm not interested.

But yes, please give generously to the go fund me. If we get enough I might be able to start actually paying for my Fudge bars rather than shoving them up my jumper!

Medlar · 30/07/2025 19:04

I don't think Irish Lady's Tresses get the security detail, I think that's Lady's Slipper -- I think at one point there was only a single patch of it in the UK somewhere in Yorkshire, and it has security cameras and a dedicated warden when it was in bloom!

CoasttoCoast84 · 30/07/2025 19:41

Just catching up after a few days 😂

I went abroad and on the plane in front of me was a young woman chatting animatedly about all the controversy and she had a copy of the TSP and was about to start 🙈 it made me realise how many people will be buying the book for this reason alone 🙈🙈

Also - still no comments from the film side of things including GA and JI?! It reminds me of when everything about Ellen came out and sooo many were silent.

Catwith69lives · 30/07/2025 19:48

CoasttoCoast84 · 30/07/2025 19:41

Just catching up after a few days 😂

I went abroad and on the plane in front of me was a young woman chatting animatedly about all the controversy and she had a copy of the TSP and was about to start 🙈 it made me realise how many people will be buying the book for this reason alone 🙈🙈

Also - still no comments from the film side of things including GA and JI?! It reminds me of when everything about Ellen came out and sooo many were silent.

Since the Observer revelations, TSP comes with a 'health warning'. If people wish to read it and take from it, what they want, so be it.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 30/07/2025 19:54

Catwith69lives · 30/07/2025 19:48

Since the Observer revelations, TSP comes with a 'health warning'. If people wish to read it and take from it, what they want, so be it.

Take this path with a pinch of salt, surely.

Catwith69lives · 30/07/2025 19:59

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 30/07/2025 19:54

Take this path with a pinch of salt, surely.

Indeed!

Do not, as some ungracious pastors do,
Show me the steep and thorny way to heaven,
Whiles, like a puffed and reckless libertine,
Himself the primrose path of dalliance treads,
And recks not his own rede.

TheBrandyPath · 30/07/2025 20:00

@CoasttoCoast84 Also - still no comments from the film side of things including GA and JI?! It reminds me of when everything about Ellen came out and sooo many were silent.

Yes at a cinema in Plymouth, last night:
We are delighted to welcome the screenwriter and director, Rebecca Lenkiewicz, to the screening on July 29th.
I would have loved to have gone and asked her about her screenwriting of TSP - but she was there for her debut directorship of another film, and didn't think it would be appreciated!

FurryHappyKittens · 30/07/2025 20:01

Also - still no comments from the film side of things including GA and JI?! It reminds me of when everything about Ellen came out and sooo many were silent.

What can Gillian and Jason say? They were hoodwinked and made fools of. Particularly Jason. From them, silence is probably best from their pov.

Will those behind the film let it go? They've potentially lost millions. Plus there'll have been contractual obligations from Gillian and Jason that are likely being discussed.

Priorlake · 30/07/2025 20:02

I (well, my brother) overheard someone talking about the controversy on holiday too! Last week we were camping near Polruan and the cider farm. My brother overheard a child in the party next to us talking about them two days running. First they were telling the adults in their party the Winns were 'hiding out because a mob was after them', then the next day they were jokingly telling someone they were running away, 'just like Raynor Winn' 😁

Fandango52 · 30/07/2025 20:03

CoasttoCoast84 · 30/07/2025 19:41

Just catching up after a few days 😂

I went abroad and on the plane in front of me was a young woman chatting animatedly about all the controversy and she had a copy of the TSP and was about to start 🙈 it made me realise how many people will be buying the book for this reason alone 🙈🙈

Also - still no comments from the film side of things including GA and JI?! It reminds me of when everything about Ellen came out and sooo many were silent.

Yeah - for me, it leaves a bad taste that the Winn/Walkers are still making money off TSP, especially if people continue to buy it to see for themselves what they read about it in the press.

In terms of GA and JI, it does seem to be a situation where they’re caught in the middle,. No doubt many people will be wanting them to say something, whilst others will think it best they don’t say anything. If they do say anything, that may well draw attention from the Observer investigation, so it’s probably for the best they don’t say anything yet. I actually think it’s fine for them to not say anything, because I don’t know what they can say that hasn’t already been said. Yes, JI did fawn a bit over Moth, but I think that’s understandable given he is an actor promoting a film about a living person in terrible circumstances (as we understood then).

Catwith69lives · 30/07/2025 20:03

TheBrandyPath · 30/07/2025 20:00

@CoasttoCoast84 Also - still no comments from the film side of things including GA and JI?! It reminds me of when everything about Ellen came out and sooo many were silent.

Yes at a cinema in Plymouth, last night:
We are delighted to welcome the screenwriter and director, Rebecca Lenkiewicz, to the screening on July 29th.
I would have loved to have gone and asked her about her screenwriting of TSP - but she was there for her debut directorship of another film, and didn't think it would be appreciated!

Rebecca L, daughter of the great Plymouth artist Robert Lenkiewicz, the stories about whom would make Raynor and Moth pale into insignificance....

Thread 11: To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film?
AldoGordo · 30/07/2025 20:09

RainyTuesdaysAndSunnyWednesdays · 30/07/2025 18:29

I don't think that Polly is the sister. Looking on FindMyPast (other family tree sites are available!), I can find her sister, born in 1957. Someone with that name then marries in 1977 in the same area but passed away in 2005 in Leicester. I have not yet had time to research women with that name outside the Staffs / Leicestershire area, but will do so to see if she moved before getting married. This would explain why she was not at her mother's bedside with Raynor/Sal.

I don't think Polly is her sister either, but for different reasons. I mentioned it ages ago but I think i may have fallen foul of the thread rule of keeping uninvolved/non-reported names out the frame. As vague as I can be, there are two names in the acknowledgments of TSP that are suggestive of a couple and those names match her sister and BIL. Meanwhile Polly is also acknowleged. The "couple" could of course not be her sister and BIL but it's intriguing to consider.

TheBrandyPath · 30/07/2025 20:11

Priorlake · 30/07/2025 20:02

I (well, my brother) overheard someone talking about the controversy on holiday too! Last week we were camping near Polruan and the cider farm. My brother overheard a child in the party next to us talking about them two days running. First they were telling the adults in their party the Winns were 'hiding out because a mob was after them', then the next day they were jokingly telling someone they were running away, 'just like Raynor Winn' 😁

That is quite strange - almost like it has entered popular culture, for a while anyway. What I am most concerned about though is - did you get any cider. I don't think Hayes are making it are they? But, I wondered about Fowey Valley?

Catwith69lives · 30/07/2025 20:11

Catwith69lives · 30/07/2025 20:03

Rebecca L, daughter of the great Plymouth artist Robert Lenkiewicz, the stories about whom would make Raynor and Moth pale into insignificance....

Robert Lenkiewicz focussed on the marginalised and down and outs of Plymouth (Google Diogenes), so quite naturally his daughter would have been attracted to many of the themes of TSP.

Thread 11: To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film?
TheBrandyPath · 30/07/2025 20:13

Catwith69lives · 30/07/2025 20:11

Robert Lenkiewicz focussed on the marginalised and down and outs of Plymouth (Google Diogenes), so quite naturally his daughter would have been attracted to many of the themes of TSP.

Edited

Yes, when Robert died, a dead tramp was found in a drawer in his studio.

Catwith69lives · 30/07/2025 20:15

TheBrandyPath · 30/07/2025 20:13

Yes, when Robert died, a dead tramp was found in a drawer in his studio.

Indeed!

Divegirl65 · 30/07/2025 20:24

Medlar · 30/07/2025 16:43

I was talking about the film. They trail in from the pouring rain, start taking off their coats, dripping water all over, settle down in front of the fire and when the barman says 'What can I get you?' Raynor says 'Can we have a jug of water?' To which he helpfully says 'Hot water?' And when he brings it to them, Raynor has to encourage Moth to move his big blistery bare feet off the table before they produce their surreptitious teabags.

Oh I see. I was talking about the book. I didn't like the film for that very reason. They changed a lot of the storylines. Drove me mad.

FurryHappyKittens · 30/07/2025 20:25

From Wiki: Another corpse, that of a 16th century midwife who was hanged for witchcraft, was found in the same room, which Lenkiewicz termed his "death room".

swpath · 30/07/2025 20:30

Post COVID guests, I really felt for Polly.
We have what could be at a stretch, described as a semi derelict piggery which occasionally gets used as an emergency bedroom. It had at one point a smashed (by an accidental guest) window, with cardboard tapesd over it. No lock and daylight leaking round the door frame.
Someone borrowed it during the later lockdowns to visit their local parents, over a few months, then gave us £200. We were quite surprised but turned out they'd been running heaters, dehumidifier, slow cookers, epic long electric showers and £200 didn't even touch the sides.
They patched up the shower, the fired earth tiles couldn't cope with the epic shower hours and complained about the electricity tripping.
You can see with RayMoths vision this could be spun multiple ways probably with the initial good deed being well and truly punished.

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