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Malnourished starving children in Gaza

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babyproblems · 26/07/2025 06:42

The photos that appeared this morning on my news updates of mothers holding their children, dying of starvation and extreme malnutrition in Gaza have absolutely broken my heart. I am not particularly news focused, of course I’ve followed it all but this morning it has stopped me in my tracks and took my breath away. As a mother of a 3yo DS who is sleeping peacefully in his bedroom, whilst we have a fridge full of food downstairs and a life of peace, I feel so sorry that those poor mothers and children are living this hell so undeserved and also so so lucky we have the peace we do…
I don’t really know what the point of my post is; I suppose I’m screaming When Will This End inside and want to tell everyone to not take the freedom and peace we have for granted; use your right to vote and use your privilege to make informed choices that steer the world away from conflict towards peace…

Sending a handhold to all the mothers’ whose lives are not being lived in peace and whose children are suffering 🕊️💔

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Dangermoo · 26/07/2025 10:16

thepariscrimefiles · 26/07/2025 10:09

On every single Israel/Gaza thread, you deny that Palestinian children are starving, you say that even if they are, Israel is blameless and you threaten to leave every thread and then never do.

A retired US special forces officer, a former employee of the Gaza Humanitarian Foundation (GHF), who are the only organisation allowed to distribute aid in Gaza has stated that he has witnessed war crimes being committed by the IDF who are shooting Palestinian civilians queueing for aid. He said:

'In his entire career he has never witnessed such a level of "brutality and use of indiscriminate and unnecessary force against a civilian population, an unarmed, starving population".'

No-one should be able to defend what is happening to babies and children in Gaza. It's a humanitarian catastrophe. Why doesn't the Israeli Government allow independent journalists into Gaza if they have absolutely nothing to hide?

I threaten to leave every thread but never do? You've tagged me, so I will respond. That's a lie what you've just posted and the rest of your post is also inaccurate. Maybe if some posters didn't distort the truth and hone in for personal attacks, these threads wouldn't get deleted. The very fact I have left a couple of threads is exactly because of posts, like yours. If you want an argument, you're not getting it.

Alltheprettyseahorses · 26/07/2025 10:23

Mewling · 26/07/2025 10:04

This was explained to you when you asked this question on another thread a few days ago. Perhaps you’ve forgotten in the interim? Or does the answer not suit?

Explained to me? Wow! When? Which thread because I post randomly on various topics now and again when I have time to go on mumsnet? What is the verified expertise of those who apparently 'explained' to me that I should take that explanation on board if I went back to read it? Nice to be remembered though - the only posters I ever really noticed were Xenia and a couple of long-gone deregged or banned ones like ScottishMummy.

Simonjt · 26/07/2025 10:24

Alltheprettyseahorses · 26/07/2025 10:13

Like I said, the mothers aren't malnourished.

As someone who grew up in an area where lack of food is a real issue I’m well aware that those mothers will be malnourished. You seem to be unware that being malnourished isn’t related to weight, being malnourished and having too few calories are completely different things.

If you actually mean underweight, rather than malnourished, adults are not growing, adults have reserves in the form of fat, muscles and larger vital organs. If you stop feeding a five year old and a 25 year old at the same time, the five year old will be visibly underweight extremely quickly, while the 25 year old will appear an okay weight for several weeks.

DonnaHadDee · 26/07/2025 10:25

This is well worth reading "The Political Motives Behind the Gaza Aid Catastrophe" ... https://www.newyorker.com/news/q-and-a/the-political-motives-behind-the-gaza-aid-catastrophe

It's important to remember that Israel is a democracy. The majority of Israelis support the government that have delivered these results in Gaza ... as they have with the ethnic cleansing in the West Bank over decades.

It's easy to criticize Israel. But remember we (UK) also also complicit in this, through direct and indirect support.

I also feel these threads are pointless. People should and hopefully do act in a way that supports their beliefs, when it comes to voting, when it comes to businesses related to these conflicts and so on. I certainly do.

The Political Motives Behind the Gaza Aid Catastrophe

As Palestinians continue to die of severe hunger, a former Israeli official explains what the latest plan is really meant to achieve.

https://www.newyorker.com/news/q-and-a/the-political-motives-behind-the-gaza-aid-catastrophe

Alltheprettyseahorses · 26/07/2025 10:26

Simonjt · 26/07/2025 10:24

As someone who grew up in an area where lack of food is a real issue I’m well aware that those mothers will be malnourished. You seem to be unware that being malnourished isn’t related to weight, being malnourished and having too few calories are completely different things.

If you actually mean underweight, rather than malnourished, adults are not growing, adults have reserves in the form of fat, muscles and larger vital organs. If you stop feeding a five year old and a 25 year old at the same time, the five year old will be visibly underweight extremely quickly, while the 25 year old will appear an okay weight for several weeks.

I was being polite when I said the mothers weren't malnourished by the way. Nor are the fathers. I'm.not into fatshaming so I won't say any more.

banquepopulaire · 26/07/2025 10:26

Alltheprettyseahorses · 26/07/2025 10:13

Like I said, the mothers aren't malnourished.

Unbelievable. You do realise mothers don't have to actually appear emaciated to be unable to produce milk?

You try exclusively breastfeeding an infant in that type of heat, with minimal water and food. Disgusting comment.

savvy7 · 26/07/2025 10:27

Morgenrot25 · 26/07/2025 07:42

It's absolutely horrific, but I force myself to detach myself from it because I do feel powerless to actually do anything.
There's also so much misinformation out there, regarding who is doing what or who isn't doing what. Does anyone actually know any genuine way of actually helping?

Please lobby your MP and sign the various petitions at Oxfam, Save the Children etc. I started a thread recently on this subject with survey links.

OutandAboutMum1821 · 26/07/2025 10:27

OP I feel this. It is utterly, utterly heartbreaking.

TheBabber · 26/07/2025 10:30

some people in this world really are cunts

Lafufufu · 26/07/2025 10:31

The pictures are utterly heartbreaking

What dont understand is:

  • where are the malnourished adult men?

Hamas bear responsibility for some to most of this.they are seizing aid and failing g to distrubute so once again women and children are fucked under the bus for men.

  • the number of people that blithely dismiss this as AI.

I have no doubt there are women and children suffering terribly, probably some men too. And I am not pro Palestine. No one is the hero in this war and hamas are terrorists but to simply dismissed this as made up fiction is wrong.
This is real and its attrocious. Innocent people are bearing a terrible price for Hamas' actions.

Featherruffler · 26/07/2025 10:31

Heynonnynonny · 26/07/2025 07:51

It is absolutely heartbreaking
Bad enough when it is a 'natural' famine but a man made one is utterly despicable. That -'country' should be sanctioned and leaders sent to the Hague

Israel lets the food parcels in, but they just sit at the border, as Hamas doesn’t let its own people get to it, in order to make Israel look like evil personified. Then people like you fall for this trick and turn into Israel-haters. It’s also psychological warfare.

PunctuateTheGarden · 26/07/2025 10:31

Heart-breaking images, I keep thinking it can't get worse but it does. Does the entire population of Gaza need to be eliminated for it to stop?

Alltheprettyseahorses · 26/07/2025 10:32

Dangermoo · 26/07/2025 10:16

I threaten to leave every thread but never do? You've tagged me, so I will respond. That's a lie what you've just posted and the rest of your post is also inaccurate. Maybe if some posters didn't distort the truth and hone in for personal attacks, these threads wouldn't get deleted. The very fact I have left a couple of threads is exactly because of posts, like yours. If you want an argument, you're not getting it.

These threads all descend into a pile-on of who can be most upset about the dreadful suffering in Gaza and who can come up with the wildest scenarios to be the biggest condemner of Israel. The West Bank has already been brought up - Israeli territory that was ceded by Jordan so where Palestine comes into it who knows? Other opinions aren't welcome and posters get bored with them and go and live their lives* but it doesn't mean the views expressed are dominant.

*yeah I know, Gazans can't live their lives how DARE I?!

usedtobeaylis · 26/07/2025 10:32

I feel absolutely helpless, and absolutely sick of people continuing to blame Hamas.

It's not a famine. It's a genocide. Keep saying it.

usedtobeaylis · 26/07/2025 10:33

PunctuateTheGarden · 26/07/2025 10:31

Heart-breaking images, I keep thinking it can't get worse but it does. Does the entire population of Gaza need to be eliminated for it to stop?

Well that's the aim isn't it? That's been the aim since the start.

OrangeHearted · 26/07/2025 10:35

Lafufufu · 26/07/2025 10:31

The pictures are utterly heartbreaking

What dont understand is:

  • where are the malnourished adult men?

Hamas bear responsibility for some to most of this.they are seizing aid and failing g to distrubute so once again women and children are fucked under the bus for men.

  • the number of people that blithely dismiss this as AI.

I have no doubt there are women and children suffering terribly, probably some men too. And I am not pro Palestine. No one is the hero in this war and hamas are terrorists but to simply dismissed this as made up fiction is wrong.
This is real and its attrocious. Innocent people are bearing a terrible price for Hamas' actions.

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It's always women and children who suffer as the men look out for themselves. Hamas are evil incarnate in my opinion.

Golda Meir said it many decades ago...

'Peace will come when the Arabs love their children more than they hate us'

Mewling · 26/07/2025 10:36

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Alltheprettyseahorses · 26/07/2025 10:37

banquepopulaire · 26/07/2025 10:26

Unbelievable. You do realise mothers don't have to actually appear emaciated to be unable to produce milk?

You try exclusively breastfeeding an infant in that type of heat, with minimal water and food. Disgusting comment.

Like I said, I don't do fatshaming. But minimal food isn't an option. Is this a widespread thing? Because many other countries are currently affected by worse heat and less food and water with parents who are visibly affected so as pp brought up it's gone on for a while but no one seems to care, there aren't endless virtue-signalling threads anyway so maybe the concern is private and no one cares about bringing visibility, I dunno. Or is it just a Gaza thing?

MyDearEagle · 26/07/2025 10:37

thepariscrimefiles · 26/07/2025 10:09

On every single Israel/Gaza thread, you deny that Palestinian children are starving, you say that even if they are, Israel is blameless and you threaten to leave every thread and then never do.

A retired US special forces officer, a former employee of the Gaza Humanitarian Foundation (GHF), who are the only organisation allowed to distribute aid in Gaza has stated that he has witnessed war crimes being committed by the IDF who are shooting Palestinian civilians queueing for aid. He said:

'In his entire career he has never witnessed such a level of "brutality and use of indiscriminate and unnecessary force against a civilian population, an unarmed, starving population".'

No-one should be able to defend what is happening to babies and children in Gaza. It's a humanitarian catastrophe. Why doesn't the Israeli Government allow independent journalists into Gaza if they have absolutely nothing to hide?

Thank you for sharing that quote, I just looked up and watched the interview.

I do think its worth watching for those who haven't.

https://www.bbc.com/news/videos/cy8k8045nx9o

When the GHF - the only distributor of aid authorized by Israel - have staff claiming to have witnessed multiple war crimes, and when the organization's head resigns in protest at Israel's severe humanitarian failures, it is undeniable that Israel are the primary obstacle to the severe aid distribution we are now seeing.

I've been extremely reluctant to apply a certain legal term to Israel's present course of action, but it could soon be undeniable.

Anthony Aguilar

Gaza: 'I witnessed war crimes,' former worker at GHF aid site tells BBC

A retired US soldier reveals why he quit working at Israel and US-backed Gaza Humanitarian Foundation aid hubs.

https://www.bbc.com/news/videos/cy8k8045nx9o

Alltheprettyseahorses · 26/07/2025 10:39

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I am not a liar. In fact, I never lie. I would like that disgusting accusation to be withdrawn.

There isn't a genocide in Gaza either, although there are other genocides going on right now. I expect that slur to be withdrawn as well.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 26/07/2025 10:40

clearveil · 26/07/2025 09:21

Its horrifying, I'm seeing images of clearly staving parents holding their starving children and its devastating, many of these children now need specialist care and nutrition before they can even start eating normally again from what I understand. I feel so powerless and disgusted with what man can do to his fellow man, to little children.

I’m not saying the images aren’t shocking but you know there are many millions of people suffering from conflict, displacement and malnutrition within the region. In Sudan the UN has said that 40% of children are suffering from acute malnutrition ( double that of Gaza) why isn’t the world watching them? Globally 7000 children die every day from malnutrition a figure only going to increase as the “public support for foreign aid has reduced” and aid budgets are being slashed.

It is awful but I think the suffering of the gazans is being weaponised in a ( successful ) propaganda campaign. Hamas doesn’t care about them they are pawns to be used.

savvy7 · 26/07/2025 10:42

Alltheprettyseahorses · 26/07/2025 10:39

I am not a liar. In fact, I never lie. I would like that disgusting accusation to be withdrawn.

There isn't a genocide in Gaza either, although there are other genocides going on right now. I expect that slur to be withdrawn as well.

Oh the irony ...

Britneyfan · 26/07/2025 10:44

Lafufufu · 26/07/2025 10:31

The pictures are utterly heartbreaking

What dont understand is:

  • where are the malnourished adult men?

Hamas bear responsibility for some to most of this.they are seizing aid and failing g to distrubute so once again women and children are fucked under the bus for men.

  • the number of people that blithely dismiss this as AI.

I have no doubt there are women and children suffering terribly, probably some men too. And I am not pro Palestine. No one is the hero in this war and hamas are terrorists but to simply dismissed this as made up fiction is wrong.
This is real and its attrocious. Innocent people are bearing a terrible price for Hamas' actions.

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I’ve definitely seen malnourished men as well in some of the recent photos. Saw an awful photo of an extremely malnourished boy in his late teens. I’d say the men look malnourished at the same rate as the women on average to be honest, though the children as a group especially little kids look most malnourished - which is expected as it’s the way a famine works.

The photos coming out of Gaza right now are absolutely heartbreaking and remind me of the photos in the news at the time of the Ethiopian famine when I was a child. But this is a much more manufactured situation rather than due to a natural disaster, which makes it all the worse.

imagiantwitch · 26/07/2025 10:45

banquepopulaire · 26/07/2025 09:38

While the world argues about the extent to which Israel is restricting aid at the border, or Hamas is hoarding aid that does get in, children are starving.

Why is the world allowing Israel to refuse entry to the world's media into Gaza? If Israel have nothing to hide, and Hamas are indeed hoarding aid, surely they would want this situation exposed and internationally verified?

No one answers this question despite it being asked several times.

WHY ARE ISRAEL REFUSING ANY MEDIA ACCESS TO GAZA? For those of you spouting about AI, Hamas, fake starvation. The media could prove all you say is true, so why not let them in?

Alltheprettyseahorses · 26/07/2025 10:47

savvy7 · 26/07/2025 10:42

Oh the irony ...

What irony? I'm not going to put up with being personally slandered because I don't conform with some posters' mandated groupthink that always ruins these types of threads.