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GreenGully · 25/07/2025 20:52

randomchap · 25/07/2025 20:46

Killing a terrorist who is in the middle of carrying out their crime, while the public are in immediate danger is very different to the death penalty. As well you know

It is, of course. But we agree it is ok to kill criminals in certain circumstances, I just happen to disagree with you on what circumstances they may be.

I think people like Axel should be put down.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 25/07/2025 21:15

WhereIsMyJumper · 25/07/2025 20:32

I am against the death penalty but in favour of assisted dying for one reason - autonomy

Me too.

OonaStubbs · 25/07/2025 21:16

Panterusblackish · 25/07/2025 20:44

No the death penalty should not be introduced.

And you are every bit as bad as him for salivating at the idea of the state murdering someone.

You both want death albeit in different ways. You are cut from the same cloth, you are just trying to cloak your bloodthirstiness in self righteousness.

Wanting bad people to die is not even remotely similar to wanting innocent people to die.

randomchap · 25/07/2025 21:19

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 20:52

It is, of course. But we agree it is ok to kill criminals in certain circumstances, I just happen to disagree with you on what circumstances they may be.

I think people like Axel should be put down.

Killing people to save other peoples lives at the time of the offense is very different to killing as punishment or revenge after a trial.

One is to save lives, the other is revenge

Only one will save lives

SuburbanSprawl · 25/07/2025 21:27

DrCoconut · 25/07/2025 19:12

It is interesting that even Albert Pierrepoint who had a better insight into capital punishment than most questioned it towards the end of his life. I think he is possibly misquoted when people claim he opposed it, but he certainly questioned what his career had actually achieved.

What he said in his book was that he didn't believe that the threat of the death penalty had deterred a single murderer.

SuburbanSprawl · 25/07/2025 21:28

And not one person here has answered why the ones caught red handed can’t be executed.

Because killing people is wrong.

WhereIsMyJumper · 25/07/2025 21:32

I’d rather see some kind of system whereby prisoners are actually useful to society. But we know from the US that is a slippy slope - as they make a lot of money out of the free labour and so don’t release people when they should be released.

ZamaZama · 25/07/2025 21:53

NaiveDuck · 25/07/2025 19:29

I have followed true crime and the DP in America for decades. I have yet to come across one single victim family who say they haven't got closure from the perp being put to death.

Not....one.

You don't seem to have ever had any experience with victims families. None at all.

Edited

And I’ve heard and read that it doesn’t always provide closure. Common sense alone ought to suggest it’s highly improbable all victims’ families feel the same.

SuburbanSprawl · 25/07/2025 22:08

ZamaZama · 25/07/2025 21:53

And I’ve heard and read that it doesn’t always provide closure. Common sense alone ought to suggest it’s highly improbable all victims’ families feel the same.

There was a case about twenty years ago when a child was murdered and the usual papers started calling for the return of the death penalty and saying 'the victim's family would want it - why aren't we listening to them? Does no one care what they want?'

And the victim's family issued a statement saying that they didn't want another life to be taken and, in accordance with their faith, they felt that they had to try to forgive.

At which point the usual papers started saying that they were deranged by grief and no one should listen to them.

ZamaZama · 25/07/2025 22:14

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 20:03

Cut and dried means that something is settled, in the case of a crime it would mean there is no doubt of being found guilty.

My comment regarding the cut and dry cases often being the most heinous is down to the nature of these crimes which is often what makes them cut and dried to begin with. E.g the public slaughtering of young girls.

That isn't the same as suggesting there is 'a link between strength of evidence and how serious a crime is.'

You're twisting things.

I’m not twisting anything.

I understand perfectly well what you’ve written, but it seems you don’t or perhaps you just won’t admit you’ve made a mistake.

Heinous means particularly dreadful or wrong. I.e. describing a crime as heinous is quite literally commenting on its severity. You have linked this to the likelihood of a crime being ‘cut and dried’.

So, how am I twisting what you’ve said?

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 22:42

NaiveDuck · 25/07/2025 19:29

I have followed true crime and the DP in America for decades. I have yet to come across one single victim family who say they haven't got closure from the perp being put to death.

Not....one.

You don't seem to have ever had any experience with victims families. None at all.

Edited

Been thinking about this and you have no experience at all apart from "follow[ing] true crime and the DP in America" and yet you have the temerity to tell me, who has guided her own child through the horrific murder of their best friend, that you know better?! The victims father and I are in touch with each other, my child is in touch regularly with the victims mother.

I am genuinely not sure whether to laugh at your arrogance or cry at your insinuations that I know less that you because of what you saw on the telly.

The victim I have referenced has a memorial at the National Arobretum. I am very VERY pissed off at you suggesting I dont know what I am talking about.

Zov · 25/07/2025 22:43

SuburbanSprawl · 25/07/2025 21:28

And not one person here has answered why the ones caught red handed can’t be executed.

Because killing people is wrong.

Not when it's a murderous psychopath who has killed people - especially children.

LBFseBrom · 25/07/2025 22:50

I am, and have always been, against the death penalty. I accept that means sometimes there will be people who have committed such a heinous crime that you cannot bear thinking about the horrific details, alongside some sad cases of inadequate people who may stand a chance of being rehabilitated.

We have to accept that if there is no death penalty, it's the same for all murderers.

There is capital punishment in some states of America and it is no deterrent, murders still happen all the time.

We have to keep on trying to make society better, even a little progress is worthwhile. We have come a long way and still have a way to go, no doubt always will, human nature being what it is.

CurlewKate · 25/07/2025 23:05

Zov · 25/07/2025 22:43

Not when it's a murderous psychopath who has killed people - especially children.

This is an irreconcilable difference. Killing people is wrong. It’s damaging to society to have people whose job it is to kill people.

Allisnotlost1 · 25/07/2025 23:14

Puzzledandpissedoff · 25/07/2025 18:40

If someone was serving a true whole life sentence and would never be released then I'd suggest education's less of a priority since they'd never be in a position to put it to much use

Social care's a bit more complex and it depends on what's meant by the term, but for me it certainly wouldn't include such things as counsellors or any social facility beyond the very simplest

As PPs have mentioned there are worse things than a quick death, and I'd be entirely comfortable with the very worst offfenders experiencing them

I’m talking about education and social care for the general population.

Allisnotlost1 · 25/07/2025 23:18

MorningLarkEchoes · 25/07/2025 19:52

I’m half-inclined to agree with you OP. However, I only think it should be used where there can be absolutely no doubt as to the guilt of the perpetrator e.g. in cases of mass murder in a public place where there are multiple witnesses to the crime, such as the Southport incident, or where the murder is caught on video.

So if someone murders multiple people but does a good job hiding the evidence, or doesn’t bother filming it, they get a different punishment?

daddysgirlnot · 25/07/2025 23:19

YABU
’It was Christie Wot did it’.

Allisnotlost1 · 25/07/2025 23:36

Glitchymn1 · 25/07/2025 18:28

You think social services could’ve helped Fred West?

What a bizarre take.

I’ll make it simple for you. The government has finite resources, the country is in the shit. We need to invest in children and take care of old people, not squander billions on expanding the criminal justice system to accommodate the death penalty.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 25/07/2025 23:37

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 24/07/2025 22:49

YABU to use anything you read in the Daily Heil as the basis for forming a black and white opinion about a really complex issue.

This.

OonaStubbs · 25/07/2025 23:44

Allisnotlost1 · 25/07/2025 23:36

What a bizarre take.

I’ll make it simple for you. The government has finite resources, the country is in the shit. We need to invest in children and take care of old people, not squander billions on expanding the criminal justice system to accommodate the death penalty.

Edited

How would it cost more? Just change it so if someone is convicted of murder, they are hung, there and then. It will save all the costs of having them in jail for many years. Plus if the law is retroactively applied we can execute all those currently in jail for murder. It is literally a win/win situation.

Allisnotlost1 · 25/07/2025 23:49

OonaStubbs · 25/07/2025 23:44

How would it cost more? Just change it so if someone is convicted of murder, they are hung, there and then. It will save all the costs of having them in jail for many years. Plus if the law is retroactively applied we can execute all those currently in jail for murder. It is literally a win/win situation.

I’m afraid I just can’t take you seriously.

ilovesooty · 25/07/2025 23:56

Allisnotlost1 · 25/07/2025 23:49

I’m afraid I just can’t take you seriously.

You're not on your own there.

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 25/07/2025 23:57

no me either

Buxusmortus · 26/07/2025 01:00

ZamaZama · 25/07/2025 21:53

And I’ve heard and read that it doesn’t always provide closure. Common sense alone ought to suggest it’s highly improbable all victims’ families feel the same.

Correct. An in law of my family had the appalling experience of their beloved parent being brutally murdered ( UK) and years later has had to bear the fact that the murderers have been released. Not once have they ever wished that the murderers had been or deserved to be executed, in fact they are very much against capital punishment.

Internaut · 26/07/2025 01:16

Zov · 25/07/2025 22:43

Not when it's a murderous psychopath who has killed people - especially children.

It is still wrong. We have to draw a line in the sand. We cannot have a society where we say that killing people is the most serious offence there is, but which itself cold bloodedly kills people by appointment.