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MorningLarkEchoes · 25/07/2025 19:52

I’m half-inclined to agree with you OP. However, I only think it should be used where there can be absolutely no doubt as to the guilt of the perpetrator e.g. in cases of mass murder in a public place where there are multiple witnesses to the crime, such as the Southport incident, or where the murder is caught on video.

CurlewKate · 25/07/2025 20:00

Is nobody interested in the impact of society of judicial killing, and the issue of the employment of executioners?

soupyspoon · 25/07/2025 20:00

Nursingadvice · 24/07/2025 22:53

He brutally murdered his baby??

Correct, but whether we want the state to execute people for being found guilty for crimes like this is complex.

I dont by the way.

Thatsalineallright · 25/07/2025 20:02

MorningLarkEchoes · 25/07/2025 19:35

You could say the same about the legalisation of euthanasia in the UK and look where that’s heading…

Which brings up an interesting point. On a thread about euthanasia I was arguing that it could be misused to pressure vulnerable people into dying against their will.

Several posters said that even if that happened, it would be worth it to give all the other people the freedom from pain and end to their suffering.

I think the death penalty could be misused and lead to innocent people dying. I wonder if the posters who argued in favour of euthanasia would apply the same logic to the death penalty. Would they say the benefits to the many outweigh the risk to the few?

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 20:03

ZamaZama · 25/07/2025 16:36

It quite literally is.

Cut and dried - goes to the question of how strong the evidence is.

Heinous - goes to the question of severity.

’usually the most’ - creates a connection between the two concepts.

Cut and dried means that something is settled, in the case of a crime it would mean there is no doubt of being found guilty.

My comment regarding the cut and dry cases often being the most heinous is down to the nature of these crimes which is often what makes them cut and dried to begin with. E.g the public slaughtering of young girls.

That isn't the same as suggesting there is 'a link between strength of evidence and how serious a crime is.'

You're twisting things.

Nospringchix · 25/07/2025 20:04

DrinkFeckArseBrick · 24/07/2025 23:00

It costs more to keep someone on death row until they are killed rather than in prison their whole life

It doesn't act ad a deterrent in any way

The wrong people get killed

It won't bring people they've murdered back

This^. Totally agree with everything here.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/07/2025 20:07

Thatsalineallright · 25/07/2025 20:02

Which brings up an interesting point. On a thread about euthanasia I was arguing that it could be misused to pressure vulnerable people into dying against their will.

Several posters said that even if that happened, it would be worth it to give all the other people the freedom from pain and end to their suffering.

I think the death penalty could be misused and lead to innocent people dying. I wonder if the posters who argued in favour of euthanasia would apply the same logic to the death penalty. Would they say the benefits to the many outweigh the risk to the few?

It really does devalue life. I was talking about women being pressured by abusers to end their lives. People were saying that they're going to die anyway.

I'm surprised no one has said that a few innocent lives lost is worth it. One disturbing individual wanted people hanged immediately upon conviction.

NaiveDuck · 25/07/2025 20:07

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 19:46

You couldnt be more wrong

If that were true, then you'd agree with me that the victims of the families overwhelmingly say they feel closure when the perpetrator dies. Maybe not justice, but all of them say "I feel closure". This is obvious to one who pays even a cursory attention to this topic in America. It's basic. It's not rocket science. So I don't know what you're disagreeing with, then. Are you calling these families liars?

Thatsalineallright · 25/07/2025 20:08

CurlewKate · 25/07/2025 20:00

Is nobody interested in the impact of society of judicial killing, and the issue of the employment of executioners?

Well we already employ soldiers. And the idea of euthanasia also involves paying someone to kill another human being (though one who has consented). So maybe not such a stretch, though yes I think it would impact society.

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/07/2025 20:10

Glitchymn1 · 25/07/2025 19:51

What are you alluding to?

You don't seem to have ever had any experience with victims families. None at all.

I wasnt alluding to it btw, I was responding to it.

LillyPJ · 25/07/2025 20:16

Thatsalineallright · 25/07/2025 20:02

Which brings up an interesting point. On a thread about euthanasia I was arguing that it could be misused to pressure vulnerable people into dying against their will.

Several posters said that even if that happened, it would be worth it to give all the other people the freedom from pain and end to their suffering.

I think the death penalty could be misused and lead to innocent people dying. I wonder if the posters who argued in favour of euthanasia would apply the same logic to the death penalty. Would they say the benefits to the many outweigh the risk to the few?

That is an interesting point. I'm against the death penalty for many reasons, but am for assisted dying - as long as there are sufficient precautions and guards against abuse. Perhaps it's just from a selfish point of view? I don't want to be in dreadful pain or lose all my dignity, nor do I want to be a burden for my DC or have my money wasted on care. I know it's not what this thread's about but it's given me some food for thought.

caringcarer · 25/07/2025 20:19

BoredZelda · 25/07/2025 16:10

It costs considerably more to put someone to death than it does to keep them in prison for life.

https://www.amnestyusa.org/issues/death-penalty/death-penalty-facts/death-penalty-cost/

These are figures for America where prisoners remain on death roe for many many years before death. If a person is found guilty no reason why they can't get death penalty within a few weeks. Then it wouldn't cost high amounts.

randomchap · 25/07/2025 20:19

caringcarer · 25/07/2025 20:19

These are figures for America where prisoners remain on death roe for many many years before death. If a person is found guilty no reason why they can't get death penalty within a few weeks. Then it wouldn't cost high amounts.

No time for appeals then?

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 25/07/2025 20:20

MorningLarkEchoes · 25/07/2025 19:47

Yes, let’s hold hands and blame society …again. Anything to avoid holding a grown adult responsible for their own choices!

It's totally possible to see reasons for somebody becoming so beyond empathy and morality that they would commit such a heinous act, and to also condemn them for their choice to do so.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/07/2025 20:22

caringcarer · 25/07/2025 20:19

These are figures for America where prisoners remain on death roe for many many years before death. If a person is found guilty no reason why they can't get death penalty within a few weeks. Then it wouldn't cost high amounts.

We could save even more money and just skip the trial.

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 20:23

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/07/2025 20:22

We could save even more money and just skip the trial.

That does sometimes happen in the case of terrorists being shot.

Zov · 25/07/2025 20:23

PassingStranger · 25/07/2025 10:08

We are just hearing more and more disgusting things on the news, what is happening to society? Absolutely shocking. The cruelty to children is out of hand, yet nobody is forced to have a baby.

I wouldn't care less if he was put down. Save the tax payers a load of money, send out a strong message too.
Prison is not enough for some people. They arent put off going in there.

If an animal savaged a human they would be put down. What's the difference.
RIP poor baby.

Exactly. The whataboutery and apologists on this thread are both disgusting and terrifying in equal amounts.

But if you think that a cold blooded murderer should be executed, and should NOT live a life in comfort, in a cushy prison, with educational and training facilities, and home comforts, and warmth, 3 meals a day, (and drugs and ciggies on tap!) you're 'a Daily Mail Reader.' 🙄

Bring back the death penalty. And do it now. NOW!

So many hand wringing liberal lefties on this thread. It's making me nauseous.

As I said, you can bet these individuals would have a different attitude if one of THEIR loved ones was murdered by someone.

ALSO, if people knew they may face the death sentence for murder, and other really heinous crimes, it MAY be a deterrent. What's the motivation for them to not commit these crimes if they know they will live their life out in a cushy prison?

Interesting how my post from earlier got 31 people agreeing with me and thanking me. Hmmm, seems I am not alone in my opinions. 🤔

randomchap · 25/07/2025 20:30

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 20:23

That does sometimes happen in the case of terrorists being shot.

Indeed they are, while committing the terrorism and are highly likely to be a danger to the public.

They aren't killed as punishment, but in the defence of people.

But you know this, and are just trying to muddy the waters and deflect

WhereIsMyJumper · 25/07/2025 20:32

LillyPJ · 25/07/2025 20:16

That is an interesting point. I'm against the death penalty for many reasons, but am for assisted dying - as long as there are sufficient precautions and guards against abuse. Perhaps it's just from a selfish point of view? I don't want to be in dreadful pain or lose all my dignity, nor do I want to be a burden for my DC or have my money wasted on care. I know it's not what this thread's about but it's given me some food for thought.

I am against the death penalty but in favour of assisted dying for one reason - autonomy

Never2many · 25/07/2025 20:34

ALSO, if people knew they may face the death sentence for murder, and other really heinous crimes, it MAY be a deterrent. What's the motivation for them to not commit these crimes if they know they will live their life out in a cushy prison? except it is not a deterrent. Go and look at countries who use the death penalty - there are no less murders there than there are over here. In fact in the US the murder rate is significantly higher. So that’s that argument out the window.

And by other countries, I’m talking about civilised countries such as the US, not backward countries like Saudi where the death penalty is just another step in their lack of any human rights.

Also, statistically a jury is less likely to convict someone of a crime if the sentence is likely to be the death penalty.

For the people slavering over the idea of putting people to death and asking why we shouldn’t kill other people, the reason is very simple. If it’s wrong to kill someone, then it’s wrong regardless of the reasons why you do it.

If you’re advocating for the death penalty, then you’re essentially saying that you’re advocating for murder to be legal. Because only a certain kind of person is able to kill another one in cold blood.

And those who are forced to do it because of their job are deeply traumatised by it.

So ask yourself this. Would you be happy for your husband to go out killing people for a living? Your son? Your daughter’s husband?

Don’t you think that if someone has the capacity to kill people they also have the capacity to kill yo?

If you are a killer youo’re a killer regardless of who you’re killing. Don’t kid yourself that a decent hard-working family man or woman is someone who would be happy to kill other people for a living, regardless of who they are.

Only some with already violent tendencies is has it in them to kill someone. And if they can do it to one person, they can do it to another. An innocent one. Maybe you, maybe your children.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/07/2025 20:35

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 20:23

That does sometimes happen in the case of terrorists being shot.

And innocent people like de Menezes.

Never2many · 25/07/2025 20:35

WhereIsMyJumper · 25/07/2025 20:32

I am against the death penalty but in favour of assisted dying for one reason - autonomy

I’m against assisted dying as well.

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 20:38

randomchap · 25/07/2025 20:30

Indeed they are, while committing the terrorism and are highly likely to be a danger to the public.

They aren't killed as punishment, but in the defence of people.

But you know this, and are just trying to muddy the waters and deflect

No. I'm just pointing out if we can justify killing people during the act of a crime what is so different to killing them after the crime....

Take Axel for example he is continuing to attack prison guards. Is putting him down not acting in defence of people?

Panterusblackish · 25/07/2025 20:44

No the death penalty should not be introduced.

And you are every bit as bad as him for salivating at the idea of the state murdering someone.

You both want death albeit in different ways. You are cut from the same cloth, you are just trying to cloak your bloodthirstiness in self righteousness.

randomchap · 25/07/2025 20:46

GreenGully · 25/07/2025 20:38

No. I'm just pointing out if we can justify killing people during the act of a crime what is so different to killing them after the crime....

Take Axel for example he is continuing to attack prison guards. Is putting him down not acting in defence of people?

Killing a terrorist who is in the middle of carrying out their crime, while the public are in immediate danger is very different to the death penalty. As well you know

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