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To think any man who participates in Bonnie Blue’s stunts should be publicly identifiable?

143 replies

ThisVividFinch · 24/07/2025 22:38

I’m talking about things like the “1000 men in 12 hours” she declared - if a man chooses to take part in something like that, I think he should have to show his face and name. Transparency, right?

You want to line up for it? Fine. But own it. Be publicly accountable for the behaviour you’re willing to engage in.

I wouldn’t want anyone in my life or circle - friend, partner, colleague, who saw that and thought “yeah, I’m in.” So crack on if that’s your vibe but women should at least have access to the list.

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TheaBrandt1 · 27/07/2025 10:01

Confirms for me I will never understand men

Isxmasoveryet · 27/07/2025 10:03

It her body her choice she is choosing to do this for money so let her get on with it n let's stop playing the my card because she is female
The men are also choosing to do this sports stop playing the light the pitchforks they are male card
Both made a life style choice just because social media and society says it wrong and taboo doesn't mean they should be vilified for their lifestyle choice

Aguinnessplease · 27/07/2025 10:05

It’s simply horrible how the whole OF thing has become so mainstream, with so many young women either involved or thinking it’s a legitimate option to consider.

Isxmasoveryet · 27/07/2025 10:08

ThisVividFinch · 24/07/2025 22:49

Exactly - that’s part of what I’m questioning. She’s out there with her name and face attached to everything, for better or worse. But the men lining up to participate? Totally hidden. If you’re proud enough to be part of it, why not stand in the same light?

But she is choosing to put herself out there if she hadn't advertised this stunt no one would have turned up

ColonelDax · 27/07/2025 10:25

Sadcafe · 27/07/2025 09:58

She’s a very sad young woman, as for the men, why would they even want to do that, it’s hardly for the sexual satisfaction, 40 seconds, even as a sex starved teen it took longer than that , sad sad people and I say that as a man

Because they didn't. Its a publicity stunt.

Boomer55 · 27/07/2025 10:37

ThisVividFinch · 24/07/2025 22:38

I’m talking about things like the “1000 men in 12 hours” she declared - if a man chooses to take part in something like that, I think he should have to show his face and name. Transparency, right?

You want to line up for it? Fine. But own it. Be publicly accountable for the behaviour you’re willing to engage in.

I wouldn’t want anyone in my life or circle - friend, partner, colleague, who saw that and thought “yeah, I’m in.” So crack on if that’s your vibe but women should at least have access to the list.

AIBU?

Yep. They are no better than she is. 🤮

EmeraldShamrock000 · 27/07/2025 10:58

steff13 · 27/07/2025 01:21

The men were not paying to participate in this correct? So it was really just a woman having sex with a lot of people? Otherwise it would have been shut down for being illegal?

No, not paying to participate. The men at home are pay to watch. Vile creatures.

HerewardtheSleepy · 27/07/2025 11:14

So where, OP, do you draw the line at revealing, publicly, details of other people's sex lives?

Just curious.

TruckDiver · 27/07/2025 16:47

ohnotthisagain2025 · 27/07/2025 00:07

Nope, the logical conclusion of this is that men who abuse prostitutes are unmasked and then they will be shunned and find themselves for the most part single.

But of course that won't happen, men will continue to protect men's "rights" to be disgusting degenerate filth with great vigour, and cockpanderers will cheer them on.

Bonnie Blue is not a prostitute, none of the men paid her for the sex. And they didn't abuse her - she made the invitation for her own reasons, and they accepted.

TruckDiver · 27/07/2025 16:49

steff13 · 27/07/2025 01:21

The men were not paying to participate in this correct? So it was really just a woman having sex with a lot of people? Otherwise it would have been shut down for being illegal?

Correct, but no I don't think it would have been shut down. Prostitution is not illegal in the UK.

WooleyMunky · 27/07/2025 17:24

Isitreallysohard · 27/07/2025 07:08

Don't be ridiculous. Women have agency too.

All men are potential rapists.
All men that engage sex workers are rapists.
Buying consent is not consent.
Dress it up however you want to, it is still the truth.

steff13 · 27/07/2025 17:25

TruckDiver · 27/07/2025 16:49

Correct, but no I don't think it would have been shut down. Prostitution is not illegal in the UK.

Really?! It is illegal in my state and most states. I assumed that it was illegal there as well. So as gross as these men are, I don't think that they should have to be identified if they're participating in a perfectly legal activity.

TooBigForMyBoots · 27/07/2025 19:18

PlayingDevilsAdvocateisinteresting · 27/07/2025 04:44

I'm not too sure that getting publicity on Mumsnet would be too high on her agenda. After all, I do still think that the majority of Mumsnetters are still female, even if more and more of them are not actually mothers. Maybe I am mistaken in my belief that there will be very few - if any - members here, who will turn to our sexual partners and say "oh that woman who apparently had sex with 1000 men in 12 hours, is looking for more men to have sex with, do you fancy giving it a go darling?"

Although I would be interested in being proved wrong about that!

According to an article she did with Jan Turner, part of her publicity strategy is to outrage women and feminists.

TruckDiver · 27/07/2025 21:32

TooBigForMyBoots · 27/07/2025 19:18

According to an article she did with Jan Turner, part of her publicity strategy is to outrage women and feminists.

Seems to be working quite well for her 😆

Laura95167 · 27/07/2025 21:35

TheaBrandt1 · 24/07/2025 22:42

Why are the men anonymous but the woman isn’t? Can anyone explain that?

Because she wanted to break some record doing it

HappiestWhenGardening · 28/07/2025 08:51

TruckDiver · 27/07/2025 16:47

Bonnie Blue is not a prostitute, none of the men paid her for the sex. And they didn't abuse her - she made the invitation for her own reasons, and they accepted.

Of course she’s a prostitute!!
she’s making a ton of money for having disgusting sex while men watch online!!

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jbm16 · 30/07/2025 00:09

TheaBrandt1 · 24/07/2025 22:42

Why are the men anonymous but the woman isn’t? Can anyone explain that?

Guess she is the one getting the fame and making the money from it... Just crazy what people will do for 5 mins of fame in todays world.

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