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To think any man who participates in Bonnie Blue’s stunts should be publicly identifiable?

143 replies

ThisVividFinch · 24/07/2025 22:38

I’m talking about things like the “1000 men in 12 hours” she declared - if a man chooses to take part in something like that, I think he should have to show his face and name. Transparency, right?

You want to line up for it? Fine. But own it. Be publicly accountable for the behaviour you’re willing to engage in.

I wouldn’t want anyone in my life or circle - friend, partner, colleague, who saw that and thought “yeah, I’m in.” So crack on if that’s your vibe but women should at least have access to the list.

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cyvguhb · 25/07/2025 00:46

TheaBrandt1 · 24/07/2025 22:42

Why are the men anonymous but the woman isn’t? Can anyone explain that?

Her whole persona is what she does with men, I don't understand your post

NellitheNelephant · 25/07/2025 01:29

TheaBrandt1 · 24/07/2025 22:42

Why are the men anonymous but the woman isn’t? Can anyone explain that?

because she wants publicity. Hence the stunt.

steff13 · 25/07/2025 01:44

TheaBrandt1 · 24/07/2025 22:42

Why are the men anonymous but the woman isn’t? Can anyone explain that?

I feel like everyone can explain that; she's doing it for publicity, they're not.

xLittleMissCantBeWrongx · 25/07/2025 02:17

No I don’t agree. No one is holding a gun to this woman’s head. She’s choosing to do this for the money and publicity. The men are common or garden scum bags. But there is consent all round so whatever, to be honest.

Ilovelifeverymuch · 25/07/2025 02:32

TheaBrandt1 · 24/07/2025 22:42

Why are the men anonymous but the woman isn’t? Can anyone explain that?

Because she's the pornstar who's organizing it and making money from it and gaining notoriety...

Don't get me wrong I think the men are disgusting but I also don't have time for trying to give Bonnie a pass claiming mental health and this and that, she knows fully well what she is doing, her first viral video was going to sleep with barley legal boys in Australia who had just finished high school and has gotten increasingly worse since then so she doesn't get a pass with some excuse.

Heck her mother is her manager so let's drop the talks of mental health or that she is being abused for anything like that, she knows and owns what she is doing.

ohnotthisagain2025 · 25/07/2025 02:32

MiloMinderbinder925 · 24/07/2025 22:47

YABU for starting a thread and driving traffic to her content.

Don't be silly, it's been really easy to find out the harrowing details by just reading bits of news here and there and articles that quote what the prostitute herself has said. She hasn't gained a single cent from me, and never will, and nobody on mumsnet is going to click on a prostitute's site or watched filmed prostitution because of a post like this. The details are easy to find while completely avoiding the woman herself or anyone promoting prostitution and the only people who are interacting with prostitutes, clicking on their sites, giving them any sort of traffic are the depraved freaks who enjoy this sort of thing.

ohnotthisagain2025 · 25/07/2025 02:38

Ilovelifeverymuch · 25/07/2025 02:32

Because she's the pornstar who's organizing it and making money from it and gaining notoriety...

Don't get me wrong I think the men are disgusting but I also don't have time for trying to give Bonnie a pass claiming mental health and this and that, she knows fully well what she is doing, her first viral video was going to sleep with barley legal boys in Australia who had just finished high school and has gotten increasingly worse since then so she doesn't get a pass with some excuse.

Heck her mother is her manager so let's drop the talks of mental health or that she is being abused for anything like that, she knows and owns what she is doing.

The men should definitely be seen clearly - but the reality is that prostitutes like this woman know that most men won't participate if that's one of the stipulations. The men involved are deranged perverts, but they probably pass as normal in real life. If she made it equal, where the perverts abusing her had to show their faces, she would get only the bottom of the barrel scumbags, diseased, druggy alcoholic criminals willing to put their face to this. That's the only reason she allows anonymity, she would have to go past the gutter and right into the sewers for her clientele if she insisted they show their faces.

Ilovelifeverymuch · 25/07/2025 02:42

ohnotthisagain2025 · 25/07/2025 02:38

The men should definitely be seen clearly - but the reality is that prostitutes like this woman know that most men won't participate if that's one of the stipulations. The men involved are deranged perverts, but they probably pass as normal in real life. If she made it equal, where the perverts abusing her had to show their faces, she would get only the bottom of the barrel scumbags, diseased, druggy alcoholic criminals willing to put their face to this. That's the only reason she allows anonymity, she would have to go past the gutter and right into the sewers for her clientele if she insisted they show their faces.

Why will she do that when her goal is to make the videos, make money and gain notoriety???

She apparently made over $40m last year and doesn't care about the men so I'm not getting this outrage about the men must show their face, posting this on mumsnet a million times isn't going to change anything, she's a crazy disgusting woman and there are disgusting men willing to be involved in her crazy shenanigans, that's life.

Somehow you seem to be more upset about the disgusting men that Bonnie who is actually leading the disgusting act. She literally went sleeping with boys who just finished high school in Australia as her first stunt but we seem to be trying to minimize her role and focus anger on the men. Yes they are disgusting but she is the leader of the pack and architect of this disgusting act so she doesn't get a pass.

Scramblingeggs · 25/07/2025 02:44

I honestly (as a woman) do sometimes worry about the naivety of women who think what man would WANT to do this. Now I'm sure many men wouldn't do this because they have morals but I'm quite sure a lot of even those men are not adverse to the lure of it.

ohnotthisagain2025 · 25/07/2025 02:45

Ilovelifeverymuch · 25/07/2025 02:42

Why will she do that when her goal is to make the videos, make money and gain notoriety???

She apparently made over $40m last year and doesn't care about the men so I'm not getting this outrage about the men must show their face, posting this on mumsnet a million times isn't going to change anything, she's a crazy disgusting woman and there are disgusting men willing to be involved in her crazy shenanigans, that's life.

Somehow you seem to be more upset about the disgusting men that Bonnie who is actually leading the disgusting act. She literally went sleeping with boys who just finished high school in Australia as her first stunt but we seem to be trying to minimize her role and focus anger on the men. Yes they are disgusting but she is the leader of the pack and architect of this disgusting act so she doesn't get a pass.

Edited

What a weird post. You've just literally made up a story in your head based on absolutely nothing and rambled on and on about something completely unrelated to what I said. So odd.

ohnotthisagain2025 · 25/07/2025 02:46

Ilovelifeverymuch · 25/07/2025 02:42

Why will she do that when her goal is to make the videos, make money and gain notoriety???

She apparently made over $40m last year and doesn't care about the men so I'm not getting this outrage about the men must show their face, posting this on mumsnet a million times isn't going to change anything, she's a crazy disgusting woman and there are disgusting men willing to be involved in her crazy shenanigans, that's life.

Somehow you seem to be more upset about the disgusting men that Bonnie who is actually leading the disgusting act. She literally went sleeping with boys who just finished high school in Australia as her first stunt but we seem to be trying to minimize her role and focus anger on the men. Yes they are disgusting but she is the leader of the pack and architect of this disgusting act so she doesn't get a pass.

Edited

Oh, wait, I get it. Your husband uses prostitutes and you are one of those who hate prostitutes but let the men off the hook.

Ok, understood.

I personally find her putrid and disgusting beyond all words, and the men equally so. But you crack on.

ohnotthisagain2025 · 25/07/2025 02:48

xLittleMissCantBeWrongx · 25/07/2025 02:17

No I don’t agree. No one is holding a gun to this woman’s head. She’s choosing to do this for the money and publicity. The men are common or garden scum bags. But there is consent all round so whatever, to be honest.

The men are putrescent and utterly vile and should be exiled from society - but so should she. She's truly repugnant, I have no sympathy for her at all.

ohnotthisagain2025 · 25/07/2025 02:50

Scramblingeggs · 25/07/2025 02:44

I honestly (as a woman) do sometimes worry about the naivety of women who think what man would WANT to do this. Now I'm sure many men wouldn't do this because they have morals but I'm quite sure a lot of even those men are not adverse to the lure of it.

No, most men are indeed adverse to the lure of sloppy thousandth, STDs and watching other men stick their dick into a prostitute in a slimy line up. A lot of men are scumbags, many will cheat or abuse - but this goes way beyond that. These men are the most depraved creatures imaginable and I feel very comfortable in saying that of all the men I have known well in my life, not one of them would touch her with a 24 foot bargepole, any more than they would have sex with a pig.

Ilovelifeverymuch · 25/07/2025 02:50

ohnotthisagain2025 · 25/07/2025 02:46

Oh, wait, I get it. Your husband uses prostitutes and you are one of those who hate prostitutes but let the men off the hook.

Ok, understood.

I personally find her putrid and disgusting beyond all words, and the men equally so. But you crack on.

Hahahaha what a dumb post 😂 😆 😂 😆

If you find her putrid then create posts about how to stop her not posts about how to make the men show their faces 😂 and since she isn't doing anything illegal and we can't stop her move on and drop creating posts about her giving her more attention.

Francestein · 25/07/2025 02:52

At the very least they should be bleached

ohnotthisagain2025 · 25/07/2025 02:54

TheaBrandt1 · 24/07/2025 22:42

Why are the men anonymous but the woman isn’t? Can anyone explain that?

Because the reality is that most men would NOT participate if they had to show their faces, because even shitty men know that society thinks of these men are the lowliest, most pathetic scum imaginable. They don't have to hide, they choose to.

The greasy, disgusting pig men who abuse her probably pass for normal in real life. Her pool of willing participants would shrink to druggies, alcoholics and criminals, she'd go from the gutter to the sewer, if they were forced to show their faces, and she would face far greater risks for less profit.

ohnotthisagain2025 · 25/07/2025 02:55

Ilovelifeverymuch · 25/07/2025 02:50

Hahahaha what a dumb post 😂 😆 😂 😆

If you find her putrid then create posts about how to stop her not posts about how to make the men show their faces 😂 and since she isn't doing anything illegal and we can't stop her move on and drop creating posts about her giving her more attention.

You honestly sound incredibly unhinged. So weird you are just shrieking nonsense to a commenter on a thread on a fable that you have invented in your head.

No, I think I'll just keep posting what I want, when I want, if I want, and you can have a cup of tea and a nice lie down. Or don't, genuinely don't care. Get help, or again, don't, genuinely don't care. 😂

Ilovelifeverymuch · 25/07/2025 02:56

ohnotthisagain2025 · 25/07/2025 02:55

You honestly sound incredibly unhinged. So weird you are just shrieking nonsense to a commenter on a thread on a fable that you have invented in your head.

No, I think I'll just keep posting what I want, when I want, if I want, and you can have a cup of tea and a nice lie down. Or don't, genuinely don't care. Get help, or again, don't, genuinely don't care. 😂

Hahaha ok 😆 😂 😆 start the campaign to make sure they show their faces 😂 😆 I'll join you in front of Downing Street tomorrow.

Vanlifedreamingmum · 25/07/2025 02:58

I 10000000% agree with this. It made me sick reading about it and snap I wouldn’t want someone like that in my life either. Very sad that it even happened tbh. I can’t imagine how awful she felt after and theg all should be disgusted with themselves i’m not sure they would though. :(

SouthernNights59 · 25/07/2025 03:08

Kimmeridge · 24/07/2025 22:51

Because shes proudly advertising the event to gain publicity. Its not a case of her being identified because shes female

Exactly this. It's her choice, no-one is naming her behind her back.

GarlicMetre · 25/07/2025 03:11

SaintGermain · 25/07/2025 00:29

Yes. The should all be tattooed on their foreheads with the number they were given in the queue and a picture of a crab.

😂 The picture of a crab got me.

dottiedodah · 25/07/2025 03:25

I think the whole thing is some dreadful publicity stunt.her parents approve apparently and are even on the payroll ! The point is that the whole sorry event would probably not happen if men were exposed. She is saying sex is no big deal so come and shag me! I can't decide if she has MH issues or just wants money and notoriety.She has a 200 grand sport car out of it .

Itsyouitsyouitsallforyou · 25/07/2025 03:47

TheaBrandt1 · 24/07/2025 22:42

Why are the men anonymous but the woman isn’t? Can anyone explain that?

It's really not very difficult - she is monetising this truly repugnant behaviour (of everyone).

SeaShellsSanctuary1 · 25/07/2025 03:58

TheaBrandt1 · 24/07/2025 22:42

Why are the men anonymous but the woman isn’t? Can anyone explain that?

Probably because her sole purpose for these stunts are financial gain?

ioveelephants · 25/07/2025 04:14

ohnotthisagain2025 · 25/07/2025 02:46

Oh, wait, I get it. Your husband uses prostitutes and you are one of those who hate prostitutes but let the men off the hook.

Ok, understood.

I personally find her putrid and disgusting beyond all words, and the men equally so. But you crack on.

What a weird post 😂 you’re the one that sounds a little unhinged.

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