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To think there are very few allies against Anti-Semitism?

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Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 14:04

This month, I have had experienced Anti-Semitism twice. Both times I was with my children.

Both times, my children were distressed, and no one around did anything to protect us or raise the alarm. When we asked for help, we were dismissed. We were in very busy public spaces both times: a tube platform, then a high street.

I reported the first episode to the police. I'm not even sure if it's worth reporting the second episode. Sadly it feels so mainstream, and the authorities are not supportive when I report it either.

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Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:23

JustSawJohnny · 24/07/2025 19:17

I live in a rural area and people are quick to help out here but we moved from a city and people were happy to turn a blind eye there. I think they're so used to hearing stories of violence that they're fearful of getting involved.

I'm so sorry you went through this, OP and I do hope your kids are OK.

We are living in such fraught times and hatred seems to be flourishing.

How anyone could look at another person and make immediate judgment about them or take out anger due to the actions of others of their race or religion on a complete stranger is beyond me.

Racism is an awful thing.

Thank you. I do understand the fear people have in London, and it's not unfounded sadly. Unfortunately no one helped when I asked for it afterwards either, when there was no immediate danger to themselves. This seems rather unforgivable.

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Comedycook · 24/07/2025 19:24

Slightyamusedandsilly · 24/07/2025 19:21

Some Jews in the UK are Zionists and support Israel's actions.

However that does not excuse racist attacks.

Most Jewish people in the UK are Zionist.

Whether they support the actions the Israeli government take or not is an entirely separate issue.

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:26

All the talk of Israel I find a bit of a derailment, but as a point of information, the majority of Jews in the UK identify as Zionists. This means that they believe that the state of Israel has a right to exist, and nothing more.

Zionist has been misappropriated as a term.

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zerofeeling · 24/07/2025 19:29

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:26

All the talk of Israel I find a bit of a derailment, but as a point of information, the majority of Jews in the UK identify as Zionists. This means that they believe that the state of Israel has a right to exist, and nothing more.

Zionist has been misappropriated as a term.

'Israel has a right to exist' - what does that mean in practice?

noworklifebalance · 24/07/2025 19:29

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:10

Thank you. It might be 'just' out of ignorance, but often it comes from a much darker place: people use this to argue that Jews cannot experience racism (Dianne Abbott et al). This ignores that there are Jews of all colours.

Many members of all minorities are not necessarily visible as part of that minority. That doesn't lessen their experiences of racism.

If it is out of ignorance, then I hope this poster can listen to why this questioning is offensive, and learn.

Many members of all minorities are not necessarily visible as part of that minority

I think this is what PP was saying.
I don’t think they are coming from a place of ignorance or racism - some people I can tell are Jewish or Muslim from how they look. Others, I wouldn’t have had a clue unless they told me or I could infer it from something they said. One Muslim colleague looks Caucasian/white and a Jewish neighbour looks South American.
It just shows that Jewish people (and those of other religions) cannot and should not be typecast or judged as a group.

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 19:30

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:26

All the talk of Israel I find a bit of a derailment, but as a point of information, the majority of Jews in the UK identify as Zionists. This means that they believe that the state of Israel has a right to exist, and nothing more.

Zionist has been misappropriated as a term.

Yes, unfortunately this thread is an example of antisemitism.

That said, would you mind if we continue the discourse about what antisemitism is and is not? I do think one of the big problems with antisemitism is how poorly understood it is, to the extent that people (often non-hateful) engage in it without realizing.

FortheloveofCheesus · 24/07/2025 19:32

People tend to associate Israel as state, with the Jewish people more widely. Sadly many people are not understanding that the actions of Israel are those of a state, not a whole people.

Its quite scary for many people that western governments aren't intervening to help the Gazans, & anti semites/hate groups prey on the fear and spread disinformation.

OchreSnail · 24/07/2025 19:32

longwalk · 24/07/2025 14:46

How has antisemitism been overused? If someone is antisemitic then they’re antisemitic.
If you’re referring to the current political situation in Gaza, It is not antisemitic to criticise the government of Israel but that’s a whole different issue from hurling abuse at a family in the street simply because they’re Jewish. I’m appalled by the situation in Gaza but that doesn’t mean I’m not acutely aware that Jewish citizens aren’t regularly subjected to actual antisemitism.

No, but it is apparently now illegal?

Glowingup · 24/07/2025 19:33

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 18:41

In an ideal world that would be true.

But we all know that criticism of Israel and of ‘Zionists’ - or ‘Zios’, as some use - is really just attacks on Jews and Jewish life.

It’s fatuous to argue otherwise. The most obvious reason for that is the fixation of ‘anti-Israel’ campaigners on the one source of conflict that involves Jews and their homeland.

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No it is not fatuous to argue otherwise. Should we just ignore the atrocities they are committing because it might offend citizens of Israel and those who support the Israeli government? Because it doesn’t work that way. We can’t give one country a free pass to do what it likes without criticism. It’s really dangerous to suggest that we should.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 24/07/2025 19:33

JustSawJohnny · 24/07/2025 19:22

But we all know that criticism of Israel and of ‘Zionists’ - or ‘Zios’, as some use - is really just attacks on Jews and Jewish life.

Some will be, but they are the minority, IMO.

The vast majority of the comments I see are about Netanyahu himself, and no, that's not antisemitism. That's a direct reaction to his actions.

I hate him. I don't hate Jews.

I hate Trump. I don't hate Americans.

I hate Putin. You see my point.

Agree.

IMO, Zionists should live in Israel. But many don't. There are celeb Brit Zionists who are not shy about wanting the Palestinians out. In the same way there are Brit Jews who are appalled by the destruction.

TaupeLemur · 24/07/2025 19:33

You may find all the ‘talk’ of Israel derailing but to try to claim that the genocide of an entire people by a Israel, a majority Jewish state, is somehow not relevant is naive at best.
But if you can’t give or won’t give details of what the antisemitism you experience entailed then no-one here can really say whether or not bystanders should have intervened. I hope the police get you some sort of resolution.

FortheloveofCheesus · 24/07/2025 19:33

as a point of information, the majority of Jews in the UK identify as Zionists. This means that they believe that the state of Israel has a right to exist, and nothing more.

"Israel" with what borders/territory? That is the question. There is no universally agreed principle.

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:36

TaupeLemur · 24/07/2025 19:33

You may find all the ‘talk’ of Israel derailing but to try to claim that the genocide of an entire people by a Israel, a majority Jewish state, is somehow not relevant is naive at best.
But if you can’t give or won’t give details of what the antisemitism you experience entailed then no-one here can really say whether or not bystanders should have intervened. I hope the police get you some sort of resolution.

I did give details in follow up posts, if you read the thread. Honestly, stop talking about Israel, it sounds like you are trying to justify Anti-Semitism.

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Comedycook · 24/07/2025 19:36

Slightyamusedandsilly · 24/07/2025 19:33

Agree.

IMO, Zionists should live in Israel. But many don't. There are celeb Brit Zionists who are not shy about wanting the Palestinians out. In the same way there are Brit Jews who are appalled by the destruction.

Zionists should live in Israel? So I'm British born to British born parents and I believe Israel should exist and Jewish people have the right to self determination. Are you saying you think I should leave the UK?

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 19:39

FortheloveofCheesus · 24/07/2025 19:33

as a point of information, the majority of Jews in the UK identify as Zionists. This means that they believe that the state of Israel has a right to exist, and nothing more.

"Israel" with what borders/territory? That is the question. There is no universally agreed principle.

Of course, people have different beliefs. If you talk to most Israelis, you will find that they just want a peaceful resolution, with whatever that may entail, in order to be able to live without fear.

With the rise of Anti-Semitism across the world, it only reinforces the need for a Jewish state.

Misappropriating the term of 'Zionist' is offensive. It's often a way of being Anti-semitic with impunity.

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 24/07/2025 19:39

Comedycook · 24/07/2025 19:36

Zionists should live in Israel? So I'm British born to British born parents and I believe Israel should exist and Jewish people have the right to self determination. Are you saying you think I should leave the UK?

I think if you support the actions of Israel against Palestine, the land grab and the killing of Palestinians, then yes. You should.

If you support the existence of Israel, but think the current drive to wipe out Palestine is wrong, then that is very different.

In the same way, pro-apartheid South Africans, would not have been welcome in the UK. Those not supporting racist and violent political systems are of course welcome.

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 19:40

Slightyamusedandsilly · 24/07/2025 19:33

Agree.

IMO, Zionists should live in Israel. But many don't. There are celeb Brit Zionists who are not shy about wanting the Palestinians out. In the same way there are Brit Jews who are appalled by the destruction.

So this is some pretty appalling antisemitism.

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 24/07/2025 19:41

nomas · 24/07/2025 19:10

You’re saying no one can criticise Israel.

And have spectacularly derailed OP’s thread in the process.

Crap. The thread’s about horrible instances of antisemitism. You just don’t like comment on the cause of that antisemitism.

Comedycook · 24/07/2025 19:41

Slightyamusedandsilly · 24/07/2025 19:39

I think if you support the actions of Israel against Palestine, the land grab and the killing of Palestinians, then yes. You should.

If you support the existence of Israel, but think the current drive to wipe out Palestine is wrong, then that is very different.

In the same way, pro-apartheid South Africans, would not have been welcome in the UK. Those not supporting racist and violent political systems are of course welcome.

I think if you support the actions of Israel against Palestine, the land grab and the killing of Palestinians, then yes. You should

But that's not the definition of a Zionist.

You said Zionists should live in Israel.

zerofeeling · 24/07/2025 19:41

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 19:40

So this is some pretty appalling antisemitism.

It's 'antisemitic' to point out that many Jews don't support the actions of Israel?

Glowingup · 24/07/2025 19:41

Well I believe Israel has a right to exist. I don’t think that should come at the expense of Palestinian territory and that Israel will need to make serious compromises and they need to stop their current actions in Gaza. There needs to be a two state solution.

I can’t believe there are people who say that criticism of Israel’s actions is antisemitic. That is precisely why some people don’t take antisemitism seriously. Because of ludicrous claims that critiquing a government amounts to hate against a race. Is it racist to criticise Zimbabwe or other African countries? Of course not. Is it Islamophobic to criticise Afghanistan or Iraq? Again, no. It’s nonsense to suggest that. And the more people say it, the angrier people get because they can see what is happening and they can see what a load of bullshit the antisemitism claim (in relation to criticism of Netanyahu) is.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 24/07/2025 19:43

Comedycook · 24/07/2025 19:24

Most Jewish people in the UK are Zionist.

Whether they support the actions the Israeli government take or not is an entirely separate issue.

Yes, I accept this. Sorry for the lack of clarity.

MyDearEagle · 24/07/2025 19:44

zerofeeling · 24/07/2025 19:41

It's 'antisemitic' to point out that many Jews don't support the actions of Israel?

No. Obviously.

"Zionists should live in Israel" is the clearly antisemitic statement.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 24/07/2025 19:44

Comedycook · 24/07/2025 19:41

I think if you support the actions of Israel against Palestine, the land grab and the killing of Palestinians, then yes. You should

But that's not the definition of a Zionist.

You said Zionists should live in Israel.

And I have clarified my meaning.

Comedycook · 24/07/2025 19:44

Slightyamusedandsilly · 24/07/2025 19:43

Yes, I accept this. Sorry for the lack of clarity.

Ok thanks

But you said Zionists should live in Israel.

I'm Zionist as in I believe Israel should exist and Jews have the right of self determination.

So do you stand by the notion that I should leave the UK and move to Israel?