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To think there are very few allies against Anti-Semitism?

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Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 14:04

This month, I have had experienced Anti-Semitism twice. Both times I was with my children.

Both times, my children were distressed, and no one around did anything to protect us or raise the alarm. When we asked for help, we were dismissed. We were in very busy public spaces both times: a tube platform, then a high street.

I reported the first episode to the police. I'm not even sure if it's worth reporting the second episode. Sadly it feels so mainstream, and the authorities are not supportive when I report it either.

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WhiteAndChocolateFuzzy · 24/07/2025 16:36

@PenelopePennyDrop Most decent people are fed up of the genocide in Gaza, which is caused by Hamas, so nothing to do with the Jewish people.

Cattenberg · 24/07/2025 16:37

Flushmush · 24/07/2025 14:16

Your not being unreasonable, I am not Jewish, I was raised Catholic but my father is so I feel sensitive to this issue and I suppose could be considered part Jewish. I think understandably people are outraged at what is happening in Gaza but there are times that outrage seems to spill over into antisemitism and in other instances it seems to give permission to some who always hated Jews to express that hatred freely.

There seem to be some crossed wires on this thread. The above post was the first to mention Gaza. Someone then posted, "I am outraged by the genocide in Gaza but not anti-Semitic in the slightest."

Cue all the posts asking why Gaza had been mentioned and that it was anti-Semitic to bring Gaza into this...

Anyway OP, I think it's appalling that the London Underground staff didn't do anything to help after death threats were made to you. I think they should have led you to a safe (or at least, safer) place to wait while they phoned the police. I would definitely complain.

This should apply to death threats made to anyone, for any reason. You don't just ask the victims to leave alongside the perpetrators!

Bobbingtons · 24/07/2025 16:37

Comedycook · 24/07/2025 16:16

You obviously know very little.

Very little about what, the ongoing scapegoating of Jewish people over the last thousand odd years including repeated explanations from countries such as ours. The fact that a large proportion of modern conspiracy theories are just rebranded anti Semitic tropes. The total balls up by the British government when creating the Israeli state without considering the people there already as colonists never see native populations as human humans.
The fact that Israel was largely created as the Western allies didn't want Jewish refugees to settle and wanted to wash their hands off the problem and abandoning the he who moved there to be attacked by their new neighbours leading to constant tension in the area and an increasingly right wing government.
And that's just the beginning! Which bit am I ignorant of here?

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 16:37

CopperWhite · 24/07/2025 16:24

I had asked for the police to be called and to be taken somewhere safe.

London Underground staff didn’t do as you asked, but that doesn’t automatically mean they anti semitic. They wouldn’t do it for anyone if they didn’t think it was necessary. A personal escort to another area is quite a big ask when there’s no physical threat. You could have called the police yourself if you felt like you were in danger.

Without referring to the incident experienced in the OP because we don’t know what happened, I think part of the problem is that acts of solidarity with Palestine, like wearing a keffiyeh or taking part in peaceful protest, are inaccurately labelled by some as being anti-Semitic, which creates more fear and division and dilutes the importance of genuine issues of racism.

We were in physical danger, which I had made clear, a large group was making threats to our life. I communicated this, and that they were in the vicinity. I was holding two children so couldn't physically call the police at that point. If I was taken into a safe space I could have put them down and done so. This is available in tube stations.

Do you really think that telling us to leave, and sending us into the path of the perpetrators was acceptable?

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Comedycook · 24/07/2025 16:38

Bobbingtons · 24/07/2025 16:37

Very little about what, the ongoing scapegoating of Jewish people over the last thousand odd years including repeated explanations from countries such as ours. The fact that a large proportion of modern conspiracy theories are just rebranded anti Semitic tropes. The total balls up by the British government when creating the Israeli state without considering the people there already as colonists never see native populations as human humans.
The fact that Israel was largely created as the Western allies didn't want Jewish refugees to settle and wanted to wash their hands off the problem and abandoning the he who moved there to be attacked by their new neighbours leading to constant tension in the area and an increasingly right wing government.
And that's just the beginning! Which bit am I ignorant of here?

We were discussing the definition of Zionism. I am quite confused as to what you are now going on about

LondonPapa · 24/07/2025 16:39

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 16:37

We were in physical danger, which I had made clear, a large group was making threats to our life. I communicated this, and that they were in the vicinity. I was holding two children so couldn't physically call the police at that point. If I was taken into a safe space I could have put them down and done so. This is available in tube stations.

Do you really think that telling us to leave, and sending us into the path of the perpetrators was acceptable?

I’m very sorry you went through this. You cannot rely on anyone else to call the police. TfL staff won’t do anything (I’d argue they secretly side with the wankers). Call British Transport Police on 999. No ifs, no buts. You must do it yourself if you believe yourself, and your children to be in danger - and I’d argue with anti-semitism, you are as you don’t know how it’ll escalate.

Please also ensure you’re able to protect yourself, and your children should it escalate. Try not to goad them back, they will do it enough to get a reaction, and in turn goad themselves.

Self-defence is a much needed skill.

Bobbingtons · 24/07/2025 16:41

mumandmumber · 24/07/2025 16:20

WOW. Your ignorance has taken my breath away. I actually can’t believe you wrote that down and posted it.

Which bit is incorrect, the modern Zionist movement claims that that their right to Israel is because they are the chosen people and that God promised them the land.

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 16:42

LondonPapa · 24/07/2025 16:39

I’m very sorry you went through this. You cannot rely on anyone else to call the police. TfL staff won’t do anything (I’d argue they secretly side with the wankers). Call British Transport Police on 999. No ifs, no buts. You must do it yourself if you believe yourself, and your children to be in danger - and I’d argue with anti-semitism, you are as you don’t know how it’ll escalate.

Please also ensure you’re able to protect yourself, and your children should it escalate. Try not to goad them back, they will do it enough to get a reaction, and in turn goad themselves.

Self-defence is a much needed skill.

Fortunately I found a police officer outside. You are right, Tfl staff will not help.

I didn't want to hang around in public calling 999 either as I wasn't safe to do so. It wasn't safe to put my children down with the perpetrators in the vicinity.

My primary ask was to have somewhere safe to go. That was denied.

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Comedycook · 24/07/2025 16:42

Bobbingtons · 24/07/2025 16:41

Which bit is incorrect, the modern Zionist movement claims that that their right to Israel is because they are the chosen people and that God promised them the land.

Jews have always existed there

PenelopePennyDrop · 24/07/2025 16:43

Hertsmum78 · 24/07/2025 14:31

@PenelopePennyDrop That's great to know that you're outraged by the genocide in Gaza but why do you feel the need to say it in the same breath as saying you're not anti-semitic? Jews in the UK are not in any way responsible for what's happening in Gaza and I think it would be widely considered to be problematic if I said:

'I disapprove of the genocide in Rwanda but have nothing against Black people'

... do you see what I mean? It suggests that the first thing is somehow the responsibility/interest of all Black people all over the world?

It was a response to @Flushmush

BeatrizBoniface · 24/07/2025 16:43

Being the victim of racist threats is bad enough, but I'm genuinely shocked at the staff not helping you. I hope that the staff get disciplined.

Paddingtonscaresme · 24/07/2025 16:44

Bobbingtons · 24/07/2025 15:45

The rise of right wing populism in Europe is definitely fiddling this problem. We see it every day with blatant and open islamaphobia in the streets and in the press and the centuries of endemic anti-Semitism to the point is just seen as acceptable lol at how many anti Semitic conspiracies have gone mainstream in the last few years gnomes of Zurich/new world order, etc
Even equating Judaism with Zionism is an issue. The majority of Jews are not Zionist. Jews are not responsible for the actions of Israel, the extreme right wing government and political scientists are, but lots of people are using the actions of the fascist state to target Jewish people just trying to live their lives

You're wrong the vast majority of Jews ARE zionist. Which just means the state of Israel has a right to exist. ONE single Jewish state in the world. Compared to 57 Islamic states.

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 16:44

BeatrizBoniface · 24/07/2025 16:43

Being the victim of racist threats is bad enough, but I'm genuinely shocked at the staff not helping you. I hope that the staff get disciplined.

I have made a complaint, but so far Tfl is defending their actions. The rot has really spread to the top. Trust me, I will follow this up as far as I can.

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Bobbingtons · 24/07/2025 16:47

Comedycook · 24/07/2025 16:42

Jews have always existed there

As have many people and they used to coexist in harmony so I really don't see what point you are making

AckieAck · 24/07/2025 16:47

Any kind of racist abuse should not be acceptable imo. For your actual life to be threaten is indeed abhorrent.

I wonder if classifications needs to be made? Not that it would help with you reporting abuse or not but I learned on here that semites include Arabs but anti-semitism these days seem to only refer to Jewish hate?

Cattenberg · 24/07/2025 16:48

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 16:44

I have made a complaint, but so far Tfl is defending their actions. The rot has really spread to the top. Trust me, I will follow this up as far as I can.

Would TfL refuse to help if a woman was followed onto a night train by her stalker or an abusive ex?

What about a teenage boy who found himself in the same carriage as rival gang members, who threatened to kill him?

Is TfL arguing that they have no duty of care in such scenarios?

BeatrizBoniface · 24/07/2025 16:48

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 16:44

I have made a complaint, but so far Tfl is defending their actions. The rot has really spread to the top. Trust me, I will follow this up as far as I can.

Good 👍. I really hope that you get a good outcome. The increase in antisemitism has shocked me, but also how far people will go to minimise it.

BrokenHabit · 24/07/2025 16:49

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 15:29

The LU staff just told us to leave, which sent us directly into the path of the perpetrators again. They really couldn't care less, and it showed.

I had asked for the police to be called and to be taken somewhere safe.

That’s awful. Especially when you had your children there. You must have felt really unsafe. I’m sorry.X

vincettenoir · 24/07/2025 16:49

Sorry that happened to you and your kids. I am surprised tbh. I would maybe not be surprised at the lack of intervention if it was teenage boys saying stuff to other teenage boys or something. But it would be more extraordinary to witness a mother and children being abused.

Dideon · 24/07/2025 16:51

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BrokenHabit · 24/07/2025 16:52

PrawnAgain · 24/07/2025 15:49

I do feel that if it was any other form of racism it would be taken more seriously.

Believe me, it would not. Black people reporting racism are treated as an inconvenient nuisance unfortunately.

I think many black people don’t bother reporting it. It’s seen as ‘normal’ and almost expected, which is horrifying. It’s all depressing. We should challenge antisemitism and all racism.

Glowingup · 24/07/2025 16:53

OonaStubbs · 24/07/2025 16:12

If someone said they were totally appalled and disgusted by the holocaust but didn't like Jewish people, they'd rightly be called Antisemitic.

How is this any different from people saying they have nothing against Jewish people but hate Israel and the war against Palestine?

Antisemitism is a real problem and there will always be cover stories and "reasons" for people to be antisemitic but claim they are not.

That’s quite different isn’t it though. In one case you’re saying you hate/disapprove of particular action, eg the Holocaust and Third Reich or the actions of Israel in Palestine. In the other you’re saying you randomly hate a group of people due to their race/religion.

So it’s fine to say I hate the actions of the Catholic Church in covering up child abuse. But not so much to say I hate all catholics.

And why is it a problem to condemn one country acting atrociously, eg Israel but not another, eg Russia?

suitcasesarepacked · 24/07/2025 16:53

I think anti-semitism lurks constantly and needs very little provocation to flare up. For example, when Corbyn was leader of Labour my Twitter feed filled with antisemitic content and the died down again - but I don’t believe it went away. Just today my family was talking about the atrocities in Gaza and my father commented that Netanyahu was ensuring that Jewish people worldwide would face horrific anti-semitism for years to come. A provocation to cause dormant existing hatred to flare up again. I’m sorry for your experience. It’s awful and unjust. The irony is that whenever I see it - as appalled as I am by what’s happening in Gaza - I feel I can understand why Jewish people feel they need a ‘safe place’.

I did stand up for you OP. When Corbyn allowed anti-Semitism to run unchecked through Labour I stopped voting for Labour until it was addressed. I was appalled at those who saw the anti-semitism and still voted Labour. Again, it made me think that hatred against Jewish people was tolerated or ignored.

Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 16:54

Cattenberg · 24/07/2025 16:48

Would TfL refuse to help if a woman was followed onto a night train by her stalker or an abusive ex?

What about a teenage boy who found himself in the same carriage as rival gang members, who threatened to kill him?

Is TfL arguing that they have no duty of care in such scenarios?

I don't know. Maybe someone who has worked there can clarify? I naively thought they were obliged to help, but it seems not.

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LakieLady · 24/07/2025 16:55

I think part of the problem is that acts of solidarity with Palestine, like wearing a keffiyeh or taking part in peaceful protest, are inaccurately labelled by some as being anti-Semitic, which creates more fear and division and dilutes the importance of genuine issues of racism.

I have worn a keffiyeh from time to time for over 50 years, but I didn't wear it at all last winter, for that very reason.

I got my first one when my BF passed his motorbike test and I started going on the back of his bike. They were popular with bikers, being soft, warm and washable, and it was probably decades before I realised they were Arab in origin.