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To think there are very few allies against Anti-Semitism?

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Longingdreamer · 24/07/2025 14:04

This month, I have had experienced Anti-Semitism twice. Both times I was with my children.

Both times, my children were distressed, and no one around did anything to protect us or raise the alarm. When we asked for help, we were dismissed. We were in very busy public spaces both times: a tube platform, then a high street.

I reported the first episode to the police. I'm not even sure if it's worth reporting the second episode. Sadly it feels so mainstream, and the authorities are not supportive when I report it either.

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ForWittyTealOP · 29/07/2025 21:12

Glowingup · 24/07/2025 19:41

Well I believe Israel has a right to exist. I don’t think that should come at the expense of Palestinian territory and that Israel will need to make serious compromises and they need to stop their current actions in Gaza. There needs to be a two state solution.

I can’t believe there are people who say that criticism of Israel’s actions is antisemitic. That is precisely why some people don’t take antisemitism seriously. Because of ludicrous claims that critiquing a government amounts to hate against a race. Is it racist to criticise Zimbabwe or other African countries? Of course not. Is it Islamophobic to criticise Afghanistan or Iraq? Again, no. It’s nonsense to suggest that. And the more people say it, the angrier people get because they can see what is happening and they can see what a load of bullshit the antisemitism claim (in relation to criticism of Netanyahu) is.

So who does say that? I mean outside of maybe Netanyahu (who it's got to be said may have a slight agenda), it's not something I've heard, from fellow Jews or anyone else. Imo it's an urban myth that many have seized on because it excuses their anti Jewish racism.

Longingdreamer · 29/07/2025 21:20

ForWittyTealOP · 29/07/2025 20:59

Not read the entire thread but let me guess the gist of many comments.

The fun game of good Jew/bad Jew
It wasn't because you're Jewish, it's because Londoners are unfriendly/everyone is horrible/maybe you don't look Jewish (enough)
I'm not anti-Semitic but Gaza
Jews play victim
Jews scream antisemitism whenever Israel is criticised
Zionism blah blah

What have I missed out?

That is a pretty good summary really. I despair at all the discussion about Israel, as it's irrelevant to why a Jewish family would experience Anti-Semitism in the UK. It screams of trying to justify and minimise Anti-Semitism. There are indeed few allies.

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HangryLikeTheHulk · 29/07/2025 21:41

SpaceRaccoon · 29/07/2025 15:27

Another thing that deeply puzzles me, is that it must be as apparent to any of these organisations as it is to me, that the war would end if Hamas handed back the remaining hostages, or their remains, and ceded power.
So why do they not bring their considerable influece to bear there? It seems both the quickest way to end the conflict, and the one most beneficial for the long-term stability of Gaza.

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Hostages are the only leverage Hamas has.

Israel also holds thousands of Palestinians including children who have not been given a trial.

Furthermore, it’s pretty clear that Israel is holding the entire Palestinian population hostage by trapping them in Gaza and the West Bank, blockading aid, food and medicine. A whole population held hostage.

None of what I have written is in any way antisemitic by the way.

Voxon · 29/07/2025 21:42

ForWittyTealOP · 29/07/2025 20:59

Not read the entire thread but let me guess the gist of many comments.

The fun game of good Jew/bad Jew
It wasn't because you're Jewish, it's because Londoners are unfriendly/everyone is horrible/maybe you don't look Jewish (enough)
I'm not anti-Semitic but Gaza
Jews play victim
Jews scream antisemitism whenever Israel is criticised
Zionism blah blah

What have I missed out?

Nailed it

Longingdreamer · 29/07/2025 21:43

Voxon · 29/07/2025 21:42

Nailed it

Agreed.

There was also the: this didn't happen, you're a liar.

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Longingdreamer · 29/07/2025 21:45

Also the refusal to acknowledge Anti-Semitism, or the statistics related to it. Subtext being: all Jews are liars.

Finally, the constant claim that another group experiences worse racism, in an attempt to minimise Anti-Semitism.

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ForWittyTealOP · 29/07/2025 23:46

Lollypop267 · 25/07/2025 15:33

I'm sorry you and your children have felt targeted and am glad you are safe

Are you able to quote the source that states Jews are the most at risk minority?

"I'm sorry if you imagine you may have been the victim of race hatred. Can you provide us with forensic detail so we can disprove your experience?"

ForWittyTealOP · 29/07/2025 23:47

Dideon · 25/07/2025 17:50

That was the one . My point was, not that it is right but that by pretending that there is no correlation between watching the news filled with images of dying children starved by the current Israelis government and the rise in anti-Jewish sentiment is naive at best . I was on the tube last week and there was a young Hasidic Jewish couple next to me . I was smiling at them too much in an attempt to say you’re alright we know it’s not you . I stopped myself because I knew they did not need my smiling at them however I realised that my over smiling was myself making a correlation with Zionist policy and the Jewish couple .

Cannot imagine why your post was deleted! Utter mystery.

Comedycook · 30/07/2025 06:05

HangryLikeTheHulk · 29/07/2025 21:41

Hostages are the only leverage Hamas has.

Israel also holds thousands of Palestinians including children who have not been given a trial.

Furthermore, it’s pretty clear that Israel is holding the entire Palestinian population hostage by trapping them in Gaza and the West Bank, blockading aid, food and medicine. A whole population held hostage.

None of what I have written is in any way antisemitic by the way.

Is Egypt trapping them in Gaza too?

missinglalaland · 30/07/2025 07:58

HangryLikeTheHulk · 29/07/2025 21:41

Hostages are the only leverage Hamas has.

Israel also holds thousands of Palestinians including children who have not been given a trial.

Furthermore, it’s pretty clear that Israel is holding the entire Palestinian population hostage by trapping them in Gaza and the West Bank, blockading aid, food and medicine. A whole population held hostage.

None of what I have written is in any way antisemitic by the way.

How is this relevant to a discussion of antisemitism in the UK?

Longingdreamer · 30/07/2025 08:38

missinglalaland · 30/07/2025 07:58

How is this relevant to a discussion of antisemitism in the UK?

Agreed, but people just can't stop. They don't see the issue with holding Jews collectively responsible either, and that is Anti-Semitism.

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nomas · 30/07/2025 08:48

missinglalaland · 30/07/2025 07:58

How is this relevant to a discussion of antisemitism in the UK?

I think it’s unfair to pick on that poster, the thread was derailed hundreds of posts ago.

I think OP would have been better off asking for the thread to be solely about anti-Semitism in the UK. She has engaged in lots of discussion about Israel/Palestine herself on the thread.

TaupeLemur · 30/07/2025 08:53

ForWittyTealOP · 29/07/2025 20:59

Not read the entire thread but let me guess the gist of many comments.

The fun game of good Jew/bad Jew
It wasn't because you're Jewish, it's because Londoners are unfriendly/everyone is horrible/maybe you don't look Jewish (enough)
I'm not anti-Semitic but Gaza
Jews play victim
Jews scream antisemitism whenever Israel is criticised
Zionism blah blah

What have I missed out?

You should read the thread.

Longingdreamer · 30/07/2025 08:53

nomas · 30/07/2025 08:48

I think it’s unfair to pick on that poster, the thread was derailed hundreds of posts ago.

I think OP would have been better off asking for the thread to be solely about anti-Semitism in the UK. She has engaged in lots of discussion about Israel/Palestine herself on the thread.

That post was one example, of the many.

I have repeatedly asked for this not to be derailed. You have very selective reading. I am asking again for the same.

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nomas · 30/07/2025 09:05

Longingdreamer · 30/07/2025 08:53

That post was one example, of the many.

I have repeatedly asked for this not to be derailed. You have very selective reading. I am asking again for the same.

You’ve only asked those you disagree with not to derail.

Dideon · 30/07/2025 09:07

Therefore only Jewish people need contribute to this post as only they will be able to tell you whether or not there are fewer allies against antisemitism.

BrokenHabit · 30/07/2025 09:12

pinkglitter12 · 29/07/2025 01:08

Theres a lot of pics in the news recently of starving babies, being sobbed over by their plump mothers

What a revolting post. Morally bankrupt.

Longingdreamer · 30/07/2025 09:25

nomas · 30/07/2025 09:05

You’ve only asked those you disagree with not to derail.

I give up with you. I asked repeatedly for it not to be derailed.

You clearly have an agenda. The reality is of course I cannot control other posters.

You are still failing to see how holding Jews collectively responsible is in itself Anti-Semitic. Please reflect on that.

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nomas · 30/07/2025 09:30

Longingdreamer · 30/07/2025 09:25

I give up with you. I asked repeatedly for it not to be derailed.

You clearly have an agenda. The reality is of course I cannot control other posters.

You are still failing to see how holding Jews collectively responsible is in itself Anti-Semitic. Please reflect on that.

You are still failing to see how holding Jews collectively responsible is in itself Anti-Semitic. Please reflect on that.

I have not once stated or implied this view, because it’s a view I categorically do not subscribe to. No one should be subjected to anti-Semitic abuse.

My point is that you have not asked any of the posters defending Israel’s actions not to derail the thread. That is entirely different.

Longingdreamer · 30/07/2025 09:33

nomas · 30/07/2025 09:30

You are still failing to see how holding Jews collectively responsible is in itself Anti-Semitic. Please reflect on that.

I have not once stated or implied this view, because it’s a view I categorically do not subscribe to. No one should be subjected to anti-Semitic abuse.

My point is that you have not asked any of the posters defending Israel’s actions not to derail the thread. That is entirely different.

I have repeatedly asked for the thread not to be derailed, you seem to have been selective in your reading. You are also seeking to blame me for other posters derailing the thread.

If you are an ally, you are doing an incredibly poor job of showing it.

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scorpiogirly · 30/07/2025 09:36

You've got a staunch ally here. People seem to forget the atrocities caused by Hamas, which are a terrorost group.

I caught a bit off Sky news on the matter and their biased reporting was breath taking. No wonder people's brains are full of mush with the tripe mainstream media pump out.

Dideon · 30/07/2025 09:55

Longingdreamer · 30/07/2025 09:33

I have repeatedly asked for the thread not to be derailed, you seem to have been selective in your reading. You are also seeking to blame me for other posters derailing the thread.

If you are an ally, you are doing an incredibly poor job of showing it.

What do you want an ally of anti- semitism to look like. If I saw a young Jewish women with kids getting harassed, because I can’t stand bullying and I’m not easily intimidated I’d more than likely step in . I gave an example where I did conflate what is going on in Israel with a Jewish couple in describing my over smiling at them. I recognised what I was doing and gave my head a wobble. I live in Hackney and have lived, worked for and was brought up around the biggest Orthodox Jewish community in the Uk. I am not anti - semitic.

Hoppinggreen · 30/07/2025 12:08

scorpiogirly · 30/07/2025 09:36

You've got a staunch ally here. People seem to forget the atrocities caused by Hamas, which are a terrorost group.

I caught a bit off Sky news on the matter and their biased reporting was breath taking. No wonder people's brains are full of mush with the tripe mainstream media pump out.

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I will never forget the atrocities carried out by Hamas OR The Israeli govt.
I will also never stand by and watch a woman and children being verbally abused in public due to their religion or ethnicity without trying to help.

ForWittyTealOP · 30/07/2025 12:09

TaupeLemur · 30/07/2025 08:53

You should read the thread.

Yes I have and I've been utterly unsurprised. BritishJews being held accountable for the actions of a far right zealot who's desperate to retain power to stave off an inevitable prosecution shocker. The "go home" thing was a bit unexpected but I guess we'd better get used to it.

familylawyer01392 · 30/07/2025 12:10

ForWittyTealOP · 29/07/2025 20:59

Not read the entire thread but let me guess the gist of many comments.

The fun game of good Jew/bad Jew
It wasn't because you're Jewish, it's because Londoners are unfriendly/everyone is horrible/maybe you don't look Jewish (enough)
I'm not anti-Semitic but Gaza
Jews play victim
Jews scream antisemitism whenever Israel is criticised
Zionism blah blah

What have I missed out?

Why don't you actually read the thread rather than posting useless comments?