@Nasrine but if being in school doesn’t work it doesn’t work whatever the reasons
a parent can wave an EHCP around as much demanding it be provided in full but if a school can’t hire another TA for love or money then what exactly can they do?
if you have a 14 year old boy refusing to be taught by a female teacher because “they should be in the kitchen looking after a man” what exactly can you do when you have 25 other pupils desperate to be taught by one of the best English teachers around who happens to be female? Do you sack her and get a male supply to please the one child or do you remove them from class because no one is getting anything done whilst he shouts across the classroom?
these are the decisions that now have to be made across the land daily if you accept that all students deserve and equal chance you have to make decisions based on that, if you as a parent want your child kept in that school that parent needs to work with the school to reinforce what the school is asking not make excuses “it’s his ADHD” really does ADHD make you a sexist prick?
it helps no one having a child who can’t cope on a room with 25 other teenagers, who will be normal teenagers, chatty, noisy, joke around from time to time, in classes taught by “humans with vaginas” the horror, that child isn’t learning, neither are the others - so whilst you can have some sympathy with the child and their parent that they might be a more difficult child to discipline that sympathy grows thin after the 4th lesson disrupted because of this increasing nonsense. Isn’t it better they go home to mummy because she’s in the kitchen surely, to be looked after by a female they think are there to serve them, just not serve them any English education, no that is wrong.
It was only a matter of time before schools “fought back” as it’s unsustainable at the moment.
(many SEN and disadvantaged kids thrive at our academy because they want to learn)