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I’m so tired of people with dangerous dogs ruining the park for everyone else.

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Purplehat123 · 15/07/2025 13:35

I’m so tired of people with dangerous dogs ruining the park for everyone else.

Every time I take my children and our small cavapoo to the park, there’s always someone with an intimidating dog off the lead. Yesterday it was a man with a huge German Shepherd (and I mean huge), a bully breed on a lead, and an Akita off the lead just wandering around.

This is a busy, very suburban park, full of families and young children. And there I am, trying to scoop up my two toddlers, push the pram with the baby, grab the dog, and move away as fast as possible because I am not taking the risk of one of those dogs attacking. And let’s be honest, if something did happen, I’d have to sacrifice my dog to protect my children.

Even the two dogs that were technically on a lead, if they decided to go for another dog or child, there’s no way he could have held them back. They were enormous, powerful breeds.

And don’t get me started on the Akita. It was off-lead, trotting around freely as if that’s totally normal. Akitas were originally bred to guard property and hunt large game, including bears. They are strong, territorial, and known for being aggressive toward other dogs. They can be incredibly unpredictable and are not the type of breed you let wander freely in a public park full of children and pets.

Today it was a woman with a giant Rottweiler off-lead, paying absolutely no attention while she scrolled on her phone. Again, no control, no awareness. Rottweilers were originally bred to drive cattle and guard livestock, and they are incredibly strong, protective dogs. They have a natural guarding instinct, which can easily turn dangerous when not properly controlled. It’s no coincidence that they feature in so many fatal dog attacks, especially involving children. The number of child deaths caused by Rottweilers is horrifying and well-documented. It doesn’t matter how sweet you think your dog is at home but when a dog like that turns, it’s too late to stop it.

Far too many times my own dog, who is a total wimp and literally gets bullied by a chihuahua, has been attacked by dogs whose owners claim, “Oh, they never normally do that.” It’s always after the fact, once the damage is done.

And honestly, it’s the complete lack of awareness that really gets me. You might think your dog is friendly, but when you’re letting it freely wander up to children and other dogs, especially massive, powerful breeds, it’s terrifying. It might not scare you, but to everyone else, it’s incredibly intimidating.

I love dogs. I grew up with them. But this constant anxiety when I take my children out is exhausting. I shouldn’t have to be on high alert every time we go to the park because someone refuses to take basic responsibility for an animal that could cause serious harm.

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Muffsies · 17/07/2025 11:13

HangryLikeTheHulk · 17/07/2025 07:42

I’m on about my challenged migrant teenage son who likes to approach strangers and dig his nails into their chests while yelling at them and occasionally licking their faces.

Sometimes he yells at children and now and again attacks them. He doesn’t stop when I shout his name.

Most days he defecates on the floor in public, and regularly urinates on playground equipment.

And it’s fine, right ? He’s allowed to do this stuff. My definitely real challenged migrant son.

If anyone doesn't think he's cute, they're the ones with the problem.

HangryLikeTheHulk · 17/07/2025 12:27

Muffsies · 17/07/2025 11:13

If anyone doesn't think he's cute, they're the ones with the problem.

He’s my fur baby. Furry due to his hormonal issues.

CoubousAndTourmalet · 17/07/2025 12:39

HangryLikeTheHulk · 17/07/2025 12:27

He’s my fur baby. Furry due to his hormonal issues.

I'd say you need to be careful you don't bump into @nund with her grandchildren while you're out on walkies.

YeOldeGreyhound · 17/07/2025 13:10

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You would kill a dog that is just barking, in plain site of your grandchildren?
You would be prosecuted for causing suffering to an animal, and a referral to social services for doing that in the company of your grandkids.

nund · 17/07/2025 13:35

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YeOldeGreyhound · 17/07/2025 13:37

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So you would beat a dog to death in front of children?

nund · 17/07/2025 13:37

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YeOldeGreyhound · 17/07/2025 13:39

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For barking. What an absolute over reaction.

nund · 17/07/2025 13:40

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YeOldeGreyhound · 17/07/2025 13:42

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You sound like a really pleasant person.
If you are willing to beat a dog to death for barking, then you are a risk to your grandchildren.

nund · 17/07/2025 13:43

CoubousAndTourmalet · 17/07/2025 12:39

I'd say you need to be careful you don't bump into @nund with her grandchildren while you're out on walkies.

Yes. And if our paths do cross, make sure you're fully in control of your dog. Or else ...

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 17/07/2025 13:47

Bridport · 15/07/2025 15:35

Three kickers now. Lovely people.

Are you suggesting that, based on your own experience, @Bridport, no-one has ever been bitten or threatened by an out-of-control dog? Because there are many statistics to prove that is wrong.

You do not seem to understand that, when someone IS attacked by a dog, they need to defend themselves, and have every right to do so.

What do YOU suggest someone should do if they are bitten by a dog? You are condemning those who say they would kick a dog that was attacking them, yet seem completely unwilling - or unable - to offer any practical solutions.

nund · 17/07/2025 13:54

YeOldeGreyhound · 17/07/2025 13:42

You sound like a really pleasant person.
If you are willing to beat a dog to death for barking, then you are a risk to your grandchildren.

Anything threatens my grandkids, I do react strongly in a a way those responsible for the threat may find unpleasant. I was kind of the same when my kids were small.

I suppose that's just the way I am.

But, anyway, we'll have no problems if you keep control of your animals. (And yourselves, come to that.)

[I remember a French quotation from when I was younger: "Cet animal est méchant; si on l'attaque, il se défend". Not sure if that's spelled right, but, anyway, perhaps those non-francophone dog people might like to get a Frenchy to explain.]

CoubousAndTourmalet · 17/07/2025 14:00

nund · 17/07/2025 13:54

Anything threatens my grandkids, I do react strongly in a a way those responsible for the threat may find unpleasant. I was kind of the same when my kids were small.

I suppose that's just the way I am.

But, anyway, we'll have no problems if you keep control of your animals. (And yourselves, come to that.)

[I remember a French quotation from when I was younger: "Cet animal est méchant; si on l'attaque, il se défend". Not sure if that's spelled right, but, anyway, perhaps those non-francophone dog people might like to get a Frenchy to explain.]

How appropriate, given that I have a large French guarding breed 😁

But I feel perfectly safe; she never barks away from home turf and is never off the lead in public. For her own safety.
She's also not aggressive in the least but there are no doubt people here that would still label her dangerous. Like the now absent OP...

TheGreatDownandOut · 17/07/2025 14:03

nund · 17/07/2025 13:54

Anything threatens my grandkids, I do react strongly in a a way those responsible for the threat may find unpleasant. I was kind of the same when my kids were small.

I suppose that's just the way I am.

But, anyway, we'll have no problems if you keep control of your animals. (And yourselves, come to that.)

[I remember a French quotation from when I was younger: "Cet animal est méchant; si on l'attaque, il se défend". Not sure if that's spelled right, but, anyway, perhaps those non-francophone dog people might like to get a Frenchy to explain.]

Total Liam Neeson vibes

ellie09 · 17/07/2025 14:07

FlyMeSomewhere · 16/07/2025 20:41

Do you live in a bunker?! Have you not heard of the bully XLs? You don't have to personally witness something to know which breeds are a risk! Not to mention that those dogs are easily controlled on a lead!

Yes, I know personally of two XL bully's, who are extremely well trained and socialized.

nund · 17/07/2025 14:08

CoubousAndTourmalet · 17/07/2025 14:00

How appropriate, given that I have a large French guarding breed 😁

But I feel perfectly safe; she never barks away from home turf and is never off the lead in public. For her own safety.
She's also not aggressive in the least but there are no doubt people here that would still label her dangerous. Like the now absent OP...

You seem like a decent dog person. That's fine. Chaqu'un à son gout and all that. Live and let live.

You others, with your nasty uncontrolled animals and your "He's only being friendly" shtick, watch out. As I may have said already.

CoubousAndTourmalet · 17/07/2025 14:13

ellie09 · 17/07/2025 14:07

Yes, I know personally of two XL bully's, who are extremely well trained and socialized.

I know a Bully locally too. He's fine with my big girl, unlike like a lot of the local small dogs that bark in her face.

My previous pup was viciously attacked at 16 weeks by an off lead Labrador. It's not always the ones you expect.

nund · 17/07/2025 14:16

TheGreatDownandOut · 17/07/2025 14:03

Total Liam Neeson vibes

Quite likely. Was it you with "Liam Neeson" earlier? I wonder what it means -- probably some aspect of contemporary popular culture that's passed me by. I'll ask my grandkids, they'll probably know.

(Is it a video game?)

TheGreatDownandOut · 17/07/2025 14:25

nund · 17/07/2025 14:16

Quite likely. Was it you with "Liam Neeson" earlier? I wonder what it means -- probably some aspect of contemporary popular culture that's passed me by. I'll ask my grandkids, they'll probably know.

(Is it a video game?)

😂
Im growing to quite like you… dog murdering aside, of course

CoubousAndTourmalet · 17/07/2025 14:25

nund · 17/07/2025 14:16

Quite likely. Was it you with "Liam Neeson" earlier? I wonder what it means -- probably some aspect of contemporary popular culture that's passed me by. I'll ask my grandkids, they'll probably know.

(Is it a video game?)

You sound just like me 😂90% of these references go over the top of my head too! Are you a 1964 vintage perchance?

TheGreatDownandOut · 17/07/2025 14:27

BTW if someone told me I gave them Liam Neeson vibes, I would take it as a compliment

Auroraofthedawn · 17/07/2025 15:05

Dogs should not be allowed off lead in public places. Dog owners couldn’t give a shit if kids get hurt, selfish arseholes. As proven by this thread.

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 17/07/2025 15:22

MrsMillyFluff · 15/07/2025 14:57

I'm sick and tired of entitled dog owners. I was walking home from work the other day, when a dachshund ran up to me, off lead, barking aggressively (I find the little yappy dogs are more aggressive than the large breed in my experience) It's owner was walking a golden retriever on lead and shouted to me that the dachshund was friendly (as it was aggressively barking and circling me) try as she might, she couldn't get it to return to her and the retriever then joined in barking and lunging on its lead. I was both terrified and furious! I shouted at her that her dog shouldn't be off lead if it didn't have recall. She replied, "oh he usually does" (?!) I replied that it wouldn't be over by me, barking, if it had recall. Why the hell should I, or anyone else endure this, what if it was a toddler or older person? 😡

You were terrified of a dachshund?

YeOldeGreyhound · 17/07/2025 15:45

Auroraofthedawn · 17/07/2025 15:05

Dogs should not be allowed off lead in public places. Dog owners couldn’t give a shit if kids get hurt, selfish arseholes. As proven by this thread.

Please quote whoever said they don't give a shit if kids get hurt.