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Thread 4: To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film?

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DisappointedReader · 09/07/2025 20:23

The Observer The real Salt Path: how a blockbuster book and film were ...

Second article in the Observer
https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-whats-in-the-book-and-what-the-observer-has-found

Third article in the Observer
https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-the-truth-behind-the-blockbuster-book-video

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Raynor Winn/Sally Walker's statement Raynor Winn

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Bruisername · 10/07/2025 15:09

Guardian article is interesting. Basically the publishers have no reason to care as long as it is legal

Redheadedstepchild · 10/07/2025 15:10

I haven't read the book but I thought I would try to guess if Moth wrote it by reading the prologue from Amazon's sample thingy:

"I was in awe. This man, who only two months earlier had struggled to put on his coat without help was standing on a beach in his underpants holding an erected...

...tent...."

It was an erected tent he was holding.

Sounds a bit written by a bloke to me.

Needhelp101 · 10/07/2025 15:11

@User14March your 'justified and ancient ' comment made me laugh out loud 😁
Showing my age there!

TheTwoOfUs · 10/07/2025 15:14

Fandango52 · 10/07/2025 14:50

I’m not sure - partly because I haven’t read the book yet - but I wonder if it’s included for comic value? Not sure though.

It's one of the odd interludes that don't quite work, like the running Simon Armitage gag. (You have a vision of an editor saying 'I don't really get this' and RW saying 'But it really happened!' And no, no idea why, even if they did believe Moth was the Poet Laureate, she would depict the beautiful PA and the nanny massaging a topless Moth while his wife took photos, and Grant asking whether he could use the photos for 'publicity' for a wine business...?)

I wondered if RW had included it because 'Grant' tells Raynor a tall tale. According to him, he tramped with a knapsack all over Europe, living on fresh air, ended up sleeping rough in an Italian vineyard, learned everything he could about wine, then came home and started wine trading out of a disused warehouse until he made his millions and attracted 'all the beautiful girls in his household'-- then his wife says 'Take no notice. He studied wine in evening classes and his father got him a job with a wine trader.'

After which there is the now much-picked-over line:

I thought about Grant’s tale and why he felt driven to tell it. When you tell a story, the first person you must convince is yourself; if you can make yourself believe it’s true, then everyone else will follow. Grant wanted to be the person he had created: hard done by, struggling through life’s adversities, but making good on his own wits, rather than the son of a wealthy father with connections.

She goes on to say their own story was 'created out of self-protection' to avoid being 'othered' and rejected as homeless, by changing only one word in their otherwise true story, that they had 'sold', rather than 'lost', their home.

TheTwoOfUs · 10/07/2025 15:14

Needhelp101 · 10/07/2025 15:11

@User14March your 'justified and ancient ' comment made me laugh out loud 😁
Showing my age there!

I laughed too.

DiamondThrone · 10/07/2025 15:16

Bruisername · 10/07/2025 13:28

People think financial crime is victimless but it can be truly devastating

it can often lead to financial collapse and it is often a trusted individual who has done it and that can be very painful and cause trust issues

and she says the company was a bit of a mess - sorry but it’s not unusual for bookkeepers to have to sort out ‘messes’ as it’s kind of their job to get all the docs etc together and make sense of them. A lot of small companies are run by people amazing at their job but rubbish at the financial side - hence the need for bookkeepers and accountants. Sounds like she saw the mess and took advantage rather than doing her job.

We only have Sally's word for the company being "a bit of a mess". Painting herself as the saviour, like for all those decrepit weirdly gifted buildings, and Moth's health...

EternalLodga · 10/07/2025 15:17

mycatismyworld · 10/07/2025 13:58

https://www.abebooks.com/9780957303102/Dy-Wyn-Thomas-Izzy-0957303106/pl
Definitely written by Sally ( or perhaps Tim as has been suggested here)

This link has now been deactivated...

ThatFluentHedgehog · 10/07/2025 15:17

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 10/07/2025 12:45

There are different ways of handling this, though. Tara Westover's Educated has a postscript which gives examples of significant events that she remembers differently to others who were there - it is very upfront about it being her recollection and uses the subjectivity as part of its writing and construction. Looking at the blurb and the marketing description on Amazon, it is described as 'memoir' but doesn't use the exact term 'true story'.

It read to me as if they were being dismissive of careers as a concept – work is for other people etc. So the only way they could write a professional bio was derisively. "Aren't we ridiculous and hilarious?" Erm, no.

User14March · 10/07/2025 15:18

TheTwoOfUs · 10/07/2025 15:14

It's one of the odd interludes that don't quite work, like the running Simon Armitage gag. (You have a vision of an editor saying 'I don't really get this' and RW saying 'But it really happened!' And no, no idea why, even if they did believe Moth was the Poet Laureate, she would depict the beautiful PA and the nanny massaging a topless Moth while his wife took photos, and Grant asking whether he could use the photos for 'publicity' for a wine business...?)

I wondered if RW had included it because 'Grant' tells Raynor a tall tale. According to him, he tramped with a knapsack all over Europe, living on fresh air, ended up sleeping rough in an Italian vineyard, learned everything he could about wine, then came home and started wine trading out of a disused warehouse until he made his millions and attracted 'all the beautiful girls in his household'-- then his wife says 'Take no notice. He studied wine in evening classes and his father got him a job with a wine trader.'

After which there is the now much-picked-over line:

I thought about Grant’s tale and why he felt driven to tell it. When you tell a story, the first person you must convince is yourself; if you can make yourself believe it’s true, then everyone else will follow. Grant wanted to be the person he had created: hard done by, struggling through life’s adversities, but making good on his own wits, rather than the son of a wealthy father with connections.

She goes on to say their own story was 'created out of self-protection' to avoid being 'othered' and rejected as homeless, by changing only one word in their otherwise true story, that they had 'sold', rather than 'lost', their home.

When someone tells you who they are, listen…NB: Raymoth. Yes, noted same upthread. Are ‘Grant’ & his coterie ‘real’? He sounded a bit Grant Mitchell, bald & gravelly.

EternalLodga · 10/07/2025 15:19

Redheadedstepchild · 10/07/2025 15:10

I haven't read the book but I thought I would try to guess if Moth wrote it by reading the prologue from Amazon's sample thingy:

"I was in awe. This man, who only two months earlier had struggled to put on his coat without help was standing on a beach in his underpants holding an erected...

...tent...."

It was an erected tent he was holding.

Sounds a bit written by a bloke to me.

I just started listening to the audio book and before the prologue even starts, the opening quote is:

"Tell me about a complicated man, Muse, tell me how he wandered". - Homer

Strange that "Sally" would choose this and not a quote about... Overcoming the odds... Or how a couple's bond can weather any storm... Or how nature provides salvation... Or something.

ThatFluentHedgehog · 10/07/2025 15:22

EternalLodga · 10/07/2025 12:49

There is a Duncan Hendry who was a big arts and theatre exec and promoter in Edinburgh. Is this the same guy? Why would he get involved in this?

For some reason my gut instinct is telling me that Moth is the writer of both the "Izzy" and the "Sally" books.

If he was it would solve the riddle in the book of Raynor Winn saying Moth Winn's real name is Ray, i.e. he is "Raynor"!

Orangesandlemons77 · 10/07/2025 15:22

EternalLodga · 10/07/2025 15:17

This link has now been deactivated...

oh interesting, wonder why

Aspanielstolemysanity · 10/07/2025 15:25

ThatFluentHedgehog · 10/07/2025 15:22

If he was it would solve the riddle in the book of Raynor Winn saying Moth Winn's real name is Ray, i.e. he is "Raynor"!

I think the whole "moth wrote the books" is such a ridiculous rabbit hole to go down.

TheTwoOfUs · 10/07/2025 15:30

Catwith69lives · 10/07/2025 14:34

Yes it is, although the timelines are a bit strange. Simon Armitage walked from Minehead to Land's End from the 29 Aug to 17 Sept 2013. Sally and Tim Walker apparently started off from Minehead on the 6th Aug. When they reached Portheras Cove on the 13th September Raynor Winn stated that they had covered 243 miles and slept wild for 36 nights ( ie covering about 6.5 miles a day). Simon Armitage covered the same distance in 19 days (ie he was walking at twice the pace). Thus he was way behind the Walkers until St Ives. Therefore quite why anybody would have mistaken Moth for Simon Armitage is a bit of a mystery as their paths didn't really overlap until right at the end of his walk (he gave a reading in St Ives on the 14/15 Sept). The Walkers reached St Ives on the 12 Sept and saw posters in the town advertising Simon Armitage's poetry reading. I'm not saying the cases of mistaken identity didn't happen, but it does strike me as a bit strange.

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I don't think I'd have an issue with most of that -- he'd talked about it a lot on social media in advance, people knew he was on the walk, and there were dates booked in for readings etc along the way, and he he invited people to walk with him as they wished. Also (I thought people knew this, but maybe not?), he walked with no money. I mean, I'm assuming he had an emergency stash, but the whole idea of the walk was that he would show up on foot to a community hall or church or pub or private house along the walk on a pre-arranged date and barter bed and food and luggage transfer to his next location in exchange for reading. (He'd done the same thing earlier on the Pennine Way.)

So not surprising he walked much faster than the Walkers. He wasn't carrying any thing other than water and waterproofs, and that people had a vague expectation of seeing him on the path around the time the Walkers were on it, The BBC actually sent a reporter after him on the path for a comment when Seamus Heaney died (which lines up with Moth getting a big response to him reading from Heaney's Beowulf translation for money in St Ives.)

This is a review of the book SA wrote about it.

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2015/jun/03/walking-away-simon-armitage-review-south-west-coast-path

But I still think that the gag in TSP gets quite tiresome, even if people did think Moth was SA.

Walking Away by Simon Armitage review – the South West Coast Path with a fine comic guide

The second instalment of Simon Armitage’s walking tour displays his gift for down-to-earth lyricism, but feels oddly weightless

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2015/jun/03/walking-away-simon-armitage-review-south-west-coast-path

EnidSpyton · 10/07/2025 15:32

Aspanielstolemysanity · 10/07/2025 15:25

I think the whole "moth wrote the books" is such a ridiculous rabbit hole to go down.

Agreed.

Women write male protagonists much more than men write female protagonists. Women will read books by men and women, with male and female protagonists, in quite equal proportions, whereas men tend to only read books written by and about men. Male protagonists are therefore seen as infinitely more desirable than female as they will sell to everyone. See stats in Mary Ann Sieghart’s book The Authority Gap.

I can see absolutely no reason why the couple would have decided Tim would do the writing and Sally take all the credit.

Anonymouseposter · 10/07/2025 15:33

Personally I think Sally/Raynor wrote the book. I think that there are probably some elements of truth in the story but that a lot of it is distortion and fantasy.
She sounds like one of those people who is a perpetual victim and never takes responsibility for her own behaviour or thinks about the impact of what she says and does on other people.
I think Tim/Moth does have an illness but that she has dramatised everything and put out the worst possible scenario to attract attention, while actually she knew that the progress of the disease is "indolent".
It's Sally too that stole the money, although Tim must have been aware what was going on.
They seem to have got away with a lot because outwardly they look quite personable but it looks like they have been flying by the seat of their pants and living above their means for years-a picture of entitlement.
The people who know them and have commented negatively seem to think they are both pathological liars . Men and women are equally capable of deception.

DiamondThrone · 10/07/2025 15:34

Needhelp101 · 10/07/2025 15:11

@User14March your 'justified and ancient ' comment made me laugh out loud 😁
Showing my age there!

MOO MOO

BarilynBordeaux · 10/07/2025 15:39

Very confused as to why she thought publishing the NHS letters would help, all they seem to do is prove she lied that he had a clear terminal diagnosis in 2013. The first letter mentioning his ‘indolent’ neurological disorder seems to be 2015

why not publish the letter saying he was definitely suffering from CBD in 2013? Unless he wasn’t.

dont get me wrong, I’m sorry he is genuinely ill, but it’s not the circumstances she describes in the book by a very long shot

FurryHappyKittens · 10/07/2025 15:40

Aspanielstolemysanity · 10/07/2025 15:25

I think the whole "moth wrote the books" is such a ridiculous rabbit hole to go down.

Couldn't agree more!

ShedSister · 10/07/2025 15:41

Here's an interview with Sally Raworth from Waterstones, 54 minutes in Moth gets dragged in and is asked about Raynor's writing ability.
He is arguably a better speaker than his wife.
Joint Collab?

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https://youtu.be/6uPh725-bIk?feature=shared

Uricon2 · 10/07/2025 15:43

For me, if the whole "Simon Armitage mistaken identity" thing is made up or at least well overegged it doesn't really matter (although the whole massage incident reads very oddly) Mothtim looks nothing whatever like SA but no Poet Laureates were harmed by the running gag. Same with occasionally getting a bus, they weren't in an official race.

The trouble is that when serious misleading is uncovered, everything goes under the spotlight.

EllieEllie25 · 10/07/2025 15:43

ThatFluentHedgehog · 10/07/2025 13:18

It almost felt like she was trying to suggest the garage's claim was spurious:

And to the man in the garage, who says I owe him money - if I have missed a debt, please contact me.

Oh some trifling little debt I overlooked.... of £800! I suppose it is small fry to her when she has previously stolen £64k.

Also, she must know exactly who this is and would have done much better to say “It’s true I had forgotten about that debt so I contacted the garage yesterday and have now paid him what I owed.” But everything is someone else’s responsibility!

It’s like she’s pretending to have total amnesia about her former life.

ThatFluentHedgehog · 10/07/2025 15:44

EternalLodga · 10/07/2025 13:45

Well his "investment in his friends property portfolio" teaches us that he's hardly a dewy-eyed daydreamer

That's just something made up by SW/RW(or even TW) for the story. There wasn't a friend's property portfolio investment, they were given a loan of 100k + 18% interest by a distant relative, that they didn't repay.

Personally I think he's equally culpable and hiding behind her or they've both decided she's the spokesperson.

Choux · 10/07/2025 15:44

TheTwoOfUs · 10/07/2025 15:30

I don't think I'd have an issue with most of that -- he'd talked about it a lot on social media in advance, people knew he was on the walk, and there were dates booked in for readings etc along the way, and he he invited people to walk with him as they wished. Also (I thought people knew this, but maybe not?), he walked with no money. I mean, I'm assuming he had an emergency stash, but the whole idea of the walk was that he would show up on foot to a community hall or church or pub or private house along the walk on a pre-arranged date and barter bed and food and luggage transfer to his next location in exchange for reading. (He'd done the same thing earlier on the Pennine Way.)

So not surprising he walked much faster than the Walkers. He wasn't carrying any thing other than water and waterproofs, and that people had a vague expectation of seeing him on the path around the time the Walkers were on it, The BBC actually sent a reporter after him on the path for a comment when Seamus Heaney died (which lines up with Moth getting a big response to him reading from Heaney's Beowulf translation for money in St Ives.)

This is a review of the book SA wrote about it.

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2015/jun/03/walking-away-simon-armitage-review-south-west-coast-path

But I still think that the gag in TSP gets quite tiresome, even if people did think Moth was SA.

Well I never knew all that. So he walked the SWCP in 2013 with no money and published a book about it in 2015… just as our plucky heroes / grifters (delete as appropriate) were getting a maybe diagnosis of a terminal illness and wondering where their next source of non embezzled funds were coming from. And then they also wrote a book about walking the SWCP with no money but they amped up the sympathy vote as they also had no home and for one of them no expected future. What similarities!

Catwith69lives · 10/07/2025 15:46

The controversy over TSP doesn't seem to have harmed her book sales one iota TSP is #2 in Amazon UK sales this week!

Maybe PRH will forge ahead with the October launch of 'On Winter Hill'.

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