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To refuse to buy bleach?

420 replies

Eastie77Returns · 08/07/2025 11:41

First world problem alert.

Our cleaner has asked demanded that I add Domestos bleach to my cleaning products. There's been a bit of an ongoing issue for a while now as I have trialed various eco-friendly cleaning products over the last few months and she generally doesn't like them. I have changed a couple of times in the hope she will get on better with a new range but she has a preference for products that contain high levels of chemicals. I understand they are the go-too products that she trusts but I just don't want to use them.

At the moment she is begrudgingly using the Ecover products I most recently bought. Now she is insisting she needs bleach to clean properly because Ecover doesn't really cut it. I said no as I just can't have it in the house. The smell is one thing but it's so toxic and dangerous (I'm absolutely haunted by an acquaintance whose young child inhaled some). She is a really good cleaner and in high demand. I'm aware she's already given notice to two households on our street because they did not fall in line with her requests (not cleaning product related, something else).

Has anyone used any of the 'natural' bleach products currently out there and were they effective?

OP posts:
daleylama · 12/07/2025 16:11

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 16:04

You've attempted to change the meaning of a word by adding 'in this context'. That's not how it works. Feel free to ignore my posts if facts bother you.

The meaning of words aren't influenced by the context that they are set within? Back to school with you.

TheSillyCrab · 12/07/2025 16:15

TheJoySpreader · 09/07/2025 10:15

No professional cleaner would use bleach because a) it doesn't actually clean it just disguises cleaning issues and b) a cleaner's insurance won't cover use of it because it's unnecessary and can easily be harmful to health and damaging

I am a professional cleaner and I will use bleach down the loo because it does "actually" clean it. As I have said before, if people took the time to check the loo after they have been and perhaps clean their shit up themselves then us cleaners would have no need of bleach, would we??

Arran2024 · 12/07/2025 16:16

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 15:18

You can't just alter the definition of a word to suit your narrative though.
'Chemical free' or 'without the use of chemicals' are nonsensical terms, because everything is made from chemicals. Stop calling folk pedants for no reason.

You may well be right but in real life, being right isn't always absolutely necessary

Eastie77Returns · 12/07/2025 17:05

savagedaughter · 12/07/2025 00:51

"I'm aware she's already given notice to two households on our street because they did not fall in line with her requests."

You have not told us what the "requests" were. "Don't allow your dogs to shit on the floor" would be an example of a reasonable request, but you have worded it in such a way as to make her sound unreasonable.

Based on this, I can only assume that she doesn't put up with much shit from employers (pun not intended) because good cleaners are in demand and hard to come by, so I guess you'll lose your cleaner then.

I didn’t mean to make her sound unreasonable. She’s self employed so she sets the rules, I don’t have an issue with that.

She only accepts payment in cash and due to her rate sometimes the amount due is a bit fiddly (eg £47.50). One household insisted on payment via bank transfer so she left.

She left the other house because the husband is at home when she cleans and she only works in an empty house.

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GRex · 12/07/2025 17:25

This reminds me of moving into a shared flat in my youth where the toilet inside was brown plus mould in the shower! It had been cleaned, but limescale around taps etc. New flatmate gave me keys and left, I chucked bleach in the toilet, sprayed the shower and sink with proper bathroom product, unpacked, went for pub meal with a mate, got back and rinsed down in 2 min with an open window so everything smelled fresh. She got back and was stunned, "Wow, this is so amazing! You must have been scrubbing this bathroom all day! Let me help you unpack to say thank you." Her Ecover days were over that day when I showed her the products, bleach rules...!

Very unreasonable. If you don't want your house to be clean then do it yourself, don't make a cleaner struggle scrubbing away. That said, domestos is no better than the 85p own brand bleaches.

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 17:29

daleylama · 12/07/2025 16:11

The meaning of words aren't influenced by the context that they are set within? Back to school with you.

Go back and read what I actually wrote.

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 17:30

Arran2024 · 12/07/2025 16:16

You may well be right but in real life, being right isn't always absolutely necessary

Eh?
That doesn't even make sense.

SALaw · 12/07/2025 17:49

sorrynotathome · 08/07/2025 11:50

I have never bought bleach and I'm over 60. There is no need if you're prepared to use elbow grease.

So you have to work harder with other products and so it impacts the cleaner / possibly how quickly she can clean the house.

SALaw · 12/07/2025 17:57

@Eastie77Returns”I would be gutted if she left. She leaves me with a very clean house every week and I wouldn’t be able to reproduce what she does.”

Cos she uses bleach and you don’t.

Eastie77Returns · 12/07/2025 18:05

SALaw · 12/07/2025 17:57

@Eastie77Returns”I would be gutted if she left. She leaves me with a very clean house every week and I wouldn’t be able to reproduce what she does.”

Cos she uses bleach and you don’t.

@SALaw think you’re a bit confused. The whole point of this thread is that she doesn’t currently use Bleach in my house😂

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Eastie77Returns · 12/07/2025 18:13

TheSillyCrab · 12/07/2025 16:15

I am a professional cleaner and I will use bleach down the loo because it does "actually" clean it. As I have said before, if people took the time to check the loo after they have been and perhaps clean their shit up themselves then us cleaners would have no need of bleach, would we??

As stated before, I clean the toilet before she arrives as I don’t actually expect her to do it. I mentioned this on another thread and people thought I was batshit but I feel embarrassed at the thought of someone cleaning my loo. I can say with 100% confidence she has never had to clean a shitty toilet in my house.

Apart from the bathroom, can you explain which areas of the house usually require bleach? My house is newly renovated. A small semi detached. I have no pets, floors etc are new. She can’t tell me what she needs the bleach for, just that she doesn’t like the eco stuff. Which is fine. Her rules etc and from what I’m reading on the thread, the eco products are not as effective so she has to work harder. Just a shame as she’s a fabulous cleaner and it looks as if I’ll have to get a new one as we are not compatible.

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hugbilly · 12/07/2025 18:14

Bleach, sodium hypochlorite solution, is only dangerous if used wrongly. It's far more effective, and much cheaper, than many of the modern products which people purchase these days and, personally, I wouldn't wash the kitchen and bathroom floors with anything else . . .

Janicchoplin · 12/07/2025 18:49

Eastie77Returns · 08/07/2025 11:41

First world problem alert.

Our cleaner has asked demanded that I add Domestos bleach to my cleaning products. There's been a bit of an ongoing issue for a while now as I have trialed various eco-friendly cleaning products over the last few months and she generally doesn't like them. I have changed a couple of times in the hope she will get on better with a new range but she has a preference for products that contain high levels of chemicals. I understand they are the go-too products that she trusts but I just don't want to use them.

At the moment she is begrudgingly using the Ecover products I most recently bought. Now she is insisting she needs bleach to clean properly because Ecover doesn't really cut it. I said no as I just can't have it in the house. The smell is one thing but it's so toxic and dangerous (I'm absolutely haunted by an acquaintance whose young child inhaled some). She is a really good cleaner and in high demand. I'm aware she's already given notice to two households on our street because they did not fall in line with her requests (not cleaning product related, something else).

Has anyone used any of the 'natural' bleach products currently out there and were they effective?

Get a new cleaner. 10 years cleaner/caretaker here. You don't need bleach. It just ruins everything it touches. The local council authorities won't allow it in schools etc in the UK.

Skybluepinky · 12/07/2025 18:52

Your poor cleaner, she has told you that the products you are buying don’t work, hope she finds work elsewhere where her employer respects her.

ZippyDeer · 12/07/2025 18:56

I stopped using bleach a long time ago, mainly because we have a cesspit. It also leaches into the water course and that is not good for the environment.
I find Ecover works quite well and white vinegar is great for cleaning most things around the house.

GRex · 12/07/2025 19:17

Eastie77Returns · 12/07/2025 18:05

@SALaw think you’re a bit confused. The whole point of this thread is that she doesn’t currently use Bleach in my house😂

She might bring her own. I found an old cleaner was bringing her own viakal because I only had white vinegar, so I quickly bought some. New cleaner wanted white vinegar but tried the viakal and became a convert for the problem areas.

Bellarose53 · 12/07/2025 19:50

You could point out to your cleaner that if they were working as a commercial cleaner they wouldn't be able to use bleach. It was phased out ages ago due to COSHH regulations etc.
I have worked as a cleaner in schools, hospitality venues and offices. Bleach has not been used for a long time, even when I've cleaned urinals.
Although I haven't worked as a cleaner for 2 yrs
Hope that's helpful

Fundayout2025 · 12/07/2025 20:42

ByLemonFish · 08/07/2025 12:31

Quite right, Good cleaners don't use bleach
Plus she obviously isn't insured. If she was she wouldn't be using bleach

I don't understand people who employ cleaners who don't have insurance.

Accidents happen and can be extremely costly

I'd be looking for someone else

I'm lost of the connection between using bleach and not being insured. What's that logic?

Fundayout2025 · 12/07/2025 20:54

And the " eco" style cleaning products I've seen cost a hell of a lot more than bleach . That's also a consideration.

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 21:05

Fundayout2025 · 12/07/2025 20:54

And the " eco" style cleaning products I've seen cost a hell of a lot more than bleach . That's also a consideration.

A lot of it is just greenwashing too.
Anyone remember the scam that was Enjo? It was marketed as 'chemical free'. 🫣

Smurfette63 · 12/07/2025 22:01

@Eastie77Returns it's actually against H&S to use bleach of any description if you are a cleaner in a public building so NO you are definitely NBU. She works for you, not the other way around she should respect your wishes in your home and accept the fact that she is the employee!

Luckylu123 · 12/07/2025 22:05

Bleach is hardly the worst chemical out there, it turns into salt and water as it breaks down.
You don’t have to have it in your home if you don’t want to but at least don’t spout rubbish as your excuse for not using it.

Mum2jenny · 12/07/2025 22:23

I’m a bleach free house too. Can’t see the benefit of it. It bleaches poo stains, but doesn’t remove them. So unless you want the poo stains to remain, but be bleached so you can’t see them, what is the point?
The deposits are still there, but now white as they’ve been bleached?

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 22:46

I'm confused as to why so many people apparently have 'poo stains' tbh - don't people have a toilet brush and cleaning spray/fluid? Who is letting poo set on?

Switcher · 12/07/2025 22:51

I vetoed bleach after the third ruined towel. I buy viakal for her and all the other stuff but bleach is just too annoying. She got really huffy and backed down