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To refuse to buy bleach?

420 replies

Eastie77Returns · 08/07/2025 11:41

First world problem alert.

Our cleaner has asked demanded that I add Domestos bleach to my cleaning products. There's been a bit of an ongoing issue for a while now as I have trialed various eco-friendly cleaning products over the last few months and she generally doesn't like them. I have changed a couple of times in the hope she will get on better with a new range but she has a preference for products that contain high levels of chemicals. I understand they are the go-too products that she trusts but I just don't want to use them.

At the moment she is begrudgingly using the Ecover products I most recently bought. Now she is insisting she needs bleach to clean properly because Ecover doesn't really cut it. I said no as I just can't have it in the house. The smell is one thing but it's so toxic and dangerous (I'm absolutely haunted by an acquaintance whose young child inhaled some). She is a really good cleaner and in high demand. I'm aware she's already given notice to two households on our street because they did not fall in line with her requests (not cleaning product related, something else).

Has anyone used any of the 'natural' bleach products currently out there and were they effective?

OP posts:
Merlin3189 · 09/07/2025 22:02

ByLemonFish · 08/07/2025 12:31

Quite right, Good cleaners don't use bleach
Plus she obviously isn't insured. If she was she wouldn't be using bleach

I don't understand people who employ cleaners who don't have insurance.

Accidents happen and can be extremely costly

I'd be looking for someone else

I'm surprised cleaners have insurance. When we used one (long time ago), we were told we needed to insure against accidents or any liability to her!

outerspacepotato · 09/07/2025 22:08

Do you have mold?

Pinkdhalia · 09/07/2025 22:08

The cleaning company I use , do not allow bleach or limescale removal products to be used. The cleaners use other ready available products
its your home and she is paid to do what her cleaning request are. I'll tell you my cleaning company if she walks.

Retiredfromearlyyears · 09/07/2025 22:13

I have chronic asthma . I used to love using Cillit Bang ,it actually took a couple of asthma attacks for me to realise it was the chemicals in the cleaning products. I pay for a quarterly subscription of Purdy and Figg. It os my 'go to ' product for cleaning almost everything. It's a natural oil based product. It can even be used on wood. The only exception is under the loo seats.lids. I use Bar Keepers Friend ( sainsbury's) powder on a wet brush for those . Just say you have developed an allergy to bleach. Surely she can clean without bleach! 😳 Good luck!

CleaningAngel · 09/07/2025 22:13

JayJayj · 09/07/2025 21:23

The only thing I use bleach for is my white sink. Had I known it would have been such a pain to keep white o wouldn’t have bothered. (It isn’t porcelain) I don’t clean anything else with bleach. I wouldn’t want a house smelling like they at all.

Jif cream cleaner or pink stuff paste is excellent for Belfast sinks, I only use bleach to clean toilets

JayJayj · 09/07/2025 22:22

CleaningAngel · 09/07/2025 22:13

Jif cream cleaner or pink stuff paste is excellent for Belfast sinks, I only use bleach to clean toilets

I will try it thank you! I really do hate my sink even though it looks nice! 🤣

Eastie77Returns · 09/07/2025 22:25

soupyspoon · 09/07/2025 10:20

I havent read the thread OP sorry, but my cleaner did exactly the same. I said no bleach, now I have to buy bleach. I buy Aldi and Lidl cleaning products, she only wants CIF or Flash and is fussy about what they are too.

I have caved in and get her what she wants. She also seems to go through what seems to be huge amounts of this stuff. I do not know what she does with it.

On the flip side she appears to get the house clean which is something I cannot do so I cant question it really.

So funny, sounds exactly like mine. She also asked for CIF and Flash which I don’t like but bought to keep her happy.

Similarly, she went through entire bottles of eco friendly stuff I bought in two visits but I don’t know if she was just making a point that’s it not very effective as I also can’t imagine what she did with it all. I trialled Purdey and Figg cleaning products with her. She used up the whole range in one visit and shook her head and said no, it’s not good.

Anyway. I will look into some of the alternative Bleach products mentioned but think we will end up parting ways as it seems to be Domestos or nothing. I would be gutted if she left. She leaves me with a very clean house every week and I wouldn’t be able to reproduce what she does.

OP posts:
Eastie77Returns · 09/07/2025 22:25

outerspacepotato · 09/07/2025 22:08

Do you have mold?

Nope, not at all.

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Eastie77Returns · 09/07/2025 22:27

CleaningAngel · 09/07/2025 18:33

I vlean houses, everyone asks me what products I prefer yo use and they buy them!! Inc bleach!! I'd bin you off straight away

Fair enough😂

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SunnyWriter · 09/07/2025 22:38

I worked as a cleaner for some years and never used bleach, and never have in my own home. There are plenty of good cleaning products out there that do a great job without all those nasty chemicals, including the fumes that you as either homeowner or cleaner inhale, these are very bad for the chest. There was a statistic of testing lungs of cleaners and was found that many of the non-smokers had lungs as if they were smoking 20 a day, all from using hard core chemicals to clean. It's your house, your lungs, so I'd politely desist using her and find a cleaner that's happier to work to your requirements, I mean, you are the client so she should follow what you want.

Laurmolonlabe · 09/07/2025 22:42

Sorry to be the naysayer here- but if someone else is doing the cleaning for you the least you can do is allow her the tiny bit of control that is choosing the cleaning products- all this" bleach doesn't clean" is pointless, what really doesn't clean well is an unhappy and disgruntled cleaner.

myusernamewastakenbyme · 09/07/2025 22:45

Nothing gets my loo clean like bleach does...sorry but im with the cleaner...bought some ecover dishwasher tablets once...absolute rubbish.

T1Dmama · 09/07/2025 22:50

I’m a cleaner. One house I clean for has a very sensitive dog … I love bleach but the home owner (& her dog) don’t like it…. I use white wine vinegar on her floors and surfaces and it’s great!

Nikki75 · 09/07/2025 23:51

Your house your money your choice .. I hate bleach.. I only use it in the toilets .

MuckFusk · 10/07/2025 00:22

"Bleach causes the buildup of chloroform in the air. Elevated levels of chloroform have been found in some New Jersey child care centers due to the mixing of too much bleach with water. Chloroform is a known cancer-causing chemical.

Is there a safer alternative to
bleach?
Yes. Products that contain hydrogen peroxide (HP) as an active ingredient are available in ready to use formulas or concentrate (follow label for
proper dilution).
• HP is an effective disinfectant and sanitizer with a specified “contact time” designed to kill the microorganisms listed on the label.
• HP also rapidly breaks down to water and oxygen and does not leave harmful residues or introduce irritating vapors into the air."

www.nj.gov/health/ceohs/documents/ccc-toolkit/ccc_bleach.pdf

Seems a pretty easy choice to me. I've been using HP instead of sodium hypochlorite bleach for 40 years. Works like a dream. I don't understand why anyone would use SH when a safer and equally effective option is available. People put peroxide in their hair when they dye it and on their teeth to whiten them, yet for some reason they don't use it to disinfect their homes and get rid of stains. It's baffling to me. Cleaning strength acetic acid (vinegar) is also very effective.

outerspacepotato · 10/07/2025 00:24

That would be the only reason I could think of for requiring bleach in a home setting.

recipientofraspberries · 10/07/2025 00:35

I'm surprised at a lot of the answers here.

Surely you have the ultimate say as it's your home? She's not there out of the goodness of her heart, you're paying her and she's clearly in demand and free to take or refuse the job. If you don't want bleach in your home surely that's kind of the end of it? In her view that would mean your house is a little less clean but she's still getting paid and it's not her who has to live there.

It would be absolutely fair enough if she couldn't feel satisfied leaving your house, in her view, not clean, and leave, but equally surely it's also fair enough for you to have your own rules about what products are ok in your home.

ScreamingDelight · 10/07/2025 01:17

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 08/07/2025 15:36

I got taken in by one of the FB ads for Smol - absolute crap! Back to the good old fashioned stuff!

Smol stain gel is amazing

Witchtower · 10/07/2025 05:34

soupyspoon · 09/07/2025 17:21

Humans are toxic and bad for the environment too.

Bleach has its uses, only on here is it treated like plutonium or something.

I think you’ll find it’s a lot more toxic than you think, a quick google can tell you that.

If every household uses it then it will obviously be far more harmful.

I am from a culture that loves bleach. It is used for absolutely everything.

You’re right, humans are toxic and one of the reasons we are is because we don’t respect our planet. We kill it, by using chemicals like bleach and not giving a care in the world.

Yerroblemom1923 · 10/07/2025 05:54

I only use it in toilets as have found eco products don't clean stains v well. If someone can recommend something as effective as bleach I'd use it.

anon666 · 10/07/2025 08:45

Bleach is awful for the environment as well as toxic. I'm with you.

Also as a responsible employer, I don't want my cleaner putting her own health at risk by using toxic products I'm providing. 😳

Cleaners have shorter life expectancies and health problems related to the toxicity of the products. 😔

Nancy Birtwhistle uses sodium percarbonate, which she calls 'green bleach'. I've used it to great effect, but its a powder, not a thick liquid, so I'm not sure whether its going to help you out.

I've dissolved it in boilingvwater and chucked it down the loo, which bleached out the brown stain while I then put citric acid in to dissolve the limescale. Its a bit more of a faff. But works and is kinder to humans and waterways.

Shopaholic100 · 10/07/2025 08:59

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 08/07/2025 18:14

Is this a regional thing re hardness of water as ive never once had limescale in my toilet

Yes, in the south and other areas which have hard water you get limescale build up.

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 10/07/2025 09:15

Shopaholic100 · 10/07/2025 08:59

Yes, in the south and other areas which have hard water you get limescale build up.

Aha, fair enough, im NW and the only place ive ever seen any limescale is inside ancient kettles 😂

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 10/07/2025 09:43

ScreamingDelight · 10/07/2025 01:17

Smol stain gel is amazing

I didn't try that one, it's not something I ever use. Their cleaning products were shite though, I chucked it all away.

Silverfoxette · 10/07/2025 10:08

I use mostly vinegar In cleaning but I find the only thing that gets poo off a toilet is bleach. I can ask people to scrub after a poo until I’m blue in the face, but they won’t do it so bleach it is. I find that ecover toilet cleaner crap and the other cleaners I physically feel sick with the smell