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To refuse to buy bleach?

420 replies

Eastie77Returns · 08/07/2025 11:41

First world problem alert.

Our cleaner has asked demanded that I add Domestos bleach to my cleaning products. There's been a bit of an ongoing issue for a while now as I have trialed various eco-friendly cleaning products over the last few months and she generally doesn't like them. I have changed a couple of times in the hope she will get on better with a new range but she has a preference for products that contain high levels of chemicals. I understand they are the go-too products that she trusts but I just don't want to use them.

At the moment she is begrudgingly using the Ecover products I most recently bought. Now she is insisting she needs bleach to clean properly because Ecover doesn't really cut it. I said no as I just can't have it in the house. The smell is one thing but it's so toxic and dangerous (I'm absolutely haunted by an acquaintance whose young child inhaled some). She is a really good cleaner and in high demand. I'm aware she's already given notice to two households on our street because they did not fall in line with her requests (not cleaning product related, something else).

Has anyone used any of the 'natural' bleach products currently out there and were they effective?

OP posts:
TheSillyCrab · 11/07/2025 16:46

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 08/07/2025 12:23

I do think I would want bleach if I was scrubbing someone else's poo.

Absolutely.

TheSillyCrab · 11/07/2025 16:49

ByLemonFish · 08/07/2025 12:31

Quite right, Good cleaners don't use bleach
Plus she obviously isn't insured. If she was she wouldn't be using bleach

I don't understand people who employ cleaners who don't have insurance.

Accidents happen and can be extremely costly

I'd be looking for someone else

It's nothing to do with being a "good cleaner" - but bleach is quite often the only thing which will clean toilets properly. I'm a cleaner so I'm speaking from experience, I don't use it for anything else.

TheSillyCrab · 11/07/2025 16:53

Eastie77Returns · 08/07/2025 11:41

First world problem alert.

Our cleaner has asked demanded that I add Domestos bleach to my cleaning products. There's been a bit of an ongoing issue for a while now as I have trialed various eco-friendly cleaning products over the last few months and she generally doesn't like them. I have changed a couple of times in the hope she will get on better with a new range but she has a preference for products that contain high levels of chemicals. I understand they are the go-too products that she trusts but I just don't want to use them.

At the moment she is begrudgingly using the Ecover products I most recently bought. Now she is insisting she needs bleach to clean properly because Ecover doesn't really cut it. I said no as I just can't have it in the house. The smell is one thing but it's so toxic and dangerous (I'm absolutely haunted by an acquaintance whose young child inhaled some). She is a really good cleaner and in high demand. I'm aware she's already given notice to two households on our street because they did not fall in line with her requests (not cleaning product related, something else).

Has anyone used any of the 'natural' bleach products currently out there and were they effective?

Have you asked her what she uses it for? I'm a cleaner and personally I think the eco products are useless but if that's what they want, then so be it. I only use bleach for the loo because more often than not it's the only thing that will clean a toilet properly. She is right if she means the Ecover doesn't cut it where toilets are concerned. Maybe (I'm not referring to you) if people actually checked the toilet bowls were clean after use and not covered in crap, literally, then you wouldn't need to use the products necessary to clean them.

Swiftie1878 · 11/07/2025 16:53

dogcatkitten · 08/07/2025 11:48

Surely nothing is that dirty that you need bleach if you have a regular cleaner?

Toilets and sinks should be regularly bleached.

ButtSurgery · 11/07/2025 17:10

Swiftie1878 · 11/07/2025 16:53

Toilets and sinks should be regularly bleached.

Says who?

And why bleach specifically and not another method?

Excited101 · 11/07/2025 17:17

I bought bleach the other day for the downstairs toilet. It was stained and no amount of scrubbing was making a difference!

However, I use eco products everywhere else and if my cleaner didn’t like them, im afraid I’d be getting a new cleaner.

my next door neighbour regularly bleaches her front door step… there’s a big wide range of cleaning product users!

daleylama · 11/07/2025 17:39

NHSinterviewupcoming · 08/07/2025 11:47

YABU.

Bleach is only toxic if not used properly. Tell her to open a window after and you’ll be fine.

Its toxic to the environment

tigger1001 · 11/07/2025 19:02

Swiftie1878 · 11/07/2025 16:53

Toilets and sinks should be regularly bleached.

Why?

they should be regularly cleaned but bleach? I can't use bleach as it triggers my asthma.

toilet and sinks perfectly clean

Lolapusht · 11/07/2025 22:36

For what it’s worth, I’ve switched to Delphis for pretty much everything. Used to use Smok, then tried Purdy & Fig plus all the usual high street ones but Delphis wins hands down. I usually add a few drops of essential oil to the cleaners for that P&F experience 😊 I now buy the large refill size and keep it in the garage. Lasts for ages. The multi-surface cleaner really does everything but I was so impressed with I’ve now got the bathroom cleaner, floor gel, cream cleaner, polish and cream cleaner! Bung in some vetiver & bergamot oil and tie laughing.

Dianne help with tie cleaner though 🫣

Whosenameisthis · 12/07/2025 00:19

daleylama · 11/07/2025 17:39

Its toxic to the environment

So are essential oils 🤷‍♀️. Toxic to people too except when very dilute, and even then can be irritant or dangerous to pregnant women.

bleach is safer to have in the house and around children than undiluted essential oil, dishwasher tabs, laundry tabs etc.

MuckFusk · 12/07/2025 00:45

Whosenameisthis · 12/07/2025 00:19

So are essential oils 🤷‍♀️. Toxic to people too except when very dilute, and even then can be irritant or dangerous to pregnant women.

bleach is safer to have in the house and around children than undiluted essential oil, dishwasher tabs, laundry tabs etc.

I afraid that's not accurate. Some essential oils are so low in toxicity that they can actually be ingested in pretty large quantities. Others not so much.
Would you actually rather ingest bleach than, for example, a medicinal oil like black cumin, which is well known to be safe? A medicinal dose is often two tablespoons twice a day. Would you drink two tablespoons of bleach even once? I think not. Millions of people drink black cumin regularly with no ill effects. It's the go to herbal remedy for a lot of conditions in the middle east and north Africa. There are other essential oils like this, that's just one example.
I don't know your basis for saying bleach is safer than laundry and dishwashing products. Could you explain?

savagedaughter · 12/07/2025 00:51

"I'm aware she's already given notice to two households on our street because they did not fall in line with her requests."

You have not told us what the "requests" were. "Don't allow your dogs to shit on the floor" would be an example of a reasonable request, but you have worded it in such a way as to make her sound unreasonable.

Based on this, I can only assume that she doesn't put up with much shit from employers (pun not intended) because good cleaners are in demand and hard to come by, so I guess you'll lose your cleaner then.

Whosenameisthis · 12/07/2025 01:09

MuckFusk · 12/07/2025 00:45

I afraid that's not accurate. Some essential oils are so low in toxicity that they can actually be ingested in pretty large quantities. Others not so much.
Would you actually rather ingest bleach than, for example, a medicinal oil like black cumin, which is well known to be safe? A medicinal dose is often two tablespoons twice a day. Would you drink two tablespoons of bleach even once? I think not. Millions of people drink black cumin regularly with no ill effects. It's the go to herbal remedy for a lot of conditions in the middle east and north Africa. There are other essential oils like this, that's just one example.
I don't know your basis for saying bleach is safer than laundry and dishwashing products. Could you explain?

Common household bleach is relatively benign to the skin and GI tract; dilution is usually sufficient

from https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK441921/

2 tbsps of bleach will taste disgusting and there’d be absolutely no point, but it wouldn’t cause anything other than irritation.

like you say, some essential oils may be harmless, others aren’t.

plenty of information out there. Too much for a mn post.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK441921/

Anonymousforthisone2025 · 12/07/2025 01:15

Bottleflag · 08/07/2025 11:48

It's absolutely your choice, but you're making her job harder and she's entitled to go elsewhere.

I'm a cleaner, I don't use bleach. It's absolutely not harder to clean without it, in fact it doesn't actually clean, it hides stains by, well, bleaching them!

daleylama · 12/07/2025 04:55

Whosenameisthis · 12/07/2025 00:19

So are essential oils 🤷‍♀️. Toxic to people too except when very dilute, and even then can be irritant or dangerous to pregnant women.

bleach is safer to have in the house and around children than undiluted essential oil, dishwasher tabs, laundry tabs etc.

Wasn't advocating essential oils but as you mention them, in use they are massively diluted anyway.. Assuming you're referring to eucalyptus oil as most are not at all toxic.

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 07:40

Arran2024 · 11/07/2025 14:21

Why don't people who want to avoid chemicals use e cloths and a steamer? That's what I do.

It's not possible to 'avoid chemicals'.
Your steamer uses water, which is a chemical.
You cloths are made of chemicals.
Your steamer is made of chemicals.
Your bathroom is made of chemicals.
You are made of chemicals.

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 07:41

Arran2024 · 10/07/2025 19:17

I have 2 large breed, hairy dogs and three of us live here. My spend on cleaning products is minimal - for example, I just use a very hot cloth to wash the floor, no chemicals. We haven't died yet! I read the Mrs Hinch cleaning book and was astonished by the amount of chemicals she uses. And watching tv last week, I was struck by the number of cleaning product ads for products I don't use, like fabric conditioner and dryer sheets, plug in air fresheners etc. I use a steamer a lot and avoid chemicals where I can.

Water is a chemical.

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 07:43

CameltoeParkerBowles · 11/07/2025 07:47

It's annoying when people say, "I don't want a load of chemicals". Chemicals like air, water, vegetable matter, and all food and drink, presumably? Literally everything on the planet is composed of chemicals.

Not that this is what the OP is saying, of course.

Lots of other posters are referring to 'not using chemicals' and lots of folk are promoting 'natural is better'
It's impossible not to use chemicals, because everything is made of chemicals, and natural isn't always better. 🫣

Gwenhwyfar · 12/07/2025 09:36

myplace · 08/07/2025 20:17

Washing up liquid and a brush round the bowl, no smell no stains.

Washing up liquid is not made for the toilet and won't work us as well. It doesn't get my kitchen sink clean so no point trying it in the toilet where it doesn't belong anyway.

Arran2024 · 12/07/2025 10:37

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 07:41

Water is a chemical.

That seems pedantic. Why not concentrate on the gist of what I'm saying, which is that you can do a lot of cleaning without products.

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 11:51

Arran2024 · 12/07/2025 10:37

That seems pedantic. Why not concentrate on the gist of what I'm saying, which is that you can do a lot of cleaning without products.

It's not pedantic.

daleylama · 12/07/2025 14:49

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 07:41

Water is a chemical.

Can the pedants please get off the H20 bandwagon! We all know what is meant by 'chemicals' in this context - something which has varying degrees of effectiveness, and toxicity, depending on dilution

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 15:18

daleylama · 12/07/2025 14:49

Can the pedants please get off the H20 bandwagon! We all know what is meant by 'chemicals' in this context - something which has varying degrees of effectiveness, and toxicity, depending on dilution

You can't just alter the definition of a word to suit your narrative though.
'Chemical free' or 'without the use of chemicals' are nonsensical terms, because everything is made from chemicals. Stop calling folk pedants for no reason.

daleylama · 12/07/2025 15:56

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 15:18

You can't just alter the definition of a word to suit your narrative though.
'Chemical free' or 'without the use of chemicals' are nonsensical terms, because everything is made from chemicals. Stop calling folk pedants for no reason.

Critical thinking training called for. I am not altering the word's meaning nor advocating for it. I am asking that pedants stop repeatedly telling us all what we already know, that water is a chemical, that we are composed of chemicals...then drawing a crooked line to ' any and all use of undilute bleach and other toxic cleaning chemicals' being equivalent.

Morgenrot25 · 12/07/2025 16:04

daleylama · 12/07/2025 15:56

Critical thinking training called for. I am not altering the word's meaning nor advocating for it. I am asking that pedants stop repeatedly telling us all what we already know, that water is a chemical, that we are composed of chemicals...then drawing a crooked line to ' any and all use of undilute bleach and other toxic cleaning chemicals' being equivalent.

You've attempted to change the meaning of a word by adding 'in this context'. That's not how it works. Feel free to ignore my posts if facts bother you.