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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

… To be considering leaving the UK?

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globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 13:17

We have been considering leaving, even if only for a few years. Many of our clients have already gone or are planning it, and some of our friends too.

I’m not sure where we’d go: UAE, Portugal, Jersey, Ireland, Canada, Australia? We don’t currently want to move to the US, even though that would probably make the most sense from a business/client point of view.

For those out there who have already left, how has it gone? Was it a horrible mistake or are you glad you did it?

For those also thinking about it, where would you go?

Kids are school-aged and smart and used to international travel as our work already takes us all over, although they’d miss their friends (as would we). We aren’t English so our family is already based all over the place, although we visit them frequently.

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TwigletsAndRadishes · 05/07/2025 16:51

MiloMinderbinder925 · 05/07/2025 13:23

The Nordic countries have an excellent standard of life.

They used to. Very high taxes but a very good quality of life. Not so much these days, although they still have the very high taxes.

Dufff23 · 05/07/2025 16:51

@globalnomad25 if you’re outdoorsy, you may love Canada, my bf from school settled there and would never come back, I’m always seeing photos of her kids playing in the snow, cross country skiing, canoeing you name it.

I’ve been an ex pat and honestly, maintaining links with people you value is of prime importance - distance matters for that, particularly as everyone ages and people get sick.

even quite significant amounts of extra tax aren’t as important as having places you love, and people you love that are easy to get to.

Wexone · 05/07/2025 16:52

Mrsbloggz · 05/07/2025 13:31

And very high taxes.

it's because of their high taxes they have this quality of life. Public services are excellent

Meetmeundertheclock · 05/07/2025 16:54

@globalnomad25 , I do not live or work there but was offered a job with a London accountancy firm, years ago.

globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 16:54

Poppins21 · 05/07/2025 16:18

People with high educational levels and assets are pretty much welcome anywhere. We no longer live in the UK and our standard of living is much better. To the OP if it makes sense for your life and business do it- depending on your assets and income maybe Greece or Italy with their new non dom rules as Portugal are phasing theirs out?

Thank you!

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globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 16:55

Meetmeundertheclock · 05/07/2025 16:54

@globalnomad25 , I do not live or work there but was offered a job with a London accountancy firm, years ago.

Thanks, I will do some Googling!

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potatotomata · 05/07/2025 16:56

We’re in Singapore - been great, planning to stay longer - kids doing well an enjoying it

We can travel back and forth at least 1-2x per year to UK so yes it’s far but not impossible

Accommodation is the biggest cost and you’ll both need EP - probably the trickiest unless one of you would qualify for Onepass

Jc2001 · 05/07/2025 16:57

BMW6 · 05/07/2025 13:42

Aren't you rather assuming that these countries want you?

But really, you're not British to start with and have family all over (presumably globally) so I'm sure you have enough information from your global family to be able to make informed decisions without needing input from here! 🙄

These "we are leaving UK" threads get very wearisome. Honestly, no-one cares. Off you pop, have a nice life, byeeee

You clearly care enough to open a thread on the subject and post a long winded comment.

Dufff23 · 05/07/2025 16:58

What are Italy’s new non dom rules?

globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 16:58

Crushed23 · 05/07/2025 16:40

I emigrated last year due to stagnant wages in the UK. I have to say that I absolutely loved living in the UK! So I can’t get my head around the daily “This country is awful, where should I move to?” threads. It can’t have changed that much in the year I’ve even gone?!

That being said, the quality of life here from earning literally double what I was earning in London (for the exact same role at the same company) vs a COL that’s only 30-50% higher, has been great. I’m able to live in a prime central neighbourhood (equivalent of Knightsbridge / Mayfair in London), travel more comfortably- business class for long haul, nicer hotels etc. and still have plenty left to save, overpay on my UK mortgage or throw into my pension.

So for me it has 100% been worth it.

Good luck & keep us posted!

Thank you so much! We still like the UK - we def don’t think life is ‘awful’ here - but just looking at other options too especially as we know others leaving. If we can have the same quality of life in another country and manage to save more £ for our kids’ uni fees at the same time, it could be attractive!

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Natsku · 05/07/2025 16:59

Bluebellwood129 · 05/07/2025 16:46

What do you mean by 'standard of life'? I l know plenty of people living in the Nordics who have what I consider to be a very average quality of life .

Depends on what you consider to improve your standard of living, doesn't it? For me it's decent schools, good working conditions and a decent safety net for if you need it, and never being far from nature even in cities. Finland has does for me, even if it has declined in many ways over the last decade.

Kay286 · 05/07/2025 16:59

Also worth bearing in mind Canada has clamped down on immigration it’s actually pretty tough to get permanent residence right now - took us 4 years . Have friends that have been here and working 4 years and they are no where close …. As don’t have the required points to be called for a place .. so you may not even qualify

BunnyLake · 05/07/2025 17:00

I’ve said it many times but if I were wealthy I would go back to Switzerland. Unfortunately I would need to win the lottery.

SerendipityJane · 05/07/2025 17:02

Genevieva · 05/07/2025 14:00

I think she’s British but not of British descent.

We'll find out eventually.

globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 17:02

potatotomata · 05/07/2025 16:56

We’re in Singapore - been great, planning to stay longer - kids doing well an enjoying it

We can travel back and forth at least 1-2x per year to UK so yes it’s far but not impossible

Accommodation is the biggest cost and you’ll both need EP - probably the trickiest unless one of you would qualify for Onepass

Thanks so much. I actually lived in Singapore for a couple of years - albeit about 20 years ago! - and loved it and we already know a few families who live there, so it’s high on the list!

School-wise, do you have any advice? I was thinking Dulwich College may be a good option if we want to keep a broadly British curriculum (at least initially).

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Eaglemom · 05/07/2025 17:04

No judging whatsoever but I truly can't abide faffers. You want to go, then go. Make a decision on the destination and have a nice life. Thats the end of it surely.

MikeRafone · 05/07/2025 17:05

Mrsbloggz · 05/07/2025 13:31

And very high taxes.

🤐

Cyclingmummy1 · 05/07/2025 17:11

Abu Dhabi over Dubai if you choose the UAE.

StellaLaBella · 05/07/2025 17:12

SerendipityJane · 05/07/2025 17:02

We'll find out eventually.

Not sure why you’re unable to scroll through a relatively short thread, or filter the OPs posts, but she has said several times they have both British and EU passports, and therefore can live anywhere in the Union without restrictions. HTH

TwigletsAndRadishes · 05/07/2025 17:13

Sourisblanche · 05/07/2025 13:29

When the UK decided to leave the EU was the moment I thought okay we’re off. It’s taken a few years because of GCSEs and my dear poorly mum but we sold up and moved to S of France this year.

Do you need to get a job in order to sustain yourselves long term? Are both fluent in French?

Crushed23 · 05/07/2025 17:14

Eaglemom · 05/07/2025 17:04

No judging whatsoever but I truly can't abide faffers. You want to go, then go. Make a decision on the destination and have a nice life. Thats the end of it surely.

For goodness’ sake, what’s with all the bitchy comments dripping with bitterness?! Moving country is a big decision and doing research / getting opinions / fact finding is perfectly sensible and not just “faffing”. If you don’t like the topic, don’t click on the thread.

GreenIsMyFavoriteColour · 05/07/2025 17:14

I'm too committed to the UK now but I'm really encouraging my kids to at least get degrees that are of use abroad and maybe do gap years in places they might want to live.

If a party with a landslide can't get a grip on spending nobody will. Plus we're overcrowded to and insane degree. The small market town I grew up in has sprawled to an insane degree. The mid size town I now live in has also sprawled. What used to look on fields is now a cycle ride from the countryside and there's a dog poo epidemic which is a clear symptom of overcrowding. Muggings on EScooters have become normal and totally un Policed.

The UK has had it. If you're a worker it's long since time to leave. 😢

HereAreYourOptions · 05/07/2025 17:16

Do you not have or want any sense of belonging to somewhere? Being part of a community or something bigger than yourself? I guess there have always been nomads who travel from place to place and never put down any roots, but its not the kind of life I'd choose or want for my children.

Each to their own though I guess.

globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 17:20

Eaglemom · 05/07/2025 17:04

No judging whatsoever but I truly can't abide faffers. You want to go, then go. Make a decision on the destination and have a nice life. Thats the end of it surely.

Thanks. I don’t like faffing either but uprooting the family is a big decision so some due diligence is required, hence I really value hearing about other families’ experiences. Although we’ve been vaguely talking about a move for some time now, we didn’t want to leave while one child was doing GCSEs (which they’ve now finished) as thought it would be too disruptive. Have you moved EagleMom?

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