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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

… To be considering leaving the UK?

567 replies

globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 13:17

We have been considering leaving, even if only for a few years. Many of our clients have already gone or are planning it, and some of our friends too.

I’m not sure where we’d go: UAE, Portugal, Jersey, Ireland, Canada, Australia? We don’t currently want to move to the US, even though that would probably make the most sense from a business/client point of view.

For those out there who have already left, how has it gone? Was it a horrible mistake or are you glad you did it?

For those also thinking about it, where would you go?

Kids are school-aged and smart and used to international travel as our work already takes us all over, although they’d miss their friends (as would we). We aren’t English so our family is already based all over the place, although we visit them frequently.

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globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 16:19

ByGreenHiker · 05/07/2025 13:29

UAE ...enjoy

Did you move there? If so, do you like it?

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Poppins21 · 05/07/2025 16:21

CeaselesslyIntoThePast · 05/07/2025 14:08

MN is full of posts declaring they want out of the UK usually following some sort of political decision they deem makes the UK the worse place in the world. I suspect most don’t go. It’s another form of flouncing.
You can’t realistically choose a country to move to like you are picking a holiday cottage.

Why not? We did and have a few times. We are moving again next year and that’s exactly what we have done again this time.

Eixample · 05/07/2025 16:22

I moved when the children were under one year old. I would consider their ages carefully when deciding whether to move. I couldn’t move one of my seven year olds now without severing impacting her, I suspect.

Poppins21 · 05/07/2025 16:23

Meetmeundertheclock · 05/07/2025 14:09

Does your business benefit from UK standards like Accountancy or Law? Cyprus might work out.

Good option and there are some interesting tax options too.

globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 16:23

PlutoCat · 05/07/2025 13:35

There are quite a few threads on MN from (often new for some reason) posters who are planning to leave the UK imminently. If you do a search you will find helpful info, I'm sure.

Thanks. I’m not actually new to Mumsnet (I’ve been actively posting for about 13 years, as a normal mum, and I’m not a journalist or bot or whatever you’re thinking). I have changed my username about 3 times in those 13 years so as not to be too outing. I have done a search too, of course, but hoping for replies from others who’ve gone through the same thing or are similar.

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L00kingAround · 05/07/2025 16:25

Oh go if you can!

I know 2 families in the last year alone that have gone (to Dubai) as well as someone else on my team.
We're leaving in a a few months (not Dubai), just working my notice period.

Make sure you do your research and have a job to go to. My new company is paying me a relocation allowance and helped with all the paperwork.
From speaking to others, it'll probably take at least 6+ months for where ever you go to truely feel like you've settled in. But we felt like that's a small price to pay for a better quality of life.

Poppins21 · 05/07/2025 16:26

FeministUnderTheCatriarchy · 05/07/2025 14:59

I've lived all over the world. I've been an expat for 11 years. The grass definitely isn't greener and despite it's faults, the UK is the best country I have ever lived in (and I've lived in NZ, Australia, Austria, Czech Republic, Greece, Thailand, Malaysia and Cambodia).

It does depend on where in the UK you are, so if it was me I would focus on moving somewhere nicer in the UK rather than overseas.

I know loads of expats, I've met a ton over the years. I would say 90%+ of the men love it but only a few women I've met have genuinely been happy.

I am a woman and I love being an expat it really suits our family and has been incredible opportunity for our daughter.

Poppins21 · 05/07/2025 16:26

L00kingAround · 05/07/2025 16:25

Oh go if you can!

I know 2 families in the last year alone that have gone (to Dubai) as well as someone else on my team.
We're leaving in a a few months (not Dubai), just working my notice period.

Make sure you do your research and have a job to go to. My new company is paying me a relocation allowance and helped with all the paperwork.
From speaking to others, it'll probably take at least 6+ months for where ever you go to truely feel like you've settled in. But we felt like that's a small price to pay for a better quality of life.

Where you going too? Exciting times

Cyclistmumgrandma · 05/07/2025 16:27

We lived in the USA for 3 years and then back to UK for 12 years. Then we lived in Switzerland for 2 years then France for 16 years. We have now retired back to the UK to be nearer to family. It certainly helped us financially and we enjoyed it and wouldn't have changed it.

heldinadream · 05/07/2025 16:29

@Movingon2024 You say the summer is brutal and only going to get worse, but you also say you doubt that you'll come back.
I'm truly not trying to be goady- if you see my post above you'll see I have relatives in Portugal who are thinking of returning partly for that reason. But do you not worry that more brutal will actually become impossible to live in?
As someone who's been aware of climate change for a long time, before the phrase was even coined, nothing would make me move to a country that's hot and going to get hotter and I'm increasingly mystified that anyone would consider it or seriously think they're going to be able to stay as it gets worse.

Cesarina · 05/07/2025 16:30

Underpr3ssure · 05/07/2025 13:53

Not to mention the 'departure' tax on your worldwide assets when you eventually leave.

What's a "departure" tax?🤔

Poppins21 · 05/07/2025 16:33

Cesarina · 05/07/2025 16:30

What's a "departure" tax?🤔

Some countries will tax you on unrealised gains- so if you bought shares but not sold them they may tax the expected profit as per the day you leave.

globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 16:34

BMW6 · 05/07/2025 13:42

Aren't you rather assuming that these countries want you?

But really, you're not British to start with and have family all over (presumably globally) so I'm sure you have enough information from your global family to be able to make informed decisions without needing input from here! 🙄

These "we are leaving UK" threads get very wearisome. Honestly, no-one cares. Off you pop, have a nice life, byeeee

Thanks. Yes, we’d definitely need to check entry requirements for all the countries but I feel reasonably confident we would eligible for most of the countries listed.

For clarity, I am actually British (I’ve had a British passport for many years alongside my European one, and my husband has held a British passport - obtained via ancestry - for over 15 years), but neither of us are English. One of our children was born here too.

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NormasArse · 05/07/2025 16:35

Mrsbloggz · 05/07/2025 13:31

And very high taxes.

To support the incredible infrastructure.

NormasArse · 05/07/2025 16:39

Zov · 05/07/2025 14:04

👏 100% this.

Fact is, the people posting this type of thread won't leave the UK. Wink

Deep down they know where they're well off. And as you say, it's hilarious that people assume these countries will allow them in!

I clicked on this thread because I’m really interested; why did you click on it?

Crushed23 · 05/07/2025 16:40

I emigrated last year due to stagnant wages in the UK. I have to say that I absolutely loved living in the UK! So I can’t get my head around the daily “This country is awful, where should I move to?” threads. It can’t have changed that much in the year I’ve even gone?!

That being said, the quality of life here from earning literally double what I was earning in London (for the exact same role at the same company) vs a COL that’s only 30-50% higher, has been great. I’m able to live in a prime central neighbourhood (equivalent of Knightsbridge / Mayfair in London), travel more comfortably- business class for long haul, nicer hotels etc. and still have plenty left to save, overpay on my UK mortgage or throw into my pension.

So for me it has 100% been worth it.

Good luck & keep us posted!

Weekmindedfool · 05/07/2025 16:41

I would suggest you start with the practicalities of which countries you would actually be eligible for a visa for and what it takes to get one given your line of work and take it from there.

globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 16:42

FunnysInLaJardin · 05/07/2025 13:59

we moved from the UK to Jersey 27 years ago and have never looked back. You will need a licensed job to be able to rent decent housing though.

What do you both do professionally?

Oh Jersey is definitely one of my current favourite options and I’d love to know more about your experience. I think we may need to start off as a ‘registered’ renter though. Am I right in thinking we need 5 years for full work rights and 10 years for qualified? I hear the schools in St Helier are good too; like JCG?

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Savoury · 05/07/2025 16:43

Yes climate change factors into my reckoning @heldinadream
I’ve had the experience of having ash fall on me in a Portuguese restaurant one lunchtime. The staff told me it was happening lots now but they didn’t remember forest fires as children. It can only go one way. But if you’re mobile you can return if it gets worse.

Bluebellwood129 · 05/07/2025 16:46

MiloMinderbinder925 · 05/07/2025 13:23

The Nordic countries have an excellent standard of life.

What do you mean by 'standard of life'? I l know plenty of people living in the Nordics who have what I consider to be a very average quality of life .

SerendipityJane · 05/07/2025 16:48

Radionowhere · 05/07/2025 13:19

What nationality are you OP?

These posts amuse me. Intricate details about reasons for leaving, but weirdly the one most important fact in providing advice is missing.

globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 16:49

CeaselesslyIntoThePast · 05/07/2025 14:08

MN is full of posts declaring they want out of the UK usually following some sort of political decision they deem makes the UK the worse place in the world. I suspect most don’t go. It’s another form of flouncing.
You can’t realistically choose a country to move to like you are picking a holiday cottage.

I think that’d probably true for a lot of people but, for us, this isn’t a knee-jerk reaction. We’ve made a number of preparatory moves already. We still really like the UK and have enjoyed our time here and have made great friends, but otherwise don’t have any major ties to here other than our kids’ schooling so it makes sense to maximise our quality of life both in the short and longer term.

In other words, we still think the UK is a great place; it just may no longer be the best place for US.

But I’m very aware that there will be pros and cons to moving, just like there is to anything, so really keen to hear from people who’ve done it already.

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globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 16:49

Meetmeundertheclock · 05/07/2025 14:09

Does your business benefit from UK standards like Accountancy or Law? Cyprus might work out.

Thanks for this. I’d not considered Cyprus yet - do you live there?

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globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 16:50

heldinadream · 05/07/2025 14:10

I would not move anywhere currently without factoring in climate change.
I have a relative living in Portugal for about ten years now. They love it, BUT are considering coming back to the UK at least partly because the summer heat is becoming unbearable and ramping up year on year. Some places in the world will soon be almost uninhabitable. Don't ignore that fact.
The weekend we had about 30 degrees, they had over 40 in some places. It's only going to get worse.

I think that’s a good point. I do worry about that - things are only going to get hotter and more unpredictable weather-wise.

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