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That hand washed dishes should be rinsed with clean water?

269 replies

Drew79 · 24/06/2025 21:42

When hand washing, interested in how many people either -

Wash dishes then rinse with clean water, then put on the drainer to dry

Or
Wash dishes and put on the drainer with soap suds and dirty water still on them?

I don't like the idea of eating and drinking from something that's got some cleaning chemicals left on it, but my partner says I'm being fussy!

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Wolmando · 25/06/2025 07:44

Depends what it is, stuff like baking trays, I don't bother, as it goes in the oven anyway and stuff just sits on it

Sherararara · 25/06/2025 07:47

Of course you rinse. Unless you like to eat washing up liquid residue with every meal. It doesn’t just magically (or scientifically) slide of your plate when you lift it out the water. Or even wipe it with a towel.

Poynsettia · 25/06/2025 07:50

when I was young 60 odd years ago hot water was precious and dishes didn’t get rinsed -rinsing in icy cold water (Scotland with no central heating) would have prolonged the drying process. Washing in v hot water meant plates dried off in the rack. It’s annoying when things in the past are seen as dirty and lazy when a coal fire heated the water for a family of 5 meant it was used sparingly and dish and pan washing was a tedious job. Get it done quickly and no one was ill.

Poynsettia · 25/06/2025 07:53

Sherararara · 25/06/2025 07:47

Of course you rinse. Unless you like to eat washing up liquid residue with every meal. It doesn’t just magically (or scientifically) slide of your plate when you lift it out the water. Or even wipe it with a towel.

I find many dishwasher tablets taint crockery especially plastic items with smell and also taste. If you’re worried about imbibing detergent reduce your use of dishwasher powder imv the capsules are far too strong.

IsItTheBlackOneOrTheRedOne · 25/06/2025 07:56

RINSE! Whenever I am given a glass at someone’s house who can’t wash up properly I’m 🤮

People, wash and rinse your dishes.

IsItTheBlackOneOrTheRedOne · 25/06/2025 07:59

Poynsettia · 25/06/2025 07:50

when I was young 60 odd years ago hot water was precious and dishes didn’t get rinsed -rinsing in icy cold water (Scotland with no central heating) would have prolonged the drying process. Washing in v hot water meant plates dried off in the rack. It’s annoying when things in the past are seen as dirty and lazy when a coal fire heated the water for a family of 5 meant it was used sparingly and dish and pan washing was a tedious job. Get it done quickly and no one was ill.

Water is scarce where I am. It is possible to still rinse using the same amount of water!

Katemax82 · 25/06/2025 07:59

My mum and stepdad never rinsed, once I was visiting and mum said she had a toddler cup my son could drink out of, it had its lid firmly attached and when I opened it it stunk of mould!!! So they didn't dry up properly either. I never let my kids eat or drink round there again unless I sent them with their own drinks like fruit shoots or bottled water. Also my daughter said she had milk round there once and it tasted of soap

Sharptonguedwoman · 25/06/2025 08:01

Flossflower · 24/06/2025 22:10

🤮

Onslaught has arrived😂. Dog always prewashed our dishes as well. Then they went in the dishwasher. We are fine.
Btw no, I don't rinse the hand washed dishes.

ConnieHeart · 25/06/2025 08:01

200skies · 24/06/2025 21:49

My DM doesn't rinse the dishes and everything I take "clean" from the cupboards is covered in a film of grease 🤢 Vile.

It might be poor quality washing up liquid too. I've seen a big difference in paying a bit more for better quality. I don't rinse and no longer see any greasy residue with better quality

Drew79 · 25/06/2025 08:06

changenameagain555 · 24/06/2025 23:32

I never rinse. To be honest I think the dishes out the dishwasher taste more of detergent than hand washed and not rinsed. When I was pregnant I couldn’t drink out of any glass washed in the dishwasher as the smell (which I could only smell whilst pregnant) made me feel sick. I was fine with my hand washed and un rinsed glasses.

I've never noticed a problem with dishes out of the dishwasher, but some glasses are an issue even if they look squeaky clean - if I have a glass of water and go back to it while later - the water tastes foul , chlorinated! Dishwasher tablets are very harsh, glass is quite a rough surface at microscopic level so I imagine the cleaning agents are seeping into the tiny crevices, and coming out when soaked in water for a long time.

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Yorkshiremum80 · 25/06/2025 08:15

TheTecknician · 24/06/2025 22:31

There were very bold lipstick prints on a wine glass in the pub earlier tonight (not mine) and it was supposedly a 'clean' glass. Shows how effective the glass washing machines are.

When I was 18 I got diptheria and they suspected it was from a pub glass that hadn't been washed properly

Mandoidi · 25/06/2025 08:17

I have recently started rinsing. I never used to do it but I read something (on here probably) that made me realise there could still be soap on the dishes so I tried rinsing and have stuck to it.

I have a dishwasher so most things go in there. But I hand-wash glasses, pans, knives, wooden utensils and most of my plastics.

I don't like the taste that dishwasher tablets leave on some plastics.

I wash in hot soapy water then put each item in the middle drainer sink as I go. When that's full I rinse in tepid water and put them on the drainer. Then carry on with the washing.

I leave them to dry in the draining rack. I only polish if they aren't fully dry when zi want to put them away

Katemax82 · 25/06/2025 08:18

Poynsettia · 25/06/2025 07:50

when I was young 60 odd years ago hot water was precious and dishes didn’t get rinsed -rinsing in icy cold water (Scotland with no central heating) would have prolonged the drying process. Washing in v hot water meant plates dried off in the rack. It’s annoying when things in the past are seen as dirty and lazy when a coal fire heated the water for a family of 5 meant it was used sparingly and dish and pan washing was a tedious job. Get it done quickly and no one was ill.

It's not relevant now though so people need to rinse

TheyFuckYouUpYourMamAndDad · 25/06/2025 08:20

ReignOfError · 24/06/2025 22:01

I’ve only ever rinsed glasses and I’ve not died of soap poisoning yet, despite my other half’s repeated assurances that I will.

Same…still here to tell the tale in my 60s 💪

Flossflower · 25/06/2025 08:20

Anotherscrubber · 25/06/2025 01:47

I rinse because the amount of hand washing I do is minimal - I bought my first dishwasher almost 26 years ago, when I was 21, and I have had one ever since. If I was hand washing lots of dishes, I may not be so methodical. I also leave things to drain, before finishing with a tea towel. I am no germaphobe, but I do have a healthy dislike of dishcloths and tea towels which have been used more than once.

My mother-in-law always had a stinky, damp, grey dishcloth somewhere near the sink, which was used for everything from washing the dishes to cleaning the worktops, and anything in between. I keep a supply of face cloths and terry tea towels in my kitchen drawer, and they go out for a wash each time they are used.

Me too with only using a cloth once.

Katemax82 · 25/06/2025 08:20

I remember always having to wash cups, glasses and cutlery from a young age because my mum never rinsed and her washing up was gross. Luckily my husband and I both rinse everything, he changes the water very often too so we get through loads of fairy

Katemax82 · 25/06/2025 08:23

I watched my friend wash up when I was a teenager by swishing her dad's teacup in dirty dishwater and just empty it out and not rinse it 😖

Natsku · 25/06/2025 08:27

Always rinse with clean water. But its normal to have two sinks in the kitchen in my country which makes it must easier to rinse as you go. And of course a drying cupboard to stick them in to dry.

DD did Home Ec this year, she was taught a 13 step method to hand wash dishes which included two rinsing steps - the pre-rinse before you wash to get any food remains off, and the rinse after you wash. She had to memorise all the steps for her exam so followed them diligently at home so she would remember them better. Until the exam, after that she definitely skipped a bunch of steps.

Fillyfrog · 25/06/2025 08:31

This thread is absolutely bizarre to me. Today I'm going to ask all my work colleagues if they rinse. It's never even occurred to me! You are washing with clean soapy water. I do rinse any dirty plates beforehand so the water never gets mucky or discoloured. Wash with hot soapy water and put them to drain. I'm not having it they taste of soap 😂

One thing I do hate and it's always in restaurants or holiday lodges is the glasses always smell like wet dog. Not sure if that is the soapy smell you're all referring to...

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 25/06/2025 08:33

Have always rinsed and I'm mid 50s, I've never understood people using a plastic bowl in the sink washing everything in that and draining with no rinse.

BlueandWhitePorcelain · 25/06/2025 08:39

NRTFT, but we have a dishwasher. Anything that can’t go in the dishwasher, we wash them in hot soapy water in the order of glasses, ordinary crockery and cutlery, last of all saucepans and oven trays. If oven trays are really messed up, I might soak them for a few hours in sodium bicarbonate and water first, and drain it into the garden. No film of grease on anything!

It has never occurred to me or anybody I know, to rinse afterwards; except an ex Chinese boyfriend, who washed pots under a hot running tap, but I assumed it was a cultural thing, where he came from!

Drew79 · 25/06/2025 08:46

Paperweight7 · 25/06/2025 02:44

I thought everyone rinsed the soap. The Fairy adverts where they dipped the plate into a big tub of soapy water and pulled it out gleaming and spotless to stack away confused me as a kid as I thought they were missing some vital steps there.

Advertising/marketing is great isn't it.

'Fairy soft' hands and all that shite.

I had dermatitis on the backs of my hands years back (probably when I first got my own place) so I started using rubber gloves for washing up and cleaning, never had it again since.

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Drew79 · 25/06/2025 08:49

notatinydancer · 25/06/2025 07:27

I don’t rinse , my stuff isn’t greasy.

That's two different things, obviously greasy dishes are from rushed washing/not enough liquid used, nothing to do with rinsing.

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AmelieSummer25 · 25/06/2025 08:50

MuckFusk · 25/06/2025 01:16

Of course it isn't. If people knew what kind of toxic crap was in dish soap they might think differently. Formaldehyde and phalates, even ammonia in some cases, just to name a few. Gross.
Besides, dish soap emulsifies the grease and dirt but rinsing is what removes it.

Edited

They might, then again...

yes, the rinsing is what removes it, but some people are baffled by logic & won't be told. Thankfully most people have dishwasher's these days!

AmelieSummer25 · 25/06/2025 08:56

Magpie50 · 25/06/2025 05:36

Wrong. Not washing up at all or letting the pets do it for you is rank....
Not rinsing is just a choice, makes no difference.

Of course it makes a difference. When you have a shower, do you just lather up & leave it or do you rinse it off?