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MPs vote to decriminalise abortion

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AirborneElephant · 17/06/2025 19:34

AIBU to be thrilled! Sorry if there’s already a thread, couldn’t see one.

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hamstersarse · 18/06/2025 10:52

SouthLondonMum22 · 18/06/2025 09:59

No buts. A woman's body is her own and her autonomy is deeply important. That's it.

It involves a potential life. A foetus. That isn't subjective, that's scientific and also supported by human right laws. A foetus doesn't have the same rights as a newborn baby and for good reason.

I don't think it's very hard to argue at all. Of course we can say that we come first and that we matter more than a foetus. We do.

24+ weeks is a viable life - so in your opinion, the woman matters more.

That's your view, and I disagree

Hoooray · 18/06/2025 11:00

BeachLife2 · 18/06/2025 10:16

Already this morning Julia Hartley-Brewer and Tom Harwood have proclaimed their outrage about this, and I suspect far-right agitators won't be bar behind.

The MPs who pushed this extreme law have really misjudged mainstream public opinion, and it will be to the detriment of women's rights in general as this is now a culture war issue.

I am also uncomfortable with this idea that women are all delicate little beings incapable of being responsible for crimes. It harkens back to the 19th century when women were seen as too stupid to have rights.

This is not an extreme law, and polling indicates that a majority of the public are in favour of decriminalising abortion.

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 11:01

the woman matters more.

Yes

TheNuthatch · 18/06/2025 11:03

hamstersarse · 18/06/2025 10:52

24+ weeks is a viable life - so in your opinion, the woman matters more.

That's your view, and I disagree

Totally agree with this and your other pp @hamstersarse

TheNuthatch · 18/06/2025 11:06

I also think it sets a dangerous precedent to politicise abortion in this way.

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 11:07

The new clause will not change any law regarding the provision of abortion services within a healthcare setting, including but not limited to the time limit, telemedicine, the grounds for abortion, or the requirement for two doctors' approval.

It was backed by all the main abortion providers, as well as 180 MPs from across the Commons and 50 organisations including the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists (RCOG).

BeachLife2 · 18/06/2025 11:07

@Hoooray

You're referring to polling by abortion campaign groups. Neutral polling shows that only 8% of people want the current laws loosened.

ANiceBigCupOfTea · 18/06/2025 11:13

ladykale · 17/06/2025 19:46

I think being able to abort a late term pregnancy for any reason is pretty disgusting. I don’t see the difference between this and leaving a new born in a bin to die when they are some way past the point that they could survive on the outside alone (25 weeks +). I think the current law strikes a decent balance between recognising that end a life is a big deal but acknowledging there are some situations when necessary late term

If this is your feeling then campaign for children with life limiting diagnoses like trisomy 13 and trisomy 18 to receive life saving care because most get palliative care at most. My son was barely treated as a human anymore by doctors when we got his diagnosis.
And it's them who push termination on lots of parents who wrongly call the condition incompatible with life.

Hoooray · 18/06/2025 11:18

TheNuthatch · 18/06/2025 11:06

I also think it sets a dangerous precedent to politicise abortion in this way.

When has abortion ever not been political?

Hoooray · 18/06/2025 11:25

BeachLife2 · 18/06/2025 11:07

@Hoooray

You're referring to polling by abortion campaign groups. Neutral polling shows that only 8% of people want the current laws loosened.

According to YouGov (2023):

'By 52% to 21%, Britons say that women who have abortions outside of the rules should not face criminal prosecution.'

'three quarters of Britons (74%) support changing the law to enshrine a legal right to abortion. Only 11% are opposed.'

https://yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/47568-where-does-the-british-public-stand-on-abortion-in-2023

Where does the British public stand on abortion in 2023? | YouGov

Abortion is widely supported in the UK

https://yougov.co.uk/politics/articles/47568-where-does-the-british-public-stand-on-abortion-in-2023

SouthLondonMum22 · 18/06/2025 11:35

hamstersarse · 18/06/2025 10:52

24+ weeks is a viable life - so in your opinion, the woman matters more.

That's your view, and I disagree

Of course she matters more than a foetus. Be it at 12 weeks or 24 weeks.

Kreepture · 18/06/2025 11:42

Sodthesystem · 18/06/2025 09:32

It's weird to find myself on the other side of the debate as I've always been pro choice but, I don't think there's ever, ever a reason or excuse to terminate a child once it is at a viable age to survive outside the body (assuming it has a chance of survival). That is absolutely, murder. And women who take matters into their own hands after that point (assuming no severe mental illness) absolutely belong in jail.

If the child can live it should be removed and allowed that chance. We should support access to cesarians or pils to bring on labour for women who don't wish to carry to term.

I don't think many women are genuinely aborting that late but my worry is this is all a ploy to have women's rights to abortion completely stripped when the American right wing nuts start getting more control here.

so you support women who don't want to be pregnant being used as an incubator and forcibly operated on against their will just to preserve a foetus?

Hedgehogbrown · 18/06/2025 11:45

nautys · 17/06/2025 20:44

Yes I can. Your opinion is stupid too, in my opinion. Are you allowed one and I’m not?

Which part was stupid? That late term abortions are abhorrent?

hydriotaphia · 18/06/2025 11:51

@Kreepture "so you support women who don't want to be pregnant being used as an incubator and forcibly operated on against their will just to preserve a foetus?"
But post-24 week abortions without medical need will still be illegal (just not criminal) if the bill passes. So effectively, yes, the law does and will still say that if your pregnancy reaches 24 weeks without you having taken steps to terminate it, you do have to act as an incubator for the remaining 16 weeks, even if you would rather not. You could say that by not terminating in the permissible period the woman has assumed a duty to the unborn child to carry it to term.

Kreepture · 18/06/2025 11:54

hydriotaphia · 18/06/2025 11:51

@Kreepture "so you support women who don't want to be pregnant being used as an incubator and forcibly operated on against their will just to preserve a foetus?"
But post-24 week abortions without medical need will still be illegal (just not criminal) if the bill passes. So effectively, yes, the law does and will still say that if your pregnancy reaches 24 weeks without you having taken steps to terminate it, you do have to act as an incubator for the remaining 16 weeks, even if you would rather not. You could say that by not terminating in the permissible period the woman has assumed a duty to the unborn child to carry it to term.

perhaps, but with medical advances, there are babies under 24weeks that are surviving.

There are also those who find out at the 20 weeks scans that their babies have severe disabilites, and those who find out the babies have downs that are still permitted to abort, this poster would advocate for them being forced to carry to term.

nautys · 18/06/2025 12:14

Hedgehogbrown · 18/06/2025 11:45

Which part was stupid? That late term abortions are abhorrent?

So do you agree with those posters, that it’s disgusting to abort a baby FOR ANY REASON late term? You agree that women should be forced to carry babies to full term with disabilities that are not compatible with life? That they should be forced to give birth to babies that will suffer before dying shortly after birth? That women should be forced to carry to full term endangering their own lives? You agree that it’s disgusting that I had to make this choice to potentially save my own life and also ensure that my baby wasn’t born suffering, having to live a very short life of only a few hours and die a painful death?

hamstersarse · 18/06/2025 12:22

SouthLondonMum22 · 18/06/2025 11:35

Of course she matters more than a foetus. Be it at 12 weeks or 24 weeks.

Of course?

You are not more important than a 25 week old foetus? How do you judge that you are more important?

Seems to me that narcissism is taking you over.

Lioncub2020 · 18/06/2025 12:23

nautys · 18/06/2025 12:14

So do you agree with those posters, that it’s disgusting to abort a baby FOR ANY REASON late term? You agree that women should be forced to carry babies to full term with disabilities that are not compatible with life? That they should be forced to give birth to babies that will suffer before dying shortly after birth? That women should be forced to carry to full term endangering their own lives? You agree that it’s disgusting that I had to make this choice to potentially save my own life and also ensure that my baby wasn’t born suffering, having to live a very short life of only a few hours and die a painful death?

It you believe that foetuses should be aborted due to disability near full term why draw the line there why not 2/3 week old babies once it is easier to access the impact.

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 12:24

hamstersarse · 18/06/2025 12:22

Of course?

You are not more important than a 25 week old foetus? How do you judge that you are more important?

Seems to me that narcissism is taking you over.

If you are happy to die for your 25 week old foetus, you are free to do so, your body, your choice.

hamstersarse · 18/06/2025 12:27

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 12:24

If you are happy to die for your 25 week old foetus, you are free to do so, your body, your choice.

With an evolutionary lens, your ancestors will almost without doubt died for their children, eventually enabling you to live.

Why is that so odd to you?

nautys · 18/06/2025 12:28

Lioncub2020 · 18/06/2025 12:23

It you believe that foetuses should be aborted due to disability near full term why draw the line there why not 2/3 week old babies once it is easier to access the impact.

Edited

Is that what you took from my post?

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/06/2025 12:28

It's already decriminalised in NI, the rest of the UK is just catching up.

hamstersarse · 18/06/2025 12:29

Lioncub2020 · 18/06/2025 12:23

It you believe that foetuses should be aborted due to disability near full term why draw the line there why not 2/3 week old babies once it is easier to access the impact.

Edited

There are a small number of late term abortions due to Downs Syndrome. It isn't many (!) - around 18-20 a year - but I think that is hugely controversial and has many moral pitfalls.

DuncinToffee · 18/06/2025 12:29

hamstersarse · 18/06/2025 12:27

With an evolutionary lens, your ancestors will almost without doubt died for their children, eventually enabling you to live.

Why is that so odd to you?

Many women indeed died in childbirth, is that something you would like to return to?

SouthLondonMum22 · 18/06/2025 12:32

hamstersarse · 18/06/2025 12:22

Of course?

You are not more important than a 25 week old foetus? How do you judge that you are more important?

Seems to me that narcissism is taking you over.

Because a 25 week foetus is in a woman's body and her body is hers.

How is a 25 week foetus more important than a woman?

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