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ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 17/06/2025 09:35

What's a racist thrower?

SquashedMallow · 17/06/2025 09:36

Fetaface · 17/06/2025 09:34

First line....for all the racist throwers!

So yes it mentions racism. Forget what you wrote?

Did you read further on ? And you did indeed try to make out the ethnicity and culture of the offenders had nothing to do with "race" ? Is that not an indirect accusation of 'racism'? 'forgot what you wrote....?

SquashedMallow · 17/06/2025 09:38

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 17/06/2025 09:35

What's a racist thrower?

One hurling the accusation of 'racist'. I had put racist in inverted commas to express speech. But you're correct perhaps I should have put "racist"

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 17/06/2025 09:41

SquashedMallow · 17/06/2025 09:38

One hurling the accusation of 'racist'. I had put racist in inverted commas to express speech. But you're correct perhaps I should have put "racist"

Right, got it. It makes more sense in context within a post.

Fetaface · 17/06/2025 09:44

SquashedMallow · 17/06/2025 09:36

Did you read further on ? And you did indeed try to make out the ethnicity and culture of the offenders had nothing to do with "race" ? Is that not an indirect accusation of 'racism'? 'forgot what you wrote....?

Yeah I read it it went on about xenophobia.

I haven't made out that I have acknowledged that in some posts but you have ignored that clearly. I have said the culture of all offenders is hatred of women! That is the reason they do it!

The ethnicity of offenders I have discussed too. I have discussed about the different ways that the data can be used and how each portrays different things including race. You failed to read that because you have a bee in your bonnet as I mentioned other things than you'd like. I haven't said that the pakistani gangs didn't do what they did because of race. I said they all did it because of misogyny which it the underlying issue in race and religion. If you think some religions are centred around equality you are very much mistaken. The whole reason for religion is to control women - so misogyny! So yes I very much talked about that but you didn't understand that religion is built by men to control women and that was the point I was making and that culturally all societies have been built around controlling women. So yes I very much did mention culture - the culture of misogyny!

The enquiry is into grooming gangs so why are you pissed when I talk about grooming gangs?

OpheliaWasntMad · 17/06/2025 09:45

Fetaface · 17/06/2025 09:34

First line....for all the racist throwers!

So yes it mentions racism. Forget what you wrote?

@Fetaface there have been accusations of racism in this thread - both overt and implied- every time the race of the perpetrators was mentioned. This has been a major reason why the authorities did not tackle the issue properly.
You deployed a different tactic of whataboutery and deflection .

kinkytoes · 17/06/2025 09:46

Jess Phillips was on Newsnight last night, apparently feeling like she's done all the right things.

MarianaMuse · 17/06/2025 09:48

Nopenott0day · 14/06/2025 21:28

Is it racist when men coming from countries/backgrounds that treat women as second class citizens are the main perps?

The inquiry will look into White British grooming gangs as well, presumably.

MarianaMuse · 17/06/2025 09:50

saraclara · 14/06/2025 23:15

They're not

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/elon-musk-npcc-keir-starmer-nigel-farage-pakistani-b2677586.html

The vast majority of grooming gang offences are carried out by white men, the National Police Chiefs’ Council (NPCC) has said.
New figures from the police database show that, where ethnicity data was available, 85% of “group-based” child abusers were white in the first three quarters of 2024.

But if course the media tends to focus on the Pakistani gangs, because divisive news reporting gets more readers.

Exactly. Some uncomfortable truths will emerge from this.

MarianaMuse · 17/06/2025 09:52

saraclara · 14/06/2025 23:38

How many of you heard as much about this gang as you have about the latest Pakistani one?

https://www.gmp.police.uk/news/greater-manchester/news/news/2025/april/victim-of-blackrod-grooming-gang-shares-devastating-impact-on-her-life-as-final-men-sentenced/

The remaining six members of a group of 10 men who groomed, raped and sexually abused underage girls in Blackrod, Bolton, between 2016 and 2018 have been sentenced at Liverpool Crown Court today, Tuesday 29 April 2025.
Daniel Flatters, Jack Poulson, Cory Barrett, James Fitzgerald, Richard Haslam, and Elliott Turner are the final six men that have been handed substantial sentences for a range of sexual offences.
They have each been placed on the Sex Offenders’ Register.

A grooming gang of white British sexual abusers. One of the majority of grooming gangs that are white, but who we don't hear about. I can't imagine why.

No Muslim-sounding names, that’s why.

Fetaface · 17/06/2025 09:53

OpheliaWasntMad · 17/06/2025 09:45

@Fetaface there have been accusations of racism in this thread - both overt and implied- every time the race of the perpetrators was mentioned. This has been a major reason why the authorities did not tackle the issue properly.
You deployed a different tactic of whataboutery and deflection .

Oh I have seen that. I have been accused of racism on this thread.

Maybe ask for a change of title on the thread if you want to focus on one group.
You are allowed to talk about one group - pakistani gangs but the thread is about grooming gangs so that is what I will talk about.

SquashedMallow · 17/06/2025 09:53

MarianaMuse · 17/06/2025 09:50

Exactly. Some uncomfortable truths will emerge from this.

Did you miss the bit where they said from a majority white country, there is a disproportionate percentage of Pakistani men committing these crimes? Selective data you're choosing.

Fetaface · 17/06/2025 09:55

SquashedMallow · 17/06/2025 09:53

Did you miss the bit where they said from a majority white country, there is a disproportionate percentage of Pakistani men committing these crimes? Selective data you're choosing.

I see her comment made you uncomfortable.

EasternStandard · 17/06/2025 09:56

MarianaMuse · 17/06/2025 09:50

Exactly. Some uncomfortable truths will emerge from this.

I think that’s why Labour and others have been trying very hard not to have an enquiry, with use of far right etc

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 17/06/2025 09:56

SquashedMallow · 17/06/2025 09:53

Did you miss the bit where they said from a majority white country, there is a disproportionate percentage of Pakistani men committing these crimes? Selective data you're choosing.

This isn't accidental or stupidity, this is the strategic myopia that is utterly shameful and endemic within our institutions.

TranceNation · 17/06/2025 09:58

kinkytoes · 17/06/2025 09:46

Jess Phillips was on Newsnight last night, apparently feeling like she's done all the right things.

Standard slippery lying politician.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/06/2025 10:02

SquashedMallow · 17/06/2025 09:53

Did you miss the bit where they said from a majority white country, there is a disproportionate percentage of Pakistani men committing these crimes? Selective data you're choosing.

I don't know how many times it's been said, most recently in the Casey report, that we simply don't have the data to assert with confidence anything about ethnicity. A couple of police forces have collated some data on ethnicity and it does appear that men of Pakistani heritage are disproportionately involved but that's not definitive.

I was sceptical about this inquiry, because there have been about ten reports and investigations and nothing of note was implemented. However, they're saying that there could be prosecutions of those who covered this up. I'd be absolutely delighted if these institutions and individuals were held to account. I'm not holding my breath though.

PinkImbrella · 17/06/2025 10:02

We know that most people who are stopped and searched are white, because this is a white majority country.
But we know that black men are disproportionately more likely to be stopped and searched.
Do you think focusing on ethnicity there was pointless @Fetaface ?Because following your logic, we should be focusing on white men being the victims of heavy handed policing, since white men make up the majority of all people who are stopped and searched

Everanewbie · 17/06/2025 10:02

Everanewbie · 14/06/2025 23:46

The difference @saraclara is that these vile creatures were prosecuted. The victims were believed. The communities weren’t shielding the perpetrators. The police weren’t afraid to prosecute them to the full extent of the law. The victims weren’t selected for their race. And nobody was dissuaded from talking about it for the sake of community cohesion.

The fact that there are white grooming gangs does not take away the seriousness of the cover ups and failure to tackle Pakistani rape gangs. Pretending that concerns and calls for further enquiries are based on racism just doesn’t cut it anymore. We know too much now.

I'll repost my earlier comment for those coming back to the 'all lives matter' arguments.

MarianaMuse · 17/06/2025 10:06

EasternStandard · 17/06/2025 09:56

I think that’s why Labour and others have been trying very hard not to have an enquiry, with use of far right etc

We’ll await the outcome of the inquiry.

Fetaface · 17/06/2025 10:09

PinkImbrella · 17/06/2025 10:02

We know that most people who are stopped and searched are white, because this is a white majority country.
But we know that black men are disproportionately more likely to be stopped and searched.
Do you think focusing on ethnicity there was pointless @Fetaface ?Because following your logic, we should be focusing on white men being the victims of heavy handed policing, since white men make up the majority of all people who are stopped and searched

Nope I do not think it is pointless. I think it should be included as part of the enquiry.

I haven't said we should be focusing on white men at all. Not sure where you have got that from.

notnorman · 17/06/2025 10:09

cumbriaisbest · 14/06/2025 21:10

Pointless. Pandering to the racists.

Nazir Afsal said it will retraumatise survivors.

Sure Nazir Afsal wouldn’t be of that opinion if it was Muslim girls and white men

EasternStandard · 17/06/2025 10:09

kinkytoes · 17/06/2025 09:46

Jess Phillips was on Newsnight last night, apparently feeling like she's done all the right things.

I’m yet to hear a Labour MP say anything else even as they move from one position to another on a raft of things.

notnorman · 17/06/2025 10:10

PinkImbrella · 17/06/2025 10:02

We know that most people who are stopped and searched are white, because this is a white majority country.
But we know that black men are disproportionately more likely to be stopped and searched.
Do you think focusing on ethnicity there was pointless @Fetaface ?Because following your logic, we should be focusing on white men being the victims of heavy handed policing, since white men make up the majority of all people who are stopped and searched

If I was a black mother I would be happy that my black son was being stopped as it’s predominantly black boys who are killing each other with knives at the moment.

inkognitha · 17/06/2025 10:12

One can whatabout all over the threads until heads are spinning, but the poll is not lying, 92% in favour. And MN is a progressive place.

It is high time to talk openly about cultural differences in the UK (which is not racism, it's about culture, not colour), about the neglect of the white (ex)working classes, about the sheer contempt for these children, who have been let down by everyone, time for some people to admit these inconvenient truths do exist and, hopefully, get their head around basic statistics.

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