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AIBU to be utterly baffled at how many people are falling for Reform after the Brexit mess?

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TheCoralShaker · 10/06/2025 22:20

I’m not into any political party or ideology – honestly, they all seem like varying shades of grifters to me – but I just can't believe how many people are jumping on the Reform bandwagon like it's some magic fix.

After everything that happened with Brexit – the lies, the infighting, the broken promises, the economic fallout we’re still wading through – how are people still falling for this kind of simplistic, shouty politics? The "common sense" soundbites, the "tell it like it is" nonsense, the constant scapegoating of whatever group is most convenient that week... it's all so transparent.

I'm not saying any of the main parties are perfect (far from it), but Reform seems to be just a bunch of media-savvy populists spouting whatever will get the loudest headlines. What’s worrying is how many people lap it up without even questioning what’s actually being proposed, or whether it’s remotely feasible.

Where are the critical thinking skills? Why are people so easily seduced by these pantomime figures who tap into anger and offer no real substance? It’s like the more outrageous someone is, the more they’re celebrated, and never mind whether any of it makes sense.

I get that people are frustrated, disillusioned, sick of the status quo, so am I. But falling for another bunch of opportunists who thrive on division and offer nothing beyond slogans seems like doubling down on the same mistake.

AIBU to think that we should have learned by now? Or is this just how politics is going to be from now on, performative outrage and no actual plan?

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EvelynBeatrice · 11/06/2025 08:47

People are strange.
Look at the SNP in Scotland. Scotland would be hugely poorer after independence but your true believers don’t care. They’d rather be independent and poor than part of the UK.

There has never been a sensible answer to where the money is coming from without the Barnett formula and recourse to the huge English tax revenues. Huge in comparison because there are only 5.5 m people in Scotland and over 10 m in Greater London alone. And of course those few higher rate taxpayers in Scotland who don’t work for the state are likely to decamp to England.

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 08:48

foxinbluesox · 11/06/2025 08:44

It’s not a case of ‘falling’ for Reform. I voted against Brexit, agree Brexit has been a complete shitshow, also agree most of Farage’s policies are half baked at best. I’ll still vote for them at the next election if that’s the only credible conservative alternative to Labour. And no amount of calling me stupid/racist/fascist will change this.

Perhaps @EasternStandard will believe you because she won’t have it when I tell her.

Fluffyholeysocks · 11/06/2025 08:52

thepariscrimefiles · 11/06/2025 08:44

Nigel Farage is the same sort of upper class, privately educated politician as Oswald Moseley in the 1930s. They exploit the politics of grievance and convince working class voters that their quality of life is poor because of foreigners, ethnic minorities (Jews for Oswald Moseley and 'boat people' for Farage) and socialists. People prefer to punch down and blame people that they view as inferior to them.

Of course Nigel Farage, a former public school boy, is going to have more polished oratory skills than Angela Rayner who left school when pregnant at 16 and came from an extremely deprived home with a mother who couldn't read or write. I know who has had the more difficult journey into politics and government.

Apart from Brexit (which I believe has been an unmitigated disaster although I assume that you would disagree), what has Nigel Farage done in office to improve people's lives apart from making it socially acceptable to hate the people that he blames for all the UK's ills?

I'm no Farage supporter, but I've never felt so disappointed in the quality of both the Labour and the Conservatives MPs. I want politicians I can admire and have confidence in. I look at the Labour Cabinets of the past and the current cabinet is so lightweight. We had Jack Straw, Robin Cook, Mo Mowlem - we are so desperate for leaders, good orators and Statemen. Raynor is none of those.

HurdyGurdy19 · 11/06/2025 08:55

The two main political parties have failed to tackle the biggest issue for Reform voters - immigration.

Whether it's true or not, the perception is that "these people" are costing the country billions of pounds each year, to the detriment of "us".

A quick Google search showed expenditure on asylum support for 2023/24 as over four billion pounds, which Reform voters believe could be better spent elsewhere.

With many hotels being taken over to accommodate "them", with the perception of crime rates increasing in areas where asylum seekers are accommodated, and "our housing" being given to "them", school places being taken by "their children", NHS struggling to cope with the increase in patient numbers etc etc etc, it's not hard to see why Reform are gaining popularity.

Of course, when the only thing their supporters are focusing on is immigration, all their other policies can fly under the radar. Until the time they actually get into government, and the shit hits the fan.

I remember after one election, when UKIP had gained a lot of votes, David Cameron coming out and saying "message received, and understood", i.e. we need to tackle immigration. Yet here we are, with Reform gaining popularity on the grounds of immigration. I suspect if you were to ask most Reform voters what the Reform party's policies are, apart from immigration, they'd be hard-pressed to come up with anything. But they don't care, because - immigration.

Bumpitybumper · 11/06/2025 08:55

MargoLivebetter · 11/06/2025 08:41

We don't do enough talking to different people in this country. Middle class people really struggle to understand why bullshitters like Farage/Trump are popular but if you talk to those who do support them, it is because they don't feel represented by anyone else.

They hold views that middle class people find a bit uncomfortable. They see their local areas changing in ways they don't like and they are poorer than they've probably ever been and they see a whole load of issues like Trans rights, BLM that are disproportionately covered in the news because it serves the right wing agenda to whip up hatred and they buy into it all.

Unless the mainstream politicians accept that there are huge swathes of our society who are really pissed off and find ways of appealing to them and having a dialogue with them, then Farage and his goons will fill that gap, by whipping up division and saying any old shit to get themselves more power.

I would go one step further and suggest that politicians not only have to listen to people but also represent their views otherwise someone else will Someone that will bolt on more extreme policies and really start pushing us on to some very dangerous ground.

Time and time again people are telling the government and powers that be about what they care about. Immigration, over taxation and the sky high welfare benefits bill being funded by an overburdened working population, a worrying and unsustainable explosion in disability benefit claims etc. None of these things are easy to tackle but it's imperative that a major, moderate political party has sensible policies in these areas that reflect public opinion otherwise people will look elsewhere for more radical alternatives.

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 08:56

Fluffyholeysocks · 11/06/2025 08:52

I'm no Farage supporter, but I've never felt so disappointed in the quality of both the Labour and the Conservatives MPs. I want politicians I can admire and have confidence in. I look at the Labour Cabinets of the past and the current cabinet is so lightweight. We had Jack Straw, Robin Cook, Mo Mowlem - we are so desperate for leaders, good orators and Statemen. Raynor is none of those.

Rose tinted spectacles there I think. Those Labour politicians you revere were reviled in their time. Rayner could hold her own with any of them. In fact I imagine Mowlem would have been her greatest cheerleader.

Boomer55 · 11/06/2025 08:57

All parties and their MPs are self serving grifters, who lie as soon as they open their mouths. 🙄

Reform are no worse than the rest.

thepariscrimefiles · 11/06/2025 08:59

foxinbluesox · 11/06/2025 08:44

It’s not a case of ‘falling’ for Reform. I voted against Brexit, agree Brexit has been a complete shitshow, also agree most of Farage’s policies are half baked at best. I’ll still vote for them at the next election if that’s the only credible conservative alternative to Labour. And no amount of calling me stupid/racist/fascist will change this.

If you think that Brexit has been a complete shit show and that most of Farage's policies are half-baked at best, but you would still vote Reform in the next General Election, what would be the benefits for you of a Farage government?

I see him as an accomplished campaigning politician with no track record of successful delivery of his policies and I think that the policies he has spoken about would be a disaster, e.g. getting rid of the NHS. He spends a lot of time on self-promotion and very little time as a constituency MP.

I would be totally fascinated to see what happens if we get a Reform government if I didn't think that it would have a devastating impact on vulnerable people.

HangryLikeTheHulk · 11/06/2025 09:01

The likes of Reform / Rupert Lowe blow inconsequential minor issues into apparently important topics. Last week - burkas and halal slaughter. Weirdly these issues are almost always linked to immigration and especially Muslims.

senua · 11/06/2025 09:01

I've never felt so disappointed in the quality of both the Labour and the Conservatives MPs. I want politicians I can admire and have confidence in.
It's strange, isn't it. There are so many jobs that you can only do if you have the correct qualifications, and it seems that the list grows daily. Yet there is no competency test for politicians. Maybe PPs are wrong to be cross about the quality of voters and should be looking at the quality of politicians instead.

WhereIsMyJumper · 11/06/2025 09:01

edwinbear · 10/06/2025 22:35

They’re disruptors - and we desperately need that in British politics at the moment. Are they capable of running the country? Of course not. Can they get our ‘real’ politicians (across all parties) to sort their shit out? I really hope so.

This is a very good point. Hopefully they will give the other main parties a kick up the arse.

Most people I know who are vehemently against Reform haven’t even looked at any of their policies.
What else do we have to go on? All parties have a manifesto and they nearly all back track once they get in to power. So we either don’t vote, or vote for the policies we most align with.

I wish it wasn’t a popularity contest. I wish that, come election time, we were just given key policies and told “this is party A, this is party B” etc so we don’t actually know who we are voting for. Very few people put much thought in to it. You have so many voting Labour, for example, because “my family have always voted labour” almost like they’re supporting a football team.

Im a swing voter. When the next election comes round, I will vote for whichever party most aligns with my views on certain topics.

askmenow · 11/06/2025 09:02

Our Government are arseholes…. Mad Ed Silliband…mandates putting solar panels onto all hospitals n schools and conversely gives
£57 million to research into dimming the f…king sun!
Read the Kathryn Porter report on Net Zero. Unachievable in the timescale, extortionate costs heaped on bills,
The shower of shite we have atm are complete liars and corrupt charlatans.

And dont even start me on the fishermen debacle. Completely inept negotiators.
Go Reform!

HangryLikeTheHulk · 11/06/2025 09:03

WhereIsMyJumper · 11/06/2025 09:01

This is a very good point. Hopefully they will give the other main parties a kick up the arse.

Most people I know who are vehemently against Reform haven’t even looked at any of their policies.
What else do we have to go on? All parties have a manifesto and they nearly all back track once they get in to power. So we either don’t vote, or vote for the policies we most align with.

I wish it wasn’t a popularity contest. I wish that, come election time, we were just given key policies and told “this is party A, this is party B” etc so we don’t actually know who we are voting for. Very few people put much thought in to it. You have so many voting Labour, for example, because “my family have always voted labour” almost like they’re supporting a football team.

Im a swing voter. When the next election comes round, I will vote for whichever party most aligns with my views on certain topics.

Would be interesting to see a list of their policies and your take on each of them - or anyone who’s a fan of Reform explaining them and why they’re good…

Fluffyholeysocks · 11/06/2025 09:03

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 08:56

Rose tinted spectacles there I think. Those Labour politicians you revere were reviled in their time. Rayner could hold her own with any of them. In fact I imagine Mowlem would have been her greatest cheerleader.

I think we are going to have to disagree Rayner (thanks for pointing out my typo!) is never going to be admired as a leader or statesman. Yes, she has life experience but she is no deputy prime minister.

MargoLivebetter · 11/06/2025 09:04

@askmenow can you tell me more about how you think Reform will do better? I'm genuinely interested and not being snarky. I want to understand what you think they bring to the table.

WhereIsMyJumper · 11/06/2025 09:04

Oh and don’t think for one minute that calling Reform voters stupid and racist will make any difference. If anything, you’re just going to end up encouraging people to vote reform by doing that

HangryLikeTheHulk · 11/06/2025 09:05

askmenow · 11/06/2025 09:02

Our Government are arseholes…. Mad Ed Silliband…mandates putting solar panels onto all hospitals n schools and conversely gives
£57 million to research into dimming the f…king sun!
Read the Kathryn Porter report on Net Zero. Unachievable in the timescale, extortionate costs heaped on bills,
The shower of shite we have atm are complete liars and corrupt charlatans.

And dont even start me on the fishermen debacle. Completely inept negotiators.
Go Reform!

Laughable really. Talk about fishing and remember how Farage attended exactly 1 of the 42 fisheries committee meetings in the EU he was supposed to attend. He doesn’t care.

sparrowflewdown · 11/06/2025 09:06

SummerEve · 11/06/2025 08:18

😂😂😂 oh where to start with this?

Why not have a try? Because we've already seen what happens when communities ignore red flags.
Laughing at people’s genuine concerns is exactly how past scandals — like the grooming cases — were allowed to fester. People raised the alarm, and they were mocked, dismissed, or accused of scaremongering.
I refuse to sit back and stay silent while young children in our town are being lured into certain shops or environments that don’t seem right. If something feels off, we should be able to speak up without being shut down.
If it turns out to be nothing — great. But if it's something more serious, and we ignored it? Then we’ll have another tragedy on our hands in a few years, asking how we let it happen again.
It’s about safeguarding, not judging. And it starts with taking local concerns seriously.

WhereIsMyJumper · 11/06/2025 09:06

HangryLikeTheHulk · 11/06/2025 09:03

Would be interesting to see a list of their policies and your take on each of them - or anyone who’s a fan of Reform explaining them and why they’re good…

You can go and look at them yourself. It’s not difficult. I’m not listing them out here and my take on them. I was making a point that people don’t even bother to read them before tearing a party down.
You’ve also made the mistake of assuming I am a reform voter. I’m not. I even said so in my post.

What I am saying is READ each parties key policies and decide who to vote for that way. If Reform policies aren’t for you, don’t vote for them. It really is that simple.

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 09:07

Fluffyholeysocks · 11/06/2025 09:03

I think we are going to have to disagree Rayner (thanks for pointing out my typo!) is never going to be admired as a leader or statesman. Yes, she has life experience but she is no deputy prime minister.

I think you’ll find a lot of people disagree with you. It’s fashionable, particularly among women ironically, to dismiss her as thick and gobby but anyone who’s seen her interviewed can see she’s a highly intelligent, straight talking, well informed politician.

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 09:07

askmenow · 11/06/2025 09:02

Our Government are arseholes…. Mad Ed Silliband…mandates putting solar panels onto all hospitals n schools and conversely gives
£57 million to research into dimming the f…king sun!
Read the Kathryn Porter report on Net Zero. Unachievable in the timescale, extortionate costs heaped on bills,
The shower of shite we have atm are complete liars and corrupt charlatans.

And dont even start me on the fishermen debacle. Completely inept negotiators.
Go Reform!

When I said pissed off earlier I meant this. Of course it’s linked to Labour and how they are perceived,

Fluffyholeysocks · 11/06/2025 09:08

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 09:07

I think you’ll find a lot of people disagree with you. It’s fashionable, particularly among women ironically, to dismiss her as thick and gobby but anyone who’s seen her interviewed can see she’s a highly intelligent, straight talking, well informed politician.

Maybe - but once again, she is no leader or statesman.

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 09:10

xanthomelana · 11/06/2025 08:21

Labour are done in Wales but I think the vote will be split between Plaid and Reform. I honestly don’t see Labour or Conservatives doing well when we vote next and the First Minister knows it. They’ve had a good run of over 25 years so a change is well overdue.

It’ll be hard to say it’s only conservatives switching if Reform do well in Wales.

BIossomtoes · 11/06/2025 09:10

EasternStandard · 11/06/2025 09:07

When I said pissed off earlier I meant this. Of course it’s linked to Labour and how they are perceived,

Do you think that poster was ever a Labour voter? Seriously? She was always as likely to vote Labour as you are, you’re both cut from the same cloth.

WhereIsMyJumper · 11/06/2025 09:10

This is an example of a conversation j had the other week. Again, full disclosure, I am not aligned to ANY party

“I’m terrified Reform will get in!”
”why?”
”well it just feels wrong?”
”what feels wrong about it?”
”just like we are going backwards”
”in what way? What are you terrified is going to happen?”
”mumble mumble, Farage, mumble mumble”
”which of Reform’s policies are you worried about in particular?”
them - blank face