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Shoplifting - have public scuffles with other customers become a thing??

202 replies

FurCoatNoKnickz · 07/06/2025 23:43

Twice in the last week, I’ve witnessed members of the public stepping in to stop shoplifting, with pushes and scuffles breaking out. I had to call the police. It felt like shoppers are starting to get fed up, butt in, shout things, physically prevent people, push shoplifters and even scuffle.

Are other people noticing this elsewhere?

OP posts:
Jackiepumpkinhead · 08/06/2025 18:10

salcombebabe · 08/06/2025 01:01

Unfortunately the public forget that the amount of police officers has been severely cut by our previous government at the start of their term and not replaced adequately. Also there is just so much crime going on that the public aren't aware of and just not enough police officers to deal with it

Perhaps the current government can fund police recruitment 🤔

Toastedpickle · 08/06/2025 18:10

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 17:35

Drug addiction is a massive problem and i think this needs major punishment. Rehab doesn't work as they see they can get away with it.
Why do people become addicts? No punishment/ no consequences/ poor parenting.

I don’t think people generally become heroin addicts because mummy didn’t say no to them having another bar of chocolate when they were 5.
It is far more complicated then parental lack of discipline. Often the parents of addicts are addicts themselves. There is a lot of trauma involved.
Until something (I can’t pretend I have any knowledge or ideas of what) is done about drug addiction, shoplifting will continue to spiral. I smell weed more often then cigarettes nowadays. Drugs are everywhere. A lot of the rest of the world is facing the same problem.

MatildaMovesMountains · 08/06/2025 18:13

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 17:35

Drug addiction is a massive problem and i think this needs major punishment. Rehab doesn't work as they see they can get away with it.
Why do people become addicts? No punishment/ no consequences/ poor parenting.

Do you think people choose to be addicted? I don't mean choose to take drugs, but choose addiction? Do you think you can punish someone into not being addicted? How would you do that?

MatildaMovesMountains · 08/06/2025 18:15

Toastedpickle · 08/06/2025 18:10

I don’t think people generally become heroin addicts because mummy didn’t say no to them having another bar of chocolate when they were 5.
It is far more complicated then parental lack of discipline. Often the parents of addicts are addicts themselves. There is a lot of trauma involved.
Until something (I can’t pretend I have any knowledge or ideas of what) is done about drug addiction, shoplifting will continue to spiral. I smell weed more often then cigarettes nowadays. Drugs are everywhere. A lot of the rest of the world is facing the same problem.

Illegal drugs are a multi-billion worldwide business; the addicts stealing from shops are the end-stage symptom.

Profpudding · 08/06/2025 18:15

Jackiepumpkinhead · 08/06/2025 18:10

Perhaps the current government can fund police recruitment 🤔

I guess we’ll find out when Rachel Reeves reveals all next week

Profpudding · 08/06/2025 18:17

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 17:35

Drug addiction is a massive problem and i think this needs major punishment. Rehab doesn't work as they see they can get away with it.
Why do people become addicts? No punishment/ no consequences/ poor parenting.

The only person I’ve ever known was a drug addict came home from School as a 10-year-old boy and found his mother dead at the bottom of the stairs.
What punishment do you think would work for that one?

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 18:21

Toastedpickle · 08/06/2025 18:10

I don’t think people generally become heroin addicts because mummy didn’t say no to them having another bar of chocolate when they were 5.
It is far more complicated then parental lack of discipline. Often the parents of addicts are addicts themselves. There is a lot of trauma involved.
Until something (I can’t pretend I have any knowledge or ideas of what) is done about drug addiction, shoplifting will continue to spiral. I smell weed more often then cigarettes nowadays. Drugs are everywhere. A lot of the rest of the world is facing the same problem.

The cycle needs to stop. If caught with drugs, stop any benefits then throw them in jail.

Yes I know we don't have enough prison spaces BUT it is imperative that we create new prisons for the survival of decent human beings.

feelingbleh · 08/06/2025 18:22

Profpudding · 08/06/2025 18:17

The only person I’ve ever known was a drug addict came home from School as a 10-year-old boy and found his mother dead at the bottom of the stairs.
What punishment do you think would work for that one?

Exactly this addiction is a illness usually from untreated mental illness and or trauma these people need help not punishment. With mh services the way they are its hardly surprising so many people are on drugs.

MatildaMovesMountains · 08/06/2025 18:26

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 18:21

The cycle needs to stop. If caught with drugs, stop any benefits then throw them in jail.

Yes I know we don't have enough prison spaces BUT it is imperative that we create new prisons for the survival of decent human beings.

Prisons are full of drugs; lots of people become addicted there.

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 18:27

feelingbleh · 08/06/2025 18:22

Exactly this addiction is a illness usually from untreated mental illness and or trauma these people need help not punishment. With mh services the way they are its hardly surprising so many people are on drugs.

Current system isn't helping them. Put them in jail with no drug access. Then when released they will be clean and will rebuild their life.

Prison would be more beneficial to them in the long run.

Toastedpickle · 08/06/2025 18:28

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 18:27

Current system isn't helping them. Put them in jail with no drug access. Then when released they will be clean and will rebuild their life.

Prison would be more beneficial to them in the long run.

At this point I’m not sure if you are incredibly naive or actually joking.

endofthelinefinally · 08/06/2025 18:28

Profpudding · 08/06/2025 18:17

The only person I’ve ever known was a drug addict came home from School as a 10-year-old boy and found his mother dead at the bottom of the stairs.
What punishment do you think would work for that one?

Very few people choose or want to be a drug or alcohol addict. The most common reasons are trauma from mental illness/abuse/pain.
When I did my psychiatric nursing module I heard the most heart breaking stories. Childhood sexual abuse was the most common history, followed by life changing injuries due to accident or assault. With mental health problems increasing and the shocking lack of GP and mental health support services we are going to see a lot more people going off the rails and self medicating. It doesn't take long to spiral out of control.

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 18:29

MatildaMovesMountains · 08/06/2025 18:26

Prisons are full of drugs; lots of people become addicted there.

We need real prisons with no drugs. Put them in solitary confinement.

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 18:30

endofthelinefinally · 08/06/2025 18:28

Very few people choose or want to be a drug or alcohol addict. The most common reasons are trauma from mental illness/abuse/pain.
When I did my psychiatric nursing module I heard the most heart breaking stories. Childhood sexual abuse was the most common history, followed by life changing injuries due to accident or assault. With mental health problems increasing and the shocking lack of GP and mental health support services we are going to see a lot more people going off the rails and self medicating. It doesn't take long to spiral out of control.

Look at historic decades. People always suffered trauma but they didn't turn to drugs. Drug use needs punishment.

MatildaMovesMountains · 08/06/2025 18:31

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 18:29

We need real prisons with no drugs. Put them in solitary confinement.

You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. A lot of the drugs get into prison with the aid of prison staff.

MatildaMovesMountains · 08/06/2025 18:31

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 18:30

Look at historic decades. People always suffered trauma but they didn't turn to drugs. Drug use needs punishment.

Ok Mussolini.

endofthelinefinally · 08/06/2025 18:33

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 18:27

Current system isn't helping them. Put them in jail with no drug access. Then when released they will be clean and will rebuild their life.

Prison would be more beneficial to them in the long run.

Do you really think prisons are drug free places???

OonaStubbs · 08/06/2025 18:33

MatildaMovesMountains · 08/06/2025 18:13

Do you think people choose to be addicted? I don't mean choose to take drugs, but choose addiction? Do you think you can punish someone into not being addicted? How would you do that?

No but you can make them fear the consequences of being caught shoplifting. Being locked up, being beaten up, being terrorized so much they are to afraid to even go near a shop let alone steal from one.

MatildaMovesMountains · 08/06/2025 18:35

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 18:30

Look at historic decades. People always suffered trauma but they didn't turn to drugs. Drug use needs punishment.

https://www.nts.org.uk/stories/morphinomania-in-the-19th-century

Ignorance is no barrier to strong opinions, right?

endofthelinefinally · 08/06/2025 18:36

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 18:30

Look at historic decades. People always suffered trauma but they didn't turn to drugs. Drug use needs punishment.

People have used alcohol and various other substances for centuries. All types of beer and spirits, opium, laudanum to name the few that immediately come to mind.

Dappy777 · 08/06/2025 18:37

Toastedpickle · 08/06/2025 18:10

I don’t think people generally become heroin addicts because mummy didn’t say no to them having another bar of chocolate when they were 5.
It is far more complicated then parental lack of discipline. Often the parents of addicts are addicts themselves. There is a lot of trauma involved.
Until something (I can’t pretend I have any knowledge or ideas of what) is done about drug addiction, shoplifting will continue to spiral. I smell weed more often then cigarettes nowadays. Drugs are everywhere. A lot of the rest of the world is facing the same problem.

It isn’t that mummy said no to another bar of chocolate. It’s more that mummy slaps and kicks the child, brings home low life men who violently or sexually abuse him, and generally surrounds the child with nothing but ugliness, ignorance and cruelty. Children are little sponges. They learn by imitation. If your parents are foul, and all you ever see and hear is ugly and cruel, then that becomes your norm. I don’t have many firm political views, but I am 100% sure that some people should be discouraged from having children. If we could stop the most abusive, feral people from having kids, we’d do more to reduce crime, poverty, addiction and misery than any other single thing.

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 18:38

endofthelinefinally · 08/06/2025 18:33

Do you really think prisons are drug free places???

The conversation has moved from shoplifting to drugs and now prisons.

Prisons need to be real prisons, no DRUGS, no privileges and only basic food. Not a holiday camp.

So many things in society need changing but pandering to drug use, shoplifting etc is not helping victims or perpetrator.

MatildaMovesMountains · 08/06/2025 18:40

Pistachioitaliano · 08/06/2025 18:38

The conversation has moved from shoplifting to drugs and now prisons.

Prisons need to be real prisons, no DRUGS, no privileges and only basic food. Not a holiday camp.

So many things in society need changing but pandering to drug use, shoplifting etc is not helping victims or perpetrator.

Have you been to prison? Seen the inside of a prison?

endofthelinefinally · 08/06/2025 18:41

Not to mention the fact that we seem to be overrun with paedophiles in our institutions and as the police have already admitted, there are too many to lock them up.

sweeneytoddsrazor · 08/06/2025 18:42

How or why people become addicted is another matter. What sort of punishment/rehabilitation they receive whilst not irrelevant should not be taken into account when removing them from society for a period of time. The public have a right to go about their daily lives in safety and if that involves locking up addicts then so be it. Whether that is in prison or a rehab centre is something that rightly should be discussed. But in the meantime I and everyone I work with should be able to go to work without the fear of violence