I got married yesterday and I can't stop crying.

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DH has cancer. (Diagnosed Jan 2024)
We were supposed to get married - at simple 2+2 ceremony at the end of the month but his Dr's etc encouraged us to bring the date forwards, so we got married yesterday in the hospital where my DH is being cared for.
I'm a week post major abdominal surgery.
We have 2 primary aged DC
It's our youngest DCs birthday this month.

I don't know what I want from this post but I can't stop crying.
I don't think that I know how break it to the DC that Daddy isn't going to get better and come home.
My head is swimming & I don't know what to do.

So very sorry for your loss OP 💐

So very sorry for your loss. X

I am so sorry for your loss. I'll be thinking of you and your family and hoping you are being loved and supported through the bad times

Can only add my own thoughts and sympathies to those of many others. I’m wishing you and your family peace in the days to come.

So sorry for the loss of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children x

I'm incredibly sorry for your loss.

I'm so very sorry OP. Sending you love and strength.

So very sad for you x

Op I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.

He is at peace now but will continue to live through your children.

Sending love and support to you xxxx

Sending love to you all x

I'm so very sorry for your loss 💐

I hope you don’t mind me sharing something? Im not religious, it’s not a God thing, more of a “next journey” thing.

Last night, the sunset here was incredible. One of those nights where you can see the literal sun rays coming down through a gap in the clouds, fire red and bright orange, touching a specific space. When I see things like that, I always find myself thinking it’s a portal, like a connection between this plane and the next. Perhaps your husband travelled through that fabulous sunset. It looked majestic.

So sad for you, OP.

Sending you the strength to get through these difficult days and weeks, and love.

I’m so sorry op. I didn’t want to just read and run. Sending you love and strength 💐

I’m so sorry you are going through this. Sending love to you and your family

I am so sorry. I am sending thoughts to you and your family.

I am so so sorry.

incredibly sorry to read this. Thoughts with you, life is cruel

Didn’t want to read and run.
So sorry.
Take one minute at a time x

So very sorry OP, just take one day at a time and perhaps in time join some of the bereavement posts which I found helpful when my DH passed. Xxxx

So sorry to read your update OP 💐I have a friend who was widowed at 25 & she has thrown herself into trying to set up help for younger widows as in her experience there doesn’t seem to be a lot available. She has 2 very young children. We are based in Cornwall but I am happy to see if she has anything online & I can inbox you the details. So sorry for what is happening to your family. A few weeks have passed now since your wedding & hopefully you are able to gain some comfort from the memories of that day ❤️

I’m so very sorry x

I am so very sorry, OP. I am thinking of you and your family ❤️